SPT-Fall2014
SPT-Fall2014
SPT-Fall2014
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vibrations, sensations, and<br />
stimulation more readily than other<br />
people. Their sensory processing<br />
system (SPS) is more attuned and<br />
processes bodily experiences more<br />
deeply. Their SPS is sensitive to<br />
sensory and emotional stimulation<br />
and overstimulation. According to<br />
Axford’s website, 20% of the<br />
population are HSP; they tend to<br />
develop autoimmune disorders such<br />
as celiac disease and chronic fatigue<br />
syndrome, anxiety diseases, and<br />
struggle with addictions (food,<br />
alcohol, relationships). HSPs often<br />
develop gifts that benefit others<br />
based on sensitivity; for example,<br />
highly developed empathy,<br />
compassion, and intuition.<br />
Axford offers an online video to<br />
teach people about HSP. Israel gives<br />
Axford’s manifesto to clients to, in<br />
turn, pass on to their friends, family,<br />
colleagues to see if they can handle<br />
them in the truth of their inner light.<br />
The work is about reframing the<br />
internalized message from “You’re<br />
too sensitive,” to “I’m sensitive, too”.<br />
It’s a shift from “what’s wrong with<br />
me”, to “I belong as a highly<br />
sensitive person, and I work in a<br />
totally different way that’s just as<br />
important” (retrieved from http://<br />
sensitiveandthriving.com).<br />
“I help people move through their<br />
obsession with food (it could be<br />
drugs, alcohol, sex, washing hands,<br />
shopping) to support them in the<br />
enormity of what they are feeling and<br />
support them in handling them. I<br />
coach them in being able to be with<br />
all that they are,” Israel says.<br />
Embodiment<br />
Part of Israel’s work involves<br />
awareness, helping clients sense their<br />
sensations, sitting with the bodily<br />
experiences, sitting with acceptance<br />
not judgment. This process is often<br />
labeled embodiment, being embodied<br />
or mindful.<br />
Israel says “embodiment is<br />
learning to be with ourselves even if<br />
all our sensitivity buttons are pushed.<br />
We can stay with our self and<br />
embrace our own experience.<br />
Embodiment is not stagnate. It is<br />
active, flowing. It changes every<br />
moment. You have to go with it.<br />
Embodiment is an intimate rapport<br />
with your life pulse. I feel that it’s<br />
hard to be an authentic human being<br />
in this culture. Most people don’t<br />
know how to do it; it takes getting off<br />
the doing wheel.”<br />
“When we learn how to deal with<br />
our emotions it’s like being in the<br />
ocean riding waves.”<br />
Israel started working with Karla<br />
McLaren and a tool McLaren created<br />
called the Language of Emotion<br />
Cards. They were designed to help<br />
people increase their emotional<br />
awareness and their empathic skills.<br />
There are twenty-four cards,<br />
seventeen offer insight into different<br />
emotions including hate, anger,<br />
shame, envy, sadness, and suicidal<br />
ideation. The remaining seven cards<br />
teach empathic mindfulness skills<br />
supporting emotional and empathic<br />
awareness. "Each card has questions<br />
about what triggers the emotion,<br />
question to ask yourself when the<br />
emotion arises which aid reflective<br />
explorations, such as 'what's about<br />
this emotion is beneficial?' 'what gifts<br />
does this emotion bring?' 'what needs<br />
protection?' There are no wrong or<br />
bad emotions, all have value and<br />
offer information. For example, anger<br />
reveals there's a boundary issue being<br />
triggered. A suicidal urge often<br />
means something is dying to change,<br />
something needs to be transformed,<br />
reborn. I use these cards daily with<br />
clients. I work with the cards because<br />
we are not taught how to deal with<br />
our feelings our emotions in this<br />
culture. The source/root of addiction<br />
is not being able to embody the<br />
enormity of what we feel; instead<br />
when we feel shame, envy, etc. we<br />
drink, binge eat and throw up,” Israel<br />
says.<br />
“McLaren talks about the beauty<br />
of our raw emotions like fear,<br />
jealousy, and anger,” Israel adds.<br />
“They are actually a beautiful<br />
experience before we layer on our<br />
story. We need to be aware and learn<br />
to feel our raw emotions. Be able to<br />
say to ourselves, ‘Oh this is just some<br />
heat, it will give me energy, the<br />
impulse to do something.’ Be with<br />
the raw beauty of the raw emotion.<br />
Somatic Psychotherapy Today | Fall 2014 | Volume 4 Number 2 | page 79