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The Red Bulletin December 2020 (UK)

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Stefflon Don<br />

were lots of words I didn’t know.<br />

It messed up school for me.” Can<br />

you relate to that?<br />

When I came back, I had the weirdest<br />

accent. I was torn between American<br />

English and Jamaican patois. I told people<br />

here that I was from Jamaica. <strong>The</strong>y were<br />

like, “You’re not Jamaican. What kind of<br />

accent is this?” It was very difficult.<br />

How did you gain acceptance?<br />

Thank God I was just born with<br />

confidence. When the kids used to try<br />

me – and they would try me a lot –<br />

I always stood my ground. And I think<br />

anywhere in life, if someone tries you<br />

and you continue to stand your ground,<br />

they just have to respect you. After<br />

a while, they were so confused at how<br />

confident I was, and that’s what made<br />

them like me.<br />

How can others achieve that level<br />

of confidence? Any advice?<br />

Stay away from people who belittle you,<br />

whether it’s friends or family. Just don’t<br />

be around people who make you feel less<br />

confident. Or at least try not to ask them<br />

for advice if you know that they’re not<br />

going to have your corner. You have to<br />

realise that nobody has the answers to<br />

everything. Believe in yourself – that’s<br />

how you gain confidence.<br />

Someone who gave you advice early<br />

on in your career is Drake. He said,<br />

“Make sure that, whatever you do,<br />

your opponent is scared of you.” Is<br />

that something you still live by?<br />

Yes, 100 per cent. In anything you do,<br />

whether you’re a plumber or a carpenter<br />

or a gamer, you should always want to<br />

be the best. Else why do it? Coming up<br />

rapping, I was in so many situations<br />

where there was a beat playing and it<br />

was like, ‘OK, who’s going to rap on it?’<br />

And I was always ready in those<br />

situations. I always made sure that I had<br />

many lyrics ready, so whoever was on<br />

the mic I would destroy them.<br />

Ruthless…<br />

Yeah, I’ve always had that mentality.<br />

I want to make people want to rewrite<br />

their bars. Because sometimes I used to<br />

feel that way. I’d hear certain females<br />

rap and I’d think, “Oh my God, what I’ve<br />

written is not as good. I need to go back<br />

and rewrite my shit.” That’s how I want<br />

“In anything<br />

you do, you<br />

should always<br />

want to be the<br />

best. Else why<br />

do it?”<br />

people to feel when they hear me.<br />

Because that’s how you keep a healthy<br />

conversation, that’s how you push each<br />

other. If people aren’t challenging one<br />

another, if they just follow others, then<br />

we’re stuck. And that’s what has been<br />

happening for a while. No one is really<br />

trying to be the best. I see a lot of<br />

followers. I see a lot of people who think,<br />

“Oh, this works, this charted. Let me do<br />

something similar.”<br />

Why do you think that is?<br />

As an artist, the way you’re criticised<br />

today is different from when I first came<br />

up. Back then, there were no Instagram<br />

trolls. I wasn’t scared to fail by putting<br />

out videos that might not be what I want<br />

them to be – I just had to do it, because<br />

that’s all I could afford. I can’t imagine<br />

how it is for young artists today with<br />

so many eyes on them; so many eyes<br />

of people who don’t know what they<br />

are talking about, projecting their<br />

insecurities on others on social media.<br />

Platforms like Instagram are responsible<br />

for a lack of creativity in the new<br />

generation of artists. And even for<br />

established ones, it’s very hard to really<br />

say what they want to say, or express<br />

how they feel.<br />

Sounds like you’re talking from<br />

personal experience…<br />

I used to record my family on Snapchat<br />

a lot. I would always speak my mind on<br />

certain topics that got me in trouble a<br />

couple of times. [In 2018, she apologised<br />

for tweets from 2013 in which she said<br />

“dark-skinned” girls would change their<br />

skin colour if they could]. I got in trouble<br />

for stuff I didn’t mean in that way, and<br />

things were taken out of context. It made<br />

me feel like, “Do you even deserve to<br />

really know who I am if you going to take<br />

small parts and use them to make it seem<br />

like I am this person that I’m not?”<br />

That is what the internet has become<br />

now. People are looking at your image<br />

and thinking, “What can I pick up [on]<br />

that’s wrong?” And the second thing is,<br />

“Let me see the comments,” to find<br />

what narrative is being pushed. You’re<br />

not supposed to be yourself. You’re not<br />

supposed to be a self-thinker. It’s all<br />

about playing it safe, about following<br />

others. And I really just want to break<br />

away from that.<br />

Is there a way to make the internet<br />

a place of positivity again?<br />

I actually had a couple of meetings with<br />

one of the heads of Instagram, and one<br />

thing I requested was to take the likes<br />

off the comments.<br />

What do you mean?<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was a time when you could<br />

comment on posts, but you wouldn’t<br />

get likes on your comment. Now that<br />

people are more extreme and meaner in<br />

their comments because they want to<br />

stand out in order to get likes, it’s like a<br />

competition. As a result, you look at your<br />

post and realise that 3,000 people liked<br />

a really hateful comment about you. It<br />

feels awful! I don’t think people realise<br />

how detrimental Instagram is for us<br />

and the next generation. Everyone is<br />

tiptoeing around [the issue] and saying,<br />

“Oh yeah, it’s bad.” But people are so<br />

insecure because of this, people don’t<br />

create because of this, people don’t share<br />

new ideas because of this. It’s a very<br />

serious thing and I wish more people<br />

would speak up more about it and<br />

demand change.<br />

With that said, what’s your strategy<br />

for staying sane?<br />

I’m so blessed that I have my family.<br />

I bought a big house and my [11-yearold]<br />

son, most of my six siblings and my<br />

mom live with me. That’s the main reason<br />

why I’m OK. Also, I consider myself lucky<br />

that I didn’t come up in the social media<br />

age. I have a sense of reality. I know what<br />

it means to be original. I know what it<br />

means to not really give a fuck about<br />

what no one says. And no one can take<br />

that away from me.<br />

Stefflon Don’s new mixtape Island 54 is<br />

out now; stefflondonofficial.com<br />

THE RED BULLETIN 61

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