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26A <strong>Federation</strong> <strong>Star</strong> <strong>January</strong> <strong>2018</strong><br />

A picture is worth<br />

a thousand words<br />

Rabbi<br />

Adam F.<br />

Miller<br />

Sometimes a picture really is worth<br />

a thousand words. Years ago, I<br />

was sent to visit a radiologist for<br />

an x-ray following an auto accident. At<br />

the doctor’s request, the technician took<br />

several x-rays of my shoulder and neck<br />

area. I was then sent back to the waiting<br />

room to wait for the results.<br />

A few minutes later, the technician<br />

returned to say that they needed to retake<br />

the pictures. When I asked why, she<br />

showed me the images from the first<br />

series. She explained that she neglected<br />

to remove my necklace prior to the x-<br />

ray. As a result, in addition to my bone<br />

structure, one immediately noticed that<br />

in the center of my chest was the image<br />

of a Jewish star.<br />

We retook the x-rays and, thankfully,<br />

I had not suffered any serious<br />

injury. But the image of that Jewish<br />

star on my chest remains in my mind<br />

to this day. To me, that picture was not<br />

a mistake – Judaism is at the center of<br />

my identity.<br />

I credit the strength of my Jewish<br />

identity to the experiences I had during<br />

my youth. My parents demonstrated by<br />

their actions the importance of one’s<br />

own Jewish identity. Although we<br />

moved several times, my parents always<br />

made joining a synagogue a priority.<br />

They encouraged me to participate in<br />

youth group activities, and I learned<br />

quickly that no matter where we lived,<br />

I always had a home in the Jewish community.<br />

Temple Shalom students have<br />

access to these types of experiences<br />

through our acclaimed preschool and<br />

religious school. Students develop<br />

their Jewish identities by learning from<br />

our experienced teachers. High school<br />

students remain engaged through<br />

Confirmation and BBYO activities.<br />

Additionally, we are thrilled to have<br />

so many of our young members who<br />

have participated in Jewish overnight<br />

camping. Thank you to our Sisterhood,<br />

Men’s Club, and the Jewish <strong>Federation</strong><br />

of Greater Naples for enabling so many<br />

of our students to attend camp each summer.<br />

One of the most important lessons<br />

we can pass along to the next generation<br />

is that their Jewish identities do not end<br />

when religious school goes on vacation<br />

or when they leave the sanctuary after<br />

services. Jewish camping teaches our<br />

children that their Jewish identities<br />

remain important outside the walls of<br />

our synagogues and homes.<br />

Just as Jewish camping reinforces<br />

Jewish experiences beyond the walls of<br />

the synagogue, adult education provides<br />

the meaningful Jewish experiences that<br />

we need to go beyond the pediatric<br />

Judaism of our youth. Our perspectives<br />

change as we age, and we need to<br />

maintain our Jewish learning in order to<br />

retain a strong connection to our Jewish<br />

identities. Some education takes place<br />

in a formal classroom setting – such as<br />

the renowned Melton School for Adult<br />

Learning available at Temple Shalom.<br />

Other learning experiences occur when<br />

noted scholars come to teach in our<br />

community. At the end of this month,<br />

<strong>January</strong> 26-28, we will welcome Dr.<br />

Richard Elliott Friedman to Temple<br />

Shalom as our Scholar-in-Residence.<br />

Dr. Friedman authored Who Wrote the<br />

Bible, an eye-opening exploration of the<br />

origins behind our most sacred texts.<br />

In addition to traditional study and<br />

lectures, Temple Shalom now offers<br />

Wise Aging: Sacred Living. Developed<br />

by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality,<br />

the course centers around the book<br />

Wise Aging by Rabbi Rachel Cowan<br />

and Dr. Linda Thal. Participants explore<br />

their spirituality, reflect on evolving<br />

relationships, discover new meaning,<br />

and learn how to live mindfully. I was<br />

trained in this material, along with<br />

Missy Balsam, and we will be co-teaching<br />

the program. Missy is an exceptional<br />

yoga teacher, and will add gentle movement<br />

as part of the experience.<br />

Whether young or old, our Jewish<br />

identities cannot be linked or traced to<br />

a single moment in our lives. They are<br />

a compilation of our Jewish experiences<br />

– at home, at the synagogue, and<br />

in the community. The results of these<br />

experiences may not appear on an x-<br />

ray, but they will be imprinted on our<br />

hearts.<br />

Rabbi Adam Miller serves at Temple<br />

Shalom in Naples.<br />

Time<br />

Rabbi<br />

Mark Wm.<br />

Gross<br />

Early this month, we have a<br />

unique milestone on the calendar.<br />

<strong>January</strong> 3 marks the peak of<br />

the annual Quadrantid meteor shower,<br />

the terrestrial perihelion, and National<br />

Chocolate-Covered Cherry Day. That<br />

is, admittedly, an odd combination of<br />

ingredients for one calendar milestone.<br />

I can’t vouch for National Chocolate-Covered<br />

Cherry Day. It could<br />

be that the chocolate-covered cherry<br />

manufacturers have a powerful lobby in<br />

Washington, and created a “test-drive”<br />

day for romantically inclined men to<br />

taste-test possible love offerings six<br />

weeks before Valentine’s Day (only a<br />

theory).<br />

There’s no question, however, about<br />

the perihelion, that point in the earth’s<br />

elliptical orbit where we are closest<br />

to the sun. It happens at 9:00 a.m. on<br />

Wednesday morning, <strong>January</strong> 3 by the<br />

decree of The One On High who, as<br />

our prayerbook put it, “ordered the<br />

celestial luminaries in their respective<br />

paths across the sky in accord with His<br />

Will.” The same holds for the Quadrantid<br />

meteor shower, which happens at<br />

the same time every year, although not<br />

forever. Due to periodic perturbations<br />

in the gravitational pull of Jupiter, earth<br />

will no longer pass through the orbital<br />

path of the Quadantrid in another thousand<br />

years. So you should see it while<br />

it’s there to be seen.<br />

The reason all this is significant at<br />

all, let alone Jewishly, is that time was<br />

the first thing God created in the opening<br />

chapter of Genesis. The declaration<br />

“let there be light” marked the formation<br />

not of luminosity, but rather of those<br />

alternating periods of dark and light<br />

the Creator named “night” and “day”<br />

– in other words, time. The creation of<br />

the sun, moon and stars was almost an<br />

afterthought, which according to Genesis<br />

happened on The Fourth Day. (For<br />

COMMENTARY<br />

that reason, when I served a synagogue<br />

across the state on the Atlantic coast, we<br />

used to hold a sunrise Shachrit on the<br />

beach every year on the Wednesday –<br />

The Fourth Day – of the week that the<br />

Creation story was the assigned Torah<br />

portion.)<br />

The Torah itself tells us that the<br />

Creator positioned the celestial lights<br />

in their appointed paths across the sky<br />

so that humanity could mark their apparent<br />

movement as an indicator by<br />

which to measure the passage of the<br />

days, months, seasons and years. For<br />

that reason, every good Jew is for practical<br />

purposes an amateur astronomer,<br />

Wretur<br />

watching the night sky and noting the<br />

swel<br />

relative position of the sun – higher or<br />

and<br />

lower in the sky – during the day as the<br />

prom<br />

seasons go by.<br />

of sti<br />

But while the exact moment of the<br />

liste<br />

Winter perihelion and the passage of<br />

York<br />

earth in its annual orbit through the debris<br />

left by long-ago comets is absolute,<br />

hello<br />

hello<br />

firm and fixed, there are certain subjective<br />

milestones in the calendar, as well.<br />

hard<br />

you<br />

And that’s where such synthetic occasions<br />

as National Chocolate-Covered<br />

as sa<br />

lunc<br />

Cherry Day come into it. Some are<br />

othe<br />

completely random, while others mark<br />

T<br />

a unique occasion we choose to commemorate,<br />

such as birthdays and wed-<br />

Ham<br />

mak<br />

ding anniversaries. And some become<br />

such<br />

ours by decree, as when Queen Esther<br />

promulgated Purim, and the Maccabees<br />

instituted Chanukah, Feast of the Dedication<br />

of the Altar.<br />

As such, we have occasion every<br />

day to realize that time, which we appear<br />

to experience in linear terms, is in<br />

C<br />

fact flowing around us in great circles<br />

positioning us at the corner of Right Com<br />

Now and Always – what our Chanukah On F<br />

candle-lighting blessing last month Shab<br />

called “in those days at this season.” 5:45<br />

Or, as Thoreau put it in Walden: ner a<br />

“Time is but the stream I go a-fi shing ored<br />

in. I drink at it; but while I drink I see Clem<br />

the sandy bottom and detect how shal-Jewlow<br />

it is. Its thin current slides away, one<br />

but eternity remains.” To which I say: tions<br />

“Amen.”<br />

with<br />

Rabbi Mark Gross serves at the Jewish reser<br />

Congregation of Marco Island. Wom<br />

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