mediator, nor did they seem to suggestany precedent or informedlogic for them. They certainly hadno “In order for us to forgive you,you must…” or “Unless you dothese, we will…” statements. Theywere merely written and handed tome, and many others. A brief synopsisof them includes a demand tocancel a tour (which was in April,and was more of a trip than a tour);that I publicly admit what I did;that I disclose my “sexual misconduct”to roommates, lovers, activistgroups I work with – as well asanywhere I perform or sell myzines; to stop touching “wymyn”(altogether); to seek therapy; totake anti-oppression training; toeducate other men about this; andto take action to “compensate”those I harmed.After the zine was distributed,a close friend, who I hada sexual history with, terminatedour friendship afterhearing about all this.Apparently, she had oftenfelt pressured by me tohave sex, and so did itmore to shut me up, orbecause she felt guilty, orfeared losing me as afriend, or because I woreher down with nagging –so she often was having sexshe didn’t really want tohave. She said, more or less,that she didn’t really want tobring this up with me untilafter reading the otherwomen’s complaints about me.She brought up points of the relationshipthat I didn’t think Iexploited so much as should havebeen more respectful and considerateof and simply was not – I wasolder, more stable in home andcareer, etc. I wasn’t decidedlymean. I really had not thought of alot of stuff I should have. I wasvery literally selfish and ignorant.One example was that growingup, her father had a history of violenceduring car trips. I knew this,that she was easily traumatized byyelling in a car. I still would yell ather during car trips. I knew somethingI did would have deep effectson her, and while I didn’t do thisspecifically TO hurt her, I was noteven considering being sensitive todeep emotions I knew she felt. Sheused the word “rape” to describehow she felt some of my actionswere “coercive” – not to describeany specific event, but to describethe tone of the relationship. Thiscrushed me. The fact that myactions could even be perceived assuch by the woman involved – thatsomeone I loved and admired andrespected had felt THAT hurt byme, was emotionally crippling.As I got in my car to drivecross-country to Portland, I foundthat the indymedia sites of the citiesI was stopping at had warningsabout the arrival of “admitted sexualassaulter, Rich Mackin” courtesyof the same people who did Baby,I’m a Manarchist! They quoted thezine as if it was another source.The results of this led to,among other things, a sizableIllustration by Rob Ruelas“Google search” list of sites thatsaid “admitted sexual predator RichMackin” which contained links tosites filled with third parties misinterpretingthe whole event in anynumber of ways.In early July, the Portland anarchistnewspaper Little Beirutrepublished the list of demandsfrom Baby, I’m a Manarchist!These included points asking me totake ownership of my actions andtelling me to “stop touchingwymyn.” Obviously, I am actingupon some demands with moregusto than others, but it’s interestingthat a three-month-old list ofthings to do was recently reprintedwithout asking the guy who it isabout if he is doing any of thethings on that list.I was asked/ demanded bynumerous people to not attend thePortland Zine Symposium in earlyAugust. However, there were plentyof copies of Manarchist as wellas stickers and fliers speaking outagainst me. Many of these calledfor “dialogue,” “communication,”and “accountability.” Yet none ofthem seemed interested in actuallycreating dialogue, simply presentingone side without contactinformation. It was clear the moodwasn’t to hold me accountable, butto humiliate and discredit me.Let me speak candidly. Imessed up. I have done some crappythings here. I admit it, and I amsorry for the bad that I have done.BUT I am only sorry for the badTHAT I HAVE DONE. Certain definitionsof assault might apply tomy actions, and the term “survive”has a definition that means “to continuedespite.” When someonerefers to “surviving assault,” theimages conjured up do not involvekissing a breast and stopping whenbeing told to stop.Was it wrong for me to do whatI did? Yes. Were there a number ofchoices I could have made to avoidthe situation? Yes. In these situations,was I consistently the onewho should have noted my powerand privilege and thus been moremindful, aware and respectful? Yes.Do I clearly have some personal<strong>issue</strong>s around sex, women, boundaries,and awareness of other’s feelings?Yes, and I need to work onthis all. And I AM working on thisall, and by all means, keep me incheck, keep me accountable. Butto label me a danger, a sexualpredator, a serial rapist? Well, toco-opt a bumper sticker about post911 bombings, “Justice, NotVengeance.” Like any person, Ineed to take full and total responsibilityfor what I have done, but Ican only take responsibility forwhat I personally have done,and what I specifically havedone, not for what abstractspeople assume I have done.An aside I think isimportant…A word about holdingpeople accountable…a few friends ofmine have reacted toall this by mentioningthat they have noticedthat I do seem a bitoverly sexual, or numbto boundaries, or somethingsimilar. The feedback,even by somepeople who know theaccusers, is that I amharmless, but irritating.While only I am in chargeof my behaviors, I want tosay that if you ever findyourself in this sort of friendrole, PLEASE speak up. Youdon’t have to call your friend asexist asshole, just point outspecifics as you see them. If afriend annoys people, and it doesn’tseem to be a decided action,consider that they might benefitfrom being called on their shit.Part of being friends is helpingsomeone grow. Sometimes thebest thing you can do for someoneis give them a wake up call, no matterhow little they want it.For a longer, more rantier versionof this, you can check outwww.richmackin.org/Projects/ABC/ABC.htmlFor more information on sexualassault and what men can do tomake themselves more aware,check out.www.thesafetynet.orgwww.mencanstoprape.orgwww.menagainstsexualviolence.orgAnd to see some of the lessonsI learned as a result of all of this,check out next <strong>issue</strong>’s column.–Rich Mackin17
But, if you’re going to ask Todd, Felizon, and me to stop publication on a book that has already beenprinted, the least you could do is point to the spot on the doll where the bad man touched you.How to Avoid Getting Blacklisted bya Bunch of CowardsPart 1: Run Screaming fromMessage BoardsThursdayTodd and I drove I-5 North to the PortlandZine Symposium, even though we both had thisvague sense that it was going to be a shit storm.I dreaded the event with every mile we traveled.I know it sounds silly to dread an event full ofkids who put out zines. It’s hard to imagine aless threatening crowd. But there were extenuatingcircumstances, which basically amounted tothis: a few months ago, two women accusedRich Mackin of sexual assault. Ordinarily, thiswouldn’t affect Todd or me personally, but,through our magazine, Razorcake, and throughRazorcake’s book-publishing arm, GorskyPress, we publish columns and books by RichMackin. In fact, two months before the allegations,we had agreed to publish a second book ofRich’s letters to corporations. Now, obviously, ifwe believed Rich Mackin were a sexualassaulter, we would be very hesitant to publishhim. I was just about to start working on the layoutof Rich’s new book when these allegationscame about, so I looked into them. They weren’tvery broadly publicized unless you spend a lotof time on anarchist or indymedia messageboards, which I don’t. But I followed all of themessage board conversations very closely. Iread everything I could about the <strong>issue</strong>. Thewomen themselves had posted a letter explainingtheir allegations on the PittsburghIndependent Media Center message board. Ofcourse, I read that, and the subsequent sevenpages of debate regarding the letter. I evencalled Rich and asked him what happened. Richtold me basically the same story that he wrotefor his column in this <strong>issue</strong>. I talked things overwith my wife, Felizon, who had read the letterand a bunch of the posts, and who is also a partnerin Gorsky Press. I talked it over with Todd,who’d followed everything as closely as I didand who had asked Rich about the allegations,too. When we had all the information that wasavailable to us, we reckoned that, based on whatwe knew, Rich had not committed sexualassault. The allegations were generally unsubstantiated.No charges had been filed. No hardevidence had surfaced for us to convict Rich.There was really very little to this case beyond abunch of anarchist kids writing to messageboards and calling for Rich’s castration. Eventhey did a very poor job of explaining what Richdid to deserve it. So we had a tough decision tomake: should we go ahead and publish Rich’s18 book, or should we cave in to abunch of baseless accusations that floodedobscure message boards? Actually, it wasn’t thattough of a decision. We went ahead and publishedthe book.After all the books were printed, but prior toour trip to Portland, the allegations of sexualassault started to stir up controversy again. Toddand I saw little signs of this. The most obvioussign came from Joe Beil – the guy who wrotethe Martin Luther King assassination article inRazorcake #14. Joe was also one of the organizersof the Portland Zine Symposium, and, as faras I know, one of Rich’s friends. Prior to theevent, he emailed me and asked me not torelease Rich’s book at PZS. He said that he’dbeen getting a lot of flack about the possibilityof Rich attending the zine fair, and that he wantedto avoid controversy.I’m not one to shy away from controversy,so I went ahead and tried to schedule a readingfor Rich, anyway.It was a weird situation. Everyone I calledseemed to be friendly and interested in havingTodd and me do a reading, but when I mentionedRich’s name, the conversation quicklyturned cold. The only exception to this camefrom Kevin at Powell’s Bookstore. He was reallycool, but he already had a reading booked forthat night. Other than my difficulty in schedulinga reading, which is a pretty difficult thing todo even if you’re not blacklisted, Todd and I hadno idea how much flack we would get by goingto PZS, or how deep the anti-Rich sentiment ran.Part 2: Learn to Love YourBanishmentAfter eighteen hours on the road, we sat inRich’s apartment, downing a twelve-pack ofHamm’s. Rich told us, “I’m not going to the zinefair. A bunch of people have asked me not to.”Rich paused and said, “Plus, there’s this.” Hehanded us a copy of a newsletter called LittleBeirut. The newsletter had printed a sidebar callingRich a known sexual predator and they hada list of demands that he must meet. Thenewsletter gave no information about Rich orthe allegations. They simply printed the list ofdemands. There was also no indication that, ifRich met those demands, he would be rewardedor even spared in any way. Rich told us that itcame from the zine, Baby, I’m a Manarchist,which is the zine where the original allegationswere made. “I just thought it would be a lot easierfor everyone if I didn’t go,” Rich said.Todd and I, of course, argued. We didn’t seea reason to adhere to unreasonable demandsmade by anonymous reactionaries. (Not that allof the demands were unreasonable. Some ofthem were actually good ideas, and Rich wasadhering to those. But there were also somedemands that were just ridiculous. For instance,there was the one that banned Rich from doingthings like hugging his mother.) We also pointedout that there was nothing in the demands thatexplicitly said that Rich shouldn’t attend PZS.Besides, we’d just traveled a thousand miles tosupport Rich’s right to continue to write andpublish. Surely, if we were standing up for him,he should stand up with us.At this point, Shawn Granton walked in.Shawn was Rich’s roommate and he used to doa comic for Razorcake.We discussed the situation with Shawn, and,since he, too, was one of the PZS organizers, Iasked him, “Can we just bring everything out inthe open? Can we have a classroom at the zinefair where anyone who’s interested can comeand talk to Rich and say whatever they want andhopefully get enough information to decide forthemselves whether or not Rich is really a sexualassaulter?”Shawn shook his head. He said, “We workedreally hard on this event. We want it to be aboutzines, not about Rich.”That seemed reasonable. Hell, I wanted thesame thing. That’s why I wanted a classroom: sowe could air all the grievances right at the beginningand curb the gossip. So I explained this toShawn and asked again if he could get us aclassroom to have this discussion. Shawn said,“I don’t know how to answer that.” Which washis way of answering “no.” Then, Shawn said,“We don’t want to ban anyone from the ZineSymposium. But we’d really appreciate it ifRich didn’t come.”We debated for a while, and Shawn keptgoing back to that phrase: “We don’t want to bananyone, but we’d really appreciate it if Rich didn’tcome.”In case you were wondering, yes, Rich wasin the room the whole time. Apparently, he wasstarting to get used to being banned from places.Part 3: Believe Everything You ReadFridayThe zine fair opened up at two o’clock thatFriday afternoon. Todd and I set up ourRazorcake/Gorsky Press table and braced ourselvesfor whatever would come. At first, itseemed like no big deal. People came by thetable and chatted with us. We sold some magazinesand had a few cool conversations. Oneperson handed me a flyer. On one side of theflyer was a dark photocopy of the cover of DearMr. Mackin... 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