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Instead of challenging distressing

thoughts by looking for evidence and

coming up with a more rational

response (CBT), in ACT, the thought is

accepted as a thought and then

defused using a variety of techniques,

which may include mindfulness,

metaphors and language with

a commitment to values-based living.

ACT is based on the idea that trying to

rid ourselves of pain and distress only

increases it, and turns it into

something traumatic. We learn to

make room for painful feelings,

thoughts, and sensations - allowing

them to be there, coming and going

without us struggling against them.

AWARENESS

One of the ways of healing from abuse

is to have a better understanding of

what abuse is and how and why it

happens. We may not be able to get the

answers we seek and we should be

prepared for that, but what we will get

is a deeper understanding that this is

something that happened to us, does

not define us. It is an acknowledgment

of what has happened and recognising

the impact it has had.

ACCEPTANCE AND

COMMITMENT THERAPY (ACT)

ACT is a form of behavioural analysis

developed by clinical psychologist Dr

Steven Hayes and others, that builds

psychological flexibility. It differs from

traditional cognitive behavioural

therapy (CBT ) in that, unlike CBT, it is

not about controlling or eliminating

thoughts, feelings and memories, but

about accepting that they are there and

learning how to live with them in a

meaningful way.

Resources:

ACT in context: The Acceptance and

Commitment Therapy Podcast

www.contextualscience.org

www.stevenhayes.com

A Liberated Mind:

The essential guide to ACT

by Dr Steven C Hayes

AUDIOBOOKS

When in a heightened state of anxiety,

it can be difficult to muster enough

concentration to be able to focus on

the task of reading. When this

happens, I find that audiobooks are an

excellent way of getting the

information that I am unable to glean

from reading and find it especially

soothing to listen whilst driving down

secluded country lanes, in bed or when

cooking and tidying.

Making The Invisible Visible

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