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About Boys - The Southport School

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<strong>The</strong> Construction of Masculinity<br />

“Our culture co-opts some of the most impressive<br />

qualities boys can possess - their physical energy,<br />

boldness, curiosity, and action orientation - and<br />

distorts them into a punishing dangerous definition<br />

of masculinity”<br />

(Kindlon D, & Thompson M. Raising Cain)<br />

It should be clear from the these facts that the<br />

picture of a boy's life as we enter a new century is<br />

a challenging one. A disproportionate number of<br />

boys are not achieving academically, many develop<br />

behaviour problems, have dangerously low self<br />

esteem, drop out of school, and in some instances<br />

decide that life is no longer worth living.<br />

Dr. William Pollack, Clinical Psychologist and<br />

Co-Director, Centre for Men, McLean Hospital<br />

Harvard Medical <strong>School</strong>, in his book ‘Real<br />

<strong>Boys</strong>’, suggests that many of the dilemmas<br />

faced by boys today arise from adherence<br />

in our society to what he calls the Boy<br />

Code - “the outdated and constricting<br />

assumptions, models and rules about<br />

boys that our society has used since the<br />

nineteenth century”.

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