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Coping with Seven Disruptive Personality Types in the Classroom

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play equally escapist video games. In short, <strong>the</strong>y will do virtually anyth<strong>in</strong>g ra<strong>the</strong>r thanplunge <strong>in</strong>to <strong>the</strong> drudgery of <strong>the</strong> assignment. Often, this form of escapism cont<strong>in</strong>ues for daysor weeks until <strong>the</strong> reality of <strong>the</strong> deadl<strong>in</strong>e approaches and <strong>the</strong> student is <strong>in</strong> a virtual panic,cramm<strong>in</strong>g o meet it.When <strong>the</strong>rapists have po<strong>in</strong>ted out to such students <strong>the</strong> ways <strong>in</strong> which <strong>the</strong>ir procrast<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gseem to represent unconscious feel<strong>in</strong>gs of rebellion and defiance aga<strong>in</strong>st <strong>the</strong> unpleasantacademic demands made by <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>in</strong>structors, <strong>the</strong>ir first reactions are usually defensive andskeptical. Upon closer exam<strong>in</strong>ation of <strong>the</strong> sequence of choices and decisions that underm<strong>in</strong>e<strong>the</strong>ir ability to work on <strong>the</strong>ir assignments, however, <strong>the</strong>se students often grasp how <strong>the</strong>irdefiance tripped <strong>the</strong>m up, and <strong>the</strong>y f<strong>in</strong>d ways to resist <strong>the</strong>ir rebellious pleasure seek<strong>in</strong>g andeven come to view <strong>the</strong>ir difficult assignments <strong>in</strong> a more positive light.Part of this process often <strong>in</strong>volves shedd<strong>in</strong>g light on how much <strong>the</strong>y resented, as children,<strong>the</strong>ir parents’ sometimes-authoritarian demands that <strong>the</strong>y carry out unpleasant tasks like,yes, carry<strong>in</strong>g out <strong>the</strong> garbage. If it has not occurred to you as of yet, consider now <strong>the</strong> factthat <strong>in</strong>structors, like <strong>the</strong>rapists, are often targeted <strong>with</strong> many of <strong>the</strong> same <strong>in</strong>tense feel<strong>in</strong>gs,both negative and positive, that students have long harbored toward <strong>the</strong>ir parents. Thepsychoanalytic term for this is, of course, “transference.” Therefore, <strong>in</strong>structors can onlyhope that <strong>the</strong>y will have only students who were raised <strong>in</strong> happy, nurtur<strong>in</strong>g families! Most ofus will have to deal <strong>with</strong> students who were raised <strong>in</strong> less-than-perfect households and whoexhibit behaviors learned <strong>in</strong> those sett<strong>in</strong>gs.Now that we have a more dynamic understand<strong>in</strong>g of <strong>the</strong> nature of passive-aggressiveprocrast<strong>in</strong>ation, what can <strong>in</strong>structors do about it? First, discuss<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> subject <strong>with</strong> yourstudents might lead to some <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>sights on how to motivate some of <strong>the</strong>m toovercome <strong>the</strong>ir pattern of procrast<strong>in</strong>ation. At <strong>the</strong> same time, <strong>in</strong>structors might mention that<strong>the</strong> counsel<strong>in</strong>g or psychological service on campus is an excellent resource for deal<strong>in</strong>g <strong>with</strong>such problems.Some <strong>in</strong>structors who are aware of <strong>the</strong> prevalence of procrast<strong>in</strong>ation let <strong>the</strong>ir students knowthat <strong>the</strong>y will periodically but <strong>with</strong>out notice give unscheduled quizzes, add<strong>in</strong>g a cautionarystatement that <strong>the</strong> students should keep up on <strong>the</strong>ir read<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>in</strong> order to be prepared for<strong>the</strong>se assessments. Even if this does not solve <strong>the</strong> problem, it will at least hold <strong>the</strong> offend<strong>in</strong>gstudents accountable for <strong>the</strong>ir behavior.A friendlier tack would be to compliment and show consistent <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> progressstudents make <strong>in</strong> submitt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir assignments and keep<strong>in</strong>g abreast of <strong>the</strong>ir read<strong>in</strong>g. Ofcourse, students need to know that you are not only <strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> punctuality of <strong>the</strong> workbut, even more important, also <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> quality of <strong>the</strong>ir scholarship. If compliments are19

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