Family Road Map Guide

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Learn SYSTEM BASICS
Ask Again!
If you don't understand an
explanation the first time, try
asking the question a different
way. For example, you
might say "Can you run that
by me again, please?" or
"Could you break that down
for me? I didn't quite get all
of it." That way, neither of
you is embarrassed--but the
provider realizes you intend
to get a clear answer before
you make any decisions.
Most providers will respect
that!
In some rural counties and other areas that are short on behavioral health
providers, the pediatrician or other primary care doctor may prescribe medications
for behavioral health issues. (Some primary care doctors and pediatricians have
special training in behavioral health issues.) In some cases, a doctor may order a
blood test or other procedure (such as an MRI) to find out if a medical condition is
causing your child’s atypical behavior.
However, it is important to know that no current medical test can diagnose
conditions such as ADHD or anxiety. The provider has to rely on observation and
information provided by you, others, and your child or youth.
NOTE: If your child begins treatment with a psychiatrist or other behavioral
health specialist, be sure to keep the primary care provider informed and involved.
For example, certain medications for ADHD or mood disorders can affect a child’s
weight or risk for diseases such as diabetes. If so, your primary care doctor can
work with you on a plan to prevent or treat such conditions before they become big
problems for your child.
Discuss the matter with your child’s or youth’s classroom teacher or school
counselor, as well. They may notice many behaviors you may not see at home. They
can also give you a better idea of how your child is acting or developing compared
to other children of that age.
IF YOU ARE CONFUSED ABOUT ANYTHING, ASK TO HAVE THE PRO-
CESS EXPLAINED TO YOU. It is always better to get the ALL the information you
need to make the best decisions for your child or youth.
The best way to get the information you need is to ask questions
that begin with Who…? What…? When…? Where…?
Why….? How…? and Can you explain…?
For example, you might ask:
Who will we need to see next?
What will happen next?
Where will this happen?
When can we expect this to happen?
How can I contact you or that person?
Why is my child seeing this specialist?
Can you explain how this process works?
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