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Challenges and opportunities<br />

for seniors … in a pandemic<br />

The pandemic took us by surprise. Who would have imagined that within the space of a few weeks,<br />

the world would transpose from ‘normal,’ to a ’locked-down’ environment? Retirement experts,<br />

Kloof Retirement Villages, share some ideas on how to turn challenges into opportunities.<br />

A legacy of challenges<br />

Some of the seniors who were worst<br />

affected by the pandemic included<br />

those who had decided that, although<br />

alone, they would continue to live in<br />

their own houses. Being unable to go<br />

out or even receive visitors for months<br />

on end can be extremely lonely and<br />

depressing. Some were unable to go to<br />

shopping malls for essential foodstuffs.<br />

Had they have been in a retirement<br />

complex however such errands could<br />

have been arranged for them. So too<br />

for those nervous of going to medical<br />

centres - most retirement facilities have<br />

on-site medical care available.<br />

A legacy of opportunities<br />

It wasn’t all bad new though. Some<br />

previously unconsidered opportunities<br />

presented themselves, including:<br />

• Eureka moments! For example, the<br />

realisation that all the clutter we were<br />

tripping over as we negotiated our<br />

locked-down ‘caves’ was unnecessary<br />

and in the way!<br />

• We were forced to take up art or<br />

hobbies in order to maintain our sanity,<br />

bringing about a realisation for many<br />

of what we had been missing. Passions<br />

and pastimes that could improve<br />

the rest of our retirement years were<br />

revealed to us.<br />

• An awareness that self-reliance is a<br />

perquisite for a contented life in an<br />

unpredictable future.<br />

• Friends and even relatives who we<br />

perhaps haven’t contacted for decades<br />

are valuable and we needed to reestablish<br />

contact with them before it is<br />

too late.<br />

• The risk of procrastination! Some seniors had previously placed their names on<br />

retirement facility waiting lists, but when suitable units became available, they<br />

continually delayed purchasing.<br />

And so, it would seem that the pandemic’s legacy has left us with some benefits as<br />

well. Lessons have been learnt and we have been left with choices to make. Now is<br />

the time to convert challenges into opportunity. If you haven’t opened a box in five<br />

years – get rid of it! Donate excess things to family or the needy and re-establish<br />

meaningful relationships with important friends and relatives.<br />

We now also know that COVID’s may not depart and could either take up permanent<br />

residence or become a seasonal visitor. So perhaps when considering whether to<br />

move into a retirement complex, instead of adopting an ‘in the future’ attitude,<br />

perhaps the future is now? Put your name on a waiting list and don’t think to yourself<br />

‘maybe next time’!<br />

Written by Henry Spencer BA, MPhil (Cum laude)<br />

Author, public speaker and Gerontologist. Consultant to Kloof Retirement Villages.<br />

34 Get It • <strong>Highway</strong> • Berea • Durban North October <strong>2020</strong>

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