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<strong>October</strong><br />

Shabbat Worship Schedule<br />

BABYSITTING BEGINS 15 MINUTES<br />

BEFORE 7:00 PM SERVICES<br />

<strong>October</strong> 5th & 6th<br />

Shabbat Sukkot<br />

Congregational Dinner 5:45 pm<br />

Friday: First Friday Shabbat Serv ice 7 pm<br />

Saturday: Shabbat Serv ice 10 am<br />

Bat Mitzvah of Juliana Strobing<br />

<strong>October</strong> 12th & 13th<br />

Shabbat B’reishit<br />

Friday: East Cooper Shabbat Service 7 pm<br />

Dow ntow n Shabbat Service 8 pm<br />

Saturday: Shabbat Serv ice 10 am<br />

Led by : Larry Libater<br />

Tot Shabbat 10 am<br />

Led by : Rabbi Stephanie M. Alexander<br />

Torah Study 11:15 pm<br />

<strong>October</strong> 19th & 20th<br />

Shabbat Noach<br />

Friday:Shabbat Service 8 pm<br />

Saturday: Shabbat Service 10 am<br />

<strong>October</strong> 26th & 27th<br />

Shabbat L’cha<br />

Friday: Shabbat Serv ice 8 pm<br />

Celebrating Birthday & Anniversaries<br />

Saturday: Shabbat Serv ice 10 am<br />

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Index of Articles<br />

Rabbi ……………………..……….....Pg 1<br />

Temple President ……………....…..Pg 3<br />

Temple Educator…………..……..…Pg 4<br />

Executive Director………......…..…..Pg 5<br />

Sisterhood………………...….…..…..Pg 6<br />

Donations…………………..…Pg 12 & 13<br />

C h a i L i g h t s<br />

Rabbi's Message<br />

Volume 14 Number 10 — Tishri 5773 ~ Cheshvan — <strong>October</strong> 2012<br />

As we roll into <strong>October</strong>—having welcomed 5773, still savoring Yom<br />

Kippur's gift of a spiritual clean slate—may we carry the energy and<br />

inspiration of our communal celebrations into the New Year.<br />

One of the great blessings to already come our way is a growth in our<br />

membership. KKBE is now well over 500 households strong! (I feel like<br />

balloons and confetti should rain down from the ceiling when we say<br />

that.) Yet that is merely a number. Our real strength comes when each<br />

of our households feels connected and tied to the others.<br />

When we gather for Shabbat evening dinners at the congregation, and<br />

when we join in Motzi (the blessing over bread) on Shabbat mornings, it has become our custom to<br />

mimic the braided loaf of challah by holding hands—and elbows, and shoulders—until we too are all<br />

"braided" together, symbolizing the kind of community we hope to be.<br />

Toward that end, these are the efforts that must guide us all year long:<br />

-Helping those who join our KKBE family to feel at home and comfortable participating in<br />

our Reform practices, worshipping in our sanctuary, joining in educational opportunities,<br />

becoming engaged leaders.<br />

-Recognizing that—with each new member, each new family—we are no longer the<br />

same KKBE. We have new talents, interests and resources in our community that we<br />

must get to know, as well.<br />

-Remembering that being a "welcoming congregation" comes, not from a one time warm<br />

welcome, but from an ongoing, nurturing embrace.<br />

The Union for Reform Judaism describes three areas of focus with respect to congregational<br />

membership: Recruitment, Integration, and Retention. So, while our 500+ membership number<br />

reflects well upon the first area (and, go ahead, let’s pat ourselves on the back—we deserve it!), there<br />

is still much to be done.<br />

Allow me to share two opportunities:<br />

1) For new members: Please join us for a New Member Orientation breakfast on Sunday,<br />

<strong>October</strong> 14th, 9:30 - 10:30 am. We look forward to the opportunity to get to know you; share a<br />

bit about the history, programming and organization of our congregation; and make introductions<br />

to some of our staff and lay leaders.<br />

2) For all members: The Membership Committee is looking for new participants and new ideas.<br />

We are all de facto members of the membership committee, but if you are interested in getting<br />

involved in a more formal way, please contact our Membership Chair, Mark Mandel at<br />

mark.mandel@comcast.net or (843) 870-8773.<br />

L’shalom,<br />

Rabbi Stephanie M. Alexander<br />

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The mission of <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> shall be to serve the religious needs of<br />

families and individuals through programs of lifelong Jewish education (Torah),<br />

inclusive communal worship and ritual (Avodah), and the ongoing quest for greater<br />

justice, peace and acts of loving kindness (Gemilut Chasadim).<br />

K KB E 9 0 H as ell Street, C h arles to n, SC 29 4 0 1 T el. (84 3 ) 7 2 3 -10 9 0 Fax : (8 43 ) 72 3 -0 5 37 w w w. kk b e. o rg


Rabbi<br />

Stephanie M. Alexander<br />

rabbia@kkbe.org<br />

Rabbi Emeritus<br />

Anthony D. Holz<br />

adholz@kkbe.org<br />

Temple Educator<br />

Amy I. W. Horner, MA<br />

ahorner@kkbe.org<br />

Executive Director<br />

Floy Work<br />

f loy@kkbe.org<br />

Executive Assistant<br />

Tamar BenArdout<br />

tamar@kkbe.org<br />

Bookkeeper<br />

Elizabeth Markley<br />

emarkley @kkbe.org<br />

Administrative Assistant<br />

Natalie Hernandez<br />

nhernandez@kkbe.org<br />

Communications & Program<br />

Coordinator<br />

Brenda Bray e<br />

bbray e@kkbe.org<br />

Music Director<br />

Heidi Kunitz-Levy<br />

B’nei Mitzvah Coordinator<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Youth Advisor<br />

Robin Shuler<br />

Officers<br />

Dav id Jaffee President<br />

Anita Rosenberg VP—Administration<br />

Rob New VP—Finance<br />

Frieda Bernstein VP—Programming<br />

Patricia Sy kes VP—Fundraising<br />

Kenneth Chav in Secretary<br />

Benjamin Glass Financial Secretary<br />

William Olasov Past President<br />

Edw in Pearlstine President Emeritus<br />

Neil Fisher<br />

Shula Holtz<br />

Paul Levy<br />

Larry Libater<br />

Rachel Morley<br />

Trustees<br />

Mary Radin<br />

LuAnn Rosenzweig<br />

Sarah Swingle<br />

Patricia Votava<br />

Ex Officio<br />

Naomi Gorstein & Paige Williams<br />

Sisterhood Co-Presidents<br />

Gregory Wensman<br />

Brotherhood President<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

Religious School Chair<br />

Elizabeth Levi<br />

CHARLEY President<br />

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Bereavement Dunlap Silver<br />

Building & Grounds<br />

Caring<br />

Steve Ziff<br />

Guy Gimson<br />

Judith Green<br />

Herb Goldberg<br />

Cemetery Morton Ellison<br />

Chavurot Paul Levy<br />

East Cooper<br />

Lynda Schwartz<br />

Sarah Blum<br />

Endowment Billy Olasov<br />

Finance Rob New<br />

Fundraising<br />

Heritage<br />

Patricia Rones<br />

Sykes<br />

Andy Slotin<br />

Anita Rosenberg<br />

Insurance Bruce Horowitz<br />

Leadership<br />

Development<br />

Cynthia Solomon<br />

Library Marlene Williamon<br />

Lifelong Learning Roz Price<br />

Membership Mark Mandel<br />

Nominating Billy Olasov<br />

Onegs Diane Katz<br />

Programs Frieda Bernstein<br />

Personnel David Jaffee<br />

Pulpit David Jaffee<br />

Religious School <strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

Ritual Art Richek<br />

Social Action<br />

Committee Chairs<br />

LuAnn<br />

Rosenzweig<br />

Tourism / Docents Linda Bergman<br />

Youth Ben Glass<br />

Our next<br />

Tot<br />

Shabbat<br />

is on <strong>October</strong><br />

13th.<br />

Celebrating<br />

Celebrating<br />

Birthdays Birthdays &<br />

&<br />

Anniversaries<br />

Anniversaries<br />

Friday, <strong>October</strong> 26th<br />

Join us for this monthly<br />

celebration of KKBE’s member<br />

birthdays and anniversaries.<br />

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<strong>ChaiLights</strong><br />

Volume 14 Issue 10<br />

Published monthly by:<br />

<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong><br />

90 Hasell Street • Charleston, SC 29401<br />

843-723-1090 Phone<br />

843-723-0537 Fax<br />

www.kkbe.org<br />

office@kkbe.org<br />

Editor • Tamar BenArdout<br />

Publication • Natalie Hernandez<br />

© <strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong> - 2012


President’s Message<br />

Dear Congregants,<br />

We are at the tail end of another year of High Holy Days and at the beginning of a new Jewish<br />

New Year. We w ill be celebrating Simchat Torah within the nex t w eek or so. I confess that<br />

w hile I w as grow ing up I nev er realized w hat a joyous celebration this holiday could be. There is<br />

still time for y ou to attend. While the Simchat Torah service may not entail the silly fun as Purim<br />

does, it is one of the most uplifting celebrations w e hav e in Judaism. If y ou haven’t ex perienced<br />

it here at KKBE, I urge y ou to do so.<br />

If w e have reflected upon our past and our future during these Day s of Aw e, it is only proper to<br />

look ahead to w hat w e ex pect in the short term. This is a time of inspection and introspection<br />

that affords us an opportunity to take close stock of w hat w e hav e done, w hat w e should be<br />

doing and w hat we want to do. The follow ing are some of the business items that w e all need to<br />

consider.<br />

On Sunday , <strong>October</strong> 21 st , our congregational meeting w ill take place at 11:00 am in the Barbara Pearlstine Social Hall. There is<br />

momentous business to address and it w ould be ex tremely gratify ing if all of the seats w ere taken. First and foremost, there w ill be a<br />

motion to engage Rabbi Alex ander for a fiv e year term. Many of us still marv el that it has already been tw o and a half y ears since she<br />

arriv ed. The Rabbi and the Congregation have a mandate to notify each other at least six months prior to the ex piration of the<br />

current contract and that contract expires on June 30, 2013. In addition, there is a motion that was put on the table at the prev ious<br />

congregational meeting to sw itch from tw o meetings a year to just one meeting. A change in the fiscal y ear allows this to happen.<br />

Ev en w ith this change, it nev er deprives congregants or the president from requesting an interim meeting should it ev er become<br />

necessary.<br />

Lastly, w e continue to make progress on our four-pronged priority list. We hav e made inroads tow ard the issues at the historic<br />

Coming Street Cemetery; advanced our need to repair and enhance the sanctuary , gotten a decent start tow ard endowing the<br />

Rabbinic Pulpit and made contingency plans to deal w ith the only debt that KKBE has, the remainder of the Capital Campaign. You<br />

w ill hear more detailed reports on all of these at the meeting.<br />

Shalom,<br />

Dav id H. Jaffee<br />

KKBE President<br />

Help us welcome<br />

our newest KKBE members<br />

Who Joined in August:<br />

Janet Bowler<br />

Amy-Lee & Evan Bredlau<br />

Harriet & Charles Goldberg<br />

Joel Greene<br />

Laura Hogarth<br />

Diane & Michael Hornblas<br />

Susan & Louis Kaufman<br />

Sophie & Dean Magee<br />

Stephanie & Jeff Rosen<br />

Patti & Barton Sachs<br />

Sheila & Barry Shear<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> & Mitchell Sherr<br />

Vickilyn & Alejandro Spiotta<br />

Mark Swick<br />

Betty & Albert Thalheimer<br />

Thinking about joining KKBE?<br />

Please contact our KKBE Membership Chair, Mark Mandel<br />

mark.mandel@comcast.net or (843) 870-8773<br />

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...generous, visionary KKBE members who have<br />

included bequests to<br />

<strong>Kahal</strong> <strong>Kadosh</strong> <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Elohim</strong><br />

in their wills.<br />

To learn how you can join the<br />

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please contact Floy at the Temple Office,<br />

843-723-1090.<br />

<strong>ChaiLights</strong> Tishri ~ Cheshvan 5773 Page 3


Religious School Updates Amy I. W. Horner, M.A., Temple Educator<br />

September at KKBE: We gathered (and gathered again, and again) at our beautiful synagogue to<br />

w orship, reconnect w ith friends, and begin a new year together. From infancy to adulthood, w e each had<br />

something special on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur: babysitting for our y oungest, our Family Service<br />

for our preschool and early elementary school children, the special Machzor Scrapbook Project for our<br />

students in grades 3-5, our musical CHARLEY serv ice for our six th through tw elfth graders, plus multiple<br />

serv ices for adults. As this issue goes to press, w e will enjoy our annual Sukkot celebration, with a<br />

Sukkah lov ingly built by our Brotherhood and a festiv e Sukk-out provided by our Sisterhood and<br />

Brotherhood.<br />

Our Tishrei holiday season concludes in <strong>October</strong>, w ith the truly festiv e observ ance of Simchat Torah the<br />

ev ening of Sunday, <strong>October</strong> 7 at 7:00 p.m. Just as we “always” do, we will sing, dance, and unroll an<br />

entire Torah scroll. This y ear’s Simchat Torah Flag Contest includes categories for the Most Original<br />

Shape, The Loudest (you decide what that means!), and the Most Creativ e Use of Office Supplies. Members of the Religious School<br />

Committee w ill judge the flags, and w e can all join in and enjoy the parade! (One restriction: no glitter, please. It stay s in the carpet for<br />

y ears.)<br />

This y ear’s Simchat Torah service will include the Consecration of our kindergarten students and our new students of any age.<br />

Consecration marks the beginning of a student’s formal Jew ish education. At this beautiful piece of our service, our students w ill be<br />

called up to the bimah to recite the sh’ma, word by word, after the Rabbi, and to receiv e the gift of a miniature Torah scroll.<br />

In the last month, our students took giant steps into Jewish education and Jewish life. We began a new school y ear, w ith our returning<br />

students coming in taller and more grown-up than they were in May. We celebrated w ith our new B’nei Mitzvah, and began a new Jewish<br />

y ear together. Soon our kindergarten students w ill take another giant step, at Consecration. All of us at KKBE can take steps into Jew ish<br />

learning and Jew ish life, ev en if w e are long past kindergarten. We can join our friends (old or new ) at a serv ice, ev en if we don’t go<br />

often. We can try a new Jew ish food or come to a program w e haven’t attended before. We can visit KKBE’s library and check out a<br />

book, or v isit the gift shop to add something new to enhance our Jewish home.<br />

Start y our new, Jewish y ear w ith us!<br />

Shalom,<br />

Amy Amy Horner<br />

Horner<br />

Amy Horner<br />

Temple Educator<br />

Important Dates:<br />

<strong>October</strong> 5: Grades K-2 participate in First Friday serv ice at 7:00 p.m.<br />

<strong>October</strong> 7: Consecration and Simchat Torah service at 7:00 p.m.<br />

<strong>October</strong> 28: B’nei Mitzvah scheduling and planning meeting for parents of<br />

Hebrew Aleph, Bet and Gimel students at 9:00 a.m.<br />

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Did you Know?<br />

This banner in the Religious School stairway welcomes<br />

our students (talmidim) and reminds them of<br />

the Hebrew date each morning as they arrive for<br />

class. Many thanks to Tamar BenArdout, Chelsea<br />

Cash and Ola Charlotte Cash for crafting it for us<br />

and changing the date each week!<br />

Did you know that Dr. Columbus Da Vega (1830-1882)., who is buried in the Coming<br />

Street Cemetery, had a floating hospital ship in the Charleston Harbor during the<br />

Civil War? He administered to both Union and Confederate soldiers. Family lore<br />

has it that he performed the first appendectomy in South Carolina on his kitchen<br />

table (and the patient survived!).


Executive Director’s Message<br />

It Isn’t Over Until…Everyone Dances!<br />

KKBE’s Sanctuary seen<br />

through the Sukkah roof<br />

As September ends and <strong>October</strong> begins, we remember the<br />

holidays aren’t over yet!<br />

There’s Sukkot-.For forty years, our ancestors wandered the<br />

Sinai after the Exodus and the Torah says "clouds of glory"<br />

surrounded and hovered over them, keeping them safe from the<br />

dangers of the desert. Ever since, on the 15 th of Tishri and the<br />

following seven days, we remember God's kindness and reaffirm<br />

our trust in Him by dwelling in a Sukkah—a booth that is<br />

intentionally temporary, in fact, roofs are supposed to allow us to look up and see the stars at<br />

night.<br />

Some of us build a Sukkah in our backyard and eat our meals there. KKBE’s Brotherhood builds<br />

a Sukkah for our congregation in the front Temple Garden This year, the first night of Sukkot<br />

is Sunday, September 30th th. Before the Sukkot Service begins, Lois Sugarman decorates the<br />

Sanctuary for our celebration of the autumn harvest.<br />

The Sukkot Evening Service starts at 5:45 pm and afterwards we enjoy our “ Sukk-out” in the Temple Garden. Burgers (some veggie burgers, too)<br />

and hot dogs will be grilled to perfection by the Brotherhood. (We count on all members to bring a side dish, too!) It’s a wonder-filled evening with<br />

worship, food, friends, family and fun. We’ll have a chance to welcome Sukkot, eat in the Sukkah and enjoy a delicious meal in the Garden<br />

together. A Sukkot Morning Service is held on Monday, <strong>October</strong> 1 st at 11:30 am.<br />

There’s Simchat Torah! On Simchat Torah we celebrate the completion of the yearly cycle of<br />

Torah reading and begin anew. We mark our celebration by re-rolling the Torah, dancing and<br />

singing with the Torah. Please join us for the Simchat Torah Service and Celebration at 7:00<br />

pm on <strong>October</strong> 7 th.<br />

We’ll award prizes to the children for their flags. And there is a Simchat Torah’s Morning and<br />

Yizkor Service at 11:30am on Monday, <strong>October</strong> 8 th.<br />

Then, the holidays beginning 5773 are officially complete. We have welcomed the New Year,<br />

asked forgiveness for the harm we may have done others, we have eaten in the Sukkah, and our<br />

Torahs now open to Genesis. Scores of people made our High Holy Days meaningful and we<br />

are grateful to them all.<br />

On behalf of the staff of our Synagogue, please accept my heartfelt wish that 5773 will be a sweet,<br />

happy, healthy, prosperous year for us ALL.<br />

L’shalom,<br />

Floy<br />

News from Our VP of Programs<br />

Dust off your banjo! Find that sheet music......where's my guitar??<br />

Have you ever had the desire to sit at the head of the room and share your talents? Now's your<br />

chance!! On November 10th we open the Koffee House for an evening of fun and entertainment<br />

shared by all four of Charleston's congregations.<br />

WE NEED YOU!<br />

Start thinking now of just what you'd love to do to share your inner talents - let Diane Tichi and<br />

Robin Shuler know what you're planning.....<br />

And don't forget - we need an audience too!<br />

Frieda Bernstein Rachel Morley<br />

KKBE Vice President Programs KKBE Vice Chair Programming<br />

The Torah un-rolled.<br />

Frieda Bernstein & Rachel Morley<br />

<strong>ChaiLights</strong> Tishri ~ Cheshvan 5773 Page 5


News from our Temple Sisterhood<br />

What a busy month September has been! S’lichot, High Holy Days, and Sukkot have all come<br />

and gone.<br />

Our annual paid-up membership event this y ear was a lovely brunch held on Sunday,<br />

September 9th at Debbie Norton’s beautiful home. Thanks so much to Debbie for hosting and<br />

our VP’s of Programming, Claudia and Diana, for coordinating.<br />

The w ildly popular annual Sukk-Out w as a success again this year. Sisterhood continues to<br />

enjoy collaborating with Brotherhood and the Temple in this endeavor.<br />

In looking ahead to <strong>October</strong>, we have tw o programs coming up.<br />

Interested in painting y our ow n Tree of Life? Can’t paint? Don’t w orry . Our Sip and Paint program on <strong>October</strong> 18th Naomi Gorstein & Paige Williams<br />

w ill hav e us<br />

bringing forth our ow n Picasso, as w e take ov er Party and Paint for the night.<br />

The weekend of <strong>October</strong> 26-28 will see several Sisterhood members trav eling to Atlanta, Georgia for our regional Women of Reform<br />

Judaism biennial ev ent. This biennial w ill be doubly special for w e will go to support our ow n Sherry Schw immer as she becomes<br />

installed as the new President of the Southeast region of WRJ! Way to go Sherry!!!<br />

Just around the corner is our Bazaar – 62 years and going strong! We are looking for any garden items and w ill take planters, trees,<br />

plants, glov es, y ard art. If it belongs outside, w e can use it! Please contact Patricia Sykes if you have any questions.<br />

Also, w e w ill need v olunteers to help with the Bazaar. Please contact Leslie Archer or Rachel Morley if you are able to giv e of y our<br />

time.<br />

OCT 18 th: Sip and Paint MAR 2 nd: WRJ Centennial Service<br />

OCT 26 th – 28 th: SE Biennial in Atlanta MAR 5 th: Woman Who Makes a Difference<br />

NOV 1 st: Lunch (Dale Rosengarten on sweet grass baskets) MAR 10 th: YES Fund Event/ Village Rep on Woolfe<br />

NOV 11 th: Bazaar MAR 21 st: Women’s Seder<br />

DEC 2 nd: Holiday Appetizers with Mary Kasman APR 14 th: Borekas with Zelda Bryant<br />

DEC 4 th: Make-up and Margaritas APR 19 th: Sisterhood Shabbat<br />

JAN 27 th: Tri Sisterhood at BSBI MAY 16 th: Lunch (Travel Adventures with Sharon Lieb)<br />

FEB 10 th: Chocolate & Sweets with Ruth Goldberg MAY 31 st: Leadership Shabbat<br />

FEB 12 th: Matriarch’s Event at Amy Davis’s<br />

Any questions? Please contact me (paigeme@fastmail.net) or Naomi Gorstein (Naomi.gorstein@gmail.com)<br />

News from our Brotherhood<br />

Page 6 <strong>ChaiLights</strong> Tishri ~ Cheshvan 5773<br />

Naomi Naomi Gorstein Gorstein & & Paige Paige Williams, Williams, KKBE Sisterhood Co-Presidents<br />

Hello, I hope the High Holy Days w ere rich and fulfilling for all. I want to thank all the<br />

Brothers w ho stepped up to usher during the High Holy Day s, w ith a special thanks to Art Richek for<br />

doing the scheduling. That’s a big job and y ou do it so w ell! Our first meeting w ill be on Oct. 25 at<br />

6:30. Please plan to attend. We will be releasing a schedule of speakers soon. Also, if y ou know a<br />

speaker that w ould like to address our group or hav e a topic y ou would like to know more about<br />

please let me know. I’m in the Blue Book! Sewell Kahn emailed a survey to all the Brothers in<br />

September. Please take a moment to complete it and send back. We v alue and count on your input. We hav e several dates when w e<br />

need v olunteers: Oct. 7 in the afternoon, w e will be taking down the sukkah. Many hands w ill make short w ork! Bring y our tools; Nov.<br />

9 th the Brotherhood w ill be hosting the Oneg for the Veterans Day serv ice. Plan to attend and please bring a dessert to share. We w ill<br />

not hav e a meeting in November, but Social Action will be delivering Thanksgiving meals again this year. Last year the Brotherhood<br />

w as instrumental both in the kitchen and w ith deliv eries. We are usually done by 11:00 am. Please set aside some time to help out.<br />

Email Cynthia Av a at cynav a@gmail.com to volunteer for Thanksgiving meals delivery.<br />

L’Shalom, Greg<br />

Greg Wensman<br />

KKBE Brotherhood President


Vice President of Administration Anita Moïse Rosenberg<br />

We’v e made our w ay through another High Holy Day s season. What hav e w e learned? Are w e all done til<br />

nex t y ear? As indiv iduals and as a congregation, hav e we ex perienced spiritual renewal, review ed our<br />

actions and thought of w ays to mend our w rongdoings and help those around us? Rabbi Alex ander<br />

reminded us at the beautiful Selichot serv ice to look deeply within ourselves and find w ays to improv e our<br />

liv es and make every day count.<br />

Quoting Rabbi Rick Jacobs, President, Union for Reform Judaism,” Let us not squander the High Holy Day s<br />

by just going through the motions. Instead, let us open ourselves, individually and collectiv ely, to the<br />

rigorous self-scrutiny and the intense reimagination that our tradition prescribes.”<br />

As we w ork together for our Congregation’s success, let us alw ays return to the core of our KKBE mission<br />

statement: learning (Torah). w orship (Av odah) and deeds of lov ing kindness (Gimilut Chasadim). May we<br />

all share in blessing as we enter this new y ear, 5773.<br />

L' Shalom,<br />

Anita<br />

Anita<br />

KKBE VP of Administration<br />

Come Come Come Dance Dance Dance with with with Us! Us!<br />

Us!<br />

Simchat Torah<br />

Ritual, song and celebration!<br />

Sunday,<br />

<strong>October</strong> 7th<br />

Worship Service,<br />

Celebration<br />

& Consecration<br />

at 7:00 pm<br />

New Member Orientation<br />

For those joining KKBE after June 1, 2011<br />

Join us for Breakfast <strong>October</strong> 14 th<br />

@ 9:30 am<br />

in the Barbara Pearlstine Social Hall<br />

Changed Changed Your Your Email<br />

Email<br />

Address Address Lately?<br />

Lately?<br />

Please make sure we have<br />

your most current email address.<br />

Email nhernandez@kkbe.org with any<br />

updates.<br />

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Save the Date<br />

Sisterhood Bazaar<br />

November 13th<br />

from 9:30 - 2 PM<br />

Easy Easy Oneg<br />

Oneg<br />

Sponsorship<br />

Sponsorship<br />

Too busy to cook? Too rushed to shop?<br />

Want to sponsor an Oneg?<br />

If you are interested in sponsoring an Oneg please<br />

contact Diane Katz at katzs@knology.net.<br />

For $144, you can sponsor an Oneg prepared<br />

and delivered by our friends at Piggly Wiggly.<br />

(If you are already scheduled to sponsor an Oneg,<br />

the cost will stay the same)<br />

Now it's easy to honor a special birthday,<br />

celebrate an anniversary or just show love for the<br />

Temple.<br />

To secure a date,<br />

contact Diane Katz at katzs@knology.net.<br />

KKBE New Chuppah Cover<br />

made by<br />

Rachel Morley & Julie Ziff<br />

Todah rabah!<br />

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The Gibbes Museum of Art will be featuring the work<br />

of<br />

Willard Hirsch<br />

from September 21st to December 30, 2012<br />

“ As Charleston's premier sculptor of the twentieth<br />

century, this exhibition examines the body of work<br />

Willard Hirsch developed over the course of his<br />

fifty year career.”<br />

In conjunction with a major retrospective of Willard<br />

Hirsch's sculpture at the Gibbes Museum of Art, the<br />

College of Charleston's Addlestone Library will offer an<br />

exhibition of artifacts, photographs, and manuscript<br />

materials relating to the artist and his family. Drawn from<br />

Special Collections, the exhibit will be on display on the<br />

third floor of the library.


Intro Intro to to to Judaism<br />

Judaism<br />

For those interested in pursuing conversion<br />

to Judaism, interfaith couples,<br />

or anyone looking for an engaging overview<br />

of Jewish belief, tradition and practice.<br />

This course will be taught by Rabbis<br />

Stephanie Alexander, Anthony Holz,<br />

Robert Seigel and Aaron Sherman<br />

Registration fee - $50 per student<br />

Thursdays Thursdays 7:00pm 7:00pm - 8:30pm 8:30pm<br />

16 16 sessions<br />

sessions<br />

beginning beginning <strong>October</strong> <strong>October</strong> 11, 11, 2012.<br />

2012.<br />

To enroll, please contact Natalie<br />

Hernandez at nhernandez@kkbe.org.<br />

KKBE's Social Action Committee will<br />

host a Kidzymphony Orchestra Concert<br />

on Tuesday, <strong>October</strong> 23rd at 6:00 PM.<br />

Supported by grants in its entirety, the<br />

Kidzymphony Orchestra Program brings<br />

classical music to diverse and underserved<br />

communities of the Lowcountry. It is a<br />

unique orchestra, modeled after El Sistema,<br />

a youth development program that promotes<br />

the values of access and excellence through<br />

intense, high caliber music instruction. It is<br />

housed, as an after school program, at<br />

Meeting Street Academy in urban Charleston.<br />

We hope you will be able to attend this<br />

concert and give these young musicians the<br />

support they deserve!<br />

With great pleasure,<br />

w e inv ite you to celebrate w ith<br />

us as our daughter,<br />

Juliana Leigh Strobing<br />

is called to the Torah<br />

<strong>October</strong> 6th, 2012 at 10am<br />

Juliana is an eighth grade<br />

student at Cario Middle School.<br />

She enjoy s spending time with<br />

her siblings Nicolette, Isabel, and Andrew. She is an avid<br />

tennis play er and is currently a member of the Wando tennis<br />

team. Juliana is honored to follow in the tradition of B'nei<br />

Mitzv ot and read from the Torah.<br />

~Frank and Claudia Strobing<br />

We inv ite you to join us in<br />

celebrating the Bar Mitzvah<br />

of our son<br />

Jared Michael Kievit<br />

November 3, 2012<br />

at 10:00am<br />

Jared is a seventh grade honor<br />

student at Charles ton County<br />

School of the Arts where he majors<br />

in Visual Arts. His artw ork has<br />

been displayed at the Art Connects<br />

Us art show at the MUSC Wellness Center. In addition to<br />

his creativ e endeav ors, Jared lov es soccer and plays on the<br />

South Carolina United Mount Pleasant Palmetto team. He<br />

also enjoys listening to music, reading, draw ing, and spending<br />

time w ith friends. As an av id reader, Jared wanted to<br />

instill a lov e of reading in other children. For his mitzvah<br />

project, he volunteered at the afterschool program at North<br />

Charleston Creativ e Arts Elementary School teaching kids to<br />

read.<br />

We look forw ard to sharing this special day w ith you!<br />

~Lisha and Rick Kievit<br />

Support Businesses<br />

That Support KKBE!<br />

Find them on the pages of<br />

<strong>ChaiLights</strong>.<br />

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Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday<br />

7 Sukkot<br />

9 am<br />

Hebrew School<br />

10:30 am<br />

Religious School<br />

7 pm<br />

Simchat Torah &<br />

Consecration<br />

14<br />

9 am<br />

Hebrew School<br />

9:30 am<br />

New Member<br />

Orientation<br />

Breakfast<br />

10:30 am<br />

Religious School<br />

21<br />

9 am<br />

Hebrew School<br />

10:30 am<br />

Religious School<br />

11 am<br />

Fall Congregational<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

CHARLEY<br />

Gathering<br />

28 WRJ Southeast<br />

Biennial-Atlanta,<br />

GA<br />

9 am<br />

Hebrew School<br />

10:30 am<br />

Religious School<br />

1 Sukkot<br />

Office Closed<br />

11:30 am<br />

Sukkot Service<br />

8 Simchat<br />

Torah<br />

Office Closed<br />

11:30 am<br />

Simchat Torah &<br />

Yizkor Service<br />

2 Sukkot<br />

11 am<br />

Programming Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

1 pm<br />

All Staff Mtg.<br />

5:30 pm<br />

Ritual Comm. Mtg<br />

9<br />

11 am<br />

Programming Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Membership<br />

Committee Mtg.<br />

7 pm<br />

Religious School<br />

Mtg.<br />

15 16<br />

11 am<br />

Programming Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Board of Trustees:<br />

Ex. Committee<br />

7 pm<br />

Board of Trustees<br />

22<br />

SAC Cooking<br />

Dinner for Hope<br />

Lodge<br />

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23<br />

11 am<br />

Programming Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Kidzymphony:<br />

Meeting St.<br />

Academy Concert<br />

7:30 pm<br />

Sisterhood Book<br />

Club 1<br />

29 30<br />

11 am<br />

Programming Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

3 Sukkot<br />

10:30 am<br />

Sisterhood Book<br />

Club 2<br />

5:45 pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

6:30 pm<br />

Manhigut Leadership<br />

Class<br />

10<br />

1 pm<br />

Literature & Film<br />

Chavurah<br />

5:45 pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

6 pm<br />

Sisterhood Board<br />

Mtg.<br />

17<br />

5:45 pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

24<br />

5:45 pm<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

7 pm<br />

Three Rabbi Panel<br />

31<br />

4 Sukkot<br />

1:30 pm<br />

Logistics Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Koleinu Reh.<br />

11<br />

1:30 pm<br />

Logistics Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Koleinu Reh<br />

7 pm<br />

Intro to Judaism<br />

18<br />

1:30 pm<br />

Logistics Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Koleinu Reh<br />

6:30 pm<br />

Sisterhood Sip &<br />

Paint Evening<br />

7 pm<br />

Intro to Judaism<br />

25<br />

1:30 pm<br />

Logistics Staff<br />

Mtg.<br />

6 pm<br />

Koleinu Reh<br />

6:30 pm<br />

Brotherhood Mtg.<br />

7 pm<br />

Intro to Judaism<br />

5 Sukkot<br />

5:45 pm<br />

Congregational<br />

Dinner<br />

7:00 pm<br />

First Friday Shabbat<br />

12<br />

7 pm<br />

East Cooper Service<br />

8 pm<br />

Shabbat Evening<br />

Service<br />

19<br />

8 pm<br />

Shabbat Evening<br />

Service<br />

26 WRJ Southeast<br />

Biennial-Atlanta,<br />

GA<br />

Birthday &<br />

Anniversaries<br />

8 pm<br />

Shabbat Evening<br />

Service<br />

6 Sukkot<br />

10 am<br />

Shabbat Morning<br />

Service<br />

Bat Mi tzvah of<br />

Juliana Strobing<br />

13<br />

10 am<br />

Shabbat Morning<br />

Service<br />

10 am<br />

Tot Shabbat<br />

11:15 am<br />

Torah Study<br />

20<br />

10 am<br />

Shabbat Morning<br />

Service<br />

27 WRJ Southeast<br />

Biennial-Atlanta,<br />

GA<br />

10 am<br />

Shabbat Morning<br />

Service


1 Lila Trussler<br />

Nancee Rubin<br />

Michael Bush<br />

Sergz Santiago<br />

2 Elizabeth Baker<br />

Gary Neiman<br />

Morris Rosen<br />

4 Jonah Haller<br />

5 Lee Berlinsky<br />

Morgan Newman<br />

Michael Phillips<br />

H. Sandra Bregman<br />

6 Cheryl Levin Roberts<br />

Traci Black<br />

Sharon Hox<br />

Martin Hoxenhorn<br />

Sarah Glass<br />

<strong>October</strong><br />

Anniversaries<br />

Week of<br />

Sept. 30 - Oct. 6<br />

Lillian Burgess<br />

Edward Conradi<br />

Joseph Eysen<br />

Joseph Frisch<br />

David Goldbogen<br />

Sophie Golubow<br />

Helen Jacobs<br />

Alexander Klein<br />

Harris Marcus<br />

Jackee Meddin<br />

Abram Novick<br />

Irving Olitzky<br />

Melvyn Posner<br />

Bluma Saltzman<br />

Marion Schwartz<br />

Ben Sheftel<br />

Anna Silver<br />

Alvin Weinberg<br />

<strong>October</strong><br />

Yahrzeits<br />

Davin Turkewitz<br />

7 Barry Abrams<br />

Douglas Alterman<br />

Joshua Goldstein<br />

Dana Weil<br />

8 Michelle Bumgarner<br />

Liam Keller<br />

Jason Cohen<br />

10 Hannah Eisenman<br />

Frank Strobing<br />

11 Amy Lawrence<br />

12 Warren Lieb<br />

Daniel Nussbaum<br />

13 Rosalie Alterman<br />

Doris Taylor-Marcus<br />

13 Lawrence Libater<br />

Robert Stine<br />

2 Janice & Ben Glass<br />

Nancy Cagan & Mark Horton<br />

3 Miriam & Rick Bumgarner<br />

4 Jessica Glasser & James Fulks<br />

6 Susie & Mike Phillips<br />

7 Bobbie & Ed Litos<br />

8 Eve & Norman Berlinsky<br />

Polina & Vladimir Sobchuk<br />

10 Elyssa & Scott Snelgrove<br />

12 Sidni & Ron Yelman<br />

Week of<br />

Oct. 7 - Oct. 13<br />

Cecile Altman<br />

Henry Barnett<br />

Samuel Bass<br />

Daniel Berger<br />

Nancy Boren<br />

Morris Ellison<br />

Clara Fisher<br />

Max Gindman<br />

Clark Gottlieb<br />

Lillian Kratzok<br />

Ann Levy<br />

Mildred Litos<br />

Daniel Muchnick<br />

Henry Pearlman<br />

Maizie-Louise Rubin<br />

Harry Rubin<br />

Ben Silverman<br />

Esther Ullner<br />

Leon Weintraub<br />

Leah Wolf<br />

Moe Zweibel<br />

Elyssa Snelgrove<br />

Myles Glick<br />

14 Rebecca Forman<br />

Melissa Hertzfeld<br />

Amy Goldberg<br />

Kyle Brown<br />

Macky Farber<br />

Robyn Diamond<br />

Shelley Hochman<br />

15 Allyson Ackert<br />

Ellen Moryl<br />

15 Jessica Glasser<br />

Mark Litwin<br />

Howard Becker<br />

<strong>October</strong> Birthdays<br />

Talia Ogretmen<br />

16 Donald Reavis<br />

Michael Carson<br />

Greg Wensman<br />

Amanda Rosenberg<br />

Jan Pomerantz<br />

18 Melvin Altman<br />

Chelsea Cash<br />

Mazie Cash<br />

19 Morgan Miller<br />

19 Jacob Kupferman<br />

Robert Silvers<br />

20 Ellie Levy<br />

Daniel Weissglass<br />

13 Heidi Kunitz-Levy & Seth Levy<br />

15 Helen & Herb Goldberg<br />

16 Ruth & Harry Goldberg<br />

Sharon Wittes-Leinwand &<br />

Michael Leinwand<br />

17 Marion & Ken Goodman<br />

Shoshanna & Jeffrey Szuch<br />

20 Iris & Bobby Kornhauser<br />

21 Marsha & Douglas Alterman<br />

Week of<br />

Oct. 14. - 20<br />

Harry Antman<br />

Richard Baer<br />

Selma Belvin<br />

Manfred Buchsbaum<br />

Al Dolin<br />

David Elkman<br />

Nathan Feingold<br />

Edith Gitlestein<br />

Maurice Goldstein<br />

Margery Jaffe<br />

Sarah Larach<br />

Abner Levkoff<br />

Jennie Mysel<br />

Lillian Nadler<br />

Alexander Ostrower<br />

Leon Schwartz<br />

Anna Sher<br />

Nathan Shulman<br />

Rose Tischler<br />

Martin Topper<br />

Mildred Tranen<br />

Fannie Williams<br />

Remember<br />

21 Brian Dewhirst<br />

Ella Bennett<br />

Jared Kievit<br />

Brianna Prenner<br />

22 Albert Thalheimer<br />

Andrea Sherman Parco<br />

Alex Millman<br />

Elizabeth Meyers-Tapp<br />

Donna Mersal<br />

23 Eric Lawrence<br />

Gregory Forman<br />

Murad Abed<br />

Jacob Cohn<br />

Sandra Conradi<br />

24 Jaclyn Berlinsky<br />

Donna Friedman<br />

Anita Drennon<br />

Week of<br />

Oct. 21 - Oct. 27<br />

Isadore Banov<br />

Harry Barnett<br />

Joseph Baron<br />

Lillian Bernstein<br />

Larry Dumas<br />

Ezin Goldberg<br />

Irwin Goldstein<br />

H. Howard Green<br />

Lucille Grossman<br />

Fred Kahn<br />

Edward Martin<br />

Ruth Rubin<br />

Sadie Saffer<br />

Florence Silverman<br />

Miriam Tarshish<br />

Jack Tick<br />

Deborah Wasserman<br />

Gladys Weil<br />

Israel Weinstein<br />

Leo Wetherhorn<br />

21 Sharon & Jerry Martin<br />

22 Dana Weil & Skippy Weil, Jr.<br />

24 Julie & Brian Hellman<br />

26 Elaine & Joe Heckelman<br />

27 Jill & Jerry Handegan<br />

Lisa & Jacob LaCroix<br />

Evie & Harold Lenoff<br />

27 Donna & David Orner<br />

28 Teri & Robert & New<br />

רוכז<br />

27 Allen Kaplan<br />

Brad Drake<br />

Simone Gross<br />

Peggy Price<br />

Pooja Elias<br />

Daniel Eisenman<br />

28 Andrew Davidson<br />

Amy Lutz<br />

Mary Radin<br />

Jennifer Alspector<br />

29 Marsha Freudenberg<br />

30 Herbert Goldberg<br />

Adam Mendelsohn<br />

31 Sarah Perlman<br />

Michael Horner<br />

Week of<br />

Oct. 28 - Nov. 3<br />

Betsy Barshay Kaylie<br />

Solomon Breibart<br />

David Cohen<br />

Seymour Ett<br />

Abraham Finkel<br />

Adele Gardner<br />

I.M. Goldberg<br />

Norbert Greenebaum<br />

Irene Hellman<br />

Lillian Jacobs<br />

Sylvia Kositsky<br />

Robert Mann<br />

David Marcus<br />

Benjamin Mersal<br />

Paul Morton<br />

Edwin Pearlstine, Sr.<br />

Evelyn Porcelli<br />

H. Steven Schechter<br />

Edwin Taylor, Sr.<br />

Vladimir Wilchanovsky<br />

Nathan Wolf<br />

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Your Generous Donations<br />

We Gratefully Acknowledge the Following Contributions for August 16 th thru September15 th :<br />

Addie & Miriam Triest Floral Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Hannah Frankel's Bat Mitzvah<br />

Bruce & Loren Frankel<br />

-in memory of<br />

Montague Triest, Addie Triest, Maier Triest, Adelaide T.<br />

Jacobs, Samuel Jacobs & Caroline L. Triest<br />

Henry & Maxine Freudenberg<br />

Esther S. Pearlstine, Hyman Pearlstine, John K. Hornik, Jr.,<br />

Mary P. Hornik, Milton A. Pearlstine, Cecile M. Pearlstine<br />

Mary Ann Aberman<br />

Capital Campaign Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Beverly Jaffee Finkel’s birthday<br />

Bob & Faye Seigel’s anniversary<br />

Dav id & Dolly Jaffee<br />

-in memory of<br />

Isabelle Lipman Weiss<br />

Dav id & Dolly Jaffee<br />

Nancy Mysel & Nancy Richek<br />

Norman & Ev e Berlinsky<br />

Chai Wall<br />

-in honor of<br />

our beautiful granddaughter<br />

Ellen Elmaleh<br />

Robby Langsam’s Bar Mitzvah<br />

How ie & Carrie Langsam<br />

our beautiful daughter<br />

John & <strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

Coming Street Cemetery Restoration Fund<br />

-for the speedy recovery of<br />

Mark Kositsky, father of Nadine Chavin<br />

Brenda Mott, mother of Paige Williams<br />

Ruth Goldberg<br />

Rich & Randi Serrins<br />

-in honor of<br />

Maxine Freudenberg's birthday<br />

Marlene Williamon's birthday<br />

Floy Work's birthday<br />

Ira & Anita Rosenberg<br />

Anita Rosenberg for the tour of Coming St. Cemetery<br />

Jane Douglas<br />

my tour of the Coming St. Cemetery<br />

Joseph Bienstock<br />

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-in memory of<br />

Alan M. Rosenberg<br />

Ida Schwartz<br />

Ira & Anita Rosenberg<br />

Emmi LeVasseur Memorial Fund<br />

-in memory of<br />

Lillian Lenoff<br />

Harold & Ev ie Lenoff<br />

General Fund<br />

Richard & Marsha Kronick<br />

-in honor of<br />

Lani Chavin's Bat Mitzvah<br />

Jay & Rhelda Sher<br />

-in memory of<br />

Lois Huff<br />

Charlie & Charlotte Zaglin<br />

Harold & Lillian Jacobs Mitzvah Member Donation Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Elliott Cohn’s Bar Mitzvah<br />

Bobbi Cohn<br />

-in memory of<br />

Samuel Jacobs<br />

Henry & Maxine Freudenberg<br />

Kramer Religious School Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Shula Holtz, the Religious & Hebrew School educators, and<br />

the Grape Jews for their support<br />

John & <strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

the KKBE Religious School<br />

Michael Carson & Carol Keskitalo<br />

-in memory of<br />

Debera Harriet Kramer<br />

Rosaly n Monat Haller<br />

Marian Birlant Slotin Bereavement Fund<br />

Richard & Marsha Kronick<br />

-in memory of<br />

Arthur Hertzfeld<br />

KKBE Sisterhood<br />

Leslie Chavin<br />

Ken & Nadine Chavin<br />

Molly Schneider<br />

Rick & Dunlap Silver


Mildred Bernstein Kitchen Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

my wonderful sisters Naomi Gorstein, Nadine Chavin,<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> Keyserling & Tina Rastogi who hosted Friday<br />

night's oneg honoring Sarah's Bat Mitzvah<br />

John & <strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

-in memory of<br />

Gerald Martin<br />

Claudia Pollack<br />

Music Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Read Bros. 100th Anniversary<br />

Alan & Binky Cohen<br />

-in memory of<br />

Burton J. Askowith<br />

Barry & Flo Breibart<br />

Rabbi's Discretionary Fund<br />

-in appreciation of<br />

Rabbi Alexander for leading funeral services<br />

Bill & Marsha Golod<br />

Ilana Chavin's Bat Mitzvah<br />

Marty & Shelley Yonas<br />

-in honor of<br />

with a thank you to Rabbi for being an inspiration.<br />

John & <strong>Beth</strong> Stapleton<br />

Kiran Adel Elias' baby naming<br />

Jon & Pooja Elias<br />

-in memory of<br />

Samuel Hoffman<br />

Durst Pay ne & Joan Rubinstein<br />

Mark Snide<br />

Harv ey & Cy nthia Greene<br />

Sanctuary Restoration Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

Elliott Cohn's Bar Mitzvah<br />

Margaret Seres<br />

Elliott Cohn’s Bar Mitzvah<br />

Bobbi Cohn<br />

-in memory of<br />

Ida R. Schwartz<br />

Bobbi Cohn<br />

Isadore Goldstein<br />

Ella Bennett<br />

Ida Schwartz<br />

Margaret Seres<br />

Evelyn Earls<br />

Scott & Julie Glass<br />

Social Action Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

those helping with the Meeting St. Academy Knitting<br />

program<br />

Jerry & Diana Cohen<br />

-in memory of<br />

Joseph Eysen<br />

Alan & Rella Eysen<br />

Sugarman Hospitality Fund<br />

-in celebration of<br />

of Audrey & Dana's birthday<br />

Mark & Audrey Mandel<br />

our anniversary and Barry's birthday<br />

Barry & Flo Breibart<br />

-in honor of<br />

Lois Sugarman's dedication to KKBE<br />

Bob & Faye Seigel<br />

-in memory of<br />

Jack Goldstein<br />

Marcia Wildhorn<br />

Tourism Fund<br />

-in honor of<br />

our tour of KKBE<br />

Gary & Gail Weiss<br />

Robert & Irene Glaser<br />

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Rosh Hashanah 5773<br />

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Floral loral Sponsors Sponsors Needed!<br />

Needed!<br />

If you have a celebration—a birthday or anniversary— or<br />

want to honor someone you love, sponsoring the Bimah<br />

flowers is a wonderful way to show you care!<br />

On the right are available dates you can brighten our<br />

beautiful, historic sanctuary with a floral bouquet. To<br />

pick your weekend, please contact the Temple Office at<br />

723-1090 or office@kkbe.org .<br />

Thank you to our September Floral sponsors!<br />

September 7th - Food Baskets - Marlene &<br />

Charles Williamon in honor of<br />

Marlene’s birthday.<br />

September 14th - Cohn family in honor of<br />

Elliott’s Bar Mitzvah<br />

<strong>October</strong> '12 All Dates Filled<br />

November ‘12 9th, 23rd<br />

December ‘12 7th, 21st, 28th<br />

January ‘13 11th, 18th<br />

February’13 1st, 15th, 22nd<br />

March ‘13 1st, 8th, 15th, 29th<br />

April ‘13 5th, 19th<br />

May ‘13 3rd, 10th<br />

June ‘13 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th<br />

July ‘13 5th, 12th, 19th, 26th<br />

August ‘13 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd<br />

September ‘13 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th<br />

<strong>October</strong> ‘13 5th, 18th<br />

Upcoming Oneg Sponsors<br />

<strong>October</strong> 6th - the Strobing family in honor of Juliana’s Bat<br />

Mitzvah<br />

<strong>October</strong> 12th - Shoshanna & Jeffrey Szuch in honor of their<br />

anniversary.<br />

<strong>October</strong> 19th - Julie & Stephen Ziff and Helen & Charles Ziff in<br />

me mory of Rita & Seymour Ziff and Robert Ziff<br />

<strong>October</strong> 26th - Teri & Robert New in honor of their anniversary.<br />

<strong>October</strong> '12 12th,26th<br />

November ‘12 23rd<br />

December ’12 28th<br />

January ‘13 11th, 18th<br />

February ‘13 22nd<br />

March ‘13 1st, 15th<br />

April ‘13 5th, 19th<br />

May ‘13 10th<br />

June ‘13 14th, 28th<br />

July ‘13 5th, 12th, 19th, 26th<br />

August ‘13 9th, 16th, 23rd<br />

September ‘13 13th, 20th, 27th<br />

<strong>October</strong> ‘13 4th, 18th<br />

Sign Sign Up Up For For Onegs!<br />

Onegs!<br />

When you have a celebration—a birthday or<br />

anniversary— really any time you want to honor<br />

someone you love, sponsoring an Oneg is a lovely<br />

way to share the celebration with KKBE's entire<br />

congregation! Sometimes several families choose to<br />

share an Oneg Sponsorship, which makes it twice the<br />

fun.<br />

On the left are dates that still need Oneg sponsors.<br />

Sponsoring an Oneg costs approximately $144. Please<br />

contact Diane Katz at 795-2611 to schedule your date!<br />

Thank You to Our September Oneg Sponsors<br />

September 14th- the Cohn family in honor of Elliott’s Bar<br />

Mitzvah<br />

September 21st - Allan & Nancy Mysel in loving memory<br />

of their daughter, Nancy.<br />

September 28th - Audrey & Mark Mandel in celebration<br />

of Audrey and Dana’s birthday.<br />

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IN ISRAEL<br />

June<br />

5th - 16th<br />

2013<br />

Rabbi Stephanie Alexander<br />

will lead a wonderful and<br />

exciting 11-day trip to<br />

Israel next summer.<br />

Watch your mailboxes this month for a<br />

brochure and registration form!<br />

Jerusalem<br />

The Old City<br />

Israel Museum<br />

Mount Herzl<br />

Yad Vashem<br />

Kinneret<br />

Golan Heights<br />

Dead Sea<br />

Masada<br />

Tel Aviv<br />

And much,<br />

much more!<br />

This tour is<br />

operated<br />

by Chase Inc.<br />

At this ti me, the<br />

Trip is open to<br />

KKBE members<br />

only. For further<br />

information or to<br />

sign up, please<br />

contact Leah<br />

Chase by phone<br />

at (828) 649-<br />

1581 or (843)<br />

556-0525 or by<br />

email at<br />

leahlfc@aol.com<br />

exÅxÅuÜtÇvx<br />

exÅxÅuÜtÇvx<br />

Bronze plaques<br />

memorializing<br />

loved ones may be<br />

added to the<br />

Yahrzeit Tablets<br />

in the Temple.<br />

If you would like<br />

to purchase a plaque,<br />

please call the Temple office<br />

for full information.<br />

723-1090.


<strong>October</strong> 12th, 2012<br />

7:00pm<br />

Led by Rabbi Alexander & Koleinu<br />

at<br />

Franke at Seaside<br />

in the Rhodenberg Chapel<br />

Or you can join us for our 8:00pm service in our<br />

historic synagogue downtown.<br />

Franke is located in the Seaside Farms subdivision<br />

1885 Rifle Range Blvd.<br />

In Mt. Pleasant, just South of the IOP Connector<br />

For more detailed information, go to<br />

www.frankeatseaside.org<br />

The following dates have been set for future East Cooper Services:<br />

January 11, 2013 led by a lay leader (to be announced)<br />

March 23, 2013 Hav dallah led by Tamar BenArdout<br />

June 28, 2013 led by Rabbi Alex ander w ith Koleinu<br />

Please mark your calendars! If you would like to host an Oneg for<br />

one of these services (either to celebrate an occasion or just to be<br />

so generous), please contact Sarah Blum at (843) 864-6936 (cell).<br />

ORT Charleston Annual Brunch<br />

ORT is proud to be honoring<br />

Roxann Spandorfer<br />

with the 2012 Commitment to Education Award<br />

& Celebrate ORT Charleston's Past Presidents:<br />

William Ackerman*, P. Maurice Fox,<br />

Charles Markowitz, Irving Robinson*,<br />

Aaron Solomon*, Harvey Spar, Eli<br />

Hyman, Ed Kronsberg &<br />

Michael Stricker<br />

Sunday, <strong>October</strong> 28th, 10:30 a.m.<br />

Charleston JCC<br />

To learn more about ORT, the Annual Brunch or<br />

To Make a Donation/Purchase Tickets,<br />

please visit http://www.ORTAtlanta.org/charleston.php or<br />

call the ORT Office at 404-327-5266<br />

CLYDE’S CLYDE’S BAR BAR<br />

BAR<br />

MITZVAH MITZVAH PARTY<br />

PARTY<br />

<strong>October</strong> 27, 2012<br />

from 8-11pm<br />

College of Charleston<br />

TD Arena McAlister<br />

Suite<br />

Join the Jewish Student Union/Hillel, the College of Charleston<br />

Cougar Club, and the Halsey Institute in a special celebration of<br />

Clyde the Cougar’s Bar Mitzvah and meet the new head men’s<br />

and women’s basketball coaches and their teams!<br />

Light Hors D’oeuvres, Silent Auction and dancing<br />

Proceeds will benefit ORT’s Alyn Hospital Rehabilitation Center<br />

in Israel and Jew ish Student Life at the College.<br />

For more information or to get involved,<br />

email clydesbarmitzvah@gmail.com.<br />

To purchase tickets go to, go.cofc.edu/jsuhillelstore<br />

KKBE’s Board of Trustees<br />

Proudly introduces a new way to<br />

memorialize<br />

the times in your life that bring you<br />

joy on<br />

The The CHAI WALL<br />

Chai Wall plaques can celebrate a birth,<br />

Brit Milah, consecration, B’nei Mitzvah,<br />

confirmation, graduation,<br />

marriage, anniversary, conversion, or<br />

special service to our Temple.<br />

If it brings you joy, a CHAI WALL plaque<br />

fits.<br />

Handsome 3” by 5” cast bronze plaques<br />

with raised inscriptions ($360 each( will<br />

commemorate your message for<br />

generations to come.<br />

Plaques will be mounted on the back<br />

Temple Garden’s brick wall.<br />

To To order order your your your your CHAI CHAI WALL WALL plaque,<br />

plaque,<br />

call call the the Temple Temple Office Office—723<br />

Office Office 723 723-1090.<br />

723 1090. 1090.<br />

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Todah Todah Rabah<br />

Rabah<br />

...to Five people have already signed up for KKBE's Break-the-Fast<br />

Team! Hats off to Franne Schwarb, Tina Sonega, Rachael<br />

Smilowitz, Lois Sugarman and Wayne Rackoff. Other cooks or<br />

shoppers are always welcome! Email office@kkbe.org<br />

...to the men and women of the Ritual Committee who have worked<br />

diligently for many months to prepare our congregation for the Days of<br />

Awe. Thanks go to Chair, Art Richek, Rabbi Alexander, Shula Holtz,<br />

Dolly Jaffee, Heidi Kunitz-Levy, Larry Libater, Ellen McGeady,<br />

Anita Rosenberg, Margaret Seres, Robin Shuler, Lois Sugarman,<br />

and Sarah Swingle.<br />

...to Larry Libater who led Shabbat Morning Service on Saturday,<br />

September 8th.<br />

...to Tamar BenArdout and Chelsea Cash for Tamar's creative design<br />

and their painting all down our Religious School hallway. It's a must<br />

see!<br />

..to all the KKBE folks who made Selichot a memorable, lovely<br />

holiday. Hats off to Rabbi Alexander, Art Richek, Dolly Jaffee and<br />

Sarah Swingle, Emily Kahn Perry, Robin Shuler, Heidi Kunitz-Levy,<br />

Tamar BenArdout, Donna Spencer and Rob Maniscalco.<br />

...to Louis Tick for lending us his LCD projector so we have live video<br />

feed of our services in the Barbara Pearlstine Social Hall while<br />

CHARLEY uses KKBE's projector for its teen services in the Board<br />

Room.<br />

..to Amy Horner and Sharon Leff for supervising our 3rd - 5th<br />

graders.<br />

...to the Danielle, Julie and Steven Ziff Youth Education Fund for<br />

publishing our first Machzur Scrapbook.<br />

...to the Sisterhood for sprucing up our restrooms before High Holy<br />

Days.<br />

..to Maxine and Henry Freudenberg for providing our beautiful Rosh<br />

Hashanah Floral arrangements.<br />

...to CHARLEY members for slicing apples and pouring honey.<br />

...to Rabbi Holz who blew the Shofar for the CHARLEY Service, 3rd-<br />

5th graders and the children in Babysitting--all of our youth!<br />

Thank you ● Thinking of you ● Wishing you<br />

a speedy recovery ● Congratulations on<br />

your new baby ● In memory of ● In honor<br />

of ● Happy Birthday! ● Best Wishes in your<br />

retirement ● Mazel Tov on<br />

your anniversary ● Congratulations on<br />

your graduation ● Best wishes in your new<br />

career ● You bought a car!<br />

Please send your tribute gifts in<br />

multiples of Chai…..<br />

A Special thanks to our<br />

friends at Sticky Fingers on<br />

Meeting St. w ho provide us<br />

our Salad for our<br />

Congregational Dinners.<br />

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Harold & Lillian Jacobs<br />

Mitzvah Memberships<br />

The generosity of KKBE’s Mitzvah<br />

Members helps us help members in<br />

need. Todah rabah!<br />

Circle of All Generations<br />

Circle of Vision<br />

Kevin & Leslie Archer<br />

Kenneth & Nadine Chavin<br />

Larry & Jan Lipov<br />

Mark & Judith Green<br />

Peter Dubin & Debarah Wallace<br />

Henry & Maxine Freudenberg<br />

Emily & Todd Abedon<br />

Mary Ann Aberman<br />

Barry & Katherine Abrams<br />

Mark & Michele Adelson<br />

Elza Alterman<br />

Mark & Carol Antman<br />

Ann Apple<br />

David Bachman & Marjorie Rath<br />

Jan & Jo Ellen Basile<br />

Howard & Sharon Becker<br />

Traci Black<br />

Marcy Bolster & John DiMuzio<br />

Jeffrey & <strong>Beth</strong> Buncher<br />

Wendy Burkhardt<br />

Bobbi Cohn<br />

Sandra Conradi<br />

Andrew & Kathryn Davidson<br />

David Dumas<br />

Barbara & Edwin Epstein<br />

Alan & Rella Eysen<br />

Kate Fortney & Herschel Falek<br />

Gerald & Beverly Finkel<br />

Maury & Joyce Finkelstein<br />

Neil & Deborah Fisher<br />

Brian & Amy Frain<br />

Julie & Scott Glass<br />

Ken & Marion Goodman<br />

Arnold & Diane Goodstein<br />

Samuel Greene<br />

Max & Ann Hellman<br />

Edward Herschaft<br />

Chuck & Marty Jackson<br />

Murray Jaffe<br />

J. Daniel & Mary Kasman<br />

Martin Jay & Julie Klaper<br />

Jim & Heide Klein<br />

Michael Kogan<br />

Marilyn Laken<br />

Marilyn & David Larach<br />

Alice Levkoff<br />

Circle of Understanding<br />

Circle of Spirit<br />

Circle of Hope<br />

Edwin Pearlstine, Jr.<br />

Margaret Seres<br />

Jack & Florence Kurtz<br />

Allan & Carol Mysel<br />

Wade & Diana Manaker<br />

Mark & Audrey Mandel<br />

Janyce McMenamin<br />

Doris Meddin<br />

Joseph & Rhetta Mendelsohn<br />

Robert & Teresa New<br />

Robert & <strong>Beth</strong> Novick<br />

William & Chris Olasov<br />

Jan Pomerantz<br />

Debby & Murray Passo<br />

Susan Pearlstine<br />

Claudia Pollack<br />

Robert & Sue Prenner<br />

Donald & Josine Reavis<br />

Richard & Marianne Rosen<br />

Robert & Susan Rosen<br />

Shifra Rosen<br />

Eric & Michelle Rovner<br />

Ira & Anita Rosenberg<br />

Phil Saul & Amy Davis<br />

Rich & Randi Serrins<br />

Steven & Katherine Shapiro<br />

David Shatz<br />

Richard & Dunlap Silver<br />

Michael & Doris Silverman<br />

Ronald & Paula Silverman<br />

Robert & Lisa Silvers<br />

Joseph & Debbie Sistino<br />

Kerry & Cynthia Solomon<br />

Frank & Claudia Strobing<br />

Lois Sugarman<br />

Paul & Patricia Sykes<br />

Edward & Diane Tichi<br />

Lisa Toporek<br />

Robert & Deborah Turkewitz<br />

Jack, z"l & Judith Vane<br />

Martin & Shelley Yonas<br />

Charlotte & Charles Zaglin<br />

Stephen & Julie Ziff


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Mazel Tov<br />

...to Meredith and Ben Werner on the birth of their son, Eliot Holden<br />

Werner, July 31, 2012. Proud grandparents are Susan Ziman and Andy<br />

Steingold and Marsha Werner. "Bubbles" Ziman welcomes her great<br />

grandson and is looking forward to meeting him very soon.<br />

...to Jan Pomerantz on the birth of her grandson, Marshall Davis Brazzle,<br />

son of Rebecca Sugarman & Greg Brazzle.<br />

... to Jon & Pooja Elias on the birth of their daughter, Kiran Adele Elias -<br />

born July 24th, 2012.<br />

...to Alex & Adina Gross on the naming of their son, Simone Gross -<br />

August 24th, 2012.<br />

...to Aaron & Karen Perlmutter (Marty and Jeri Perlmutter's son) on<br />

the birth of their son, Caleb Jack Perlmutter - born August 31st, 2012.<br />

...to the KKBE members featured in Sunday's Post and Courier--Robin<br />

Shuler who shared Jewish Apps for smart phones and Anita Rosenberg<br />

who was in a picture with Robert Moses who is leading the 'transition' of<br />

Temple Sinai and to Rabbi Alexander who is featured on the front cover of<br />

the September 6th issue of the Charleston Mercury.<br />

...to Elliott Cohn for becoming Bar Mitzvah on September 15th!<br />

...to all those who helped KKBE during the Days of Awe: our generous<br />

High Holy Days’ Patrons for their loving support; Rabbi Alexander for<br />

inspirational sermons, Heidi Kunitz Levy and the dedicated members of<br />

Koleinu for their lovely choral music; Brandon Nichols for his haunting<br />

French horn; and Yuriy Bekker and his beautiful violin; Ben Weiss and his<br />

viola; Carol Beyer and her cello; Kathleen Wilson and her harp; Julia<br />

Harlow and her accompaniment; Ellen Dressler Moryl for playing her cello<br />

and arranging our instrumental music; all those who accepted KKBE<br />

honors (ably coordinated by Shula Holtz and Brenda Braye); to the<br />

Brotherhood Ushers; and our officers Sterling Dutton, Mike Lyczany<br />

and Shilah Murray . Together, you began our New Year in such a<br />

sweet way.<br />

...to all the family of Doris Meddin, who celebrated the Sept. 22nd wedding<br />

of Shea Meddin and Christina Marie Forte in Atlanta. We've seen proof<br />

that Doris walked down the aisle on Stuart's arm and danced ‘till the wee<br />

small hours of the morning after the ceremony!<br />

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Now is the time to visit Chosen Treasures!<br />

Stop in and pick up some great decorations for<br />

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