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each, to taking paddle boards out into the sea, and learning different<br />

ocean dynamics, and learning the different variables in and around our<br />

coastlines. During that period of time, kids will go through the most<br />

incredible growth process socially, mentally, physically, psychologically. We<br />

started off that first year with 28 kiddos and now we’ve built it up to 200.<br />

And, out of that 200, every year I’ll have three or four kids who are losing<br />

their minds; they don’t want to go into the sea. They are the ones I love the<br />

most because of the challenge.<br />

Expand on that, if you would. Because they haven’t been brought up<br />

around the ocean, it challenges me to come up with the right words, body<br />

language, and guidance to help introduce them to this amazing experience.<br />

I’ll look around at the group during the first day and say to myself, “Okay,<br />

which one is it going to be?” And you kind of see the ones who are a little<br />

bit timid by their body language and everything. And by the end of the<br />

five-week session these kids are animals, just going for it. They completely<br />

evolve and open up socially, athletically, and by the end of the day you<br />

can’t get them out of the ocean; they won’t leave. To me, that is the best<br />

satisfaction and gratification in the world because I get to see those results<br />

each and every day. Honestly, it’s probably one of the greatest feelings<br />

I’ve had because you’re dealing with young lives, educating young minds,<br />

unlocking something that otherwise may have never been unlocked.<br />

Is there a kid that stands out in your mind? Oh, wow, there are so many.<br />

Just a week ago or so I had a dad come out and tell me that his teenage<br />

son wasn’t going to be doing <strong>Jun</strong>ior Guards again this year. He’s a sizeable<br />

kiddo, probably 6’ or 6’1”, fourteen years old, and he’s oscillating, like<br />

so many teenagers start to do. He’s oscillating, but still interested, still<br />

harvestable. So, I pull him aside and sort of get in his face a little bit and<br />

ask him, “So, you’re joining <strong>Jun</strong>ior Guards this year, right?” He’s like, “No.<br />

No. I don’t know. I don’t know.” He’s kind of grumbling, kind of growling,<br />

and I tell him, “That doesn’t sound right to me, man. I’m going to ask you<br />

again. Are you doing <strong>Jun</strong>ior Guards this year?” He’s kind of looking down<br />

and saying, “I just don’t think I’m in shape.” So, I respond, “That’s not<br />

what I want to hear. It sounds to me like you really need this right now.”<br />

And so I went into this ten-minute, like Tony Robbins session with this<br />

kiddo. “Listen, I’m not going to force you. I’m not going to tell you that<br />

you should do it. I’m going to leave it up to you. I’m going to let you walk<br />

away right now. And you’re going to dream about this tonight. You don’t<br />

have to make a decision now, but tryouts are, in fact, tomorrow. So, I’m<br />

going to leave you with this choice.” By the end of that day, the dad runs<br />

up to me on the beach and he was kind of emotional and he says, “Hey, >><br />

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