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A WOMAN'S FARM JOURNAL - University of Illinois

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T. WISH I could dip my pen into some<br />

/.j. 'kind <strong>of</strong> magic ink bottle today so that<br />

: V||-- the women who read this article might<br />

> ¦• ¦ find in it, not merelya more or less interesting<br />

discussion <strong>of</strong> story telling, but a<br />

truly-personal message to them. That is<br />

what I do wish it.to be: a personal word<br />

spoken to all women whose eyes may fall<br />

here but especially to those <strong>of</strong> you who<br />

are the best and closest friends that children<br />

own—their mothers and teachers.<br />

.<br />

In the minds <strong>of</strong> many, I fear story telling<br />

has been given an insignificant place. We<br />

Save been apt to think <strong>of</strong> a story as a rather<br />

trivial thing, intended principally for the<br />

entertainment <strong>of</strong> children and <strong>of</strong> little children<br />

at' that.<br />

'. That it might be instead a thing so beautiful<br />

and important as to assume for us the<br />

proportions <strong>of</strong> a real duty to our children—<br />

such an idea has not once occurred to us.<br />

But- have we ever stopped to think how<br />

old story telling is? And that there must<br />

be some wonderful power in it to have<br />

kept it popular through all the centuries.<br />

. Ever since primitive men ., crouched<br />

around their savage camp fires and. told<br />

their children their uncouth tales <strong>of</strong> beasts<br />

and monsters; ever since Homer trod the<br />

happy isles <strong>of</strong> Greece; ever since Christ<br />

taught the multitudes, and "without a<br />

parable spake not unto them," the story<br />

has been in vogue.<br />

I would rather have been a saga man<br />

in Norway, or a bard in old Ireland, than<br />

any king on his throne.<br />

Story telling, to speak truly, is an art,<br />

and one <strong>of</strong> the oldest and greatest and<br />

most human <strong>of</strong> all the arts.<br />

It is this last quality that we feel in<br />

story telling today, as we see it in America.<br />

Story ,telling is playing a very important<br />

part in the training <strong>of</strong> our children and<br />

young people.<br />

Teachers are waking up to the power <strong>of</strong><br />

the story in the school room. Stanley<br />

Hall, perhaps the greatest <strong>of</strong> modern educators,<br />

has this to say about story telling:<br />

"Of all the things a successful teacher must<br />

know how to do, the most important,<br />

without any exception, is to tell a good<br />

story."<br />

And: he lays this responsibility most<br />

heavily on the shoulders <strong>of</strong> those teachers<br />

who dealjwith older or high school students.<br />

Obviously we must not tell the adventure-loving<br />

lad <strong>of</strong> twelve the same kind<br />

<strong>of</strong> story that we <strong>of</strong>fer to his five-year-old<br />

sister but well chosen stories told to boys<br />

and girls in their teens may have a greater<br />

effect than we dare to hope.<br />

' Think <strong>of</strong> all the places where the story<br />

is being warmly welcomed today by listening<br />

boys and girls: In Sunday Schools,<br />

for the most advanced students <strong>of</strong> Sunday<br />

School methods find in the story their<br />

most valuable ally; in play grounds, for<br />

since, the; superintendent <strong>of</strong> a big New<br />

york play ground discovered in 1910 that<br />

he could calm restlessness and check quarrels<br />

hy_the telling <strong>of</strong> a story, story telling<br />

has, made its way into most <strong>of</strong> the playgrounds<br />

<strong>of</strong> the country; in libraries, where<br />

the stony hel ps to advertise the books; in<br />

settlements and . hospitals and children's<br />

Homes, (the sad kind with a capital H)<br />

and in many other places.<br />

. Truly, if the value <strong>of</strong> a story has once<br />

had a chance to assert itself, it can never<br />

again be questioned. No one can doubt<br />

tHe;responsiveness <strong>of</strong> children to a good<br />

story; then how can we doubt the power<br />

in that very responsiveness—power that<br />

may be-turned into any <strong>of</strong> a hundred directions?<br />

* ¦<br />

. The question that is <strong>of</strong>ten asked, What<br />

tah a story do?us a very hard one to answer,<br />

because some <strong>of</strong> the most significant<br />

•results are the most intangible. We cannot<br />

attach a barometer to a story- and<br />

measure the. immediate and obvious results<br />

there<strong>of</strong>; and if we could , it would be<br />

•as much <strong>of</strong> an outrage as to try to weigh<br />

•th'e 'dewon the petal <strong>of</strong> a rose. Yet . it is<br />

part <strong>of</strong> the story teller's creed to believe<br />

:that, if we give the sto'ry. its own place in<br />

.the heart'and mind <strong>of</strong> childhood , we are<br />

furnishing the stuff out <strong>of</strong> which character<br />

,is ma'de. , ' • • . • ¦- -.. - •<br />

¦ There.are, <strong>of</strong> course, certain 'practical<br />

: and easily recognized results. To mention<br />

just a few <strong>of</strong> the most apparent: >v<br />

The story can equip a child with facts—<br />

'-'•ts about anything you please—and it<br />

"DO TELL USA STORY" -<br />

Mother, the Artist, Can Paint the Loveliest Pictures on Little Minds<br />

can do this vividly, permanently, and directly.<br />

¦<br />

It can and does help to shape .thought<br />

and language. Beyond question, stories<br />

told in good and simple English remain in<br />

the rriinds <strong>of</strong> children, <strong>of</strong>ten intact as to<br />

phrasing, and have a decidedly curative<br />

effect on their own speech.<br />

An interesting story <strong>of</strong>ten stimulates to<br />

reading, through sheer force <strong>of</strong> curiosity.<br />

It prepares and leads to an appreciation<br />

<strong>of</strong> the classics; without a background <strong>of</strong><br />

myth and legend our loveliest poetry and<br />

prose is shorn <strong>of</strong> half its beauty. And we<br />

cannot afford' to do without beautiful<br />

things in life—cannot send our children<br />

out so unequi pped with appreciation <strong>of</strong><br />

beauty that they will be swallowed up" by<br />

the prosaic and practical.<br />

On the ethical side, the influence <strong>of</strong> the<br />

story may be a wonderfully potent thing.<br />

From the people in his fairy tales the child<br />

FLORENCE 10NGLEY FOSBROKE<br />

will learn <strong>of</strong> obedience and kindness; his<br />

heroes will show him the way to bravery.<br />

I have heard <strong>of</strong> a phlegmatic lad being<br />

made over by the story <strong>of</strong> the "Message<br />

to Garcia." I well remember how in my<br />

own childhood my mother would be fairly<br />

appalled and greatly mystified by my<br />

goodness for days at a time, but, had she<br />

only known it, the kind and industrious<br />

Brownies <strong>of</strong> a certain beloved fairy tale<br />

were the prompters in my happy little<br />

play and were behind my every action.<br />

But now I come to my warmest belief<br />

about story telling: that it is, after all, the<br />

mothers and teachers who have by far the<br />

greatest opportunity. 1 am so sorry for<br />

the women who, with their audience ready<br />

at their knee, delegate their story telling<br />

privilege to another, for I know <strong>of</strong> no lovelier-comradeship<br />

than that the story teller<br />

enjoys with her audience.<br />

One says, "But I can't tell stories, I<br />

ROSE-FRAGRANT MEMORIES<br />

BLANCHE AVERIL STAI7FFER5<br />

I ( A UNT Mary, why do you always have those old-fashioned Hundred<br />

ZA Leaf roses in your room when there are so many so much more<br />

beautiful? There.are Cecile Bruhers and the exquisite La France<br />

Those old Hundred Leafs are homely in comparison with these beauties."<br />

"Ah, but the Hundred Leafs bring memories <strong>of</strong> many things dear to me.<br />

Their fragrance carries me to other days and scenes."<br />

Margaret caught the dreamy far-away look on Aunt Mary's sweet old<br />

face. "Make me see them!" she whispered. ¦<br />

- "I wonder if I can!" said Aunt Mary. "Well, first is the vision <strong>of</strong> an old<br />

homely farm, but the most beautiful place in all the world to the Two.<br />

"The dusty yellow road wound down the hill past the lonely pine so<br />

straight and tall, with its plumy tassel <strong>of</strong> green at the top—the Two called it<br />

the Prince's Feather—then-crossed.the bridge which spanned the laughing<br />

little stream, curved in past the-old grjey house with its drapery <strong>of</strong> wild cucumbers,<br />

morning glories and nasturtiums.<br />

"It was such an old, old house, built <strong>of</strong> great pine logs which sixty years<br />

before had stood out there in the pasture in companjrwith the Prince's Feather<br />

—such a comfortable roomy old house, with brown, beams overhead, great<br />

stone fireplace'and many windows. In front are the tall lilac bushes and the<br />

great bed <strong>of</strong> Hundred Leafs. They cover the knoll and ramble down the<br />

hollow to the spearmint bed next to the drive, and to the clump <strong>of</strong> rosemary<br />

on the other side near the row <strong>of</strong> cherry trees. Strangers passing would stop<br />

to gaze, beg for a few blossoms and go away with an armful. Hundred Leafs<br />

were sent with messages <strong>of</strong> cheer to the sick room, and to the house <strong>of</strong> sorrow<br />

with tender words <strong>of</strong> sympathy, they attended funerals, they went to weddings,<br />

and, as corsage bouquets worn by girls <strong>of</strong> the neighborhood, went to<br />

every country dance. And to the old farm came all these calls for roses—nowhere<br />

else did they grow so large, so fragrant and so pink.<br />

"Let'sfollowtheroadonoutpastthe vegetable garden, past the strawberry<br />

bed, under the drooping branches <strong>of</strong> the elm. How the orioles love that tree!<br />

Their hanging nests swing from its high branches and lower down, every summer<br />

a cheery robin builds her nest.<br />

"Here we are at the old barn. Isn't it cool and roomy? There are the<br />

gentle horses, Jack and Jim, fat and comfortable. This is Maude, the carriage<br />

horse, and Ruby her frisky colt. Smell the new hay piled in the great bay on<br />

this side <strong>of</strong> the broad barn floor. Stand in this wide back door and get the<br />

view down across the pasture. See the little brook, gurgling and rollicking<br />

over the stones or deep and still, with minnows flashing their silvery sides up<br />

to the sun. Tall elms, maples and butternuts stand guard along its banks<br />

and love it so that they dip their branches to touch the clear water.<br />

"See where that wild grape has climbed to the top <strong>of</strong> the thorn bush,,<br />

reached over to the neighbor wild plum tree and made a little arbor between<br />

them. The cattle love the cool spot, trooping up from the pasture on hot<br />

afternoons to stand knee deep in the brook in the shade <strong>of</strong> the trees.<br />

"The hill pasture is fenced with stumps, remains <strong>of</strong> the logs <strong>of</strong> which the<br />

house is built. Woodbine, grape vines and wild buckwheat have twined and<br />

draped themselves about the unsightly old roots and here the birds nest,<br />

"You should see the old bam at night when Scot, the collie, brings the cows<br />

up from the pasture—Bowers, Old Blutcher, Jersey and Bess walking sedately<br />

to the-milking places.<br />

"Then come the sheep, bells tinkling, lambs racing to see which will reach<br />

the barn first. They all sleep out here at the back <strong>of</strong> the barn. Old Woots,<br />

with her squealing family <strong>of</strong> pigs is fed, and with many satisfied grunts settles<br />

down for the night. The geese come gabbling Up from the streamin the pasture<br />

to cuddle with sleepy talk under their shelter at the side <strong>of</strong> the barn.<br />

• "Scot drives in a stray chicken which persists in perching on the rttil pile<br />

instead.<strong>of</strong> in the comfortable quarters provided for it, ' " ' .<br />

''Th e horses-are turned outand go trotting down the lane. ¦<br />

. "Then\he Two carry the niilk to the house, and when the- cats, Bruiser,<br />

Tramp 'andTJixie, with Scot, have Kid their warm milk, the chores are finished<br />

arid, the Two sit together ih,the twilight on the little porch.<br />

"':." '¦ "-'At last the Two go in at the kitchen door-and then to the roomy, homey<br />

olcl'living room. ; Such a friendly room as this is, especially in winter: .-Suchroaring<br />

fires in the stone fire place, such pop corn, nuts and apples,'' books^to'<br />

read aloud and friends "to gather in the glow <strong>of</strong> the fire-light, such -stone's arid<br />

visits! Oh, child, do ybti wonder at my loving the old Hundred Leaf roses?"<br />

..*<br />

i<br />

_<br />

don't know how—and I don't know any<br />

to tell."<br />

¦<br />

And another says,. "And the time—oh!<br />

dear, I haven't the time—no time at all<br />

for such things." \<br />

Then a teacher says, "I should love to<br />

do it, you know but I have to teach half<br />

a dozen things already and I really cannot<br />

add anything' else to the list."<br />

Will you let me answer these objections?<br />

For they can all be answered.<br />

In the first place, I will not for a moment<br />

deny that to tell stories well does mean<br />

time and study. Just to choose the right<br />

story means some time, and to learn to<br />

tell it as well as we can means more. But<br />

I hardly know how time could be fetter<br />

spent. I should unreserved ly rate storytelling<br />

as one <strong>of</strong> the essential home industries.<br />

And , if you will take my word as<br />

a story teller <strong>of</strong> fifteen years' experience,<br />

story telling riot only means educa tion<br />

and development for those who hear, but<br />

it also means growth and training for<br />

those who tell the tales. Everything that<br />

the story teller can hope to do for the children<br />

about her, she does even more fully<br />

for herself. I have known women who<br />

found freedom from self consciousness and<br />

embarrassment for the first time through<br />

story telling, who learned in this way the<br />

spontaneousness and self forgetfulness that<br />

make for popularity and friendship.<br />

And now as to ability: to be sure, we<br />

cannot all <strong>of</strong> us be pr<strong>of</strong>essional story tellers<br />

—we do not want to—but we can be trained<br />

story tellers. The distinction is an Important<br />

one. . ...<br />

The simple human equipment <strong>of</strong> the<br />

average person is all that is necessary—-a<br />

certain Background <strong>of</strong> education and good<br />

taste, to be sure; but add to that sincerity,<br />

sympathy, imagination , a fairl y good memory<br />

and , most important <strong>of</strong> all,[the willingness<br />

to'do some persistent wWk, and<br />

we can so far master the art as to give<br />

great pleasure and pr<strong>of</strong>it both to ourselves<br />

and to others.<br />

In this month comes the birthday <strong>of</strong><br />

the Greatest Story Teller That Ever Was.<br />

His own birthday story is perhaps the<br />

most beautiful the world has ever heard ;<br />

and around that birthday cluster many<br />

<strong>of</strong> our most charming legends and tales.<br />

I wish that some who read this might<br />

be prompted to organize a story telling<br />

club among yourselves. There are . illuminating<br />

books to be studied and discussed<br />

; and stories could be told by members,<br />

with much helpful criticism arid<br />

discussion.<br />

Perhaps too, as the members grew more<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>icient , they might take charge <strong>of</strong> a<br />

weekly or monthly story for the children<br />

<strong>of</strong> the community, as well as telling stories<br />

to their very own.<br />

Do you know the beautiful tribute paid<br />

by Denton Snyder to his story telling<br />

mother? He said <strong>of</strong> her:<br />

"She would begin with a glow in her eye<br />

and would tell me their stories;<br />

¦<br />

- . ' "' \<br />

All <strong>of</strong> their legends she knew: by the htwidreds<br />

and hundreds she knew them,£<br />

Tales <strong>of</strong> the beings divine.<br />

.¦><br />

And mark: what I as a child picked lip,<br />

the old man still plays with— < .<br />

Images fair <strong>of</strong> the world and marvellous<br />

• legends aforetime;<br />

All <strong>of</strong> them living in me as they fell from<br />

the lips <strong>of</strong> my mother."<br />

In direct contrast to such a gracious<br />

memory are the rather pathetic words <strong>of</strong><br />

Edmund Gosse, who tells in his autobiography<br />

<strong>of</strong> his bleak childhood without<br />

stories. .<br />

"Never in all my life ," he says, ."did<br />

any one address to me the affecting preamble,<br />

'Once upon a time.'. I never knew<br />

the rapture <strong>of</strong> the child who sits, well<br />

wrapped up, at the niirsery fire, and delays<br />

the hour.<strong>of</strong> bed time by cajoling one<br />

more story out.<strong>of</strong> nurse or mother.". . And<br />

he goes on to regret a childhood' wherein<br />

his. parents undoubtedl y tried very hard<br />

to. make him good; but very little to make<br />

¦him happv. . ¦ ' , . . . ' ; ' I<br />

tf we, parents and- teachers., do-not<br />

know the storied- path: or if , .having otlcc<br />

kri'qwn it, we -have somehow lost our way,<br />

let iis try to set our feet upon it agamic<br />

discover, 'for our children 's sake, as .$411<br />

as for our own-,. - . . .., . - . - . ., ;-ij.|<br />

"How short the road to Fairy Lana} 4<br />

Across the purple hill."

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