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An eye roll<br />
EYE ROLLS<br />
Rolling your eyes at someone is a “foe signal” that discourages further interaction. It sends the message you<br />
think the individual is stupid or that his or her actions are inappropriate. If, for instance, you are in a large<br />
group and spot someone saying something you think is dumb, you might roll your eyes in response. If the<br />
person who made the comment sees you doing this, it predisposes them to respond negatively to you in any<br />
future interactions. This holds true whether you are a stranger or are known to that individual.<br />
WATCH FOR EYE ROLL<br />
Watching for eye rolls at meetings can be an entertaining way to pass the time, and can provide<br />
information about where people stand on specific issues. When people disagree with a comment or<br />
proposal, they will often roll their eyes when the person who made the comment or proposal turns away or<br />
looks at his or her notes. This nonverbal signal identifies who is not receptive to what is being said.<br />
If you make a comment and catch somebody rolling their eyes, focus your attention on that person to<br />
try to convince them your idea has merit. Remember: You don’t have to spend time trying to convince the<br />
choir, the ones who are nodding their approval, leaning forward, and smiling.<br />
SQUINTING OF THE EYES<br />
This foe signal is not as powerful as other foe cues are, but can still have a chilling effect on personal<br />
relationships. If the squinting is due to factors such as looking into bright illumination, it might be wrongly<br />
interpreted.<br />
FURROWED EYEBROWS<br />
This is another common foe signal, assuming it is not due to someone being in deep concentration. This<br />
nonverbal cue is often associated with disapproval, uncertainty, or anger.