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Her words gave me a lesson. No skills and<br />

theories would be a panacea for all kinds of<br />

problems and situation. Sometimes I sought<br />

opportunities to practice newly learnt therapies<br />

or skills, yet, I forgot the very heart of social<br />

work – empathetic understanding – to feel the<br />

client’s feelings, being sensitive to the client’s<br />

needs.<br />

As a fresh social worker, I was aware that<br />

lacking practical experience leads to a sense<br />

of uncertainty during the encounter with a<br />

client. As this sense of uncertainty grows, I<br />

deliberately practice complicated therapies or<br />

skills in order to ease the feeling of insecurity,<br />

some of them were even too complicated for<br />

me to well handle. Apparently, the way it works<br />

serves the worker’s needs rather than putting<br />

the client’s needs in the first place. When I look<br />

back, I found that I overlooked the importance<br />

of being presence during the interview, not<br />

only physically but also emotionally presence.<br />

Indeed, a caring, deeply human meeting<br />

between the two souls during the therapy gives<br />

rise to the greatest therapeutic function.<br />

This is a significant experience in my<br />

professional development. Since then, when I<br />

face my service users, I would always remind<br />

myself, “what are his needs”? Simple but true,<br />

they always starts from where the client is.<br />

<strong>HSBC</strong> <strong>Social</strong> <strong>Work</strong> Scholarship <strong>2011</strong>-12 26

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