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C h a i L i g h t s<br />

Volume 12 Number 1 — Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 — <strong>January</strong> 2010<br />

<strong>January</strong> Worship Schedule<br />

1st & 2nd<br />

Friday<br />

Shabbat Service at 7 pm<br />

Saturday<br />

Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />

8th & 9th<br />

Friday<br />

New Member Dinner 6:30 pm<br />

Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />

Saturday<br />

Tot Shabbat 10 am<br />

Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />

15th & 16th<br />

Friday<br />

East Cooper Dinner & Shabbat Service<br />

5:45 pm/ 7 pm<br />

Downtown Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />

Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />

22nd & 23rd<br />

Friday<br />

Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />

Birthdays & Anniversaries<br />

Saturday<br />

Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />

Bar Mitzvah of Elliot Kronsberg<br />

29th & 30th<br />

Friday<br />

Tu B'shvat Seder 6:30 pm<br />

Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />

Saturday<br />

Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />

KKBE<br />

90 Hase ll Street<br />

Charle ston, SC 29401<br />

Tel. (843) 723-1090<br />

Fax: ( 843) 723-0537<br />

www. kkbe. org<br />

Heirs of the Prophets<br />

On Sunday <strong>January</strong> 10 th at 4 pm KKBE will again<br />

be hosting a Gathering of African-Americans and<br />

Jews in celebration of the life and works of Dr.<br />

Martin Luther King, Jr.<br />

Our speaker this year is the Honorable James E.<br />

Clyburn, congressional leader and veteran of the<br />

Civil Rights struggle. Participants will include both<br />

several African-American clergy and Charleston<br />

rabbis as well as musicians from both communities.<br />

This gathering, a week before the Martin Luther King Day weekend, is a<br />

significant one in our community and well worth attending. This occasion<br />

also prompts us to remind ourselves of our abiding Jewish concerns for<br />

social justice and the welfare of all.<br />

More than two and a half thousand years ago Amos urged the people to:<br />

“Hate evil and love good and establish justice in the gates of the land” and<br />

Micah similarly emphasized the importance of “doing justice, loving mercy<br />

and walking humbly with your God.” And as Jeremiah phrased it: “If one<br />

practices justice and righteousness, if one champions the cause of the poor,<br />

then it is well with one - this indeed is to know me, says God.”<br />

While there are some who would argue that religion essentially deals with<br />

ritual and custom, the voices of our ancient Hebrew prophets remind us that<br />

we are most religious when we correct societal evils and help our fellow<br />

human beings. From ancient days until our time, Jews have lived and<br />

sometimes died for such ideals.<br />

The battles we fight today may be different from those of the past, but it is<br />

appropriate that Jewish voices are prominent among those who seek<br />

universal health care and better education for all, and are vocal on issues<br />

such as global warming.<br />

As Jewish individuals, there are many ways of expressing our Jewish<br />

identity. But none of these ways are more valuable and more truly religious<br />

than the path of activism on behalf of our fellow human beings and all who<br />

live on this good earth.<br />

Our Mission Statement<br />

Rabbi Anthony D. Holz<br />

The mission of <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> shall be to serve the<br />

religious needs of families and individuals through programs of<br />

lifelong Jewish education (Torah), inclusive communal worship<br />

and ritual (Avodah), and the ongoing quest for greater justice,<br />

peace and acts of loving-kindness (Gemilut Chasadim).


Rabbi<br />

Anthony D. Holz<br />

rabbi@kkbe.org<br />

Temple Educator<br />

Amy I. W. Horner, MA<br />

ahorner@kkbe.org<br />

Executive Director<br />

Floy Wor k<br />

floy@kkbe.org<br />

Executive Assistant<br />

Tamar BenArdout<br />

tamar@kkbe.org<br />

Bookkeeper<br />

Elizabeth Mar kley<br />

emarkley@kkbe.org<br />

Receptionist<br />

Natalie Heath<br />

nheath@kkbe.org<br />

Program Coordinator<br />

Maryl yn Has pel<br />

mhaspel@kkbe.org<br />

Music Director<br />

Heidi Kunitz-Levy<br />

B’nei Mitzvah Coordinator<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Youth Advisor<br />

Robin Shul er<br />

Officers<br />

David Jaffee<br />

President<br />

Anita R osenberg<br />

VP—Administration<br />

Mark Adelson<br />

VP—Finance<br />

Shos hanna Szuc h<br />

VP—Programming<br />

Patricia Sykes<br />

VP—Fundraising<br />

Kenneth Chavin<br />

Secretary<br />

Louis Tic k<br />

Financial Secretary<br />

Trustees<br />

Frieda Bernstei n<br />

Tim Carle<br />

Ben Glass<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Paul Levy<br />

Larry Libater<br />

Robert Miller<br />

Faye Seigel<br />

Stephen Ziff<br />

Ex Officio<br />

Billy Olas ov<br />

Immedi ate Pas t President<br />

Nadine Chavin<br />

Bonnie Friedman<br />

Sisterhood C o-Presidents<br />

Sewell Kahn<br />

Brotherhood President<br />

Ed Tichi<br />

Religious School Chair<br />

Seth Zimmerman<br />

CHARLEY Presi dent<br />

Archives<br />

Bereavement<br />

Blue Book<br />

Building & Gr ounds<br />

Caring<br />

Cemeter y<br />

Chavurot<br />

College Liaison<br />

East Cooper<br />

Endowment<br />

Finance<br />

Fine Arts<br />

Fundraising<br />

Insurance<br />

Leadershi p Devel opment<br />

Library<br />

Lifelong Learning<br />

Membership<br />

Museum<br />

Nominating<br />

Oneg & H onors<br />

Programs<br />

Personnel<br />

Pulpit<br />

Religious School<br />

Ritual & Music<br />

Search<br />

Social Ac tion<br />

Tourism / Docents<br />

Transitions<br />

Youth<br />

Committee Chairs<br />

Anita R osenberg<br />

Barbara Stender<br />

Dunlap Silver<br />

Patricia Rones Sykes<br />

Mary Radin<br />

Steve Ziff<br />

Judith Green<br />

Herb Goldberg<br />

Morton Ellison<br />

Paul Levy<br />

David Frederick<br />

Frieda Bernstei n<br />

Billy Olas ov<br />

Mark Adelson<br />

Mark Adelson<br />

Dawn Berlins ky<br />

Andy Slotin<br />

Patricia Rones Sykes<br />

Mark Adelson<br />

Faye Seigel<br />

Marlene Williamon<br />

Margaret Seres<br />

Roz Price<br />

Tim Carle<br />

Paul Levy<br />

Robert Ros en<br />

Billy Olas ov<br />

Judy & Tim Carle<br />

Shos hanna Szuc h<br />

David Jaffee<br />

David Jaffee<br />

Ed Tichi<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Lois Sugarman<br />

Ben Glass<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Cynthia Ava<br />

LuAnn R osenz weig<br />

Linda Bergman<br />

Marty J ac kson<br />

Steve Zimmerman<br />

Our Next<br />

Tot<br />

Shabbat<br />

Will be <strong>January</strong> 9th<br />

at 10:00 AM<br />

Freudenberg Chapel<br />

Suitable for children<br />

up to 10 years of age.<br />

Celebrating<br />

Birthdays &<br />

Anniversaries<br />

Friday, <strong>January</strong> 22nd<br />

Join us for this monthly<br />

celebration of our members’<br />

birthdays and anniversaries.<br />

Deadline for<br />

<strong>ChaiLights</strong><br />

submissions<br />

is<br />

the 5th of<br />

Each Month<br />

Volume 12 Issue 1<br />

Published monthly by:<br />

<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong><br />

90 Hasell Street • Charleston, SC 29401<br />

843-723-1090 Phone<br />

843-723-0537 Fax<br />

www.kkbe.org<br />

office@kkbe.org<br />

© <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> - 2010<br />

Page 2 <strong>ChaiLights</strong> • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • Tevet ~ Shevat 5770


Dear Congregants,<br />

So how many people get to celebrate tw o New Years? As Jews, we do. Our Jew ish New Year,<br />

Rosh Hashanah, seems like it was y esterday and now we have just celebrated the Gregorian<br />

Calendar New Year too (<strong>January</strong> through December). I guess that means we get to make tw o<br />

sets of resolutions.<br />

Here are the “Top 5” of my newest set of personal resolutions:<br />

1. Lose some weight. This has been on my New Year’s resolution list for at least 10 y ears.<br />

2. Go on vacation. But if y ou liv e in Charleston, isn’t that a perpetual v acation?<br />

3. Win the lottery! Do y ou hav e to buy a ticket to win?<br />

4. Do some overdue household chores. This probably needs to wait until Rosh Hashanah.<br />

5. Take Spanish classes. No tengo tiempo ahora. (I don’t hav e time now.)<br />

Here are my “Top 5” for KKBE:<br />

1. Increase worship & programming. This is the heart of w hat a synagogue provides for its members.<br />

2. Increase endowment. This is what enables a synagogue to provide increased w orship and programming.<br />

3. Increase clergy. Be in a position to add an Assistant Rabbi.<br />

4. Increase volunteers. We have an amazing cadre of v olunteers but alw ays need more. Looking for fresh blood!<br />

5. Improve our facilities. We are the guardians of an historic treasure. It alw ays needs maintenance and enhancement. See #2<br />

abov e.<br />

B’shalom,<br />

David<br />

President’s Message<br />

Legacy Giving by Paul Lynch<br />

(Originally published in the College of Charleston’s Fall Yaschik/Arnold Jewish Studies Program’s 2009 Fall Program.<br />

Printed with Mr. Lynch’s permission.)<br />

“Individuals are often unsure of what is meant by the term planned giving. A gift is planned in that the indiv idual purposefully makes a gift as<br />

a part of his or her financial, tax and/or estate plan. A planned gift positively impacts the donor and his or her family as well as organizations<br />

such as … KKBE. Planned gifts leave a legacy that benefits not only the donor and the donor’s family, but also generations to come.<br />

A planned gift provides an individual and his or her family with a variety of benefits including income and/or estate tax benefits, providing<br />

income to the donor and/or his or her family, and the passing of assets to family members at reduced costs. Planning can be made with<br />

stock, securities, and/or cash or even real property. Gifts can take several forms. Four ex amples follow:<br />

1) Bequests: This is the most common and simplest form of a planned gift. A bequest is a gift … that is made through a donor’s Last Will<br />

and Testament.<br />

2) Charitable Remainder Trust: There are tw o basic types of Charitable Remainder Trusts: A Unitrust and an Annuity Trust. In both, the<br />

donor giv es stock, cash or other assets to a trust. Those assets are invested and income is paid to the donor for a fix ed amount of time or<br />

until the donor dies. When the donor dies, the charity keeps all remaining assets. In a Unitrust, the donor receives one or more yearly<br />

payments equalizing a fixed percentage of the value of the assets. In an Annuity Trust, the donor receives a yearly, fixed payment equal to<br />

at least fiv e percent (5%) of the value of the assets at the time the deferred giving agreement was signed.<br />

3) Gift Annuity: Donors contribute cash, securities, or other assets to a charity. In exchange, they receive annual payments for a fix ed<br />

amount of time. Annual payments need not start when the gift is made; they begin at a time specified by the donor.<br />

4) Charitable Lead Trust: A charity receives the income from the donor’s assets for a specified amount of time after which the assets are<br />

transferred back to the donor or to the donor’s heirs.”<br />

Please speak to your tax or financial adv isor regarding planning techniques that can help you, y our family and perhaps, KKBE. If you have<br />

questions about how you can make a planned gift, please contact the Temple Office at 723-1090.<br />

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. –Winston Churchill<br />

Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • <strong>ChaiLights</strong> Page 3


From Our Search Committee<br />

Meet Rabbi Stephanie Alexander<br />

Rabbi Stephanie Alexander received her undergraduate degree, a B.S. in Psychology with honors in<br />

Jew ish Studies, from Tulane Univ ersity in New Orleans. She earned her ordination, as w ell as a Masters<br />

degree in both Hebrew Literature and Religious Education, from Hebrew Union College-Jew ish Institute of<br />

Religion in 2003. Her rabbinic thesis w as entitled: “Standing at the Altar: Re-imagining the Significance of<br />

Bar/Bat Mitzv ah.” After her ordination, Rabbi Alex ander serv ed as an Assistant Rabbi at Temple Isaiah in<br />

Lex ington, MA (799 families). She then w orked for a y ear as the Regional Director of Youth and Informal<br />

Education for the URJ's Midwest Council before taking a solo pulpit at Temple <strong>Beth</strong> El in Dubuque, Iow a,<br />

w here she has serv ed for the last three y ears. During that same time, she served as an Adjunct Professor<br />

at Coe College in Cedar Rapids, Iow a and was the Midrasha Coordinator for high school age children at<br />

Temple Judah in Cedar Rapids, Iow a. Throughout her training and practice as a rabbi and educator, Rabbi Alexander sought out<br />

institutions that v alue creativ ity in programming—from an ex perimental Shabbat family school to multigenerational social justice<br />

organizing to a supplemental congregational high school program ov er 120 teenagers strong. Rabbi Alex ander currently liv es in her<br />

hometow n of St. Louis with her husband, Rabbi Aaron Sherman, and 20-month-old son, Eli.<br />

In her personal statement to the Search Committee, Rabbi Alexander wrote:<br />

” The rabbinate is an all-access pass—an awesome privilege and sacred responsibility. I have tried to be worthy of that honor by<br />

maintaining high standards in all that I do. I take tremendous pride, and find great fulfillment, in the preparation that precedes my<br />

work. In worship, I am as mindful of tone and transitions as I am of the sermon and music, knowing all can provide portals to<br />

spirituality. In teaching, I find creativity, humor and relevance to be as important as the particular Jewish content. I understand that<br />

what I have to share with a community includes my Jewish knowledge, but transcends it, as well…..As a rabbi, I endeavor to be an<br />

accessible role model, sharing my own Jewish practices and choices as a means of encouraging others to embrace their own.<br />

I strive to work in partnership with other staff and lay leadership to ensure that congregational programming is both meaningful and<br />

purposeful. A congregant recently shared a wonderful metaphor. He said Reform Judaism is like a cafeteria: the offerings are<br />

endless and each might be as fulfilling as the next. If you come through the line with an empty tray, you have no one to blame but<br />

yourself. A congregation’s programming—educational, cultural, religious and social—should serve to create that cafeteria. Utilizing<br />

creative formats, seeking institutional partnerships, and mining the talents and skills of its own membership, a congregation’s offerings<br />

should empower its members to make the personal, educated choices that are the hallmark of Reform Judaism.”<br />

Through the long, inv olv ed process of searching for KKBE’s nex t Rabbi, the Search Committee learned a tremendous amount about<br />

many v ery skilled, very capable, amazing rabbis. But our mission took us further; our aim w as to find the best Rabbi for KKBE. In<br />

Rabbi Alex ander w e found just that. We found a rabbi w hose rabbinate is a calling. We found a spiritual leader w hose ability to<br />

connect w ith others is natural and w hose warmth shines from within. We found a teacher for w hom teaching is both an avocation and<br />

a sacred duty . We found a creativ e role model who will help us grow and thriv e as she ex cels in reaching div erse constituencies.<br />

The Committee spoke w ith many references: rabbis, HUC professors, congregants, temple presidents, and y outh group<br />

representativ es. We learned this: “Rabbi Alex ander is one of the most beautiful human beings/souls I hav e ever known….She is<br />

authentic, a talented educator across the spectrum of ages….. She is warm, passionate, open, caring…. Her spirit is multi faceted<br />

and her spirituality shines through her sermons…she has great inner strength….she respects history and has a vision for the<br />

future….” (w e could go on and on, but space will not allow).<br />

Upon meeting Rabbi Alex ander, Rabbi Holz reflected that she is “a warm, kind, exceptional person w ith a lot to offer, and is an<br />

excellent choice for KKBE.”<br />

When w e advised Rabbi Lennard Thal (Interim Director of Placement for CCAR) of the unanimous recommendation by the Search<br />

Committee and Board of Trustees, he w rote: “I regard this particular Placement as a ‘match made in Heaven’ – a wonderful<br />

rabbi with a wonderful congregation – in a beautiful city to boot!”<br />

Ben Glass and Shula Holtz<br />

Search Committee Co-Chairs<br />

Committee members: Nadine Chavin, Judith Green, Barnett Greenberg, David Jaffee, Jan Lipov, Billy Olasov, Art Richek,<br />

Anita Rosenberg, LuAnn Rosenzweig, Michelle Rovner, Faye Seigel.<br />

Page 4 <strong>ChaiLights</strong> • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • Tevet ~ Shevat 5770


Executive Director’s Message<br />

Creating the KKBE of Our Dreams<br />

It’s a New Year on the Gregorian calendar. We’v e sipped sparkling bev erages, dipped some chips,<br />

w atched some bowl games and some of us (like Dav id Jaffee) hav e taken time to list our goals on paper for<br />

the coming year.<br />

As I pondered the New Year, I realize I’v e w orked for y ou for a full 12 months! I hav e learned so much and<br />

I know there is a great deal more I need to discover.<br />

To me it is w onderful that this time of y ear coincides with study ing the Book of Ex odus (Shmot) that<br />

chronicles the creation of the nation of Israel from the descendants of Jacob. In a w ay, this is our time to<br />

ponder the KKBE w e w ant to create in 2010. I’v e thought about w hat I can do to multiply our numbers and<br />

make our Temple stronger. Here are my resolutions.<br />

In 2010, I’ll work to:<br />

• Show lov ing kindness to all our members, friends and staff. We can show lov ing kindness when we welcome one another and<br />

v isitors during Onegs, when we answ er requests for volunteer service, when we support one another during good times and<br />

w hen times are sad or frightening. We can show it in the w ays w e interact as w e w orship and work at KKBE.<br />

• Continue my lifelong learning. I will continue to study Judaism to build on the strong foundation Amy provided in our 2009<br />

Conv ersion Class. (If y ou are interested in conv ersion, I giv e the class 5 stars!) It’s my goal to honor KKBE’s traditions and<br />

rituals in ev ery way possible. I hope y ou’ll help me.<br />

• Improv e my speling. (Okay, I threw in that ty po for fun.) I DO know our Temple Office makes spelling mistakes in<br />

announcement sheets and other publications. We are always soooo sorry! We’v e driv en some of y ou mad and I promise it<br />

w as never intentional! In 2010, w e’ll striv e for zero spelling errors. Let us know w hen y ou catch something we can fix —it is<br />

the only w ay we improv e our work.<br />

• To find meaningful ways to honor KKBE’s remarkable v olunteers, from our Trustees to the amazing w omen who conv ince<br />

v isitors that they cannot leav e Charleston w ithout a new $60 menorah from Chosen Treasures.<br />

• To lov ingly honor Rabbi Holz’s notable service to our congregation and community as he transitions to Rabbi Emeritus and to<br />

w elcome Rabbi Alex ander and support the v isions she creates for our congregation.<br />

• To communicate w ith you in ev ery way possible so y ou are always aware of the times you can w orship at KKBE, learn at<br />

KKBE, and improv e our world in concert w ith other KKBE volunteers.<br />

Those are the major resolutions I’ll be working on in this New Year. Wow. They ’ll be a challenge! I hope I can count on your<br />

assistance to help me succeed. It w ill take a village, of that I am certain. It’s an honor to start 2010 in y our company. I hope y our<br />

2010 is happy and healthy for us all!<br />

Shalom,<br />

Floy<br />

We celebrate KKBE's newest members who joined in 2009<br />

Caitlin & Jordan Adelson<br />

Rachel & Matthew J. Brown<br />

Richard Clarke-Pounder<br />

Diana & Jerry Cohen<br />

Sarah Garner<br />

Ruth & Harry Goldberg<br />

Nicole & Geoff Goldsmith<br />

Robert Gordon<br />

Hillary Green<br />

Lynn Green<br />

Barbara & William Green<br />

Kirstin & Daniel Gros<br />

Allison Gustefson & Jason Famulari<br />

Deborah & David Kahn<br />

Victoria Santiago & Patrick Labbe<br />

Amy & Ken Lutz<br />

Gabriella Maris & Ilan Sondheimer<br />

Stephanie & William Quick<br />

Samantha & David Sas<br />

Steven Segal<br />

Judy & Brian Sherman<br />

Murray Treiser<br />

Janice Taylor & Stanley Waldman<br />

Nancy & Jeff Weiner<br />

Gregory M. Wensman<br />

Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • <strong>ChaiLights</strong> Page 5


Religious School Updates<br />

Amy I. W. Horner, M.A., Temple Educator<br />

One of the w onderful parts of being an educator is w atching your students grow. The faculty and I<br />

feel fortunate that as part of the KKBE family, w e see “our” students grow into thoughtful y oung Jew ish<br />

adults. Some of our best students become madrichim (guides or y oung leaders) by serv ing as teaching<br />

assistants in the Religious School. Watching our students become teachers is a special joy!<br />

High school senior Jacob Kupferman is one of our madrichim, both in Hebrew and Religious School<br />

classes, and I am delighted to share this space with him this month. Jacob recently wrote an article for the<br />

Porter-Gaud newspaper w hich I am reprinting here w ith his permission. As y ou will no doubt guess from his<br />

thoughts on teaching, Jacob is quite an asset to our school. I thank him for sharing his time and talents w ith<br />

our school each w eek, and for sharing his perspectiv e with us so beautifully.<br />

-A View from the Other Side<br />

Jacob Kupferman<br />

Being a student for almost all my life, I nev er took much time to think about w hat it must be like to be a teacher. Therefore,<br />

w hen I started as an assistant teacher at Sunday School over tw o y ears ago, the rev ersed role w as quite a surprise. For once, I w as<br />

the one w ho was in charge, but I w as also the one who had more responsibility . As I soon realized, teaching six th grade students<br />

w as not as easy as I had first thought. I’v e learned many things about teachers that I nev er would have realized by just being a<br />

student.<br />

First off, I ex perienced first-hand what it is like to have students try to test your patience. Every day I w ould come into class<br />

and hav e certain students always try to push the limits. Some just w ouldn’t stop talking. Others threw things across the room. I ev en<br />

had one kid w ho thought it’d be fun to craw l around on the floor like a snake until I had to literally pick him up and put him back in his<br />

chair. Sometimes I felt more like I w as babysitting than actually teaching. After all, these kids w ere in six th grade. I’v e often<br />

w ondered if that w ere how I acted w hen I w as that age. If so, I w ish I could go back and apologize to my teachers.<br />

I also quickly realized that keeping class exciting w as difficult. Ev en though I w as not the one writing up the lesson plans for<br />

the students, I could tell that they sometimes found class boring. But how could I make it more exciting? Most of the kids there<br />

probably did not voluntarily want to go to Sunday School. I tried to incorporate some fun, engaging things into the class, like mov ies<br />

or games, but I couldn’t do those things for ev ery class. How ever, I finally realized that if I put on a more positiv e and optimistic<br />

persona, the students w ere more likely to pay attention. If I seemed genuinely interested in w hat I taught, they w ould show more<br />

interest as w ell.<br />

The last thing I learned, and the most influential, is what it feels like to watch a class grow up. I’m not normally an overly<br />

sentimental person, but w hen I came back to teach for the second year, I had a strange feeling w hen I saw my prev ious class more<br />

grow n up than they w ere before. I found myself saying that those were “my kids,” w ho had now moved on to higher grades. I felt<br />

proud to say I helped teach them, and ev en prouder when they remembered me as their prev ious teacher. I felt as if I had actually<br />

done something worthw hile for them. I finally realized w hy so many people are teachers.<br />

Planning a special event? Join us for our first ev er Simcha Fair!<br />

On Sunday , <strong>January</strong> 31, from 12:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m., KKBE w ill host our first Simcha Fair. If y ou have a bar or bat mitzvah,<br />

w edding, graduation or any special celebration in the future, y ou w on’t want to miss this! Vendors from all ov er the Charleston area<br />

w ill be represented, including caterers, v enue representativ es, photographers, ev ent coordinators, florists, DJs... and more. Only<br />

$5.00 admission per person, w hich includes a gift bag and raffle. All proceeds benefit the Religious School.<br />

Know a vendor who might w ant to participate? Hav e him or her contact chairperson Carrie Langsam,<br />

kkbesimcha.fair@gmail.com. Space is limited.<br />

Mitzv ah Project Reminders<br />

Box es for these items are located in the RS hallw ay near the Meddin multipurpose room:<br />

Arielle Berlinsky is collecting recyclable items such as ink and laser cartridges, cell phones, palm pilots, etc. for the benefit of<br />

Animal Rescue and Relief of the Carolinas.<br />

Kirby Glass is collecting worn-out or outgrow n Crocs shoes for return to the company and recycling.<br />

Don’t forget:<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 3, 2010: Religious School resumes.<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 10: Camp Coleman Presentation, 9 am, in the Barbara Pearlstine Social Hall<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 17: No school (MLK w eekend)<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 31: KKBE Simcha Fair<br />

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Our Temple Youth<br />

Checking in with<br />

The first weekend of Chanukah was crazy busy for CHARLEY members. Not only did the kids prepare latkes for over 150 members<br />

of the congregation, they also participated in the serv ice. That night, they held a mini-Maccabia Color War with competitions as<br />

simple as writing cheers and as complicated as epic sword battles. There w as also a v ery difficult social program on human trafficking.<br />

The kids w atched a few documentaries about modern slavery and held a discussion. At six o'clock the nex t morning, they w ere<br />

w oken by screaming and w ater guns and forced into a small dark room. When they were finally let out, they had to follow the orders<br />

of those w ith the guns. It w as a very ex periential learning process for every one inv olv ed. Very special thanks go to Claudia Strobing<br />

for taking ov er the kitchen, and to Chery l Roberts for helping her to get those latkes out on time. And Erling Roberts is my new hero,<br />

for stay ing all night. Thanks so much Erling!<br />

And so a new year has begun, and CHARLEY will be electing a new board this month. Props go out to our old board for doing<br />

such great work this year. They created meaningful programs and serv ices, brought in new members, and made CHARLEY really<br />

fun to be around. They are:<br />

President: Seth Zimmerman<br />

Programming V.P.: Dael Szuch & Nick Shuler<br />

Religious & Cultural V.P.: Melissa Yelman<br />

Communications V.P.: Samantha Chavin<br />

Social Action V.P.: Samantha Kramer<br />

9th Grade Liason: Elizabeth Lev i<br />

Elections are on <strong>January</strong> 10th after Religious School. If y ou w ant more information about the positions, or w ant to run, let me<br />

know . All y ou hav e to do is give a creativ e speech about w hat you'd like to accomplish. Speeches must be submitted for approval at<br />

our First Sunday Pizza Day on <strong>January</strong> 3rd.<br />

Members of CHARLEY will also be attending NFTY SAR's Winter Kallah. (National Federation of Temple Youth Southern Area<br />

Region) This is the longest of our regional kallot and one of the most fun. Only 9th through 12th graders can attend. Dues must also<br />

be up to date. I'd lov e to hav e ov er 10 kids attend this ev ent.<br />

Stay up to date by going to www.mycharley .com<br />

Remember our motto: Lama Lo?<br />

Not? Why למה לא ?<br />

Robin Shuler<br />

KKBE Youth Adv isor<br />

CHARLEY is open to all KKBE 8th - 12th graders. If you're not a member, why not? And if you know someone who'd like<br />

to be, tell them to contact me - robinshuler@mac.com<br />

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News from our Temple Sisterhood<br />

Happy New Year!! Wow, we can't believe it is 2010!<br />

What a year 2009 was! For starters, we took over as Co-Presidents and we have been<br />

very busy with our Board, planning many fun and informative events. As you all make<br />

your New Year's resolutions, how about making a resolution to come to one of our<br />

events in 2010. If you are not yet a member, it’s never to late to join. As always, you can<br />

be as active as you want, but we are sure that once you come to one of our events you<br />

will be hooked. Our members are warm, caring, kind, giving and love to have fun!<br />

Bonnie and Nadine<br />

To recap, 2009 began with our first annual "Progressive Dinner". It was so successful that we are having it again and we<br />

hope you are planning to attend on Jan 9th. We were all spiritually renewed at our annual Retreat. We had our Sisterhood<br />

Shabbat in May, and our "Paid up Event" in August. We cooked for Crisis Ministries as well as donated needed supplies to<br />

My Sister's House. We had 2 "small group luncheons" which were very well attended. In October our own Jill Conway<br />

spoke about the college admission process, and in December we had the "Cookies and Cosmos" Chanukah cookie swap.<br />

Our only fundraiser, the 59 th Annual Bazaar, was a successful event that combined great company and delicious food! We<br />

want to thank EVERYONE who came out to support this event and EVERYONE who volunteered their time to help. We<br />

couldn't have done it without each and every one of you! All of the funds raised goes to support both the Temple and the<br />

Religious School.<br />

We both attended the URJ/WRJ Biennial in Toronto. We came home feeling very inspired in many ways. This year's theme<br />

was "Sustaining our World". The focus was on faith, peace and "going green". We heard from speakers such as Michael<br />

Oren, the Israeli Ambassador, who spoke of faith and Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish, a Palestinian whose 3 daughters and niece<br />

were killed in Gaza who spoke about peace. Judy Feld Carr came and won an award for single-handedly organizing the<br />

release of over 3000 Syrian Jews between 1977 and 1991. We heard from Rabbis from newly formed WRJ affiliates who<br />

spoke about the difficulties in bringing Reform Judaism to Israel and we watched as 2 U.S. synagogues donated Torah's to<br />

2 "sister synagogues" in Israel. The spiritual workshops were amazing and the musical entertainment was so uplifting,<br />

particularly Sat. evening when entertainers from Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist and Christian faiths all sang together on one<br />

stage! That is what peace is all about! The URJ president, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, summed up the importance of "going green"<br />

both from an environmental and ethical perspective. He encouraged us all to reduce consumption of meat as well as<br />

reduce the use of paper, including limiting paper products at Temple events. This is the time of year that many of you<br />

make resolutions. Let's make some resolutions to help "sustain our world". Let's keep the theme of the biennial and follow<br />

some recommendations suggested by Rabbi Yoffie. As a Sisterhood we will be encouraging less use of paper and more<br />

information sent only by computer. Let's try to carpool to events. Not only does it help our environment, it helps form the<br />

bonds that "Sisterhood" is all about.<br />

Let's make this a great year! Let’s do it together, have fun and keep it green.<br />

Happy New Year!<br />

Bonnie Friedman and Nadine Chavin<br />

KKBE Sisterhood Co-Presidents<br />

kkbewrj@gmail.com<br />

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Upcoming Sisterhood Events:<br />

<strong>January</strong> 9, 2010<br />

<strong>January</strong> 24, 2010<br />

2 nd Annual Progressive Dinner, 6pm, East Cooper<br />

Tri-Sisterhood Meeting at BSBI, 2 pm-4 pm.<br />

The guest speaker is Dr. Ann Kulze, a nationally recognized expert<br />

and motivational speaker in the areas of nutrition, healthy lifestyle<br />

and disease prevention.<br />

<strong>January</strong> 30, 2010 Sisterhood Retreat: Wild Dunes Resort, 10 am-2 pm<br />

Includes a service led by Robin Shuler, lunch, and speaker, Julie Klaper,<br />

multi-media artist who will discuss “A Journey” - series of 22 prints<br />

inspired by her study of Hebrew<br />

February 2, 2010<br />

Matriarch’s Event: 7pm<br />

*Join us for an evening event at the home of Mindelle Ziff.<br />

Speaker: Dr. Loren Frankel, Ob-Gyn who will talk about<br />

bio - identical hormones and other women’s health issues<br />

*It is not too late to upgrade your membership to the Matriarch Level and join us for this event<br />

in honor of our Matriarch Members*<br />

March 4, 2010<br />

March 10, 2010<br />

Small Group Luncheon, speaker TBA<br />

Sisterhood Evening Program<br />

Speaker Jacki Baer ,“Fields to Families”<br />

Please note: Sisterhood is trying to “go green” and will be communicating by email as much as<br />

possible. Please contact us if you have not been receiving emails. Those who do not have email<br />

will receive paper copies of our email communications.<br />

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Notes from the Choir … ♫<br />

Do y ou hav e a fav orite song that y ou hav en’t heard Koleinu sing for a w hile? A traditional oldie but goodie, a<br />

Debbie Friedman song, or one of Toby Singer’s gems? Just e-mail me at kunitzh@netrockets.com and I will<br />

try to work it into one of our upcoming Friday night Shabbat serv ices – I’ll ev en try to let y ou know w hen we’ll<br />

sing it!<br />

Traditional or contemporary, fast or slow, I do try to mix up the ty pes of music that Koleinu sings so that there<br />

w ill be something to appeal to ev ery one w ho is singing and ev eryone who is listening. You may not love<br />

every song, but w e hope that there w ill be at least a few that w ill touch your heart and enhance your worship ex perience.<br />

On the flip side, if you are aw are of some beautiful choral arrangement or unison piece that is just begging to be sung by y our Temple<br />

Choir, please let me know that as well.<br />

Heidi ♫<br />

Heidi Kunitz-Levy<br />

KKBE Music Director<br />

kunitzh@netrockets.com<br />

843-696-0929<br />

Koleinu - It's a Family Affair!<br />

Mazel Tov<br />

To Chuck and Nancy Altschul on the birth of their grand<br />

daughter, Whitney Chamberlain, daughter of Courtney & Mark<br />

Olsen, of Darien, CT along w ith big brother Grady .<br />

Todah Rabah<br />

To KKBE Sisterhood for donating new Torah<br />

cov ers for all six of our scrolls and to Daw n<br />

Berlinsky and the Fine Arts Committee for<br />

facilitating their design and purchase. It has been<br />

more than 11 years since our Torah cov ers hav e<br />

been replaced.<br />

To the Saul Alexander Foundation, for granting<br />

KKBE $2500 to improv e on electronic<br />

communication w ith our marvelous members.<br />

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News from our Brotherhood<br />

The brotherhood is kicking off the 2010 year with great programs! Our first meeting will be held on<br />

<strong>January</strong> 28, 2010 at 6:30 PM in the Social Hall. We will enjoy a speaker, Dr. Fletcher Derrick, who<br />

will talk to us about prostate health. A wonderful dinner will be served as well. The following<br />

month there will be a program on Hypertension by Dr. Perry Halushka.<br />

All of the Brotherhood meetings are casual and are designed for us to share each other's<br />

company and fellowship. We invite all men of KKBE to attend and enjoy.<br />

Sewell Kahn<br />

KKBE Brotherhood President<br />

From Our Lifelong Learning Committee<br />

WHAT IS THE JEWISH VIEW OF GOD?<br />

An old joke says that when two Jews get together there are three opinions. Does this apply even to our ideas about<br />

God? Mark your calendars for Monday evening, <strong>January</strong> 11, 2010 at 7:00 PM when Lifelong Learning will present our<br />

own Rabbi Bob Seigel who will speak on JEWISH VIEWS OF GOD. Begin the New Year on a high note with this<br />

informative and thought provoking evening.<br />

Margaret Seres and Roz Price<br />

Co-Chairs<br />

From Our Docent Coordinator<br />

DOCENT DELIGHTS<br />

“A moving story of the Charleston Jewish<br />

community by an excellent tour guide.”<br />

So wrote one visitor to our historic Temple. They could be<br />

referring to YOU!<br />

We are looking for volunteers to help our current group of docents, be it once a week or once a month. You will be given<br />

materials and will be trained. And then begins the best part: representing our Temple and basking in the kudos from our<br />

guests. Just read the sign- in book in the lobby and you will know why we have so many long-time docents.<br />

If you would like to know more or have any questions, please contact me.<br />

Linda Bergman<br />

856-7422<br />

Mrsrabab18@bellsouth.net<br />

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<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> ~ <strong>January</strong> 2009<br />

Sunday<br />

Monday<br />

Tuesday<br />

Wednesday<br />

Thursday<br />

Friday<br />

Saturday<br />

December 27<br />

No Hebrew or<br />

Religious School<br />

3<br />

9:00am Hebrew<br />

School<br />

10:30am Religious<br />

School<br />

10<br />

9:00am Hebrew<br />

School<br />

Camp Coleman<br />

Presentation<br />

10:30am<br />

Religious School<br />

4:00pm<br />

MLK Memorial<br />

Gathering (KKBE)<br />

28<br />

12:30pm<br />

Quilting<br />

Chavurah<br />

29 30 31 <strong>January</strong> 1<br />

New Year's Day<br />

Office Closed<br />

Gift Shop Closed<br />

7pm<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

4 5 6<br />

11<br />

12:30pm<br />

Quilting<br />

Chavurah<br />

7:00pm<br />

LLL Program<br />

Rabbi Seigel's<br />

Presentation<br />

12<br />

7:00pm<br />

Religious School<br />

Com. Mtg.<br />

1:00pm<br />

Film & Literature<br />

Chavurah<br />

5:15pm<br />

Shula in Sanctuary<br />

5:30pm<br />

Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />

5:45pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

7:00pm<br />

Jewish Choral Society<br />

Rehearsal<br />

13<br />

5:30pm<br />

Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />

Lessons<br />

Mitzvah Day Com<br />

Mtg. (Meddin Rm)<br />

5:45pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

6pm<br />

Sisterhood Board Mtg.<br />

7<br />

11:30am<br />

Let's Study<br />

Torah!<br />

6:30pm<br />

Koleinu<br />

Rehearsal<br />

14 15<br />

8<br />

6:30pm<br />

New Member<br />

Shabbat Dinner<br />

8:00pm<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

5:45pm/7:00pm<br />

East Cooper<br />

Shabbat Dinner/<br />

Service<br />

8:00pm<br />

Downtown<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

2<br />

11:00am<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

9<br />

10:00am<br />

Tot Shabbat<br />

11:00am<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

6:00pm<br />

Sisterhood<br />

Progressive<br />

Dinner<br />

(Off Campus)<br />

16<br />

11:00am<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

17<br />

No Hebrew or<br />

Religious School<br />

18<br />

Martin Luther<br />

King, Jr. Holiday<br />

Gift Shop Open<br />

19<br />

6:00pm<br />

Executive Com.<br />

Mtg.<br />

7:00pm<br />

Board of Trustees<br />

Mtg.<br />

20<br />

5:15pm<br />

Shula in Sanctuary<br />

5:30pm<br />

Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />

5:45pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

21<br />

11:30am<br />

Let's Study<br />

Torah!<br />

6:30pm<br />

Koleinu<br />

Rehearsal<br />

22<br />

8:00pm<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

B-days &<br />

Anniversaries<br />

23<br />

11:00am<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

Elliot Kronsberg<br />

Bar Mitzvah<br />

24<br />

9:00am Hebrew<br />

School<br />

10:30am<br />

Religious School<br />

2:00pm<br />

Tri Sisterhood Mtg<br />

(BSBI)<br />

25 26 27<br />

5:15pm<br />

Shula in Sanctuary<br />

5:30pm<br />

Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />

5:45pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

28<br />

6:30pm<br />

Brotherhood<br />

Mtg.<br />

29<br />

6:30pm<br />

Tu B'shvat Seder<br />

and dinner<br />

8:00pm<br />

Shabbat Service<br />

30 Tu B'Shvat<br />

10:00am<br />

Sisterhood<br />

Retreat<br />

11:00am<br />

Shabbat<br />

Service<br />

31<br />

9am Hebrew School<br />

10:30am<br />

Religious School<br />

12-3pm<br />

Simcha Fair<br />

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1 Herbert Berlinsky<br />

Seth Kupferman<br />

Sheila Litwin-Michaelis<br />

Sidney Silver<br />

2 Marla Loftus<br />

Samara Rogers<br />

3 Kevin Archer<br />

Amy Davis<br />

Tara Hubara<br />

4 Zachary Serrins<br />

6 Peter Herman<br />

Marvin Kramer<br />

Lehan Marcus<br />

7 Neal Baker<br />

James Ball, Jr.<br />

Tamar BenArdout<br />

Joan Brown<br />

Rachel Chapman<br />

Joseph Shepanek<br />

8 Wendy Burkhardt<br />

9 Amy Bozarth<br />

Joel Crook<br />

Amy Gordon<br />

Marc Kelley<br />

Ashlyn Kievit<br />

William Kronsberg<br />

10 Lillian Alterman<br />

Benjamin Cohn<br />

Randi Serrins<br />

11 Michelle Rovner<br />

John Stapleton<br />

12 Martin Klaper<br />

13 Zack Gorstein<br />

Mark Green<br />

Devin Meyers<br />

Jane Meyerson<br />

<strong>January</strong> Birthdays<br />

15 Julie Klaper<br />

Halle Lipov<br />

Mikhail Smolkin<br />

16 Geoff Goldsmith<br />

Ian Rastogi<br />

Steven Zimmerman<br />

17 Dennis Christensen<br />

Jane Hirsch<br />

18 Patricia Ellison<br />

Brendon Frankel<br />

Ellis Kahn<br />

Joseph Mendelsohn<br />

Roz Price<br />

Judith Vane<br />

19 Anita Zucker<br />

20 Leonard K rawcheck<br />

Stephanie Schwatz<br />

Lily Rothkopf<br />

20 Bella Wallace<br />

Loren Ziff<br />

21 Mark Adelson<br />

Deirdre Goldbogen<br />

21 Joseph Goldstein<br />

Robert Miller<br />

Carol Mysel<br />

22 Hilary Easley<br />

Lauren Ellison<br />

Ed Litos<br />

Claire Nussbaum<br />

Marlene Denemark<br />

23 Judith Farley<br />

24 Debbie Sistino<br />

24 Spenser Staub<br />

25 Robert B rown<br />

26 Brad Grossman<br />

27 Emily Abedon<br />

Gary Diener<br />

28 Daniel Maniscalco<br />

Mindelle Ziff<br />

29 Jason Basile<br />

Stephen Berman<br />

Henry Levin<br />

30 Scott Becker<br />

Anna Leff<br />

31 William Golde<br />

Pam Snyder<br />

7 Max ine & Henry Freudenberg<br />

Evelyn & Charles Perry<br />

8 Elizabeth Meyers & John Sullivan<br />

10 Jerri Chaplin & Peter Herman<br />

14 Jaclyn & Herbert Berlinsky<br />

15 Patricia & Paul Sykes<br />

16 Andrea & Sal Parco<br />

19 Rella & Alan Eysen<br />

Maryann & Howard Snyder<br />

Julie & Stephen Ziff<br />

<strong>January</strong> Anniversaries<br />

20 Diana & Jerry Cohen<br />

Judy & Martin Markowitz<br />

Barbara & Gordan Stine<br />

21 Gloria & Thomas Kern<br />

25 Steph & Bill Quick<br />

26 Ann & Bernard Warshaw<br />

27 Doris & Roy Meyers<br />

28 Rebecca & Scott Burke<br />

29 Teri & Meredith Berlinsky<br />

Week of December 27th – <strong>January</strong> 2nd<br />

Nathan Bass<br />

Aaron Ben Moshe<br />

Ruth Livingston Elias<br />

Raphael Elmaleh<br />

Betty Finkel<br />

Leon Forman<br />

Walter Freudenberg<br />

Nancee Goldsmith<br />

Harry Heyman<br />

Karen Johnson<br />

Henry Kratzok<br />

Sidney Levy<br />

Rosamond Lieb<br />

Isadore Mendelson<br />

Ruth P. Nathan<br />

Josephine Needle<br />

Joan Nelson<br />

Karolina Ostrower<br />

Mary Schechter<br />

Julius Schneider<br />

Joseph Sokol<br />

Mary Sprung<br />

Week of <strong>January</strong> 3rd – <strong>January</strong> 9th<br />

Murray Abrams<br />

Aaron Abramson<br />

Bernard Ozias Antman<br />

Marcus Barshay<br />

Leon C. Benardot<br />

Samuel Berkowitz<br />

Melvin Blechman<br />

Marvin Breen<br />

I. Favel Chavin<br />

Benjamin E. Cohen<br />

Cecilia B. Cohen<br />

Thelma Dansky<br />

Lillian Fisher<br />

Arthur C. Furchgott<br />

Myron Gins<br />

Sylvia Goldman<br />

Estelle Greenhill<br />

Ann Grossner<br />

Jack Lieb<br />

Mary P. Hornik<br />

Jan Karesh<br />

Pearl Kaufman<br />

S. David Kaufman<br />

A. Leon Kohlreiter<br />

Samuel Korn<br />

Freddie Kronsberg<br />

James Lambert<br />

David Langer<br />

Arthur Lasovick<br />

Paul Lipnick<br />

Esther Miller<br />

Bertha R. Needle<br />

Esther Planer<br />

Henry H. Schall<br />

Rose Shilepsky<br />

Morris Silverman<br />

Bessie Stacey<br />

David Stadler<br />

Edith Tennis<br />

Melvin Wine<br />

זכור<br />

Edward Aberman<br />

George S. Bogin<br />

Maurice Brown<br />

Bernard M. Bux baum<br />

Ben Cohen<br />

Benjamin Culp<br />

F. Bartow Culp<br />

Raphael Elias<br />

Fanny Feingold<br />

Joseph Geller<br />

Leon Gelson<br />

Sarah Goldberg<br />

Myrtle Goldsmith<br />

Rosalia B. Hart<br />

Samuel Jacobs<br />

Pearl Kasen<br />

Philip Kasen<br />

Ella Kaufman<br />

Leonard Kupferman<br />

<strong>January</strong> Yahrzeits<br />

Week of <strong>January</strong> 10th – <strong>January</strong> 16th<br />

Blanche Landesman<br />

Joseph Levy<br />

Samuel Moskowitz<br />

Minnie S. Nathan<br />

Rabbi Jacob Raisin<br />

Daniel T. Read, Jr.<br />

Marcia Rosenthall<br />

Betty Schindler<br />

Stanley Seidman<br />

Ann Lipman Seigel<br />

Judith Shapiro<br />

Aaron Kalman Silver<br />

Helen Schneider Silver<br />

Stanley Stern<br />

James G. Tuttle<br />

Seymor Weiss<br />

Bertha Wiener<br />

Gregory Wolfenzon<br />

Harry Zoller<br />

Week of <strong>January</strong> 17th - <strong>January</strong> 23rd<br />

Rose Louise Aronson<br />

Herbert Bass<br />

Rena Silverman Brown<br />

Albert Burke<br />

Netty Chaplin<br />

Leon Cohen<br />

Isidore Denemark<br />

Anne Brown Devine<br />

Seymour Dubin<br />

Clara Fitzpatrick<br />

Esthyr Flanagan<br />

Murray Garber<br />

Samuel Golubow<br />

Elaine Green<br />

Marion H. Heyman<br />

Sarah Hirschmann<br />

Simon Larach<br />

Louise Marcus<br />

Lillian Mendelson<br />

Abraham Monene<br />

Martin Niess<br />

Rose Parzen<br />

Irving Price<br />

Aaron S. Raisin<br />

Irving Richek<br />

Rose Rittenberg<br />

Herman Saltzman<br />

Rebecca Sauer<br />

Aaron Silver<br />

Sarah Silver<br />

Jason C. Strauss<br />

Lowell H. Sugarman<br />

James Wallace, Jr.<br />

Clara G. Warshauer<br />

Sadie Well<br />

Joe Weiss<br />

Charles Wiener<br />

Annette Wildhorn<br />

Irving Wildhorn<br />

Mildred Wine<br />

Week of <strong>January</strong> 24th - <strong>January</strong> 30th<br />

Robert Ashton<br />

Mary Behar<br />

Herman R. Berkman<br />

Stanley Bloch<br />

Samuel C. Brown, Sr.<br />

Frances Bush<br />

Esta Chaplin<br />

Evelyn Faunce<br />

Nettie Franzblau<br />

Ruth H. Gordon<br />

Maurice Greenhill<br />

Eric Michael Hardy<br />

Robert 'Pepper' Hyatt<br />

John Johnson<br />

Samuel Katzoff<br />

Tillye King<br />

Charlotte Laken<br />

Solomon Brown Alch<br />

Clement Alfred<br />

Leo Archambault<br />

Minnie M. Banov<br />

Jack Behar<br />

Maurice Berle<br />

Lizzie M. Brown<br />

Walter Corens<br />

Helen Fiedler<br />

Barnett Gabriel<br />

Harry Goldmintz<br />

Rose K. Jackson<br />

Cleo Lambert<br />

Irving Liebowitz<br />

Ruth Z. Mandel<br />

Norman Newman<br />

Sophye P. Olasov<br />

Hyman Pearlstine<br />

Rosanne Post Mervis<br />

Sylvia Schwartz<br />

Diana Seres<br />

Rosalind Shack<br />

Helen Stone<br />

Joseph Tigler<br />

Carol Tobakos<br />

Irene Turbow<br />

Minnie Weinberger<br />

Rita Sussman Weinstein<br />

Gustaf Zeitlin<br />

Week of <strong>January</strong> 31st - February 6th<br />

Rose Goldstein Katzoff<br />

Joseph Kurtzman<br />

Sally Lipnick<br />

Cecile Mayer Pearlstine<br />

Hildegarde Ringel<br />

Sophia Bregman<br />

Shirley Siegel<br />

Dr. Philip L. Staub<br />

Adele Sukin<br />

Edith Tanzer<br />

Celia Wasserman<br />

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Coming up at KKBE From Our VP of Programming<br />

Forging Friendships<br />

at our Special Events<br />

Happy New Year! Well, it’s only been seven months and I think I’m getting the hang of this<br />

position. Working with our Staff and Board is enlightening. It’s amazing how our shared deep<br />

commitment to KKBE serves as the foundation to maintaining good relationships and always<br />

doing what’s best for you!<br />

When it was suggested that I write for Chai Lights I began to think (oh no, she’s thinking!) about the value of our<br />

programming. Then my mind quickly shifted to my closest friends in Charleston – I met almost all of them through my<br />

KKBE friends or because of my affiliation with KKBE. It’s so comforting knowing that when I go to services, attend a<br />

congregational dinner or special event I see people I know and meet new people with whom I already share a deep rooted<br />

belief, Just like an old friend.<br />

What’s Going On?<br />

<strong>January</strong> 29: Tu B’shvat Seder and Service<br />

A delightful way to experience a special seder in honor of the Jewish New Year for Trees! Our seder plates include many<br />

goodies grown on trees and is followed by a lovely dinner. The dinner is $15/person and $18 for guests. You can reserve<br />

a seat by sending an RSVP to MHaspel@kkbe.org and send your check or pay online through our website by<br />

<strong>January</strong> 15th.<br />

February 5-7: KKBE’s Shabbaton!<br />

Get ready to have some fun with our theme, the 10 Commandments! We’ll start with an entertaining “getting to know you”<br />

program, congregational dinner and service, then set up your tent for the night or 2 nights! Day 2 includes breakfast, Torah<br />

study, an array of traditional and creative services, lunch, projects and an evening Havdalah service. Sunday morning we<br />

have breakfast, Hebrew students go to class and everyone else prepares for a group service and presentation (to all<br />

religious school students) from our weekend. You can sign up on the attached form by <strong>January</strong> 25 th !<br />

February 23: Tri-Congregational Concert<br />

Hosted by BSBI and planned by all three congregations, please join us for a memorable concert with Piano Quartets. This<br />

ensemble features well known artists who will play some of your favorite music by Johannes Brahms, Gabriel Faure, Ernst<br />

Bloch and others. More information to come!<br />

February 26: Purim!<br />

A Murder Mystery Dinner and adult party is being planned for this special Purim celebration. Following the service (ages<br />

12 and older please, the children’s costume service is Saturday morning, Feb. 27) you’ll be ushered to your table for a<br />

fascinating dinner. After dinner, adults only for dancing and good cheer!<br />

(Our plan includes a taxi service standing by.)<br />

Care to help?<br />

We have wonderful teams of volunteers who would love to share the fun of making these events possible. The way we<br />

work is a lot of people doing a little! So don’t worry about volunteering; we want you to have fun.<br />

Shoshanna Szuch<br />

VP Programming<br />

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RETREAT REGISTRATION<br />

FEBRUARY 5-7, 2010<br />

at our own spiritual home, KKBE<br />

Parent Name(s)____________________________________<br />

Attending: Adults____ Children _________<br />

$36/person; under 3 Free; Registration & Payments due by <strong>January</strong> 25 th<br />

Enclosed $ ______________<br />

Children’s Names & Ages ______________________________________________________________________<br />

Email____________________________ Tel. _____________________ Cell Phone ___________________<br />

Friday, February 5 th<br />

How many Attending<br />

Adults Children/Ages<br />

5:30 p.m. Check-In ___________ ___________<br />

6:30 p.m. Congregational Dinner ___________ ___________<br />

Camp out Sleep Over ___________ ___________<br />

Saturday, February 6 th<br />

9:00 a.m. Breakfast ___________ ___________<br />

10:00 a.m. Torah Study ___________ ___________<br />

11:00 a.m. Service: Healing ___________ ___________<br />

CHARLEY ___________ ___________<br />

Meditation ___________ ___________<br />

Traditional ___________ ___________<br />

Yoga ___________ ___________<br />

12:30 p.m. Lunch ___________ ___________<br />

1:30 p.m. Inside Project ___________ ___________<br />

Outside Project (bring camera) ___________ ___________<br />

(5-8 p.m. break - on own for dinner)<br />

Havdalah (outdoors) ___________ ___________<br />

Camp Out/Sleep Over ___________ ___________<br />

Sunday, Feb. 7 th<br />

8:00 a.m. Breakfast ___________ ___________<br />

(Hebrew students go to class; others stay and finish projects; group service & presentation at 10:30 a.m. for all<br />

students; finish with evaluations of retreat.)<br />

Space is Limited. Please send Registration & Fees to: Shabbaton, KKBE, 90 Hasell St. 29401 – DUE BY JANUARY 25 th<br />

Questions? Contact Marylyn Haspel, mhaspel@kkbe.org, 723-1090, or Shoshanna Szuch, sho@homesc.com,<br />

971-7875.<br />

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A few moments from our<br />

Congregational Chanukah Dinner and<br />

Service<br />

A Happy, Yummy and Inspiring<br />

Evening!!<br />

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You’re Invited<br />

Please join us in celebrating the<br />

Bar Mitzvah of our son<br />

Elliot Laro Kronsberg<br />

<strong>January</strong> 23, 2010 at 11:00 am<br />

Friday, <strong>January</strong> 15th, 2010<br />

At All Saints Lutheran Church<br />

Please bring a side dish,<br />

your family and friends!<br />

Dinner at 5:45 pm<br />

Service at 7:00 pm<br />

RSVP by <strong>January</strong> 11, 2010<br />

to the Temple Office 723-1090<br />

Email: mhaspel@kkbe.org<br />

All Saints Lutheran Church is located at<br />

2107 Highway 17 N<br />

In Mt. Pleasant, just North of the IOP Connector<br />

Elliot is a seventh grade honor student at Charleston Day School.<br />

He is the older brother of Zachary and William. Elliot is a gentle<br />

soul who enjoys hanging out with his buddies, fishing, sailing, and<br />

discussing any subject or issue. Elliot is a member of the<br />

Odyssey of the Mind Club at school and is the music and movie<br />

critic for the school paper. He plays the guitar and loves<br />

researching and exploring different genres of music. For his<br />

mitzvah project, Elliot collected gently used ipods and created a<br />

music library for the teenagers at the MUSC Children's Hospital.<br />

Amy and Edward Kronsberg<br />

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KKBE Donation Opportunities<br />

Synagogue Operations<br />

Archiv es/Museum Fund<br />

Building Maintenance Fund<br />

Capital Campaign Fund<br />

Coming Street Cemetery Fund<br />

General Fund<br />

Harold & Lillian Jacobs<br />

Mitzv ah Membership Fund<br />

Huguenin Cemetery Fund<br />

Hospitality Fund<br />

Goodstein Garden Fund<br />

Marian Birlant Slotin<br />

Bereav ement Fund<br />

Mildred Bernstein Kitchen Fund<br />

Organ Restoration Fund<br />

Sanctuary Restoration Fund<br />

Walkway of Life ($220)<br />

Zbar Dues Assistance Fund<br />

Library<br />

Morton Patla Library Fund<br />

Spirituality<br />

Addie & Miriam Triest Floral Fund<br />

Community Tzedakah Fund<br />

Music Fund<br />

Kurtzman Confirmation Award<br />

Fund<br />

Hellman Family Fund<br />

Outreach Fund<br />

Pray er Book Fund<br />

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Rosenthall Scholarship Fund<br />

Sugarman Kiddush Fund<br />

Tarshish Lecture Fund<br />

Youth<br />

Bess Rosen & Paul Rosen<br />

Camp Fund<br />

Johnny Hornik Memorial Fund<br />

Isadore & Irma Kramer Fund<br />

Rabbi Edward Cohn Youth Fund<br />

Temple Youth Fund<br />

Religious School Fund<br />

Honoree : _____________________________________________<br />

in memory of in honor of for the speedy recovery of<br />

Birthday Anniversary<br />

Fund: _______________________________Amount: __________<br />

Please send an acknowledgement to:<br />

Name: _________________________________________________<br />

Address: _______________________________________________<br />

City/State/Zip: ___________________________________________<br />

For Written Acknowledgement Card or Using Credit Card<br />

a minimum $18.00 Donation is needed.<br />

All Donations will be Published in <strong>ChaiLights</strong><br />

Harold & Lillian Jacobs<br />

Mitzvah Membership<br />

Program<br />

We extend our deepest<br />

appreciation to our Mitzvah<br />

Members for their additional financial<br />

commitment to KKBE. Their enhanced dues enable<br />

us to help members who need assistance with<br />

dues or religious school tuition. We hope you will<br />

consider joining them.<br />

Circle of All Generations<br />

Kenneth & Nadine Chavin<br />

Larry & Jan Lipov<br />

Allan & Carol Mysel<br />

Circle of Vision<br />

Edwin Pearlstine, Jr.<br />

Circle of Understanding<br />

Peter Dubin &<br />

Debarah Wallace<br />

Henry &<br />

Maxine Freudenberg<br />

Ronald & Lucy Scheman<br />

Margaret Seres<br />

Robert & Deborah Turkewitz<br />

Circle of Light<br />

Jack & Florence Kurtz<br />

Circle of Spirit<br />

Mark & Judith Green<br />

Robert & Lisa Silvers<br />

Steven & Cindy Zimmerman<br />

Donor’s Name<br />

Street Address<br />

City, State ZIP<br />

Telephone<br />

Please charge my credit card in the amount of<br />

$ ______<br />

Card Number<br />

Expiration Date<br />

Signature<br />

Three (3) digit<br />

security code<br />

Ty pe of Card<br />

□ MC<br />

□ Visa<br />

David Bachman<br />

& Marjorie Rath<br />

Jan & Jo Ellen Basile<br />

Neil & Deborah Fisher<br />

Robert & <strong>Beth</strong> Goldstein<br />

Ken & Marion Goodman<br />

Max & Ann Hellman<br />

Ed Herschaft<br />

Chuck & Marty Jackson<br />

William & Chris Olasov<br />

Michelle & Eric Rovner<br />

Jeffrey & <strong>Beth</strong> Buncher<br />

Ira & Anita Rosenberg<br />

Circle of Hope<br />

Phil Saul & Amy Davis<br />

Rich & Randi Serrins<br />

David Shatz<br />

Richard & Dunlap Silver<br />

Joseph & Debbie Sistino<br />

Lois Sugarman<br />

Patricia Sykes<br />

Edward & Diane Tichi<br />

Dorothy Toporek<br />

Murray Treiser<br />

Skippy & Dana Weil<br />

Martin & Shelley Yonas<br />

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Building Fund<br />

Rich and Gloria Lapin:<br />

in memory of Sol Breibart<br />

Charlotte & Charles Zaglin:<br />

in memory of Sol Zaglin<br />

Capital Campaign Fund<br />

Dolly & David Jaffee:<br />

in honor of the Anniversary of Maury and Joyce Finkelstein<br />

in memory of Abe Finkel<br />

in honor of the anniversary of Ken and Nadine Chavin<br />

in honor of the anniversary of Rabbi Tony and Judy Holz<br />

in memory of Sol Breibart<br />

Harold & Evie Lenoff:<br />

in memory of Louis Lenoff<br />

Norman & Eve Berlinsky:<br />

for Sheran Rittenberg's speedy recovery<br />

in appreciation of Jean Wolf for all she does<br />

Cemetery Fund<br />

Joe & Rhetta Mendelsohn:<br />

in memory of Sol Breibart<br />

Robert & Lisa Silvers:<br />

in memory of Sylvia Silvers<br />

Community Tzedakah Fund<br />

Steven & LuAnn Rosenzweig:<br />

in honor of both their Birthdays<br />

General Fund<br />

Harry & Delphine Barnett:<br />

in memory of Clifford Tillman, M.D.<br />

Rabbi Abner & Linda Bergman:<br />

in memory of Kenneth Albert<br />

Barry & Flo Breibart:<br />

in memory of Sol Breibart<br />

Barbara & William Green:<br />

in memory of Mary Schechter<br />

Linda & Donald Horowitz:<br />

in honor of Fredye Glass<br />

Eric & Peggy Krawcheck:<br />

in honor of the marriage of Marlene and Bennett Denemark<br />

in memory of Avram Kronsberg<br />

Paul & Penny Levy:<br />

in memory of Milton Green<br />

Bobbie and Ed Litos:<br />

in memory of Mr. Samuel Brody and Mrs. Sally Brody<br />

Roy & Doris Meyers:<br />

in memory of Sadie Wolf<br />

Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />

for a speedy recovery of Bari and Eric Heiden<br />

in memory of Grandma Tillye<br />

Goodstein Garden Upkeep Fund<br />

Dolly & David Jaffee:<br />

for the speedy recovery of Rabbi Tony Holz<br />

in memory of Betty Finkel<br />

Your Generous Donations<br />

We Gratefully Acknowledge the Following Contributions for November 16 th thru December 15 th :<br />

Harold & Lillian Jacobs Mitzvah Membership Fund<br />

Allan & Carol Mysel:<br />

in honor of Marlene Weitz & Bennett Denemark's marriage<br />

Miriam Wilchanovsky:<br />

in me mory of Vladimir Wilchanovsky<br />

Hospitality Fund<br />

Tamar BenArdout:<br />

in honor of KKBE’s wonderful volunteers<br />

Floy Work:<br />

in honor of KKBE's dedicated volunteers<br />

Marian Birlant Slotin Bereavement Fund<br />

Harry & Delphine Barnett:<br />

in memory of Clifford Tillman, M.D.<br />

Lucia Horowitz:<br />

in memory of Meyer H. Horowitz<br />

Mildred Bernstein Kitchen Fund<br />

Charles & Frieda Bernstein:<br />

in memory of Manning A. Bernstein<br />

in honor of Ed Tichi's Birthday<br />

in honor of Heidi Kunitz's Birthday<br />

in honor of Stu & Sarah Blum's Anniversary<br />

in memory of Bert Gosschalk<br />

Kenneth & Nadine Chavin:<br />

for the volunteers at the 59th Sisterhood Bazaar<br />

in honor of Emily Kahn's Bat Mitzvah<br />

in memory of Rick Ett's Uncle Seymour Ett<br />

Lucia Horowitz:<br />

in memory of Pearl Rita Horowitz<br />

Margaret Seres:<br />

for a speedy recovery of Frieda Bernstein<br />

Morton Patla Library Fund<br />

Margaret Seres:<br />

in memory of Diana Seres<br />

Music Fund<br />

Charlotte Libater:<br />

in memory of Eleanor Mae Portugal<br />

Jan Pomerantz:<br />

in memory of Howard Pomerantz<br />

Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />

in celebration of Steve Zimmerman's Birthday<br />

Outreach Fund<br />

Alan & Binky Cohen:<br />

in memory of Joseph D. Read<br />

Robert & Lisa Silvers:<br />

for a speedy recovery for Lori Elkman Collins<br />

Rabbi's Discretionary Fund<br />

Jack Bass:<br />

in memory of Nathan Bass<br />

Diana & Gerald Cohen:<br />

the re-dedication of the Seabrook Island Memorial Garden<br />

Barbara S. Cohn:<br />

in honor of the marriage of Dara Holz and Ofir Yungman<br />

Henry & Maxine Freudenberg:<br />

for the speedy recovery of Rabbi Holz<br />

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Guy & Judy Gi mson:<br />

the re-dedication of the Seabrook Island Memorial Garden<br />

Allan & Carol Mysel:<br />

Congrats to Judy and Tony Holz for their daughter's marriage<br />

Richard & Randi Serrins:<br />

for a speedy recovery of Rabbi Holz<br />

Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />

in celebration of Tamar BenArdout's Birthday<br />

Religious School Fund<br />

Eric & Michelle Rovner:<br />

in honor of Patricia Sykes<br />

in memory of Martha Diskin<br />

Richard & Randi Serrins:<br />

for Dr. Ken Chavin's kindness and friendship<br />

Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />

in celebration of Ian Rastogi's Birthday<br />

in celebration of Joshua Stephenson's Birthday<br />

in celebration of Tara Hubara's Birthday<br />

in honor of Elliot Kronsberg becoming a Bar Mitzvah<br />

Rosenthall Scholarship Fund<br />

Donald Reavis & Josine Gosschalk-Reavis:<br />

in honor of Dara Holz and Ofir Yungman's wedding<br />

Sugarman Kiddush Fund<br />

Ruth Goldsmith:<br />

in memory of Stanley and Abraham Poley<br />

Lois Sugarman:<br />

for a speedy recovery of Jane Norris<br />

in memory of Alan Levit<br />

Temple Youth Fund<br />

Vivian Friedman:<br />

in honor of Sadie Fox<br />

Murray & Debby Passo:<br />

in honor of Michelle Passo and Andy Adams engagement<br />

Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />

in appreciation of the outgoing Board of CHARLEY:<br />

in honor of the incoming Board of CHARLEY<br />

Message from Rabbi Holz<br />

Heartfelt thanks to all for your kind cards, notes, phone calls, and support to Judy and me during my recent<br />

medical procedure and recovery. Best wishes for a happy and healthy 2010.<br />

Rabbi Anthony D. Holz<br />

Heartfelt condolences to Linda Bergman and her children on the passing of Rabbi Abner Bergman.<br />

We will miss him.<br />

May his memory be a blessing.<br />

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Looking for a business or service?<br />

PLEASE check the<br />

Blue Book Directory Index<br />

And choose from the businesses<br />

who supported the Blue Book.<br />

Thank you.<br />

Got Space?? If you are planning a<br />

function, a meeting, or party, why not use<br />

the Temple? We have lots of options<br />

available at reasonable prices in a prime<br />

location.<br />

Please remember to link your Harris Teeter<br />

VIC card to our School Code 3351. Each<br />

time you make a purchase of Harris Teeter<br />

brand items using your VIC card you will<br />

help generate additional funds for our<br />

Religious School.<br />

The program is in effect from August<br />

through May. Please remember to re-link<br />

your card for the new school year.<br />

Want more information? Please contact<br />

the Temple office at 723.1090 or<br />

tamar@kkbe.org<br />

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Locally Owned & Operated…<br />

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*Temporary, Temp to Hire and Direct Placement<br />

*Clerical, Light Industrial and More!<br />

ALSO…<br />

Now Serving Charleston<br />

A Division of Innovative Partners<br />

Providing the Best Hospitality Staff<br />

In Charleston<br />

843-744-0404<br />

Gift Shop<br />

Volunteers Needed<br />

Chosen Treasures is seeking volunteer sales staff.<br />

Please donate just 3 hours a week to this<br />

important fundraising effort. The bulk of the<br />

funds raised through Chosen Treasures is<br />

returned directly to KKBE.<br />

Sign up for an Oneg<br />

Have you made a New Year's Resolution to<br />

host an Oneg this year? It's never too early to<br />

reserve your date. Don't assume that your<br />

date will be available. Contact me now to<br />

make sure you have the date you want to<br />

honor a loved one, celebrate a birthday or<br />

anniversary or fit into your busy schedule.<br />

Email Tim Carle at truckletim@bellsouth.net .<br />

Thank you for supporting our community's<br />

desire to mingle, schmooze and nosh<br />

together… at least once a week!<br />

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J. Henry Stuhr, Inc.<br />

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Downtown • Mt. Pleasant<br />

West Ashley • North Area • Northwoods<br />

(843) 723-2524<br />

www.jhenrystuhr.com<br />

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90 Hasell Street, Charleston, SC 29401<br />

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Eighth, Quarter, Half<br />

and Full Page<br />

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843-723-1090

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