Christmas In July: New Family Celebrations AT FORTY FIVE Magazine Issue 2101 02
A magazine for women 45+ who want to own aging with spirit and joy. For those of us rediscovering who we are & exploring what we want next. We want more; health, wealth, happiness, & fulfillment. Join women around the world navigating the best years yet.
A magazine for women 45+ who want to own aging with spirit and joy. For those of us rediscovering who we are & exploring what we want next. We want more; health, wealth, happiness, & fulfillment. Join women around the world navigating the best years yet.
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<strong>AT</strong> <strong>FORTY</strong> <strong>FIVE</strong> MAGAZINE /11<br />
F E A T U R E S<br />
So, he either adapted which says he is<br />
flexible, or he rebelled. Perhaps you’re<br />
a Christian and he decided to become<br />
Buddhist. Now, as an adult that is the<br />
way the ball bounces. Be glad he<br />
believes in someone, remember<br />
Buddha isn’t Charles Manson. So, your<br />
good then?<br />
Did you have your heart set on making a<br />
big wedding for your daughter. <strong>In</strong> your<br />
mind, she was going to grow up and<br />
marry a handsome prince who would<br />
take care of her and support her, even if<br />
she had a job or career. But now you<br />
find out she likes Margaret. So what?<br />
Does Margaret have a job, a car, and is<br />
she a good person? Grandchildren? Yes,<br />
you can still have them, although it is<br />
true you will have to adjust. Even if you<br />
have a son who loves another man, then<br />
you will have 2 sons, think of it that way.<br />
If need be and you have trouble<br />
explaining your child's choice to<br />
relatives or friends, you can practice<br />
role-playing with someone else. This is<br />
called adaptation and acceptance. It is<br />
integral to being friends with your child<br />
and their significant other.<br />
Adult children who still live in your home<br />
which is also their home however more so<br />
yours as you paid the mortgage. The rule is<br />
school or work. It is the only way. Now<br />
depending on the work and their pay, you<br />
both can negotiate on what’s a good amount<br />
to contribute to the house. It is up to you to<br />
either use it for expenses or save it if you<br />
have a lot of money to give back when s/he<br />
decides to move out. Unless you have a plan<br />
when your child moves out, try making a