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26A <strong>Federation</strong> <strong>Star</strong> <strong>January</strong> <strong>2018</strong><br />
A picture is worth<br />
a thousand words<br />
Rabbi<br />
Adam F.<br />
Miller<br />
Sometimes a picture really is worth<br />
a thousand words. Years ago, I<br />
was sent to visit a radiologist for<br />
an x-ray following an auto accident. At<br />
the doctor’s request, the technician took<br />
several x-rays of my shoulder and neck<br />
area. I was then sent back to the waiting<br />
room to wait for the results.<br />
A few minutes later, the technician<br />
returned to say that they needed to retake<br />
the pictures. When I asked why, she<br />
showed me the images from the first<br />
series. She explained that she neglected<br />
to remove my necklace prior to the x-<br />
ray. As a result, in addition to my bone<br />
structure, one immediately noticed that<br />
in the center of my chest was the image<br />
of a Jewish star.<br />
We retook the x-rays and, thankfully,<br />
I had not suffered any serious<br />
injury. But the image of that Jewish<br />
star on my chest remains in my mind<br />
to this day. To me, that picture was not<br />
a mistake – Judaism is at the center of<br />
my identity.<br />
I credit the strength of my Jewish<br />
identity to the experiences I had during<br />
my youth. My parents demonstrated by<br />
their actions the importance of one’s<br />
own Jewish identity. Although we<br />
moved several times, my parents always<br />
made joining a synagogue a priority.<br />
They encouraged me to participate in<br />
youth group activities, and I learned<br />
quickly that no matter where we lived,<br />
I always had a home in the Jewish community.<br />
Temple Shalom students have<br />
access to these types of experiences<br />
through our acclaimed preschool and<br />
religious school. Students develop<br />
their Jewish identities by learning from<br />
our experienced teachers. High school<br />
students remain engaged through<br />
Confirmation and BBYO activities.<br />
Additionally, we are thrilled to have<br />
so many of our young members who<br />
have participated in Jewish overnight<br />
camping. Thank you to our Sisterhood,<br />
Men’s Club, and the Jewish <strong>Federation</strong><br />
of Greater Naples for enabling so many<br />
of our students to attend camp each summer.<br />
One of the most important lessons<br />
we can pass along to the next generation<br />
is that their Jewish identities do not end<br />
when religious school goes on vacation<br />
or when they leave the sanctuary after<br />
services. Jewish camping teaches our<br />
children that their Jewish identities<br />
remain important outside the walls of<br />
our synagogues and homes.<br />
Just as Jewish camping reinforces<br />
Jewish experiences beyond the walls of<br />
the synagogue, adult education provides<br />
the meaningful Jewish experiences that<br />
we need to go beyond the pediatric<br />
Judaism of our youth. Our perspectives<br />
change as we age, and we need to<br />
maintain our Jewish learning in order to<br />
retain a strong connection to our Jewish<br />
identities. Some education takes place<br />
in a formal classroom setting – such as<br />
the renowned Melton School for Adult<br />
Learning available at Temple Shalom.<br />
Other learning experiences occur when<br />
noted scholars come to teach in our<br />
community. At the end of this month,<br />
<strong>January</strong> 26-28, we will welcome Dr.<br />
Richard Elliott Friedman to Temple<br />
Shalom as our Scholar-in-Residence.<br />
Dr. Friedman authored Who Wrote the<br />
Bible, an eye-opening exploration of the<br />
origins behind our most sacred texts.<br />
In addition to traditional study and<br />
lectures, Temple Shalom now offers<br />
Wise Aging: Sacred Living. Developed<br />
by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality,<br />
the course centers around the book<br />
Wise Aging by Rabbi Rachel Cowan<br />
and Dr. Linda Thal. Participants explore<br />
their spirituality, reflect on evolving<br />
relationships, discover new meaning,<br />
and learn how to live mindfully. I was<br />
trained in this material, along with<br />
Missy Balsam, and we will be co-teaching<br />
the program. Missy is an exceptional<br />
yoga teacher, and will add gentle movement<br />
as part of the experience.<br />
Whether young or old, our Jewish<br />
identities cannot be linked or traced to<br />
a single moment in our lives. They are<br />
a compilation of our Jewish experiences<br />
– at home, at the synagogue, and<br />
in the community. The results of these<br />
experiences may not appear on an x-<br />
ray, but they will be imprinted on our<br />
hearts.<br />
Rabbi Adam Miller serves at Temple<br />
Shalom in Naples.<br />
Time<br />
Rabbi<br />
Mark Wm.<br />
Gross<br />
Early this month, we have a<br />
unique milestone on the calendar.<br />
<strong>January</strong> 3 marks the peak of<br />
the annual Quadrantid meteor shower,<br />
the terrestrial perihelion, and National<br />
Chocolate-Covered Cherry Day. That<br />
is, admittedly, an odd combination of<br />
ingredients for one calendar milestone.<br />
I can’t vouch for National Chocolate-Covered<br />
Cherry Day. It could<br />
be that the chocolate-covered cherry<br />
manufacturers have a powerful lobby in<br />
Washington, and created a “test-drive”<br />
day for romantically inclined men to<br />
taste-test possible love offerings six<br />
weeks before Valentine’s Day (only a<br />
theory).<br />
There’s no question, however, about<br />
the perihelion, that point in the earth’s<br />
elliptical orbit where we are closest<br />
to the sun. It happens at 9:00 a.m. on<br />
Wednesday morning, <strong>January</strong> 3 by the<br />
decree of The One On High who, as<br />
our prayerbook put it, “ordered the<br />
celestial luminaries in their respective<br />
paths across the sky in accord with His<br />
Will.” The same holds for the Quadrantid<br />
meteor shower, which happens at<br />
the same time every year, although not<br />
forever. Due to periodic perturbations<br />
in the gravitational pull of Jupiter, earth<br />
will no longer pass through the orbital<br />
path of the Quadantrid in another thousand<br />
years. So you should see it while<br />
it’s there to be seen.<br />
The reason all this is significant at<br />
all, let alone Jewishly, is that time was<br />
the first thing God created in the opening<br />
chapter of Genesis. The declaration<br />
“let there be light” marked the formation<br />
not of luminosity, but rather of those<br />
alternating periods of dark and light<br />
the Creator named “night” and “day”<br />
– in other words, time. The creation of<br />
the sun, moon and stars was almost an<br />
afterthought, which according to Genesis<br />
happened on The Fourth Day. (For<br />
COMMENTARY<br />
that reason, when I served a synagogue<br />
across the state on the Atlantic coast, we<br />
used to hold a sunrise Shachrit on the<br />
beach every year on the Wednesday –<br />
The Fourth Day – of the week that the<br />
Creation story was the assigned Torah<br />
portion.)<br />
The Torah itself tells us that the<br />
Creator positioned the celestial lights<br />
in their appointed paths across the sky<br />
so that humanity could mark their apparent<br />
movement as an indicator by<br />
which to measure the passage of the<br />
days, months, seasons and years. For<br />
that reason, every good Jew is for practical<br />
purposes an amateur astronomer,<br />
Wretur<br />
watching the night sky and noting the<br />
swel<br />
relative position of the sun – higher or<br />
and<br />
lower in the sky – during the day as the<br />
prom<br />
seasons go by.<br />
of sti<br />
But while the exact moment of the<br />
liste<br />
Winter perihelion and the passage of<br />
York<br />
earth in its annual orbit through the debris<br />
left by long-ago comets is absolute,<br />
hello<br />
hello<br />
firm and fixed, there are certain subjective<br />
milestones in the calendar, as well.<br />
hard<br />
you<br />
And that’s where such synthetic occasions<br />
as National Chocolate-Covered<br />
as sa<br />
lunc<br />
Cherry Day come into it. Some are<br />
othe<br />
completely random, while others mark<br />
T<br />
a unique occasion we choose to commemorate,<br />
such as birthdays and wed-<br />
Ham<br />
mak<br />
ding anniversaries. And some become<br />
such<br />
ours by decree, as when Queen Esther<br />
promulgated Purim, and the Maccabees<br />
instituted Chanukah, Feast of the Dedication<br />
of the Altar.<br />
As such, we have occasion every<br />
day to realize that time, which we appear<br />
to experience in linear terms, is in<br />
C<br />
fact flowing around us in great circles<br />
positioning us at the corner of Right Com<br />
Now and Always – what our Chanukah On F<br />
candle-lighting blessing last month Shab<br />
called “in those days at this season.” 5:45<br />
Or, as Thoreau put it in Walden: ner a<br />
“Time is but the stream I go a-fi shing ored<br />
in. I drink at it; but while I drink I see Clem<br />
the sandy bottom and detect how shal-Jewlow<br />
it is. Its thin current slides away, one<br />
but eternity remains.” To which I say: tions<br />
“Amen.”<br />
with<br />
Rabbi Mark Gross serves at the Jewish reser<br />
Congregation of Marco Island. Wom<br />
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