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vibrations, sensations, and<br />

stimulation more readily than other<br />

people. Their sensory processing<br />

system (SPS) is more attuned and<br />

processes bodily experiences more<br />

deeply. Their SPS is sensitive to<br />

sensory and emotional stimulation<br />

and overstimulation. According to<br />

Axford’s website, 20% of the<br />

population are HSP; they tend to<br />

develop autoimmune disorders such<br />

as celiac disease and chronic fatigue<br />

syndrome, anxiety diseases, and<br />

struggle with addictions (food,<br />

alcohol, relationships). HSPs often<br />

develop gifts that benefit others<br />

based on sensitivity; for example,<br />

highly developed empathy,<br />

compassion, and intuition.<br />

Axford offers an online video to<br />

teach people about HSP. Israel gives<br />

Axford’s manifesto to clients to, in<br />

turn, pass on to their friends, family,<br />

colleagues to see if they can handle<br />

them in the truth of their inner light.<br />

The work is about reframing the<br />

internalized message from “You’re<br />

too sensitive,” to “I’m sensitive, too”.<br />

It’s a shift from “what’s wrong with<br />

me”, to “I belong as a highly<br />

sensitive person, and I work in a<br />

totally different way that’s just as<br />

important” (retrieved from http://<br />

sensitiveandthriving.com).<br />

“I help people move through their<br />

obsession with food (it could be<br />

drugs, alcohol, sex, washing hands,<br />

shopping) to support them in the<br />

enormity of what they are feeling and<br />

support them in handling them. I<br />

coach them in being able to be with<br />

all that they are,” Israel says.<br />

Embodiment<br />

Part of Israel’s work involves<br />

awareness, helping clients sense their<br />

sensations, sitting with the bodily<br />

experiences, sitting with acceptance<br />

not judgment. This process is often<br />

labeled embodiment, being embodied<br />

or mindful.<br />

Israel says “embodiment is<br />

learning to be with ourselves even if<br />

all our sensitivity buttons are pushed.<br />

We can stay with our self and<br />

embrace our own experience.<br />

Embodiment is not stagnate. It is<br />

active, flowing. It changes every<br />

moment. You have to go with it.<br />

Embodiment is an intimate rapport<br />

with your life pulse. I feel that it’s<br />

hard to be an authentic human being<br />

in this culture. Most people don’t<br />

know how to do it; it takes getting off<br />

the doing wheel.”<br />

“When we learn how to deal with<br />

our emotions it’s like being in the<br />

ocean riding waves.”<br />

Israel started working with Karla<br />

McLaren and a tool McLaren created<br />

called the Language of Emotion<br />

Cards. They were designed to help<br />

people increase their emotional<br />

awareness and their empathic skills.<br />

There are twenty-four cards,<br />

seventeen offer insight into different<br />

emotions including hate, anger,<br />

shame, envy, sadness, and suicidal<br />

ideation. The remaining seven cards<br />

teach empathic mindfulness skills<br />

supporting emotional and empathic<br />

awareness. "Each card has questions<br />

about what triggers the emotion,<br />

question to ask yourself when the<br />

emotion arises which aid reflective<br />

explorations, such as 'what's about<br />

this emotion is beneficial?' 'what gifts<br />

does this emotion bring?' 'what needs<br />

protection?' There are no wrong or<br />

bad emotions, all have value and<br />

offer information. For example, anger<br />

reveals there's a boundary issue being<br />

triggered. A suicidal urge often<br />

means something is dying to change,<br />

something needs to be transformed,<br />

reborn. I use these cards daily with<br />

clients. I work with the cards because<br />

we are not taught how to deal with<br />

our feelings our emotions in this<br />

culture. The source/root of addiction<br />

is not being able to embody the<br />

enormity of what we feel; instead<br />

when we feel shame, envy, etc. we<br />

drink, binge eat and throw up,” Israel<br />

says.<br />

“McLaren talks about the beauty<br />

of our raw emotions like fear,<br />

jealousy, and anger,” Israel adds.<br />

“They are actually a beautiful<br />

experience before we layer on our<br />

story. We need to be aware and learn<br />

to feel our raw emotions. Be able to<br />

say to ourselves, ‘Oh this is just some<br />

heat, it will give me energy, the<br />

impulse to do something.’ Be with<br />

the raw beauty of the raw emotion.<br />

Somatic Psychotherapy Today | Fall 2014 | Volume 4 Number 2 | page 79

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