Ramadhan - Rabetah
Ramadhan - Rabetah
Ramadhan - Rabetah
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Just for Women<br />
‘<br />
1. My hands are small; please don't expect<br />
perfection whenever I make my bed, draw a picture<br />
or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down<br />
so that I can keep up with you.<br />
2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have;<br />
please let me explore safely; don't restrict me<br />
unnecessarily.<br />
3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for<br />
such a short time-please take the time to explain<br />
things to me about this wonderful world and do so<br />
willingly.<br />
4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my<br />
needs; don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't<br />
want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would like to be treated.<br />
5. I am a special gift; please treasure me as my Creator intended you to do, holding me accountable<br />
for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner. 6. I need your<br />
encouragement, not just your praise to grow. Please go easy on the criticism; you can criticize the<br />
things I do without criticizing me.<br />
7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can<br />
learn from my own mistakes. Then someday I will be prepared to make the kind of decisions life will<br />
require of me.<br />
8. Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite<br />
measure to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me to my brother or<br />
sister.<br />
9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need a vacation from parents, just as<br />
parents need vacations from kids. Besides it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very<br />
special.<br />
10. Please set a good example for me to follow in all the ways of life. I enjoy watching the things you do<br />
and want to do them just like you.<br />
Ahadeeth About Women<br />
Rasulullah said: "When a woman offers her five times Salaah, keeps the fasts<br />
of <strong>Ramadhan</strong>, safeguards her honour, and obeys her husband; she can enter<br />
Jannah from whichever door she wishes."<br />
Rasulullah said: "Allah's mercy descends on a woman who wakes up for<br />
Tahajjud and awakens her husband as well."<br />
A person said to Rasulullah : "O Rasulullah ! A certain woman offers plenty<br />
of nafl Salaah, fasts abundantly and gives a lot in charity. However she causes<br />
much verbal harm to her neighbours." He replied: "She will go into Jahannam."<br />
The same person then said: "A certain woman does not offer many nafl Salaah,<br />
does not fast abundantly nor does she give a lot in charity; she merely gives<br />
pieces of panîr (a type of cheese) in charity. However she does not cause any<br />
harm to her neighbours." He replied: "She will go into Jannah."<br />
Salatul Awwabeen<br />
(Nafl prayers of Maghrib)<br />
After the Farz and Sunnat of Maghrib,<br />
performance of the minimum of 6 to a<br />
maximum of 20 rakaats is called Salatul<br />
Awwaabeen.<br />
Rasulullah mentioned, "Whoever<br />
performs 6 Rak'aats after Maghrib Salaat<br />
will earn the reward of 12 years of Nafl<br />
Ibaadat." (Tirmidhi)<br />
STORIES OF PIOUS WOMEN<br />
Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (Rahmatullahi Alayh)<br />
The Mother of Haysur<br />
Haysur is the same boy who has been mentioned in the last issue. You have also read that the Quran has<br />
mentioned his parents as believers. The person whom Allah refers to as a believer cannot be any ordinary<br />
believer who does not have strong Imaan. It is obvious that such a person must be very strong in his Imaan.<br />
We can therefore deduce that Haysur's mother must have been very pious as well.<br />
Lesson: Look! Having strong Imaan is such a great thing that Allah praised such persons. O women!<br />
Strengthen your Imaan. This can be only done by following the orders of Allah and abstaining from sins.<br />
Issue 31 www.rabetah.com Sept/Oct 2010<br />
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