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young people’s PRACTICE<br />

Buddha Nature<br />

An Exercise for Children<br />

by Terry Masters<br />

photo by Emily Whittle<br />

NOTE What the facilitator might say is <strong>in</strong> boldface. <strong>The</strong> answers <strong>in</strong> parentheses<br />

are the answers our children gave us.<br />

We know that a Buddha lives <strong>in</strong>side of each of us. Not the man who lived a long<br />

time ago, of course! But the nature of that man who lived thousands of years<br />

ago. <strong>The</strong> Buddha’s nature lives <strong>in</strong>side each of us.<br />

What do you th<strong>in</strong>k the Buddha’s nature is like (Happy, generous, compassionate,<br />

k<strong>in</strong>d, lov<strong>in</strong>g, open, free, patient, etc.)<br />

Th<strong>in</strong>k of someone you love very much. Do you sometimes see the Buddha’s<br />

nature <strong>in</strong> that person What does that person do, how does that person show<br />

you that the Buddha’s nature is <strong>in</strong>side of her or him<br />

It is usually easy to see the Buddha’s nature <strong>in</strong> someone we love. But the<br />

Buddha’s nature is <strong>in</strong> everyone, even people we do not th<strong>in</strong>k we like at all. Th<strong>in</strong>k<br />

of someone you do not like very much. Have you ever seen the Buddha’s nature<br />

peek out of that person even a little bit<br />

What did it look like (<strong>The</strong> person smiled; the person once said a nice th<strong>in</strong>g to a<br />

friend of m<strong>in</strong>e; the person likes my cat.)<br />

Why is it important for us to remember to look for the Buddha’s nature <strong>in</strong> ourselves<br />

and <strong>in</strong> everyone we meet (So that we can love ourselves and others; so<br />

we can be happy and make others happy; so we can all have peace.)<br />

Let’s learn a song about how we feel when we notice our friend’s Buddha<br />

Nature.<br />

S<strong>in</strong>g:<br />

Dear friend,<br />

Dear friend,<br />

Let me tell you how I feel<br />

You have given me such treasure<br />

I love you so<br />

What do you th<strong>in</strong>k the “treasure” is that we s<strong>in</strong>g about <strong>in</strong> this song Could it<br />

be our friend’s Buddha Nature<br />

Feel<strong>in</strong>gs<br />

My heart is blush<strong>in</strong>g red<br />

I have cried for you once, I will not<br />

cry for you twice<br />

How I miss you<br />

My heart is heart broken<br />

Somewhere deep <strong>in</strong> your heart I<br />

I know you love me so much<br />

I am wait<strong>in</strong>g<br />

I can feel your heart want<strong>in</strong>g me.<br />

Yakira Traub is seven years old and lives <strong>in</strong><br />

Hove, England. She loves animals, yoga, and<br />

miso soup. Her mother tells us that she is<br />

deal<strong>in</strong>g with pa<strong>in</strong>ful feel<strong>in</strong>gs follow<strong>in</strong>g her<br />

parents’ divorce through words and music.<br />

She is a prolific reader, loves to write<br />

poetry, and has begun play<strong>in</strong>g the viol<strong>in</strong>.<br />

photo by Dave Tester<br />

How do we feel about our friends when they show us—when they give us—their<br />

Buddha nature (We love her; we feel happy; we feel grateful.)<br />

Let’s s<strong>in</strong>g the song aga<strong>in</strong>.<br />

After the children have learned the words, it is fun to s<strong>in</strong>g the song as a round<br />

<strong>in</strong> two or three (or more!) parts.<br />

This song is a good way to say “thank you” to your friend or someone <strong>in</strong> your<br />

family. When might you want to s<strong>in</strong>g this song (When my brother doesn’t hit<br />

me; when my mom gives me a surprise <strong>in</strong> my lunch box; when Daddy reads me<br />

a story; when my grandmother makes up a song for me; when my friend lets me<br />

play with his roller blades)<br />

the M<strong>in</strong>dfulness <strong>Bell</strong> 35

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