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Just for Women<br />

‘<br />

1. My hands are small; please don't expect<br />

perfection whenever I make my bed, draw a picture<br />

or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down<br />

so that I can keep up with you.<br />

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have;<br />

please let me explore safely; don't restrict me<br />

unnecessarily.<br />

3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for<br />

such a short time-please take the time to explain<br />

things to me about this wonderful world and do so<br />

willingly.<br />

4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my<br />

needs; don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't<br />

want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would like to be treated.<br />

5. I am a special gift; please treasure me as my Creator intended you to do, holding me accountable<br />

for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner. 6. I need your<br />

encouragement, not just your praise to grow. Please go easy on the criticism; you can criticize the<br />

things I do without criticizing me.<br />

7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can<br />

learn from my own mistakes. Then someday I will be prepared to make the kind of decisions life will<br />

require of me.<br />

8. Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite<br />

measure to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me to my brother or<br />

sister.<br />

9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need a vacation from parents, just as<br />

parents need vacations from kids. Besides it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very<br />

special.<br />

10. Please set a good example for me to follow in all the ways of life. I enjoy watching the things you do<br />

and want to do them just like you.<br />

Ahadeeth About Women<br />

Rasulullah said: "When a woman offers her five times Salaah, keeps the fasts<br />

of <strong>Ramadhan</strong>, safeguards her honour, and obeys her husband; she can enter<br />

Jannah from whichever door she wishes."<br />

Rasulullah said: "Allah's mercy descends on a woman who wakes up for<br />

Tahajjud and awakens her husband as well."<br />

A person said to Rasulullah : "O Rasulullah ! A certain woman offers plenty<br />

of nafl Salaah, fasts abundantly and gives a lot in charity. However she causes<br />

much verbal harm to her neighbours." He replied: "She will go into Jahannam."<br />

The same person then said: "A certain woman does not offer many nafl Salaah,<br />

does not fast abundantly nor does she give a lot in charity; she merely gives<br />

pieces of panîr (a type of cheese) in charity. However she does not cause any<br />

harm to her neighbours." He replied: "She will go into Jannah."<br />

Salatul Awwabeen<br />

(Nafl prayers of Maghrib)<br />

After the Farz and Sunnat of Maghrib,<br />

performance of the minimum of 6 to a<br />

maximum of 20 rakaats is called Salatul<br />

Awwaabeen.<br />

Rasulullah mentioned, "Whoever<br />

performs 6 Rak'aats after Maghrib Salaat<br />

will earn the reward of 12 years of Nafl<br />

Ibaadat." (Tirmidhi)<br />

STORIES OF PIOUS WOMEN<br />

Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (Rahmatullahi Alayh)<br />

The Mother of Haysur<br />

Haysur is the same boy who has been mentioned in the last issue. You have also read that the Quran has<br />

mentioned his parents as believers. The person whom Allah refers to as a believer cannot be any ordinary<br />

believer who does not have strong Imaan. It is obvious that such a person must be very strong in his Imaan.<br />

We can therefore deduce that Haysur's mother must have been very pious as well.<br />

Lesson: Look! Having strong Imaan is such a great thing that Allah praised such persons. O women!<br />

Strengthen your Imaan. This can be only done by following the orders of Allah and abstaining from sins.<br />

Issue 31 www.rabetah.com Sept/Oct 2010<br />

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