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<strong>March</strong> <strong>2016</strong> THE <strong>Reader</strong> • 15<br />
w h y t e’S w o r l D<br />
road trip Journal: a beer and<br />
a burger with Cheerleaders<br />
and Drag Queens<br />
by Tim Whyte<br />
<strong>Reader</strong> Columnist<br />
Cowboy Festival – Other Events<br />
If you can’t get enough “cowboy” on the<br />
main weekend of the festival, you might<br />
enjoy one or more of the special events<br />
leading up to it or held simultaneously. As<br />
far away as Lone Pine or the Reagan Library,<br />
and as close as Main Street in Old Town<br />
Newhall, here are your choices. Visit<br />
http://cowboyfestival.org/schedule/ for<br />
details, and purchase your tickets early.<br />
Sat., april 16 – Sun., april 17<br />
Lone Pine Film Tour<br />
Sunday, april 17<br />
John Michael Montgomery<br />
Santa Clarita Performing Arts Center at College<br />
of the Canyons, 7 p.m.<br />
wednesday, april 20<br />
SCVTV Presents The OutWest<br />
Concert Series<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 8 p.m.<br />
thursday, april 21<br />
SENSES (Wild West theme)<br />
Downtown Newhall, 7 to 10 p.m.<br />
Walk of Western Stars – Induction<br />
Ceremony<br />
Honorees: TBD<br />
Main Street, Old Town Newhall, 7 p.m.<br />
Movie Night<br />
Hart Hall, William S. Hart Park, 8 p.m.<br />
Friday, april 22<br />
California Fiesta De Rancho<br />
Camulos with Dave Stamey<br />
Rancho Camulos Museum, 11 a.m.<br />
Reagan Library and Paramount<br />
Ranch Tour<br />
Departure from Cowboy Festival<br />
Shuttle Site<br />
1 p.m. to 6 p.m.<br />
The Quebe Sisters/Carin Mari<br />
Canyon Theatre Guild, 8 p.m.<br />
Ramblin’ Jack Elliot<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 8 p.m.<br />
Don Edwards<br />
Hart Mansion, William S. Hart Park, 8 p.m.<br />
Saturday, april 23<br />
Brenn Hill/Andy Nelson<br />
Canyon Theatre Guild, 3 p.m.<br />
The Messick Family<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 4 p.m.<br />
Hot Club of Cowtown/Sourdough Slim<br />
Canyon Theatre Guild, 7 p.m.<br />
James Intveld<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 8 p.m.<br />
Wyatt Earp – The Life Behind<br />
the Legend<br />
Hart Mansion, William S. Hart Park, 8 p.m.<br />
Sunday, april 24<br />
Cowboy Church<br />
Master’s College, 8 a.m.<br />
Santa Clarita Valley Historical Bus<br />
Tour<br />
Departure from Cowboy Festival Shuttle Site<br />
9 a.m. to 3 p.m.<br />
Cow Bop/Mikki Daniel<br />
Canyon Theatre Guild, 1 p.m.<br />
Calico the Band<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 2 p.m.<br />
Don Edwards/Carolyn Sills Combo<br />
Canyon Theatre Guild, 4 p.m.<br />
The Americans<br />
Repertory East Playhouse, 5 p.m. R<br />
This is my story about the time I took<br />
my dad to a gay bar. And I’m sticking to<br />
it.<br />
It started out innocently enough. It was a<br />
Sunday, smack dab in the middle of the NFL<br />
playoffs. On that day, my 14-year-old daughter<br />
Brooke and her Saugus High School<br />
cheerleading squad were competing at the<br />
state cheer championships in Ontario at the<br />
Citizens Bank Arena.<br />
My wife took Brooke down early in the day<br />
to prepare with the team, so my dad and I decided<br />
we would drive down in his Corvette,<br />
and on the way we’d stop somewhere, preferably<br />
a sports bar with lots of giant TVs, so we<br />
could grab a beer and a cheeseburger and<br />
catch part of the AFC Championship game.<br />
Corvette. Beer. Cheeseburgers. Sports bar.<br />
Football.<br />
Sounds like a good<br />
Sunday road trip for a<br />
pair of straight white<br />
guys.<br />
So we ventured<br />
down to Ontario, and<br />
took the exit for the<br />
arena figuring there’d<br />
be plenty of options,<br />
since there’s an arena,<br />
an airport and a giant<br />
mall — all within one<br />
9-iron shot of each<br />
other. We pulled into<br />
the first commercial<br />
center we saw and it featured several restaurants<br />
that looked promising.<br />
There was an El Torito, but we weren’t in<br />
the mood for Mexican. This was definitely a<br />
cheeseburger mission.<br />
There was a Black Angus, which sounded<br />
about right. But, across the parking lot, there<br />
was a burger joint that was advertising beer<br />
specials, and I didn’t recognize it as any of the<br />
major chains you see in every commercial<br />
district of every city in every state.<br />
It looked like a mom ’n pop place.<br />
“Hey,” I suggested to my dad, thus rendering<br />
everything that ensued to be my fault,<br />
“let’s give that place a try. Looks like a mom ’n<br />
pop. Could be different.”<br />
“Sure,” he answered, ensuring that whatever<br />
happened, even though it was my fault,<br />
he got into this willingly. “I always prefer a<br />
good mom ’n pop over a chain.”<br />
Turns out, it would be different. I guess my<br />
first clue should have been that they misspelled<br />
Budweiser on their promo for the Friday<br />
night “Power Hour.”<br />
Or maybe my first clue should have been<br />
the pink paint scheme. Or the fact that the<br />
place was named “Hamburger Mary’s,” and<br />
their slogan was, “Eat, drink and be Mary.” Or<br />
the fact that just inside the entrance there<br />
was a wall decorated, floor to ceiling, with<br />
stiletto heels. Or the fact that they checked<br />
our IDs and put wristbands on us as we<br />
walked in.<br />
“They must have a helluva crowd here for<br />
football,” I said, still clueless. “Who checks IDs<br />
“What kind of bar<br />
doesn’t have the<br />
football game on?” I<br />
wondered, somehow<br />
STILL managing to<br />
remain clueless.<br />
and uses wristbands just for a Sunday football<br />
bar crowd?”<br />
We went into the bar area, and took a seat<br />
at a table, and the place was packed, and<br />
noisy. Most of the folks in there were impeccably<br />
dressed, not quite as casual as I’d expect<br />
for a Sunday football crowd. “Must be<br />
Patriots fans,” I thought.<br />
There were plenty of TVs on the walls. But,<br />
I was dismayed to find that not one of them<br />
was tuned in to the AFC Championship game,<br />
featuring the highly anticipated matchup of<br />
Peyton Manning (representing all that is<br />
good) and Tom Brady (representing the Evil<br />
Belichik Empire).<br />
“What kind of bar doesn’t have the football<br />
game on?” I wondered, somehow STILL managing<br />
to remain clueless.<br />
It was a strange form<br />
of denial. In my mind, it<br />
just did not compute:<br />
We’re in a burger bar.<br />
On a Sunday. It’s playoffs.<br />
Playoffs!<br />
What kind of bar<br />
doesn’t have THAT<br />
game on the TVs?<br />
Then it hit me: The<br />
kind of bar that doesn’t<br />
have the football game<br />
on the TVs during playoffs<br />
is the kind of bar<br />
that has a drag queen<br />
show every Sunday.<br />
And we’d walked right into the middle of it:<br />
“Sunday Drag Queen Brunch with the<br />
Brunchettes,” featuring bottomless mimosas<br />
(as if there’s any other kind of mimosa) and<br />
“crazy drag queens.” No cover charge!<br />
The show was going on in the next room,<br />
and if memory serves correctly, they had it<br />
playing on the TVs in the bar. I thought<br />
about asking them to put the game on one<br />
of the TVs but then I thought better of it. I<br />
wouldn’t want them to think I was some<br />
kind of freak.<br />
So what did we do? You know what we did.<br />
We slipped out of Hamburger Mary’s and<br />
went next door to Black Angus where everyone<br />
was wearing flip flops and shorts and the<br />
game was on every single TV. We had a good<br />
laugh over our Hamburger Mary’s side trip,<br />
and we got to the arena in time to see Brooke<br />
and her team absolutely nail their routine.<br />
When it was all done, I thought about how<br />
we must have looked to the staff at Hamburger<br />
Mary’s. Me, 49-ish, and, let’s just say,<br />
a little stockier than I was in my prime.<br />
And my dad, in his 70s, still trim, driving a<br />
brand new Corvette to the gay bar with a big<br />
guy who’s young enough to be his son.<br />
What a pair we must have made. R<br />
Tim Whyte is a public relations consultant,<br />
a member of the award-winning team at Mellady<br />
Direct Marketing, and a part-time faculty<br />
member in the Journalism Department at California<br />
State University, Northridge. Find him<br />
on Twitter @TimWhyte.