young REFLECTIONSLove EqualsBy Emily HilsbergWWhat love means to me is I love spend<strong>in</strong>g time with myfamily and friends. What I love to do is go<strong>in</strong>g to DeerPark. It is a Buddhist monastery. It is very unusual.Deer Park has a Tea Room. <strong>The</strong> tea room is at SolidityHamlet and Clarity Hamlet. You can also have bonfires.Dennis and his dog Smokey had a bonfire with us. Itcan be very cold at night. Trust me it gets super cold.That’s what love means to me, be<strong>in</strong>g with my family.Deer Park is where Monks and Nuns live. To live thereyou need to shave your head and wear brown and blueoutfits. <strong>The</strong>re is a koi fish pond.Emily Hilsberg, age 10, lives with her family <strong>in</strong>Culver City, California. She received theTwo Promises at Deer Park and her Dharmaname is Serenity Sunrise <strong>of</strong> the Heart.DeepRelaxationfor ChildrenBy Sister Jewel, Chau NghiemAt the Family Day <strong>of</strong> M<strong>in</strong>dfulness at Deer Park, the children led the deeprelaxation for the whole sangha. It was so sweet! Here are excerpts fromthat practice.Deep relaxation is a wonderful chance to allow our bodies torest. When our body is at ease and relaxed, our m<strong>in</strong>d is also calmand at peace. <strong>The</strong> practice <strong>of</strong> deep relaxation helps our body andm<strong>in</strong>d to heal. Please take the time to practice it <strong>of</strong>ten— for fiveor ten m<strong>in</strong>utes when you wake up <strong>in</strong> the morn<strong>in</strong>g, before go<strong>in</strong>gto bed <strong>in</strong> the even<strong>in</strong>g, or dur<strong>in</strong>g the middle <strong>of</strong> the day. <strong>The</strong> mostimportant th<strong>in</strong>g is to enjoy it.Please lie down comfortably on your back. Close your eyes.Allow your arms to rest gently on either side <strong>of</strong> your body. Letyour legs and feet relax, open<strong>in</strong>g outwards.• We beg<strong>in</strong> by follow<strong>in</strong>g our breath<strong>in</strong>g. When we breathe <strong>in</strong>,we feel our tummy rise up. When we breathe out, we feelour tummy go down aga<strong>in</strong>. Our breath<strong>in</strong>g comes <strong>in</strong> andout like waves on the ocean, very relaxed, very peaceful.Just notice the rise and fall <strong>of</strong> your belly.• As you breathe <strong>in</strong> and out, become aware <strong>of</strong> your wholebody ly<strong>in</strong>g down. With each out-breath, feel yourself relaxdeeper and deeper <strong>in</strong>to the floor, lett<strong>in</strong>g go <strong>of</strong> everyth<strong>in</strong>g:worries, fear, or thoughts.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my two hands. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, Icompletely relax all the muscles <strong>in</strong> my two hands.Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel lucky to have two good hands;breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile to my two hands. My two hands areso precious! With my two hands, I can pa<strong>in</strong>t. I can draw.I can write. I can hold hands with my friend, and much,much more.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my two arms. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I allowmy arms to completely relax. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel happy tohave two strong arms. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I let go <strong>of</strong> any tightmuscles and I feel joy and ease <strong>in</strong> my arms. With my armsI can hug Mom, Dad, Grandma, or Grandpa. Now I cansay thank you to my two arms.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my shoulders. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, Ilet my shoulders rest and give all their weight to thefloor. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I send my love to my shoulders and40 Summer 2007
young REFLECTIONSphoto by Emily Whittlebreath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile to my shoulders. Every time Ibreathe out, I feel them relax more and more deeply.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my two feet. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile tomy feet. I wiggle my toes, all ten <strong>of</strong> them. How nice tohave two feet! With my two feet, I can walk and run, playsports, dance, and ride a bike. And when I am tired, mytwo feet love to rest. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I stretch out my feet.Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I let my feet relax. Thank you, feet!• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my legs. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I enjoy mytwo legs. My legs help me stand up straight, each day alittle taller. With my two legs, I can sit cross-legged ordo the splits or walk back and forth to school. It feels sogood to have my legs. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I stretch out my legs.Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I let my legs relax.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my two eyes. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile tomy eyes. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I let all the many muscles aroundmy eyes relax. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I send my two eyes my loveand care. My two eyes are a gift! I can see birds fly<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>the bright blue sky. When I’m sad, I can cry and let thetears flow. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I squeeze my eyes tight. Breath<strong>in</strong>gout, I release them and let them relax.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel my lungs grow bigger. When I breatheout, I feel them shr<strong>in</strong>k. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I feel so happy tohave two good lungs. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile to them withk<strong>in</strong>dness. <strong>The</strong>y br<strong>in</strong>g oxygen <strong>in</strong>to my body and give methe power to speak, to s<strong>in</strong>g, to shout, to laugh. When I wasjust born, the first th<strong>in</strong>g I did was take a deep <strong>in</strong>-breath.I breathe the fresh air <strong>in</strong>to my lungs and breath<strong>in</strong>g out,let them rest and relax. Thank you, lungs for help<strong>in</strong>g mebreathe!• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I know my heart is beat<strong>in</strong>g on the left side<strong>of</strong> my chest. Breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I enjoy my heart and let it rest.With my <strong>in</strong>-breath, I send my love to my heart. With myout-breath, I smile to my heart. My heart keeps me aliveand it is always there for me, every m<strong>in</strong>ute, every day.Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I know that my heart loves me. Breath<strong>in</strong>gout, I promise to live <strong>in</strong> a way that will help my heart to behealthy and strong. With each exhalation, I feel my heartrelax<strong>in</strong>g more and more, and I feel each cell <strong>in</strong> my heartsmil<strong>in</strong>g with ease and joy.• Now, I br<strong>in</strong>g my attention to a place <strong>in</strong> my body that maybe sick or <strong>in</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, I allow this area to rest,breath<strong>in</strong>g out, I smile to it with k<strong>in</strong>dness. I know that thereare other parts <strong>of</strong> my body that are still strong and healthy.I feel the support, energy, and love <strong>of</strong> the healthy parts <strong>of</strong>my body penetrat<strong>in</strong>g the weak area, sooth<strong>in</strong>g and heal<strong>in</strong>git. As I breathe <strong>in</strong>, I know my body is a miracle becauseit can heal when it gets sick. As I breathe out, I let go <strong>of</strong>any worry or fear I might hold <strong>in</strong> my body. Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>and out, I smile with love and confidence to the area <strong>of</strong> mybody that is not well.• Breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> and out, I enjoy the feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> my whole bodyly<strong>in</strong>g down, very relaxed and calm. I smile to my wholebody and send my love and compassion to my whole body.If you like, you can now s<strong>in</strong>g a few relax<strong>in</strong>g songs or lullabies, or play s<strong>of</strong>tmusic for a few m<strong>in</strong>utes.Now the practice <strong>of</strong> deep relaxation is over. You can wiggleyour hands and feet and slowly stretch. <strong>The</strong>n roll on to one side.When you are ready, you can open your eyes. Take your time toget up, calmly and lightly. Enjoy carry<strong>in</strong>g the m<strong>in</strong>dful energy youhave generated <strong>in</strong>to the rest <strong>of</strong> the day.Sister Jewel, Chau Nghiem is a nunliv<strong>in</strong>g at Deer Park Monastery.the M<strong>in</strong>dfulness Bell 41