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C h a i L i g h t s<br />
Volume 12 Number 1 — Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 — <strong>January</strong> 2010<br />
<strong>January</strong> Worship Schedule<br />
1st & 2nd<br />
Friday<br />
Shabbat Service at 7 pm<br />
Saturday<br />
Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />
8th & 9th<br />
Friday<br />
New Member Dinner 6:30 pm<br />
Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />
Saturday<br />
Tot Shabbat 10 am<br />
Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />
15th & 16th<br />
Friday<br />
East Cooper Dinner & Shabbat Service<br />
5:45 pm/ 7 pm<br />
Downtown Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />
Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />
22nd & 23rd<br />
Friday<br />
Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />
Birthdays & Anniversaries<br />
Saturday<br />
Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />
Bar Mitzvah of Elliot Kronsberg<br />
29th & 30th<br />
Friday<br />
Tu B'shvat Seder 6:30 pm<br />
Shabbat Service at 8 pm<br />
Saturday<br />
Shabbat Morning Service at 11 am<br />
KKBE<br />
90 Hase ll Street<br />
Charle ston, SC 29401<br />
Tel. (843) 723-1090<br />
Fax: ( 843) 723-0537<br />
www. kkbe. org<br />
Heirs of the Prophets<br />
On Sunday <strong>January</strong> 10 th at 4 pm KKBE will again<br />
be hosting a Gathering of African-Americans and<br />
Jews in celebration of the life and works of Dr.<br />
Martin Luther King, Jr.<br />
Our speaker this year is the Honorable James E.<br />
Clyburn, congressional leader and veteran of the<br />
Civil Rights struggle. Participants will include both<br />
several African-American clergy and Charleston<br />
rabbis as well as musicians from both communities.<br />
This gathering, a week before the Martin Luther King Day weekend, is a<br />
significant one in our community and well worth attending. This occasion<br />
also prompts us to remind ourselves of our abiding Jewish concerns for<br />
social justice and the welfare of all.<br />
More than two and a half thousand years ago Amos urged the people to:<br />
“Hate evil and love good and establish justice in the gates of the land” and<br />
Micah similarly emphasized the importance of “doing justice, loving mercy<br />
and walking humbly with your God.” And as Jeremiah phrased it: “If one<br />
practices justice and righteousness, if one champions the cause of the poor,<br />
then it is well with one - this indeed is to know me, says God.”<br />
While there are some who would argue that religion essentially deals with<br />
ritual and custom, the voices of our ancient Hebrew prophets remind us that<br />
we are most religious when we correct societal evils and help our fellow<br />
human beings. From ancient days until our time, Jews have lived and<br />
sometimes died for such ideals.<br />
The battles we fight today may be different from those of the past, but it is<br />
appropriate that Jewish voices are prominent among those who seek<br />
universal health care and better education for all, and are vocal on issues<br />
such as global warming.<br />
As Jewish individuals, there are many ways of expressing our Jewish<br />
identity. But none of these ways are more valuable and more truly religious<br />
than the path of activism on behalf of our fellow human beings and all who<br />
live on this good earth.<br />
Our Mission Statement<br />
Rabbi Anthony D. Holz<br />
The mission of <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> shall be to serve the<br />
religious needs of families and individuals through programs of<br />
lifelong Jewish education (Torah), inclusive communal worship<br />
and ritual (Avodah), and the ongoing quest for greater justice,<br />
peace and acts of loving-kindness (Gemilut Chasadim).
Rabbi<br />
Anthony D. Holz<br />
rabbi@kkbe.org<br />
Temple Educator<br />
Amy I. W. Horner, MA<br />
ahorner@kkbe.org<br />
Executive Director<br />
Floy Wor k<br />
floy@kkbe.org<br />
Executive Assistant<br />
Tamar BenArdout<br />
tamar@kkbe.org<br />
Bookkeeper<br />
Elizabeth Mar kley<br />
emarkley@kkbe.org<br />
Receptionist<br />
Natalie Heath<br />
nheath@kkbe.org<br />
Program Coordinator<br />
Maryl yn Has pel<br />
mhaspel@kkbe.org<br />
Music Director<br />
Heidi Kunitz-Levy<br />
B’nei Mitzvah Coordinator<br />
Shula Holtz<br />
Youth Advisor<br />
Robin Shul er<br />
Officers<br />
David Jaffee<br />
President<br />
Anita R osenberg<br />
VP—Administration<br />
Mark Adelson<br />
VP—Finance<br />
Shos hanna Szuc h<br />
VP—Programming<br />
Patricia Sykes<br />
VP—Fundraising<br />
Kenneth Chavin<br />
Secretary<br />
Louis Tic k<br />
Financial Secretary<br />
Trustees<br />
Frieda Bernstei n<br />
Tim Carle<br />
Ben Glass<br />
Shula Holtz<br />
Paul Levy<br />
Larry Libater<br />
Robert Miller<br />
Faye Seigel<br />
Stephen Ziff<br />
Ex Officio<br />
Billy Olas ov<br />
Immedi ate Pas t President<br />
Nadine Chavin<br />
Bonnie Friedman<br />
Sisterhood C o-Presidents<br />
Sewell Kahn<br />
Brotherhood President<br />
Ed Tichi<br />
Religious School Chair<br />
Seth Zimmerman<br />
CHARLEY Presi dent<br />
Archives<br />
Bereavement<br />
Blue Book<br />
Building & Gr ounds<br />
Caring<br />
Cemeter y<br />
Chavurot<br />
College Liaison<br />
East Cooper<br />
Endowment<br />
Finance<br />
Fine Arts<br />
Fundraising<br />
Insurance<br />
Leadershi p Devel opment<br />
Library<br />
Lifelong Learning<br />
Membership<br />
Museum<br />
Nominating<br />
Oneg & H onors<br />
Programs<br />
Personnel<br />
Pulpit<br />
Religious School<br />
Ritual & Music<br />
Search<br />
Social Ac tion<br />
Tourism / Docents<br />
Transitions<br />
Youth<br />
Committee Chairs<br />
Anita R osenberg<br />
Barbara Stender<br />
Dunlap Silver<br />
Patricia Rones Sykes<br />
Mary Radin<br />
Steve Ziff<br />
Judith Green<br />
Herb Goldberg<br />
Morton Ellison<br />
Paul Levy<br />
David Frederick<br />
Frieda Bernstei n<br />
Billy Olas ov<br />
Mark Adelson<br />
Mark Adelson<br />
Dawn Berlins ky<br />
Andy Slotin<br />
Patricia Rones Sykes<br />
Mark Adelson<br />
Faye Seigel<br />
Marlene Williamon<br />
Margaret Seres<br />
Roz Price<br />
Tim Carle<br />
Paul Levy<br />
Robert Ros en<br />
Billy Olas ov<br />
Judy & Tim Carle<br />
Shos hanna Szuc h<br />
David Jaffee<br />
David Jaffee<br />
Ed Tichi<br />
Shula Holtz<br />
Lois Sugarman<br />
Ben Glass<br />
Shula Holtz<br />
Cynthia Ava<br />
LuAnn R osenz weig<br />
Linda Bergman<br />
Marty J ac kson<br />
Steve Zimmerman<br />
Our Next<br />
Tot<br />
Shabbat<br />
Will be <strong>January</strong> 9th<br />
at 10:00 AM<br />
Freudenberg Chapel<br />
Suitable for children<br />
up to 10 years of age.<br />
Celebrating<br />
Birthdays &<br />
Anniversaries<br />
Friday, <strong>January</strong> 22nd<br />
Join us for this monthly<br />
celebration of our members’<br />
birthdays and anniversaries.<br />
Deadline for<br />
<strong>ChaiLights</strong><br />
submissions<br />
is<br />
the 5th of<br />
Each Month<br />
Volume 12 Issue 1<br />
Published monthly by:<br />
<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong><br />
90 Hasell Street • Charleston, SC 29401<br />
843-723-1090 Phone<br />
843-723-0537 Fax<br />
www.kkbe.org<br />
office@kkbe.org<br />
© <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> - 2010<br />
Page 2 <strong>ChaiLights</strong> • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • Tevet ~ Shevat 5770
Dear Congregants,<br />
So how many people get to celebrate tw o New Years? As Jews, we do. Our Jew ish New Year,<br />
Rosh Hashanah, seems like it was y esterday and now we have just celebrated the Gregorian<br />
Calendar New Year too (<strong>January</strong> through December). I guess that means we get to make tw o<br />
sets of resolutions.<br />
Here are the “Top 5” of my newest set of personal resolutions:<br />
1. Lose some weight. This has been on my New Year’s resolution list for at least 10 y ears.<br />
2. Go on vacation. But if y ou liv e in Charleston, isn’t that a perpetual v acation?<br />
3. Win the lottery! Do y ou hav e to buy a ticket to win?<br />
4. Do some overdue household chores. This probably needs to wait until Rosh Hashanah.<br />
5. Take Spanish classes. No tengo tiempo ahora. (I don’t hav e time now.)<br />
Here are my “Top 5” for KKBE:<br />
1. Increase worship & programming. This is the heart of w hat a synagogue provides for its members.<br />
2. Increase endowment. This is what enables a synagogue to provide increased w orship and programming.<br />
3. Increase clergy. Be in a position to add an Assistant Rabbi.<br />
4. Increase volunteers. We have an amazing cadre of v olunteers but alw ays need more. Looking for fresh blood!<br />
5. Improve our facilities. We are the guardians of an historic treasure. It alw ays needs maintenance and enhancement. See #2<br />
abov e.<br />
B’shalom,<br />
David<br />
President’s Message<br />
Legacy Giving by Paul Lynch<br />
(Originally published in the College of Charleston’s Fall Yaschik/Arnold Jewish Studies Program’s 2009 Fall Program.<br />
Printed with Mr. Lynch’s permission.)<br />
“Individuals are often unsure of what is meant by the term planned giving. A gift is planned in that the indiv idual purposefully makes a gift as<br />
a part of his or her financial, tax and/or estate plan. A planned gift positively impacts the donor and his or her family as well as organizations<br />
such as … KKBE. Planned gifts leave a legacy that benefits not only the donor and the donor’s family, but also generations to come.<br />
A planned gift provides an individual and his or her family with a variety of benefits including income and/or estate tax benefits, providing<br />
income to the donor and/or his or her family, and the passing of assets to family members at reduced costs. Planning can be made with<br />
stock, securities, and/or cash or even real property. Gifts can take several forms. Four ex amples follow:<br />
1) Bequests: This is the most common and simplest form of a planned gift. A bequest is a gift … that is made through a donor’s Last Will<br />
and Testament.<br />
2) Charitable Remainder Trust: There are tw o basic types of Charitable Remainder Trusts: A Unitrust and an Annuity Trust. In both, the<br />
donor giv es stock, cash or other assets to a trust. Those assets are invested and income is paid to the donor for a fix ed amount of time or<br />
until the donor dies. When the donor dies, the charity keeps all remaining assets. In a Unitrust, the donor receives one or more yearly<br />
payments equalizing a fixed percentage of the value of the assets. In an Annuity Trust, the donor receives a yearly, fixed payment equal to<br />
at least fiv e percent (5%) of the value of the assets at the time the deferred giving agreement was signed.<br />
3) Gift Annuity: Donors contribute cash, securities, or other assets to a charity. In exchange, they receive annual payments for a fix ed<br />
amount of time. Annual payments need not start when the gift is made; they begin at a time specified by the donor.<br />
4) Charitable Lead Trust: A charity receives the income from the donor’s assets for a specified amount of time after which the assets are<br />
transferred back to the donor or to the donor’s heirs.”<br />
Please speak to your tax or financial adv isor regarding planning techniques that can help you, y our family and perhaps, KKBE. If you have<br />
questions about how you can make a planned gift, please contact the Temple Office at 723-1090.<br />
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. –Winston Churchill<br />
Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • <strong>ChaiLights</strong> Page 3
From Our Search Committee<br />
Meet Rabbi Stephanie Alexander<br />
Rabbi Stephanie Alexander received her undergraduate degree, a B.S. in Psychology with honors in<br />
Jew ish Studies, from Tulane Univ ersity in New Orleans. She earned her ordination, as w ell as a Masters<br />
degree in both Hebrew Literature and Religious Education, from Hebrew Union College-Jew ish Institute of<br />
Religion in 2003. Her rabbinic thesis w as entitled: “Standing at the Altar: Re-imagining the Significance of<br />
Bar/Bat Mitzv ah.” After her ordination, Rabbi Alex ander serv ed as an Assistant Rabbi at Temple Isaiah in<br />
Lex ington, MA (799 families). She then w orked for a y ear as the Regional Director of Youth and Informal<br />
Education for the URJ's Midwest Council before taking a solo pulpit at Temple <strong>Beth</strong> El in Dubuque, Iow a,<br />
w here she has serv ed for the last three y ears. During that same time, she served as an Adjunct Professor<br />
at Coe College in Cedar Rapids, Iow a and was the Midrasha Coordinator for high school age children at<br />
Temple Judah in Cedar Rapids, Iow a. Throughout her training and practice as a rabbi and educator, Rabbi Alexander sought out<br />
institutions that v alue creativ ity in programming—from an ex perimental Shabbat family school to multigenerational social justice<br />
organizing to a supplemental congregational high school program ov er 120 teenagers strong. Rabbi Alex ander currently liv es in her<br />
hometow n of St. Louis with her husband, Rabbi Aaron Sherman, and 20-month-old son, Eli.<br />
In her personal statement to the Search Committee, Rabbi Alexander wrote:<br />
” The rabbinate is an all-access pass—an awesome privilege and sacred responsibility. I have tried to be worthy of that honor by<br />
maintaining high standards in all that I do. I take tremendous pride, and find great fulfillment, in the preparation that precedes my<br />
work. In worship, I am as mindful of tone and transitions as I am of the sermon and music, knowing all can provide portals to<br />
spirituality. In teaching, I find creativity, humor and relevance to be as important as the particular Jewish content. I understand that<br />
what I have to share with a community includes my Jewish knowledge, but transcends it, as well…..As a rabbi, I endeavor to be an<br />
accessible role model, sharing my own Jewish practices and choices as a means of encouraging others to embrace their own.<br />
I strive to work in partnership with other staff and lay leadership to ensure that congregational programming is both meaningful and<br />
purposeful. A congregant recently shared a wonderful metaphor. He said Reform Judaism is like a cafeteria: the offerings are<br />
endless and each might be as fulfilling as the next. If you come through the line with an empty tray, you have no one to blame but<br />
yourself. A congregation’s programming—educational, cultural, religious and social—should serve to create that cafeteria. Utilizing<br />
creative formats, seeking institutional partnerships, and mining the talents and skills of its own membership, a congregation’s offerings<br />
should empower its members to make the personal, educated choices that are the hallmark of Reform Judaism.”<br />
Through the long, inv olv ed process of searching for KKBE’s nex t Rabbi, the Search Committee learned a tremendous amount about<br />
many v ery skilled, very capable, amazing rabbis. But our mission took us further; our aim w as to find the best Rabbi for KKBE. In<br />
Rabbi Alex ander w e found just that. We found a rabbi w hose rabbinate is a calling. We found a spiritual leader w hose ability to<br />
connect w ith others is natural and w hose warmth shines from within. We found a teacher for w hom teaching is both an avocation and<br />
a sacred duty . We found a creativ e role model who will help us grow and thriv e as she ex cels in reaching div erse constituencies.<br />
The Committee spoke w ith many references: rabbis, HUC professors, congregants, temple presidents, and y outh group<br />
representativ es. We learned this: “Rabbi Alex ander is one of the most beautiful human beings/souls I hav e ever known….She is<br />
authentic, a talented educator across the spectrum of ages….. She is warm, passionate, open, caring…. Her spirit is multi faceted<br />
and her spirituality shines through her sermons…she has great inner strength….she respects history and has a vision for the<br />
future….” (w e could go on and on, but space will not allow).<br />
Upon meeting Rabbi Alex ander, Rabbi Holz reflected that she is “a warm, kind, exceptional person w ith a lot to offer, and is an<br />
excellent choice for KKBE.”<br />
When w e advised Rabbi Lennard Thal (Interim Director of Placement for CCAR) of the unanimous recommendation by the Search<br />
Committee and Board of Trustees, he w rote: “I regard this particular Placement as a ‘match made in Heaven’ – a wonderful<br />
rabbi with a wonderful congregation – in a beautiful city to boot!”<br />
Ben Glass and Shula Holtz<br />
Search Committee Co-Chairs<br />
Committee members: Nadine Chavin, Judith Green, Barnett Greenberg, David Jaffee, Jan Lipov, Billy Olasov, Art Richek,<br />
Anita Rosenberg, LuAnn Rosenzweig, Michelle Rovner, Faye Seigel.<br />
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Executive Director’s Message<br />
Creating the KKBE of Our Dreams<br />
It’s a New Year on the Gregorian calendar. We’v e sipped sparkling bev erages, dipped some chips,<br />
w atched some bowl games and some of us (like Dav id Jaffee) hav e taken time to list our goals on paper for<br />
the coming year.<br />
As I pondered the New Year, I realize I’v e w orked for y ou for a full 12 months! I hav e learned so much and<br />
I know there is a great deal more I need to discover.<br />
To me it is w onderful that this time of y ear coincides with study ing the Book of Ex odus (Shmot) that<br />
chronicles the creation of the nation of Israel from the descendants of Jacob. In a w ay, this is our time to<br />
ponder the KKBE w e w ant to create in 2010. I’v e thought about w hat I can do to multiply our numbers and<br />
make our Temple stronger. Here are my resolutions.<br />
In 2010, I’ll work to:<br />
• Show lov ing kindness to all our members, friends and staff. We can show lov ing kindness when we welcome one another and<br />
v isitors during Onegs, when we answ er requests for volunteer service, when we support one another during good times and<br />
w hen times are sad or frightening. We can show it in the w ays w e interact as w e w orship and work at KKBE.<br />
• Continue my lifelong learning. I will continue to study Judaism to build on the strong foundation Amy provided in our 2009<br />
Conv ersion Class. (If y ou are interested in conv ersion, I giv e the class 5 stars!) It’s my goal to honor KKBE’s traditions and<br />
rituals in ev ery way possible. I hope y ou’ll help me.<br />
• Improv e my speling. (Okay, I threw in that ty po for fun.) I DO know our Temple Office makes spelling mistakes in<br />
announcement sheets and other publications. We are always soooo sorry! We’v e driv en some of y ou mad and I promise it<br />
w as never intentional! In 2010, w e’ll striv e for zero spelling errors. Let us know w hen y ou catch something we can fix —it is<br />
the only w ay we improv e our work.<br />
• To find meaningful ways to honor KKBE’s remarkable v olunteers, from our Trustees to the amazing w omen who conv ince<br />
v isitors that they cannot leav e Charleston w ithout a new $60 menorah from Chosen Treasures.<br />
• To lov ingly honor Rabbi Holz’s notable service to our congregation and community as he transitions to Rabbi Emeritus and to<br />
w elcome Rabbi Alex ander and support the v isions she creates for our congregation.<br />
• To communicate w ith you in ev ery way possible so y ou are always aware of the times you can w orship at KKBE, learn at<br />
KKBE, and improv e our world in concert w ith other KKBE volunteers.<br />
Those are the major resolutions I’ll be working on in this New Year. Wow. They ’ll be a challenge! I hope I can count on your<br />
assistance to help me succeed. It w ill take a village, of that I am certain. It’s an honor to start 2010 in y our company. I hope y our<br />
2010 is happy and healthy for us all!<br />
Shalom,<br />
Floy<br />
We celebrate KKBE's newest members who joined in 2009<br />
Caitlin & Jordan Adelson<br />
Rachel & Matthew J. Brown<br />
Richard Clarke-Pounder<br />
Diana & Jerry Cohen<br />
Sarah Garner<br />
Ruth & Harry Goldberg<br />
Nicole & Geoff Goldsmith<br />
Robert Gordon<br />
Hillary Green<br />
Lynn Green<br />
Barbara & William Green<br />
Kirstin & Daniel Gros<br />
Allison Gustefson & Jason Famulari<br />
Deborah & David Kahn<br />
Victoria Santiago & Patrick Labbe<br />
Amy & Ken Lutz<br />
Gabriella Maris & Ilan Sondheimer<br />
Stephanie & William Quick<br />
Samantha & David Sas<br />
Steven Segal<br />
Judy & Brian Sherman<br />
Murray Treiser<br />
Janice Taylor & Stanley Waldman<br />
Nancy & Jeff Weiner<br />
Gregory M. Wensman<br />
Tevet ~ Shevat 5770 • <strong>January</strong> 2010 • <strong>ChaiLights</strong> Page 5
Religious School Updates<br />
Amy I. W. Horner, M.A., Temple Educator<br />
One of the w onderful parts of being an educator is w atching your students grow. The faculty and I<br />
feel fortunate that as part of the KKBE family, w e see “our” students grow into thoughtful y oung Jew ish<br />
adults. Some of our best students become madrichim (guides or y oung leaders) by serv ing as teaching<br />
assistants in the Religious School. Watching our students become teachers is a special joy!<br />
High school senior Jacob Kupferman is one of our madrichim, both in Hebrew and Religious School<br />
classes, and I am delighted to share this space with him this month. Jacob recently wrote an article for the<br />
Porter-Gaud newspaper w hich I am reprinting here w ith his permission. As y ou will no doubt guess from his<br />
thoughts on teaching, Jacob is quite an asset to our school. I thank him for sharing his time and talents w ith<br />
our school each w eek, and for sharing his perspectiv e with us so beautifully.<br />
-A View from the Other Side<br />
Jacob Kupferman<br />
Being a student for almost all my life, I nev er took much time to think about w hat it must be like to be a teacher. Therefore,<br />
w hen I started as an assistant teacher at Sunday School over tw o y ears ago, the rev ersed role w as quite a surprise. For once, I w as<br />
the one w ho was in charge, but I w as also the one who had more responsibility . As I soon realized, teaching six th grade students<br />
w as not as easy as I had first thought. I’v e learned many things about teachers that I nev er would have realized by just being a<br />
student.<br />
First off, I ex perienced first-hand what it is like to have students try to test your patience. Every day I w ould come into class<br />
and hav e certain students always try to push the limits. Some just w ouldn’t stop talking. Others threw things across the room. I ev en<br />
had one kid w ho thought it’d be fun to craw l around on the floor like a snake until I had to literally pick him up and put him back in his<br />
chair. Sometimes I felt more like I w as babysitting than actually teaching. After all, these kids w ere in six th grade. I’v e often<br />
w ondered if that w ere how I acted w hen I w as that age. If so, I w ish I could go back and apologize to my teachers.<br />
I also quickly realized that keeping class exciting w as difficult. Ev en though I w as not the one writing up the lesson plans for<br />
the students, I could tell that they sometimes found class boring. But how could I make it more exciting? Most of the kids there<br />
probably did not voluntarily want to go to Sunday School. I tried to incorporate some fun, engaging things into the class, like mov ies<br />
or games, but I couldn’t do those things for ev ery class. How ever, I finally realized that if I put on a more positiv e and optimistic<br />
persona, the students w ere more likely to pay attention. If I seemed genuinely interested in w hat I taught, they w ould show more<br />
interest as w ell.<br />
The last thing I learned, and the most influential, is what it feels like to watch a class grow up. I’m not normally an overly<br />
sentimental person, but w hen I came back to teach for the second year, I had a strange feeling w hen I saw my prev ious class more<br />
grow n up than they w ere before. I found myself saying that those were “my kids,” w ho had now moved on to higher grades. I felt<br />
proud to say I helped teach them, and ev en prouder when they remembered me as their prev ious teacher. I felt as if I had actually<br />
done something worthw hile for them. I finally realized w hy so many people are teachers.<br />
Planning a special event? Join us for our first ev er Simcha Fair!<br />
On Sunday , <strong>January</strong> 31, from 12:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m., KKBE w ill host our first Simcha Fair. If y ou have a bar or bat mitzvah,<br />
w edding, graduation or any special celebration in the future, y ou w on’t want to miss this! Vendors from all ov er the Charleston area<br />
w ill be represented, including caterers, v enue representativ es, photographers, ev ent coordinators, florists, DJs... and more. Only<br />
$5.00 admission per person, w hich includes a gift bag and raffle. All proceeds benefit the Religious School.<br />
Know a vendor who might w ant to participate? Hav e him or her contact chairperson Carrie Langsam,<br />
kkbesimcha.fair@gmail.com. Space is limited.<br />
Mitzv ah Project Reminders<br />
Box es for these items are located in the RS hallw ay near the Meddin multipurpose room:<br />
Arielle Berlinsky is collecting recyclable items such as ink and laser cartridges, cell phones, palm pilots, etc. for the benefit of<br />
Animal Rescue and Relief of the Carolinas.<br />
Kirby Glass is collecting worn-out or outgrow n Crocs shoes for return to the company and recycling.<br />
Don’t forget:<br />
Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 3, 2010: Religious School resumes.<br />
Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 10: Camp Coleman Presentation, 9 am, in the Barbara Pearlstine Social Hall<br />
Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 17: No school (MLK w eekend)<br />
Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 31: KKBE Simcha Fair<br />
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Our Temple Youth<br />
Checking in with<br />
The first weekend of Chanukah was crazy busy for CHARLEY members. Not only did the kids prepare latkes for over 150 members<br />
of the congregation, they also participated in the serv ice. That night, they held a mini-Maccabia Color War with competitions as<br />
simple as writing cheers and as complicated as epic sword battles. There w as also a v ery difficult social program on human trafficking.<br />
The kids w atched a few documentaries about modern slavery and held a discussion. At six o'clock the nex t morning, they w ere<br />
w oken by screaming and w ater guns and forced into a small dark room. When they were finally let out, they had to follow the orders<br />
of those w ith the guns. It w as a very ex periential learning process for every one inv olv ed. Very special thanks go to Claudia Strobing<br />
for taking ov er the kitchen, and to Chery l Roberts for helping her to get those latkes out on time. And Erling Roberts is my new hero,<br />
for stay ing all night. Thanks so much Erling!<br />
And so a new year has begun, and CHARLEY will be electing a new board this month. Props go out to our old board for doing<br />
such great work this year. They created meaningful programs and serv ices, brought in new members, and made CHARLEY really<br />
fun to be around. They are:<br />
President: Seth Zimmerman<br />
Programming V.P.: Dael Szuch & Nick Shuler<br />
Religious & Cultural V.P.: Melissa Yelman<br />
Communications V.P.: Samantha Chavin<br />
Social Action V.P.: Samantha Kramer<br />
9th Grade Liason: Elizabeth Lev i<br />
Elections are on <strong>January</strong> 10th after Religious School. If y ou w ant more information about the positions, or w ant to run, let me<br />
know . All y ou hav e to do is give a creativ e speech about w hat you'd like to accomplish. Speeches must be submitted for approval at<br />
our First Sunday Pizza Day on <strong>January</strong> 3rd.<br />
Members of CHARLEY will also be attending NFTY SAR's Winter Kallah. (National Federation of Temple Youth Southern Area<br />
Region) This is the longest of our regional kallot and one of the most fun. Only 9th through 12th graders can attend. Dues must also<br />
be up to date. I'd lov e to hav e ov er 10 kids attend this ev ent.<br />
Stay up to date by going to www.mycharley .com<br />
Remember our motto: Lama Lo?<br />
Not? Why למה לא ?<br />
Robin Shuler<br />
KKBE Youth Adv isor<br />
CHARLEY is open to all KKBE 8th - 12th graders. If you're not a member, why not? And if you know someone who'd like<br />
to be, tell them to contact me - robinshuler@mac.com<br />
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News from our Temple Sisterhood<br />
Happy New Year!! Wow, we can't believe it is 2010!<br />
What a year 2009 was! For starters, we took over as Co-Presidents and we have been<br />
very busy with our Board, planning many fun and informative events. As you all make<br />
your New Year's resolutions, how about making a resolution to come to one of our<br />
events in 2010. If you are not yet a member, it’s never to late to join. As always, you can<br />
be as active as you want, but we are sure that once you come to one of our events you<br />
will be hooked. Our members are warm, caring, kind, giving and love to have fun!<br />
Bonnie and Nadine<br />
To recap, 2009 began with our first annual "Progressive Dinner". It was so successful that we are having it again and we<br />
hope you are planning to attend on Jan 9th. We were all spiritually renewed at our annual Retreat. We had our Sisterhood<br />
Shabbat in May, and our "Paid up Event" in August. We cooked for Crisis Ministries as well as donated needed supplies to<br />
My Sister's House. We had 2 "small group luncheons" which were very well attended. In October our own Jill Conway<br />
spoke about the college admission process, and in December we had the "Cookies and Cosmos" Chanukah cookie swap.<br />
Our only fundraiser, the 59 th Annual Bazaar, was a successful event that combined great company and delicious food! We<br />
want to thank EVERYONE who came out to support this event and EVERYONE who volunteered their time to help. We<br />
couldn't have done it without each and every one of you! All of the funds raised goes to support both the Temple and the<br />
Religious School.<br />
We both attended the URJ/WRJ Biennial in Toronto. We came home feeling very inspired in many ways. This year's theme<br />
was "Sustaining our World". The focus was on faith, peace and "going green". We heard from speakers such as Michael<br />
Oren, the Israeli Ambassador, who spoke of faith and Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish, a Palestinian whose 3 daughters and niece<br />
were killed in Gaza who spoke about peace. Judy Feld Carr came and won an award for single-handedly organizing the<br />
release of over 3000 Syrian Jews between 1977 and 1991. We heard from Rabbis from newly formed WRJ affiliates who<br />
spoke about the difficulties in bringing Reform Judaism to Israel and we watched as 2 U.S. synagogues donated Torah's to<br />
2 "sister synagogues" in Israel. The spiritual workshops were amazing and the musical entertainment was so uplifting,<br />
particularly Sat. evening when entertainers from Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist and Christian faiths all sang together on one<br />
stage! That is what peace is all about! The URJ president, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, summed up the importance of "going green"<br />
both from an environmental and ethical perspective. He encouraged us all to reduce consumption of meat as well as<br />
reduce the use of paper, including limiting paper products at Temple events. This is the time of year that many of you<br />
make resolutions. Let's make some resolutions to help "sustain our world". Let's keep the theme of the biennial and follow<br />
some recommendations suggested by Rabbi Yoffie. As a Sisterhood we will be encouraging less use of paper and more<br />
information sent only by computer. Let's try to carpool to events. Not only does it help our environment, it helps form the<br />
bonds that "Sisterhood" is all about.<br />
Let's make this a great year! Let’s do it together, have fun and keep it green.<br />
Happy New Year!<br />
Bonnie Friedman and Nadine Chavin<br />
KKBE Sisterhood Co-Presidents<br />
kkbewrj@gmail.com<br />
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Upcoming Sisterhood Events:<br />
<strong>January</strong> 9, 2010<br />
<strong>January</strong> 24, 2010<br />
2 nd Annual Progressive Dinner, 6pm, East Cooper<br />
Tri-Sisterhood Meeting at BSBI, 2 pm-4 pm.<br />
The guest speaker is Dr. Ann Kulze, a nationally recognized expert<br />
and motivational speaker in the areas of nutrition, healthy lifestyle<br />
and disease prevention.<br />
<strong>January</strong> 30, 2010 Sisterhood Retreat: Wild Dunes Resort, 10 am-2 pm<br />
Includes a service led by Robin Shuler, lunch, and speaker, Julie Klaper,<br />
multi-media artist who will discuss “A Journey” - series of 22 prints<br />
inspired by her study of Hebrew<br />
February 2, 2010<br />
Matriarch’s Event: 7pm<br />
*Join us for an evening event at the home of Mindelle Ziff.<br />
Speaker: Dr. Loren Frankel, Ob-Gyn who will talk about<br />
bio - identical hormones and other women’s health issues<br />
*It is not too late to upgrade your membership to the Matriarch Level and join us for this event<br />
in honor of our Matriarch Members*<br />
March 4, 2010<br />
March 10, 2010<br />
Small Group Luncheon, speaker TBA<br />
Sisterhood Evening Program<br />
Speaker Jacki Baer ,“Fields to Families”<br />
Please note: Sisterhood is trying to “go green” and will be communicating by email as much as<br />
possible. Please contact us if you have not been receiving emails. Those who do not have email<br />
will receive paper copies of our email communications.<br />
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Notes from the Choir … ♫<br />
Do y ou hav e a fav orite song that y ou hav en’t heard Koleinu sing for a w hile? A traditional oldie but goodie, a<br />
Debbie Friedman song, or one of Toby Singer’s gems? Just e-mail me at kunitzh@netrockets.com and I will<br />
try to work it into one of our upcoming Friday night Shabbat serv ices – I’ll ev en try to let y ou know w hen we’ll<br />
sing it!<br />
Traditional or contemporary, fast or slow, I do try to mix up the ty pes of music that Koleinu sings so that there<br />
w ill be something to appeal to ev ery one w ho is singing and ev eryone who is listening. You may not love<br />
every song, but w e hope that there w ill be at least a few that w ill touch your heart and enhance your worship ex perience.<br />
On the flip side, if you are aw are of some beautiful choral arrangement or unison piece that is just begging to be sung by y our Temple<br />
Choir, please let me know that as well.<br />
Heidi ♫<br />
Heidi Kunitz-Levy<br />
KKBE Music Director<br />
kunitzh@netrockets.com<br />
843-696-0929<br />
Koleinu - It's a Family Affair!<br />
Mazel Tov<br />
To Chuck and Nancy Altschul on the birth of their grand<br />
daughter, Whitney Chamberlain, daughter of Courtney & Mark<br />
Olsen, of Darien, CT along w ith big brother Grady .<br />
Todah Rabah<br />
To KKBE Sisterhood for donating new Torah<br />
cov ers for all six of our scrolls and to Daw n<br />
Berlinsky and the Fine Arts Committee for<br />
facilitating their design and purchase. It has been<br />
more than 11 years since our Torah cov ers hav e<br />
been replaced.<br />
To the Saul Alexander Foundation, for granting<br />
KKBE $2500 to improv e on electronic<br />
communication w ith our marvelous members.<br />
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News from our Brotherhood<br />
The brotherhood is kicking off the 2010 year with great programs! Our first meeting will be held on<br />
<strong>January</strong> 28, 2010 at 6:30 PM in the Social Hall. We will enjoy a speaker, Dr. Fletcher Derrick, who<br />
will talk to us about prostate health. A wonderful dinner will be served as well. The following<br />
month there will be a program on Hypertension by Dr. Perry Halushka.<br />
All of the Brotherhood meetings are casual and are designed for us to share each other's<br />
company and fellowship. We invite all men of KKBE to attend and enjoy.<br />
Sewell Kahn<br />
KKBE Brotherhood President<br />
From Our Lifelong Learning Committee<br />
WHAT IS THE JEWISH VIEW OF GOD?<br />
An old joke says that when two Jews get together there are three opinions. Does this apply even to our ideas about<br />
God? Mark your calendars for Monday evening, <strong>January</strong> 11, 2010 at 7:00 PM when Lifelong Learning will present our<br />
own Rabbi Bob Seigel who will speak on JEWISH VIEWS OF GOD. Begin the New Year on a high note with this<br />
informative and thought provoking evening.<br />
Margaret Seres and Roz Price<br />
Co-Chairs<br />
From Our Docent Coordinator<br />
DOCENT DELIGHTS<br />
“A moving story of the Charleston Jewish<br />
community by an excellent tour guide.”<br />
So wrote one visitor to our historic Temple. They could be<br />
referring to YOU!<br />
We are looking for volunteers to help our current group of docents, be it once a week or once a month. You will be given<br />
materials and will be trained. And then begins the best part: representing our Temple and basking in the kudos from our<br />
guests. Just read the sign- in book in the lobby and you will know why we have so many long-time docents.<br />
If you would like to know more or have any questions, please contact me.<br />
Linda Bergman<br />
856-7422<br />
Mrsrabab18@bellsouth.net<br />
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<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> ~ <strong>January</strong> 2009<br />
Sunday<br />
Monday<br />
Tuesday<br />
Wednesday<br />
Thursday<br />
Friday<br />
Saturday<br />
December 27<br />
No Hebrew or<br />
Religious School<br />
3<br />
9:00am Hebrew<br />
School<br />
10:30am Religious<br />
School<br />
10<br />
9:00am Hebrew<br />
School<br />
Camp Coleman<br />
Presentation<br />
10:30am<br />
Religious School<br />
4:00pm<br />
MLK Memorial<br />
Gathering (KKBE)<br />
28<br />
12:30pm<br />
Quilting<br />
Chavurah<br />
29 30 31 <strong>January</strong> 1<br />
New Year's Day<br />
Office Closed<br />
Gift Shop Closed<br />
7pm<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
4 5 6<br />
11<br />
12:30pm<br />
Quilting<br />
Chavurah<br />
7:00pm<br />
LLL Program<br />
Rabbi Seigel's<br />
Presentation<br />
12<br />
7:00pm<br />
Religious School<br />
Com. Mtg.<br />
1:00pm<br />
Film & Literature<br />
Chavurah<br />
5:15pm<br />
Shula in Sanctuary<br />
5:30pm<br />
Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />
5:45pm<br />
Confirmation Class<br />
7:00pm<br />
Jewish Choral Society<br />
Rehearsal<br />
13<br />
5:30pm<br />
Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />
Lessons<br />
Mitzvah Day Com<br />
Mtg. (Meddin Rm)<br />
5:45pm<br />
Confirmation Class<br />
6pm<br />
Sisterhood Board Mtg.<br />
7<br />
11:30am<br />
Let's Study<br />
Torah!<br />
6:30pm<br />
Koleinu<br />
Rehearsal<br />
14 15<br />
8<br />
6:30pm<br />
New Member<br />
Shabbat Dinner<br />
8:00pm<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
5:45pm/7:00pm<br />
East Cooper<br />
Shabbat Dinner/<br />
Service<br />
8:00pm<br />
Downtown<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
2<br />
11:00am<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
9<br />
10:00am<br />
Tot Shabbat<br />
11:00am<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
6:00pm<br />
Sisterhood<br />
Progressive<br />
Dinner<br />
(Off Campus)<br />
16<br />
11:00am<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
17<br />
No Hebrew or<br />
Religious School<br />
18<br />
Martin Luther<br />
King, Jr. Holiday<br />
Gift Shop Open<br />
19<br />
6:00pm<br />
Executive Com.<br />
Mtg.<br />
7:00pm<br />
Board of Trustees<br />
Mtg.<br />
20<br />
5:15pm<br />
Shula in Sanctuary<br />
5:30pm<br />
Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />
5:45pm<br />
Confirmation Class<br />
21<br />
11:30am<br />
Let's Study<br />
Torah!<br />
6:30pm<br />
Koleinu<br />
Rehearsal<br />
22<br />
8:00pm<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
B-days &<br />
Anniversaries<br />
23<br />
11:00am<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
Elliot Kronsberg<br />
Bar Mitzvah<br />
24<br />
9:00am Hebrew<br />
School<br />
10:30am<br />
Religious School<br />
2:00pm<br />
Tri Sisterhood Mtg<br />
(BSBI)<br />
25 26 27<br />
5:15pm<br />
Shula in Sanctuary<br />
5:30pm<br />
Robin Shuler:Guitar<br />
5:45pm<br />
Confirmation Class<br />
28<br />
6:30pm<br />
Brotherhood<br />
Mtg.<br />
29<br />
6:30pm<br />
Tu B'shvat Seder<br />
and dinner<br />
8:00pm<br />
Shabbat Service<br />
30 Tu B'Shvat<br />
10:00am<br />
Sisterhood<br />
Retreat<br />
11:00am<br />
Shabbat<br />
Service<br />
31<br />
9am Hebrew School<br />
10:30am<br />
Religious School<br />
12-3pm<br />
Simcha Fair<br />
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1 Herbert Berlinsky<br />
Seth Kupferman<br />
Sheila Litwin-Michaelis<br />
Sidney Silver<br />
2 Marla Loftus<br />
Samara Rogers<br />
3 Kevin Archer<br />
Amy Davis<br />
Tara Hubara<br />
4 Zachary Serrins<br />
6 Peter Herman<br />
Marvin Kramer<br />
Lehan Marcus<br />
7 Neal Baker<br />
James Ball, Jr.<br />
Tamar BenArdout<br />
Joan Brown<br />
Rachel Chapman<br />
Joseph Shepanek<br />
8 Wendy Burkhardt<br />
9 Amy Bozarth<br />
Joel Crook<br />
Amy Gordon<br />
Marc Kelley<br />
Ashlyn Kievit<br />
William Kronsberg<br />
10 Lillian Alterman<br />
Benjamin Cohn<br />
Randi Serrins<br />
11 Michelle Rovner<br />
John Stapleton<br />
12 Martin Klaper<br />
13 Zack Gorstein<br />
Mark Green<br />
Devin Meyers<br />
Jane Meyerson<br />
<strong>January</strong> Birthdays<br />
15 Julie Klaper<br />
Halle Lipov<br />
Mikhail Smolkin<br />
16 Geoff Goldsmith<br />
Ian Rastogi<br />
Steven Zimmerman<br />
17 Dennis Christensen<br />
Jane Hirsch<br />
18 Patricia Ellison<br />
Brendon Frankel<br />
Ellis Kahn<br />
Joseph Mendelsohn<br />
Roz Price<br />
Judith Vane<br />
19 Anita Zucker<br />
20 Leonard K rawcheck<br />
Stephanie Schwatz<br />
Lily Rothkopf<br />
20 Bella Wallace<br />
Loren Ziff<br />
21 Mark Adelson<br />
Deirdre Goldbogen<br />
21 Joseph Goldstein<br />
Robert Miller<br />
Carol Mysel<br />
22 Hilary Easley<br />
Lauren Ellison<br />
Ed Litos<br />
Claire Nussbaum<br />
Marlene Denemark<br />
23 Judith Farley<br />
24 Debbie Sistino<br />
24 Spenser Staub<br />
25 Robert B rown<br />
26 Brad Grossman<br />
27 Emily Abedon<br />
Gary Diener<br />
28 Daniel Maniscalco<br />
Mindelle Ziff<br />
29 Jason Basile<br />
Stephen Berman<br />
Henry Levin<br />
30 Scott Becker<br />
Anna Leff<br />
31 William Golde<br />
Pam Snyder<br />
7 Max ine & Henry Freudenberg<br />
Evelyn & Charles Perry<br />
8 Elizabeth Meyers & John Sullivan<br />
10 Jerri Chaplin & Peter Herman<br />
14 Jaclyn & Herbert Berlinsky<br />
15 Patricia & Paul Sykes<br />
16 Andrea & Sal Parco<br />
19 Rella & Alan Eysen<br />
Maryann & Howard Snyder<br />
Julie & Stephen Ziff<br />
<strong>January</strong> Anniversaries<br />
20 Diana & Jerry Cohen<br />
Judy & Martin Markowitz<br />
Barbara & Gordan Stine<br />
21 Gloria & Thomas Kern<br />
25 Steph & Bill Quick<br />
26 Ann & Bernard Warshaw<br />
27 Doris & Roy Meyers<br />
28 Rebecca & Scott Burke<br />
29 Teri & Meredith Berlinsky<br />
Week of December 27th – <strong>January</strong> 2nd<br />
Nathan Bass<br />
Aaron Ben Moshe<br />
Ruth Livingston Elias<br />
Raphael Elmaleh<br />
Betty Finkel<br />
Leon Forman<br />
Walter Freudenberg<br />
Nancee Goldsmith<br />
Harry Heyman<br />
Karen Johnson<br />
Henry Kratzok<br />
Sidney Levy<br />
Rosamond Lieb<br />
Isadore Mendelson<br />
Ruth P. Nathan<br />
Josephine Needle<br />
Joan Nelson<br />
Karolina Ostrower<br />
Mary Schechter<br />
Julius Schneider<br />
Joseph Sokol<br />
Mary Sprung<br />
Week of <strong>January</strong> 3rd – <strong>January</strong> 9th<br />
Murray Abrams<br />
Aaron Abramson<br />
Bernard Ozias Antman<br />
Marcus Barshay<br />
Leon C. Benardot<br />
Samuel Berkowitz<br />
Melvin Blechman<br />
Marvin Breen<br />
I. Favel Chavin<br />
Benjamin E. Cohen<br />
Cecilia B. Cohen<br />
Thelma Dansky<br />
Lillian Fisher<br />
Arthur C. Furchgott<br />
Myron Gins<br />
Sylvia Goldman<br />
Estelle Greenhill<br />
Ann Grossner<br />
Jack Lieb<br />
Mary P. Hornik<br />
Jan Karesh<br />
Pearl Kaufman<br />
S. David Kaufman<br />
A. Leon Kohlreiter<br />
Samuel Korn<br />
Freddie Kronsberg<br />
James Lambert<br />
David Langer<br />
Arthur Lasovick<br />
Paul Lipnick<br />
Esther Miller<br />
Bertha R. Needle<br />
Esther Planer<br />
Henry H. Schall<br />
Rose Shilepsky<br />
Morris Silverman<br />
Bessie Stacey<br />
David Stadler<br />
Edith Tennis<br />
Melvin Wine<br />
זכור<br />
Edward Aberman<br />
George S. Bogin<br />
Maurice Brown<br />
Bernard M. Bux baum<br />
Ben Cohen<br />
Benjamin Culp<br />
F. Bartow Culp<br />
Raphael Elias<br />
Fanny Feingold<br />
Joseph Geller<br />
Leon Gelson<br />
Sarah Goldberg<br />
Myrtle Goldsmith<br />
Rosalia B. Hart<br />
Samuel Jacobs<br />
Pearl Kasen<br />
Philip Kasen<br />
Ella Kaufman<br />
Leonard Kupferman<br />
<strong>January</strong> Yahrzeits<br />
Week of <strong>January</strong> 10th – <strong>January</strong> 16th<br />
Blanche Landesman<br />
Joseph Levy<br />
Samuel Moskowitz<br />
Minnie S. Nathan<br />
Rabbi Jacob Raisin<br />
Daniel T. Read, Jr.<br />
Marcia Rosenthall<br />
Betty Schindler<br />
Stanley Seidman<br />
Ann Lipman Seigel<br />
Judith Shapiro<br />
Aaron Kalman Silver<br />
Helen Schneider Silver<br />
Stanley Stern<br />
James G. Tuttle<br />
Seymor Weiss<br />
Bertha Wiener<br />
Gregory Wolfenzon<br />
Harry Zoller<br />
Week of <strong>January</strong> 17th - <strong>January</strong> 23rd<br />
Rose Louise Aronson<br />
Herbert Bass<br />
Rena Silverman Brown<br />
Albert Burke<br />
Netty Chaplin<br />
Leon Cohen<br />
Isidore Denemark<br />
Anne Brown Devine<br />
Seymour Dubin<br />
Clara Fitzpatrick<br />
Esthyr Flanagan<br />
Murray Garber<br />
Samuel Golubow<br />
Elaine Green<br />
Marion H. Heyman<br />
Sarah Hirschmann<br />
Simon Larach<br />
Louise Marcus<br />
Lillian Mendelson<br />
Abraham Monene<br />
Martin Niess<br />
Rose Parzen<br />
Irving Price<br />
Aaron S. Raisin<br />
Irving Richek<br />
Rose Rittenberg<br />
Herman Saltzman<br />
Rebecca Sauer<br />
Aaron Silver<br />
Sarah Silver<br />
Jason C. Strauss<br />
Lowell H. Sugarman<br />
James Wallace, Jr.<br />
Clara G. Warshauer<br />
Sadie Well<br />
Joe Weiss<br />
Charles Wiener<br />
Annette Wildhorn<br />
Irving Wildhorn<br />
Mildred Wine<br />
Week of <strong>January</strong> 24th - <strong>January</strong> 30th<br />
Robert Ashton<br />
Mary Behar<br />
Herman R. Berkman<br />
Stanley Bloch<br />
Samuel C. Brown, Sr.<br />
Frances Bush<br />
Esta Chaplin<br />
Evelyn Faunce<br />
Nettie Franzblau<br />
Ruth H. Gordon<br />
Maurice Greenhill<br />
Eric Michael Hardy<br />
Robert 'Pepper' Hyatt<br />
John Johnson<br />
Samuel Katzoff<br />
Tillye King<br />
Charlotte Laken<br />
Solomon Brown Alch<br />
Clement Alfred<br />
Leo Archambault<br />
Minnie M. Banov<br />
Jack Behar<br />
Maurice Berle<br />
Lizzie M. Brown<br />
Walter Corens<br />
Helen Fiedler<br />
Barnett Gabriel<br />
Harry Goldmintz<br />
Rose K. Jackson<br />
Cleo Lambert<br />
Irving Liebowitz<br />
Ruth Z. Mandel<br />
Norman Newman<br />
Sophye P. Olasov<br />
Hyman Pearlstine<br />
Rosanne Post Mervis<br />
Sylvia Schwartz<br />
Diana Seres<br />
Rosalind Shack<br />
Helen Stone<br />
Joseph Tigler<br />
Carol Tobakos<br />
Irene Turbow<br />
Minnie Weinberger<br />
Rita Sussman Weinstein<br />
Gustaf Zeitlin<br />
Week of <strong>January</strong> 31st - February 6th<br />
Rose Goldstein Katzoff<br />
Joseph Kurtzman<br />
Sally Lipnick<br />
Cecile Mayer Pearlstine<br />
Hildegarde Ringel<br />
Sophia Bregman<br />
Shirley Siegel<br />
Dr. Philip L. Staub<br />
Adele Sukin<br />
Edith Tanzer<br />
Celia Wasserman<br />
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Coming up at KKBE From Our VP of Programming<br />
Forging Friendships<br />
at our Special Events<br />
Happy New Year! Well, it’s only been seven months and I think I’m getting the hang of this<br />
position. Working with our Staff and Board is enlightening. It’s amazing how our shared deep<br />
commitment to KKBE serves as the foundation to maintaining good relationships and always<br />
doing what’s best for you!<br />
When it was suggested that I write for Chai Lights I began to think (oh no, she’s thinking!) about the value of our<br />
programming. Then my mind quickly shifted to my closest friends in Charleston – I met almost all of them through my<br />
KKBE friends or because of my affiliation with KKBE. It’s so comforting knowing that when I go to services, attend a<br />
congregational dinner or special event I see people I know and meet new people with whom I already share a deep rooted<br />
belief, Just like an old friend.<br />
What’s Going On?<br />
<strong>January</strong> 29: Tu B’shvat Seder and Service<br />
A delightful way to experience a special seder in honor of the Jewish New Year for Trees! Our seder plates include many<br />
goodies grown on trees and is followed by a lovely dinner. The dinner is $15/person and $18 for guests. You can reserve<br />
a seat by sending an RSVP to MHaspel@kkbe.org and send your check or pay online through our website by<br />
<strong>January</strong> 15th.<br />
February 5-7: KKBE’s Shabbaton!<br />
Get ready to have some fun with our theme, the 10 Commandments! We’ll start with an entertaining “getting to know you”<br />
program, congregational dinner and service, then set up your tent for the night or 2 nights! Day 2 includes breakfast, Torah<br />
study, an array of traditional and creative services, lunch, projects and an evening Havdalah service. Sunday morning we<br />
have breakfast, Hebrew students go to class and everyone else prepares for a group service and presentation (to all<br />
religious school students) from our weekend. You can sign up on the attached form by <strong>January</strong> 25 th !<br />
February 23: Tri-Congregational Concert<br />
Hosted by BSBI and planned by all three congregations, please join us for a memorable concert with Piano Quartets. This<br />
ensemble features well known artists who will play some of your favorite music by Johannes Brahms, Gabriel Faure, Ernst<br />
Bloch and others. More information to come!<br />
February 26: Purim!<br />
A Murder Mystery Dinner and adult party is being planned for this special Purim celebration. Following the service (ages<br />
12 and older please, the children’s costume service is Saturday morning, Feb. 27) you’ll be ushered to your table for a<br />
fascinating dinner. After dinner, adults only for dancing and good cheer!<br />
(Our plan includes a taxi service standing by.)<br />
Care to help?<br />
We have wonderful teams of volunteers who would love to share the fun of making these events possible. The way we<br />
work is a lot of people doing a little! So don’t worry about volunteering; we want you to have fun.<br />
Shoshanna Szuch<br />
VP Programming<br />
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RETREAT REGISTRATION<br />
FEBRUARY 5-7, 2010<br />
at our own spiritual home, KKBE<br />
Parent Name(s)____________________________________<br />
Attending: Adults____ Children _________<br />
$36/person; under 3 Free; Registration & Payments due by <strong>January</strong> 25 th<br />
Enclosed $ ______________<br />
Children’s Names & Ages ______________________________________________________________________<br />
Email____________________________ Tel. _____________________ Cell Phone ___________________<br />
Friday, February 5 th<br />
How many Attending<br />
Adults Children/Ages<br />
5:30 p.m. Check-In ___________ ___________<br />
6:30 p.m. Congregational Dinner ___________ ___________<br />
Camp out Sleep Over ___________ ___________<br />
Saturday, February 6 th<br />
9:00 a.m. Breakfast ___________ ___________<br />
10:00 a.m. Torah Study ___________ ___________<br />
11:00 a.m. Service: Healing ___________ ___________<br />
CHARLEY ___________ ___________<br />
Meditation ___________ ___________<br />
Traditional ___________ ___________<br />
Yoga ___________ ___________<br />
12:30 p.m. Lunch ___________ ___________<br />
1:30 p.m. Inside Project ___________ ___________<br />
Outside Project (bring camera) ___________ ___________<br />
(5-8 p.m. break - on own for dinner)<br />
Havdalah (outdoors) ___________ ___________<br />
Camp Out/Sleep Over ___________ ___________<br />
Sunday, Feb. 7 th<br />
8:00 a.m. Breakfast ___________ ___________<br />
(Hebrew students go to class; others stay and finish projects; group service & presentation at 10:30 a.m. for all<br />
students; finish with evaluations of retreat.)<br />
Space is Limited. Please send Registration & Fees to: Shabbaton, KKBE, 90 Hasell St. 29401 – DUE BY JANUARY 25 th<br />
Questions? Contact Marylyn Haspel, mhaspel@kkbe.org, 723-1090, or Shoshanna Szuch, sho@homesc.com,<br />
971-7875.<br />
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A few moments from our<br />
Congregational Chanukah Dinner and<br />
Service<br />
A Happy, Yummy and Inspiring<br />
Evening!!<br />
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You’re Invited<br />
Please join us in celebrating the<br />
Bar Mitzvah of our son<br />
Elliot Laro Kronsberg<br />
<strong>January</strong> 23, 2010 at 11:00 am<br />
Friday, <strong>January</strong> 15th, 2010<br />
At All Saints Lutheran Church<br />
Please bring a side dish,<br />
your family and friends!<br />
Dinner at 5:45 pm<br />
Service at 7:00 pm<br />
RSVP by <strong>January</strong> 11, 2010<br />
to the Temple Office 723-1090<br />
Email: mhaspel@kkbe.org<br />
All Saints Lutheran Church is located at<br />
2107 Highway 17 N<br />
In Mt. Pleasant, just North of the IOP Connector<br />
Elliot is a seventh grade honor student at Charleston Day School.<br />
He is the older brother of Zachary and William. Elliot is a gentle<br />
soul who enjoys hanging out with his buddies, fishing, sailing, and<br />
discussing any subject or issue. Elliot is a member of the<br />
Odyssey of the Mind Club at school and is the music and movie<br />
critic for the school paper. He plays the guitar and loves<br />
researching and exploring different genres of music. For his<br />
mitzvah project, Elliot collected gently used ipods and created a<br />
music library for the teenagers at the MUSC Children's Hospital.<br />
Amy and Edward Kronsberg<br />
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KKBE Donation Opportunities<br />
Synagogue Operations<br />
Archiv es/Museum Fund<br />
Building Maintenance Fund<br />
Capital Campaign Fund<br />
Coming Street Cemetery Fund<br />
General Fund<br />
Harold & Lillian Jacobs<br />
Mitzv ah Membership Fund<br />
Huguenin Cemetery Fund<br />
Hospitality Fund<br />
Goodstein Garden Fund<br />
Marian Birlant Slotin<br />
Bereav ement Fund<br />
Mildred Bernstein Kitchen Fund<br />
Organ Restoration Fund<br />
Sanctuary Restoration Fund<br />
Walkway of Life ($220)<br />
Zbar Dues Assistance Fund<br />
Library<br />
Morton Patla Library Fund<br />
Spirituality<br />
Addie & Miriam Triest Floral Fund<br />
Community Tzedakah Fund<br />
Music Fund<br />
Kurtzman Confirmation Award<br />
Fund<br />
Hellman Family Fund<br />
Outreach Fund<br />
Pray er Book Fund<br />
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />
Rosenthall Scholarship Fund<br />
Sugarman Kiddush Fund<br />
Tarshish Lecture Fund<br />
Youth<br />
Bess Rosen & Paul Rosen<br />
Camp Fund<br />
Johnny Hornik Memorial Fund<br />
Isadore & Irma Kramer Fund<br />
Rabbi Edward Cohn Youth Fund<br />
Temple Youth Fund<br />
Religious School Fund<br />
Honoree : _____________________________________________<br />
in memory of in honor of for the speedy recovery of<br />
Birthday Anniversary<br />
Fund: _______________________________Amount: __________<br />
Please send an acknowledgement to:<br />
Name: _________________________________________________<br />
Address: _______________________________________________<br />
City/State/Zip: ___________________________________________<br />
For Written Acknowledgement Card or Using Credit Card<br />
a minimum $18.00 Donation is needed.<br />
All Donations will be Published in <strong>ChaiLights</strong><br />
Harold & Lillian Jacobs<br />
Mitzvah Membership<br />
Program<br />
We extend our deepest<br />
appreciation to our Mitzvah<br />
Members for their additional financial<br />
commitment to KKBE. Their enhanced dues enable<br />
us to help members who need assistance with<br />
dues or religious school tuition. We hope you will<br />
consider joining them.<br />
Circle of All Generations<br />
Kenneth & Nadine Chavin<br />
Larry & Jan Lipov<br />
Allan & Carol Mysel<br />
Circle of Vision<br />
Edwin Pearlstine, Jr.<br />
Circle of Understanding<br />
Peter Dubin &<br />
Debarah Wallace<br />
Henry &<br />
Maxine Freudenberg<br />
Ronald & Lucy Scheman<br />
Margaret Seres<br />
Robert & Deborah Turkewitz<br />
Circle of Light<br />
Jack & Florence Kurtz<br />
Circle of Spirit<br />
Mark & Judith Green<br />
Robert & Lisa Silvers<br />
Steven & Cindy Zimmerman<br />
Donor’s Name<br />
Street Address<br />
City, State ZIP<br />
Telephone<br />
Please charge my credit card in the amount of<br />
$ ______<br />
Card Number<br />
Expiration Date<br />
Signature<br />
Three (3) digit<br />
security code<br />
Ty pe of Card<br />
□ MC<br />
□ Visa<br />
David Bachman<br />
& Marjorie Rath<br />
Jan & Jo Ellen Basile<br />
Neil & Deborah Fisher<br />
Robert & <strong>Beth</strong> Goldstein<br />
Ken & Marion Goodman<br />
Max & Ann Hellman<br />
Ed Herschaft<br />
Chuck & Marty Jackson<br />
William & Chris Olasov<br />
Michelle & Eric Rovner<br />
Jeffrey & <strong>Beth</strong> Buncher<br />
Ira & Anita Rosenberg<br />
Circle of Hope<br />
Phil Saul & Amy Davis<br />
Rich & Randi Serrins<br />
David Shatz<br />
Richard & Dunlap Silver<br />
Joseph & Debbie Sistino<br />
Lois Sugarman<br />
Patricia Sykes<br />
Edward & Diane Tichi<br />
Dorothy Toporek<br />
Murray Treiser<br />
Skippy & Dana Weil<br />
Martin & Shelley Yonas<br />
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Building Fund<br />
Rich and Gloria Lapin:<br />
in memory of Sol Breibart<br />
Charlotte & Charles Zaglin:<br />
in memory of Sol Zaglin<br />
Capital Campaign Fund<br />
Dolly & David Jaffee:<br />
in honor of the Anniversary of Maury and Joyce Finkelstein<br />
in memory of Abe Finkel<br />
in honor of the anniversary of Ken and Nadine Chavin<br />
in honor of the anniversary of Rabbi Tony and Judy Holz<br />
in memory of Sol Breibart<br />
Harold & Evie Lenoff:<br />
in memory of Louis Lenoff<br />
Norman & Eve Berlinsky:<br />
for Sheran Rittenberg's speedy recovery<br />
in appreciation of Jean Wolf for all she does<br />
Cemetery Fund<br />
Joe & Rhetta Mendelsohn:<br />
in memory of Sol Breibart<br />
Robert & Lisa Silvers:<br />
in memory of Sylvia Silvers<br />
Community Tzedakah Fund<br />
Steven & LuAnn Rosenzweig:<br />
in honor of both their Birthdays<br />
General Fund<br />
Harry & Delphine Barnett:<br />
in memory of Clifford Tillman, M.D.<br />
Rabbi Abner & Linda Bergman:<br />
in memory of Kenneth Albert<br />
Barry & Flo Breibart:<br />
in memory of Sol Breibart<br />
Barbara & William Green:<br />
in memory of Mary Schechter<br />
Linda & Donald Horowitz:<br />
in honor of Fredye Glass<br />
Eric & Peggy Krawcheck:<br />
in honor of the marriage of Marlene and Bennett Denemark<br />
in memory of Avram Kronsberg<br />
Paul & Penny Levy:<br />
in memory of Milton Green<br />
Bobbie and Ed Litos:<br />
in memory of Mr. Samuel Brody and Mrs. Sally Brody<br />
Roy & Doris Meyers:<br />
in memory of Sadie Wolf<br />
Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />
for a speedy recovery of Bari and Eric Heiden<br />
in memory of Grandma Tillye<br />
Goodstein Garden Upkeep Fund<br />
Dolly & David Jaffee:<br />
for the speedy recovery of Rabbi Tony Holz<br />
in memory of Betty Finkel<br />
Your Generous Donations<br />
We Gratefully Acknowledge the Following Contributions for November 16 th thru December 15 th :<br />
Harold & Lillian Jacobs Mitzvah Membership Fund<br />
Allan & Carol Mysel:<br />
in honor of Marlene Weitz & Bennett Denemark's marriage<br />
Miriam Wilchanovsky:<br />
in me mory of Vladimir Wilchanovsky<br />
Hospitality Fund<br />
Tamar BenArdout:<br />
in honor of KKBE’s wonderful volunteers<br />
Floy Work:<br />
in honor of KKBE's dedicated volunteers<br />
Marian Birlant Slotin Bereavement Fund<br />
Harry & Delphine Barnett:<br />
in memory of Clifford Tillman, M.D.<br />
Lucia Horowitz:<br />
in memory of Meyer H. Horowitz<br />
Mildred Bernstein Kitchen Fund<br />
Charles & Frieda Bernstein:<br />
in memory of Manning A. Bernstein<br />
in honor of Ed Tichi's Birthday<br />
in honor of Heidi Kunitz's Birthday<br />
in honor of Stu & Sarah Blum's Anniversary<br />
in memory of Bert Gosschalk<br />
Kenneth & Nadine Chavin:<br />
for the volunteers at the 59th Sisterhood Bazaar<br />
in honor of Emily Kahn's Bat Mitzvah<br />
in memory of Rick Ett's Uncle Seymour Ett<br />
Lucia Horowitz:<br />
in memory of Pearl Rita Horowitz<br />
Margaret Seres:<br />
for a speedy recovery of Frieda Bernstein<br />
Morton Patla Library Fund<br />
Margaret Seres:<br />
in memory of Diana Seres<br />
Music Fund<br />
Charlotte Libater:<br />
in memory of Eleanor Mae Portugal<br />
Jan Pomerantz:<br />
in memory of Howard Pomerantz<br />
Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />
in celebration of Steve Zimmerman's Birthday<br />
Outreach Fund<br />
Alan & Binky Cohen:<br />
in memory of Joseph D. Read<br />
Robert & Lisa Silvers:<br />
for a speedy recovery for Lori Elkman Collins<br />
Rabbi's Discretionary Fund<br />
Jack Bass:<br />
in memory of Nathan Bass<br />
Diana & Gerald Cohen:<br />
the re-dedication of the Seabrook Island Memorial Garden<br />
Barbara S. Cohn:<br />
in honor of the marriage of Dara Holz and Ofir Yungman<br />
Henry & Maxine Freudenberg:<br />
for the speedy recovery of Rabbi Holz<br />
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Guy & Judy Gi mson:<br />
the re-dedication of the Seabrook Island Memorial Garden<br />
Allan & Carol Mysel:<br />
Congrats to Judy and Tony Holz for their daughter's marriage<br />
Richard & Randi Serrins:<br />
for a speedy recovery of Rabbi Holz<br />
Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />
in celebration of Tamar BenArdout's Birthday<br />
Religious School Fund<br />
Eric & Michelle Rovner:<br />
in honor of Patricia Sykes<br />
in memory of Martha Diskin<br />
Richard & Randi Serrins:<br />
for Dr. Ken Chavin's kindness and friendship<br />
Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />
in celebration of Ian Rastogi's Birthday<br />
in celebration of Joshua Stephenson's Birthday<br />
in celebration of Tara Hubara's Birthday<br />
in honor of Elliot Kronsberg becoming a Bar Mitzvah<br />
Rosenthall Scholarship Fund<br />
Donald Reavis & Josine Gosschalk-Reavis:<br />
in honor of Dara Holz and Ofir Yungman's wedding<br />
Sugarman Kiddush Fund<br />
Ruth Goldsmith:<br />
in memory of Stanley and Abraham Poley<br />
Lois Sugarman:<br />
for a speedy recovery of Jane Norris<br />
in memory of Alan Levit<br />
Temple Youth Fund<br />
Vivian Friedman:<br />
in honor of Sadie Fox<br />
Murray & Debby Passo:<br />
in honor of Michelle Passo and Andy Adams engagement<br />
Robin & Gil Shuler:<br />
in appreciation of the outgoing Board of CHARLEY:<br />
in honor of the incoming Board of CHARLEY<br />
Message from Rabbi Holz<br />
Heartfelt thanks to all for your kind cards, notes, phone calls, and support to Judy and me during my recent<br />
medical procedure and recovery. Best wishes for a happy and healthy 2010.<br />
Rabbi Anthony D. Holz<br />
Heartfelt condolences to Linda Bergman and her children on the passing of Rabbi Abner Bergman.<br />
We will miss him.<br />
May his memory be a blessing.<br />
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Looking for a business or service?<br />
PLEASE check the<br />
Blue Book Directory Index<br />
And choose from the businesses<br />
who supported the Blue Book.<br />
Thank you.<br />
Got Space?? If you are planning a<br />
function, a meeting, or party, why not use<br />
the Temple? We have lots of options<br />
available at reasonable prices in a prime<br />
location.<br />
Please remember to link your Harris Teeter<br />
VIC card to our School Code 3351. Each<br />
time you make a purchase of Harris Teeter<br />
brand items using your VIC card you will<br />
help generate additional funds for our<br />
Religious School.<br />
The program is in effect from August<br />
through May. Please remember to re-link<br />
your card for the new school year.<br />
Want more information? Please contact<br />
the Temple office at 723.1090 or<br />
tamar@kkbe.org<br />
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Locally Owned & Operated…<br />
Staffing the Lowcountry for 15 years<br />
*Temporary, Temp to Hire and Direct Placement<br />
*Clerical, Light Industrial and More!<br />
ALSO…<br />
Now Serving Charleston<br />
A Division of Innovative Partners<br />
Providing the Best Hospitality Staff<br />
In Charleston<br />
843-744-0404<br />
Gift Shop<br />
Volunteers Needed<br />
Chosen Treasures is seeking volunteer sales staff.<br />
Please donate just 3 hours a week to this<br />
important fundraising effort. The bulk of the<br />
funds raised through Chosen Treasures is<br />
returned directly to KKBE.<br />
Sign up for an Oneg<br />
Have you made a New Year's Resolution to<br />
host an Oneg this year? It's never too early to<br />
reserve your date. Don't assume that your<br />
date will be available. Contact me now to<br />
make sure you have the date you want to<br />
honor a loved one, celebrate a birthday or<br />
anniversary or fit into your busy schedule.<br />
Email Tim Carle at truckletim@bellsouth.net .<br />
Thank you for supporting our community's<br />
desire to mingle, schmooze and nosh<br />
together… at least once a week!<br />
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J. Henry Stuhr, Inc.<br />
Funeral Chapels & Crematory<br />
Downtown • Mt. Pleasant<br />
West Ashley • North Area • Northwoods<br />
(843) 723-2524<br />
www.jhenrystuhr.com<br />
250 Seven Farms Dr ive Suite C<br />
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90 Hasell Street, Charleston, SC 29401<br />
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Interested in<br />
Advertising in<br />
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Eighth, Quarter, Half<br />
and Full Page<br />
Ads Available<br />
Call Liz at KKBE<br />
for Details<br />
843-723-1090