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MODERN <strong>beauty</strong><br />

You,Better<br />

Than EVER<br />

SPRING <strong>2021</strong><br />

MOMMY<br />

MAKEOVERS<br />

Get back<br />

to the real you!<br />

The<br />

MOM<br />

Chronicles<br />

Celebrating GREAT Moms!<br />

Featuring founder of Jordana’s Rainbows<br />

SKINCARE<br />

ADVICE<br />

for Moms<br />

of all ages<br />

FERTILITY<br />

STRUGGLES<br />

Mother’s Day<br />

Malaise<br />

Alison Fiorini


MODERN <strong>beauty</strong><br />

You,Better<br />

Than EVER<br />

SPRING <strong>2021</strong><br />

The<br />

MOM<br />

Chronicles<br />

Celebrating GREAT Moms!<br />

Featuring CMO of Hivestack and Mom of 2<br />

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CONTENTS<br />

SPRING <strong>2021</strong><br />

THS<br />

MODERN <strong>beauty</strong><br />

04 WELCOME<br />

Post-pandemic solutions<br />

from Trevor M. Born M.D.<br />

07 CONTRIBUTORS<br />

Introducing our talented<br />

photography team<br />

08 SKINCARE<br />

Good advice for moms<br />

and daughters of all ages<br />

10 MOMMY MAKEOVER<br />

A complete guide to<br />

getting back to the real you<br />

16 HEALTH & WELLNESS<br />

First-hand accounts of<br />

fertility endeavours<br />

19 PATIENT PROFILES<br />

Redefining what it means to<br />

be a mom<br />

10<br />

MOMMY<br />

MAKEOVER<br />

26 DOCTOR’S NOTE<br />

Getting back on track now<br />

that the end of lockdown life<br />

is on the horizon<br />

30 CODA<br />

Judith Born tells us what it<br />

was like raising our favourite<br />

doctor<br />

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WELCOME<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

It’s almost impossible to count all the things we’ve learned from our mothers—<br />

how to treat other people, how to navigate change, how to look after ourselves.<br />

But more importantly, we learn that a mother’s love is unconditional, instinctual<br />

and all-consuming. In celebration of Mother’s Day, our lineup inside <strong>Modern</strong><br />

Beauty includes some very mom-oriented business, including the final word from a<br />

very special contributor this issue—my mom, Judith Born (page 30).<br />

Photography: Billie Chiasson; Grooming: Erin Winn<br />

As <strong>spring</strong> is a time of revitalization, our med spa experts take a look at some motherly<br />

advice you may have received with regards to skincare, highlighting the tried-and-true<br />

tips and paring down the <strong>beauty</strong> myths we can set aside (page 08).<br />

Our Patient Profile is expanded a little this time, delivering a cool cross-section of<br />

people who are redefining what it means to be a mom (page 10). We also tackle the<br />

issue of infertility with a few first-hand accounts on the difficulties and distress, both<br />

physical and emotional (page 19).<br />

And my Doctor’s Note (page 26) offers an exploration into the collective trauma we’ve<br />

been suffering for the past year, offering some ways to heal and get back to normal.<br />

The power of ritual and a return to kindness are just two of the ways you can regain<br />

and/or maintain your sanity.<br />

Remember, if you ever need a confidence boost, we’re here to help at the TMB Clinic.<br />

We hope you enjoy this <strong>spring</strong> issue.<br />

Trevor<br />

Trevor M. Born, M.D.<br />

Cosmetic Plastic Surgeon<br />

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C ONTRIBUTORS<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

BILLIE CHIASSON<br />

INSTAGRAM @BILLIECHIASSON<br />

Billie is a photographer specializing in<br />

all things skin, body and feminine in the<br />

commercial, editorial and creative market in<br />

Toronto. She is represented by Lisa Bonnici.<br />

Recent Projects:<br />

Top Secret :) Coming soon!<br />

Favorite part of the job:<br />

Creating from the imagination and turning<br />

something intangible into a tangible part<br />

of reality. All the while showcasing the true<br />

<strong>beauty</strong> of the physical, emotion and soul.<br />

Honouring my ancestors who had their<br />

choices/voice stolen from them.<br />

How will you mark the arrival of <strong>spring</strong>?<br />

Watching the earth flourish and come back<br />

to life.<br />

The most important thing you learned from<br />

your Mom:<br />

Be yourself, no boundaries, do what you<br />

love.<br />

ERIN WINN<br />

INSTAGRAM @ERIN_WINN<br />

Erin is a Toronto-based makeup artist.<br />

Recent Projects:<br />

Junos docuseries Rising, featuring singersongwriter<br />

and actress Carys<br />

Favourite part of the job:<br />

Collaborating with other creatives and<br />

meeting so many incredible people. I feel so<br />

grateful to have a job that I truly love and<br />

still feel inspired by after 20 years in the<br />

industry.<br />

How will you mark the arrival of <strong>spring</strong>?<br />

Hopefully by soaking up some sun with a<br />

bottle of Paleokerisio.<br />

The most important thing you learned from<br />

your Mom?<br />

Open mindedness. My mother was always<br />

willing to listen to someones opinion and<br />

thoughts, even if they differed from her<br />

own. She did so with a curious mind and<br />

empathetic heart.<br />

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SKINCARE<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

MOTHER<br />

KNOWS<br />

BEST<br />

SKINCARE ADVICE<br />

WE RECEIVED FROM<br />

OUR MOMS—<br />

WHAT STILL WORKS,<br />

WHAT NEVER DID.<br />

She was our first <strong>beauty</strong><br />

school and taught us<br />

everything she knew<br />

about how to look after<br />

ourselves, including our skin. We’re<br />

talking of course about Mom, your<br />

original <strong>beauty</strong> guru. Did you listen<br />

to her?<br />

Mom knew a thing or two about<br />

self-care—most of it to treasure, but<br />

some of it to trash. For instance, all<br />

the cucumbers in the world aren’t<br />

going to de-puff your eyes, but<br />

castor oil does indeed do doubleduty<br />

as a moisturizer and makeup<br />

remover.<br />

Here’s a rundown of skincare tips<br />

our Mothers gave us: the good, the<br />

bad, and the just plain crazy.<br />

8<br />

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ADVICE<br />

TO HEED<br />

MOISTURIZE, MOISTURIZE,<br />

MOISTURIZE<br />

Hydration is the key to greatlooking<br />

skin. Moisturizers reduce<br />

the chances of skin issues, helping<br />

to maintain its balance. Moisturizing<br />

helps fight fine lines and keeps skin<br />

looking younger. We like Environ<br />

Youth Essentia Defense Creme, which<br />

is enriched with antioxidants to fight free<br />

radical damage. Best Advice: Don’t forget to cream<br />

your neck!<br />

THE SUN IS YOUR ENEMY.<br />

UV radiation brings on the wrinkles and a loss of<br />

elasticity. As well, sun damage is cumulative: You<br />

may be a sun goddess now, but the damage will<br />

show up later and you will look older than you<br />

need to, particularly your hands and face. Wearing<br />

sunscreen helps stave off signs of aging.<br />

Don’t forget to apply sunscreen to your décolleté.<br />

Best Advice: Mineral sunscreens are better<br />

for the environment and for your skin.<br />

Jacob Lund/Shutterstock.com<br />

MYTHS<br />

TO LET GO<br />

MASSAGE UPWARDS, NEVER<br />

DOWN.<br />

In reality, blending up “against<br />

gravity” will not make a difference<br />

to your skin or create<br />

a younger, firmer-looking you.<br />

Just don’t pull on your skin –<br />

massage it gently, especially the<br />

delicate areas.<br />

HYPOALLERGENIC<br />

PRODUCTS HELP<br />

SENSITIVE SKIN.<br />

This is nonsense, an advertising ploy, a word marketers<br />

use because there is no regulation saying they can’t.<br />

WASH YOUR FACE IN ICE.<br />

Never do this. Ice actually promotes<br />

spider veins and puffiness, disrupting<br />

blood flow and causing your skin to<br />

lose its elasticity. At the opposite end of<br />

the scale, washing your face in hot water<br />

is also a no-no.<br />

Everett Collection/Shutterstock.com<br />

ALWAYS CLEANSE BEFORE BED.<br />

Cleansers not only take makeup off, they also<br />

rid skin of the pollution, impurities and dirt<br />

it has been exposed to during the day. Best<br />

Advice: Make cleansing part of your morning<br />

routine, too – cleanse, serum, sunscreen.<br />

YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT.<br />

It’s true. What’s on the inside makes a big<br />

difference to what’s on the outside. Diet is a big part of<br />

maintaining overall health, which in turn is reflected in that<br />

healthy glow. Drink plenty of water and make sure you’re<br />

eating properly, covering all the vitamin and mineral bases.<br />

Best Advice: No smoking, either.<br />

GET YOUR BEAUTY REST.<br />

Mom probably says that these are the hours of sleep you get<br />

in before midnight. She is mostly right.<br />

Getting enough sleep in general helps your<br />

body recover from the day, including helping<br />

skin rejuvenate. Best Advice: Shoot for<br />

a minimum of seven hours per night.<br />

TYPECAST<br />

FOR LIFE<br />

Many <strong>beauty</strong> experts will tell you that your age determines the<br />

skincare products you should be using. Actually, this is only<br />

partially true. When you’re young, regimen initiation products<br />

get you in the habit of taking care of your skin. Preventive care<br />

takes over right after that, followed by products that turn back<br />

the clock” flooding your <strong>beauty</strong> cabinet later on in life.<br />

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fizkes/Shutterstock.com<br />

YOUR FACE GETS TOO USED TO<br />

CREAMS AFTER A WHILE.<br />

If Mom suggests that you change up your<br />

skincare routine every once in a while, because<br />

using one cream too much will cause it to lose its effect,<br />

she is mistaken. And if she says, “The tingle tells you its<br />

working,” you can say that the tingle is telling you your<br />

skin is irritated and could soon be inflamed!<br />

YOU’LL EVENTUALLY<br />

OUTGROW ACNE.<br />

Sadly, no. Or at least maybe not: The occurrence of<br />

acne is as inconsistent as it is annoying – it could be<br />

puberty, hormones, menopause, anything. Putting<br />

toothpaste on your spots does nothing (except<br />

make your pimples minty fresh), and the sun won’t<br />

dry acne out either – it just makes skin oilier,<br />

causing pores to clog. A better approach? Wash<br />

your face once or twice daily using a glycolic<br />

or salicylic acid cleanser. We like SkinMedica<br />

AHA/ BHA Exfoliating Cleanser, which gently<br />

but thoroughly cleanses and clarifies the skin.<br />

The real truth is, your skin type is a more important consideration<br />

than your age when shopping for <strong>beauty</strong> products.<br />

Simply consider if your skin is: Normal, Dry<br />

Oily, Combination (oily and dry), or Sensitive. This is<br />

largely determined by genetics and not by age. Once you<br />

know your skin type, you’re set for life. //<br />

Step up to the counter at the TMB Clinic and ask our staff<br />

what products we have that are right for your skin type.<br />

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TREATMENTS<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING BACK TO THE REAL YOU, THESE ADVANCED<br />

TECHNIQUES MAY BE THE PROBLEM-SOLVERS YOU’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR.<br />

MOMMY<br />

MAKEOVER<br />

Whether a small change or a complete make-better is in order, there’s<br />

no time like the present to refine your unique self and regain body<br />

confidence. To improve post-pregnancy volume loss, arrest the<br />

ravages of time and gravity or simply do something for yourself for a change,<br />

these safe procedures will bring back that natural look. >><br />

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mommy<br />

MAKEOVER<br />

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Annie Spratt/ UnSplash<br />

SLOUCHY CLEAVAGE<br />

Solution: Micro Fat Grafting involves<br />

transfering fat from the tummy, thighs or<br />

buttocks to the areas of the breasts that<br />

need contouring.<br />

Benefits: Breasts are more voluptuous, acquiring<br />

a natural fullness and softness, with<br />

any hollowness filled out.<br />

BREAST RENEWAL<br />

UNRULY NIPPLES<br />

Solution: Nipple Correction surgery works to<br />

fix issues surrounding enlarged, asymmetrical,<br />

protruding or inverted nipples.<br />

Benefits: Improve the overall look of your<br />

breasts, alleviating insecurity over the<br />

appearance of nipples.<br />

ALTERING THE SIZE, SHAPE AND<br />

PROPORTION OF YOUR BREASTS<br />

CAN BE DONE WITH AN INDIVIDUAL<br />

PROCEDURE OR INVOLVE A<br />

COMBINATION OF TECHNIQUES TO<br />

DELIVER THE DESIRED RESULTS.<br />

ASYMMETRY<br />

Solution: Bilateral Breast Augmentation<br />

(BBA) is the enhancement of the breasts<br />

using a surgical implant, either siliconeor<br />

saline-filled.<br />

Benefits: The most popoular cosmetic<br />

surgery in North America, this corrects<br />

a loss of breast shape or volume over<br />

time—and a real confidence-booster.<br />

DROOPY BREASTS<br />

Solution: Mastopexy or breast lift is the surgical<br />

revision and reshaping of the breasts to<br />

lend a more youthful, lifted look.<br />

Benefits: Problems due to aging, pregnancy,<br />

breast feeding, weight loss or even just gravity<br />

are eradicated, so you can feel less self-conscious<br />

in tighter clothing—and give your bra a break.<br />

TOO-BIG BREASTS<br />

Solution: Bilateral Breast Reduction (BBR)<br />

is a surgical procedure that reduces fat, tissue<br />

and excess skin on large, heavy breasts.<br />

Benefits: Eliminate pain and posture problems,<br />

find freer movement and improve your<br />

self image with a tighter, firmer bustline.<br />

BEFORE & AFTER BILATERAL<br />

BREAST AUGMENTION SURGERY<br />

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SAFE PROCEDURES FOR THE<br />

STOMACH, BUTTOCKS, ARMS AND<br />

LEGS CAN HELP LIFT, SCULPT, TONE<br />

AND TIGHTEN WHERE YOU NEED IT<br />

THE MOST.<br />

SPARE TIRE<br />

Solution: Abdominoplasty or “tummy<br />

tuck” removes excess fat and tightens loose<br />

skin and muscles in the abdomen area.<br />

Benefits: Flatten the flabby midsection,<br />

eliminate crepey skin, improve the<br />

appearance of stretchmarks and wear<br />

clothes that fit better.<br />

BUMPS & BULGES<br />

Solution: Liposuction is the surgical<br />

removal of fat deposits from the body that<br />

are resistant to weight loss and exercise.<br />

Benefits: Streamline your body contour by<br />

targeting the abdomen, arms, inner thighs,<br />

knees, hips, back and chest—putting you<br />

back in proportion.<br />

BATWING ARMS<br />

Solution: Arm Lift surgery removes hanging<br />

skin from the upper arms caused by<br />

extreme weight loss or aging.<br />

Benefits: Get more toned and tight arms—<br />

and welcome the return of the sleeveless top!<br />

UNSIGHTLY DENTS<br />

Solution: Fat Grafting transfers fat from<br />

one part of the body to another to volumize,<br />

shape and sculpt where necessary.<br />

Benefits: Create a more voluptuous behind,<br />

soften boney hands or smooth out unwanted<br />

hollows.<br />

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MAKEOVER<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

FACE REFRESH<br />

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AGING UNGRACEFULLY<br />

Solution: Injectables like Botox®,<br />

Restylane®, Sculptra® and Radiesse® are<br />

advanced, non-invasive treatments that can<br />

be used individually or in combination.<br />

Benefits: Get help with pesky wrinkles,<br />

creases and folds, and create more volume<br />

in your cheeks, temples, chin and lips.<br />

BIG EARS<br />

Solution: Otoplasty is the surgical correction<br />

of large or protruding ears, including droopy<br />

ears caused by wearing heavy earrings.<br />

Benefits: Reduce or reshape excess cartilage<br />

to lend a more harmonious balance to your<br />

face with ears that are less pronounced.<br />

COMBINING MICRO FAT GRAFTING<br />

WITH MODERN SURGICAL LIFT<br />

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YOUR REAL BEAUTY AND ACHIEVE<br />

NATURAL-LOOKING RESULTS.<br />

GRAVITY ISSUES<br />

Solution: Rhytidectomy or facelift surgery,<br />

along with neck lift surgery, can correct<br />

decreased skin elasticity, create more facial<br />

volume and fix that sagging look.<br />

Benefits: With a plan that is unique to you,<br />

you can reduce facial folds and excess skin,<br />

and tighten and smooth skin on the face<br />

and neck.<br />

SINKING JOWLS<br />

Solution: Sub-Mental Liposuction or<br />

chin augmentation is a minimally invasive<br />

procedure involving the surgical removal of<br />

fat from the jowls, chin and neck.<br />

Benefits: Fix a weak chin, a double chin or<br />

a pudgy face by smoothing the contour of<br />

the jawline for a more youthful, thin and<br />

elongated look.<br />

SUNKEN EYES<br />

Solution: Blepharoplasty or eyelid surgery<br />

is the correction of excess skin and the<br />

removal of fat pockets on the upper and<br />

lower eyelids.<br />

Benefits: You look less tired and less<br />

gaunt, get rid of dark circles and bags, and<br />

restore fuller volume to the eyes.<br />

DROOPY FACE<br />

Solution: Facial Fat Grafting is the transfer<br />

of fat from one part of the body to the<br />

face to contour and plump deflated areas.<br />

Benefits: Enhance or reshape certain<br />

facial features, lift and fill sunken cheeks<br />

and temples, or tighten a sagging jawline.<br />

SAGGING BROWS<br />

Solution: Browlifts are surgical procedures<br />

of varying intricacy, depending on<br />

your particular need. These can involve a<br />

classic lift along the hairline or less invasive<br />

endoscopic lift.<br />

Benefits: Remove excess skin on the<br />

eyelids and forehead, pulling brows into a<br />

more youthful alignment.<br />

BEFORE & AFTER<br />

BLEPHAROPLASTY SURGERY<br />

SAGGY BOTTOM<br />

Solution: Buttock and Thigh Lift surgery<br />

can correct and enhance a flat, droopy or<br />

misshapen backside.<br />

Benefits: Tighten up thighs, contour<br />

buttocks with a Brazilian Butt Lift and<br />

enjoy a more shaplier shape.<br />

LOVE YOUR LABIA<br />

The genital area is so often such a<br />

touchy subject, isn’t it? Labiaplasty is<br />

labial reduction, wherein excess skin<br />

is reduced to correct problems due to<br />

childbirth and to alleviate discomfort<br />

caused by drooping or protruding<br />

labia. This is a safe and easy, relatively<br />

short surgery.<br />

Monika Kozub/UnSplash<br />

Benefits: Through trimming and<br />

reshaping, and possibly fat grafting to<br />

add volume to the outer labia where<br />

necessary, you achieve more symmetry,<br />

experience improved sensation during<br />

sex and maintain an aesthetically<br />

pleasing look.<br />

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MAKEOVER<br />

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Benefits: The underlying weak muscles<br />

of the pelvic floor are strengthened and<br />

stimulated, so you can laugh, sneeze and<br />

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I’M TRYING<br />

For those struggling with<br />

infertility, we could all use<br />

a little piece of that<br />

Mother’s Day love.<br />

bby Erin Mccann<br />

Infertility is really, really hard.<br />

Explaining it to people is also<br />

really, really hard, and there’s<br />

one day of the year that makes<br />

it even harder: Mother’s Day.<br />

Don’t get me wrong. I have a wonderful<br />

mother and I know many amazing<br />

moms who deserve all the adoration,<br />

praise and gratitude we have to spare.<br />

But Mother’s Day is a special kind<br />

of torture for those of us struggling<br />

with infertility, a reminder of the club<br />

we yearn to be a part of, the thing we<br />

long to experience but can’t.<br />

Every year when Mother’s Day<br />

comes around—at least for as long as<br />

I’ve been trying to conceive—I have<br />

to turn off my social media and bury<br />

myself in soothing rituals like watching<br />

old Gossip Girl episodes, drinking<br />

lots of Champagne, eating an entire<br />

pizza by myself and snuggling my<br />

dog extra tight.<br />

I don’t want to celebrate and I<br />

certainly don’t want to be reminded of<br />

the arduous, painful process of going<br />

through fertility treatments: overwhelmed<br />

and understaffed fertility<br />

clinics, endless blood tests, needles,<br />

painful cervical examinations, ovulation<br />

sticks, timed intercourse (and no,<br />

it’s not fun), medication that makes<br />

you break out, gain weight and want<br />

to sleep all day. And the expense:<br />

thousands of dollars for every cycle<br />

you put yourself through (my urgently<br />

ticking clock meant that I could not<br />

wait the two years it would take to<br />

receive a government-funded cycle).<br />

Then there’s the crying—every time a<br />

pregnancy test comes back negative,<br />

every month when your menstrual<br />

cycle rears its unwanted head yet<br />

again, every time you get pregnant<br />

only to miscarry weeks later.<br />

The process is traumatic, and not just<br />

for women like me whose treatments<br />

have been unsuccessful. There are<br />

mothers whose treatments have yielded<br />

beautiful children, yet even they<br />

can be triggered on Mother’s Day.<br />

“Like a lot of women, when I was<br />

longing to have children, Mother’s<br />

Day would make me feel a little bitter<br />

and sad,” says Rana Florida, CEO<br />

of Creative Class and mother of<br />

two girls, about her experience with<br />

Mother’s Day and infertility. “And on<br />

top of that, people would constantly<br />

ask me: “Why haven’t you had kids<br />

yet?” It was frustrating,” she says.<br />

“Now, every Mother’s Day, I’m in<br />

disbelief that I have two amazing<br />

little daughters. I’m so grateful, but<br />

the journey I went through is not<br />

for the faint of heart. There are some<br />

tough memories there that still come<br />

up,” Rana says. “I did treatments in<br />

five different states from New York to<br />

Washington, D.C. to Toronto to<br />

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California. I suffered an ectopic<br />

pregnancy, and then, after several<br />

more tries, we got pregnant again and<br />

experienced vanishing twin syndrome.<br />

So there was certainly pain and loss<br />

that happened along the way.”<br />

Anyone who’s been through it can<br />

relate. You need an iron will and endless<br />

stamina to withstand the many<br />

hurdles that come with infertility<br />

treatments, including all the questions<br />

relatives throw at you and quiet<br />

innuendoes at dinner parties that<br />

result in you silently sobbing in someone’s<br />

powder room.<br />

When we decided we would do a<br />

special Mother’s Day Issue here at<br />

<strong>Modern</strong>Beauty magazine, I absolutely<br />

wanted to acknowledge all the wouldbe<br />

mothers out there to let them<br />

know: you are not alone. So many<br />

of us keep our fertility struggles to<br />

ourselves, but the reality is that there<br />

are more of us than we think.<br />

“If you take the population as a whole,<br />

about one in six women struggle with<br />

infertility, and that statistic increases<br />

with age.” says Reproductive Endocrinologist<br />

and Infertility Specialist<br />

Dr. Sony Sierra. “Nowadays, for many<br />

reasons, people are delaying getting<br />

pregnant until their mid- to late- 30s,<br />

and we’re seeing infertility numbers<br />

are more like one in four within that<br />

age group. So yes, there are a lot of<br />

women out there for whom Mother’s<br />

Day can be triggering.”<br />

DR. SONY SIERRA, TRIO FERTILITYY<br />

RANA FLORIDA WITH HER<br />

DAUGHTERS VALENTINA & MILA<br />

For those of you who weren’t fully<br />

aware of just how painful and awkward<br />

Mother’s Day can be for so<br />

many of us, here are a couple of ways<br />

you can help make the day easier:<br />

1. Unless you are certain that the<br />

person you are asking about “having<br />

kids” is very comfortable talking<br />

about the subject, don’t ask.<br />

2. Be sensitive to the fact that Mother’s<br />

Day can be painful for some, and<br />

take some time to acknowledge those<br />

who may be struggling. A personal<br />

note, flowers or a phone call just to<br />

say “Hey” can go a long way.<br />

3. Understand that your childless<br />

friends may not want to be confronted<br />

with all things “kids” and “family”<br />

on this holiday. If they don’t like your<br />

Mother’s Day Instagram post, don’t<br />

get sore. If they don’t want to meet<br />

up with you and the kids, suggest an<br />

adults-only activity for another time.<br />

To all the mothers out there still<br />

trying, hoping, wishing: don’t lose<br />

hope—treatments for infertility are<br />

constantly evolving.<br />

“Technology has really come a long<br />

way even in the last ten years,” Dr.<br />

Sierra tells us. “Things like new<br />

high-powered microscopes, embryoscopes<br />

and genetic testing allow us<br />

to gather more information about<br />

egg quality, place sperm more<br />

accurately and screen embryos, all of<br />

which increase success rates significantly.”<br />

For those who are hurting: there’s<br />

nothing wrong with prioritizing<br />

yourself on Mother’s Day. Take a<br />

“digital break,” make grown-up plans<br />

with your partner, steer clear of “family”<br />

zones like parks and nurture your<br />

tender heart in whatever way you<br />

need to. There are also many support<br />

groups out there, and most fertility<br />

clinics offer counselling services for<br />

those who need them.<br />

I try to remind myself on this day of<br />

all the things I have to be thankful<br />

for: a wonderful husband, a full and<br />

rewarding life, and great freedom to<br />

pursue my career and my art. Like<br />

most of the people I know who<br />

have been through infertility treatments,<br />

I am incredibly strong. I don’t<br />

need pity and I don’t want to cancel<br />

Mother’s Day. What I could use is<br />

just a little piece of that Mother’s<br />

Day love, because here’s the thing of<br />

it: in a way, I’m a mom, too.<br />

Some might not agree or understand,<br />

but I believe that the moment you<br />

get that hope in your heart, the day<br />

you start taking fertility drugs and<br />

think, This might work, or the minute<br />

after an intrauterine insemination or<br />

in vitro implantation and you imagine<br />

your child coming into the world,<br />

you are a mom.<br />

Happy Mother’s Day to all of us. //<br />

STRUGGLING WITH<br />

INFERTILITY THIS MOTHER’S<br />

DAY? YOU ARE NOT ALONE.<br />

If you’d like to share your story<br />

or thoughts on this article,<br />

contact me at:<br />

ERINAMBER.MCCANN<br />

@GMAIL.COM<br />

LEARN MORE ABOUT<br />

DR. SIERRA AND TRIO<br />

FERTILITY CLINICS:<br />

TRIOFERTILITY.COM<br />

INFO@TRIOFERTILITY.COM<br />

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PROFILES<br />

The<br />

MOM<br />

Chronicles<br />

IN HONOUR OF MOTHER’S DAY, WE SHINE A LIGHT<br />

ON A FEW SPECIAL MOMS WE KNOW WHO DESERVE<br />

ATTENTION AND PRAISE FOR THEIR EXCEPTIONAL<br />

COURAGE, DETERMINATION, AND STRENGTH.<br />

Photography by<br />

Billie Chiasson<br />

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ALISON FIORINI<br />

Honouring her daughter and raising awareness of pediatric cancer with Jordana’s Rainbows.<br />

“WE ARE WARRIORS.”<br />

Tell us a bit about your motherhood<br />

story.<br />

My motherhood journey began when<br />

I had Lucas in 2004, Jordana in 2005<br />

and Laurence in 2008. Having three<br />

kids under four years of age seemed<br />

like a lot at the time but when I look<br />

back, I wish I had more because I<br />

love being a mom!<br />

My eldest, Lucas, has always been<br />

mature for his age. He tends to be<br />

quiet and modest around us, but he<br />

can also be a real joker. When we<br />

least expect it, he’ll jump in with a<br />

clever one-liner or completely offside<br />

joke and leave us all in stitches.<br />

Jordana is a rainbow in every sense of<br />

the word. I can’t remember her not<br />

smiling or laughing. She received her<br />

angel wings in 2016, but her divine<br />

presence is still with us.<br />

When we had Laurence we added<br />

the perfect spice to our family. He’s<br />

full of energy, super engaging, always<br />

curious and wide-eyed, and looks up<br />

to his big brother in every way.<br />

What’s your favourite part about<br />

being a mom?<br />

I truly love it all. I love making<br />

memories with my husband and<br />

kids. Travelling with them, or just<br />

enjoying the simple things like long<br />

walks, family meals, or when they<br />

were little and we curled up in bed<br />

to read together.<br />

What are some of the challenges of<br />

being a mom?<br />

Does a mother ever stop worrying?<br />

On some days, I find myself worrying<br />

about the littlest things. Yet, because<br />

of the trauma we experienced, we’ve<br />

learned how to let go of some of the<br />

things that we can’t control. You become<br />

able to recognize an inexplicable<br />

divinity, which helps you to let go of<br />

some of the pain and worry.<br />

How have you been managing kids<br />

and family during the pandemic?<br />

While this pandemic has certainly<br />

been frustrating, scary, challenging<br />

and lonely, my family has lived<br />

through isolation and fear before. We<br />

are a little more acclimatized than<br />

the average family to the unexpected<br />

and unknown, so we’ve been managing<br />

pretty well this past year.<br />

Tell us about Jordana’s Rainbows.<br />

Jordana was diagnosed with DIPG<br />

(Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma)<br />

at SickKids in September 2015.<br />

DIPG is an inoperable brain<br />

tumour that affects children in the<br />

early years of their life and has a<br />

survival rate of six to nine months.<br />

Jordana survived DIPG for only<br />

four months.<br />

We continue to honour Jordana<br />

by sharing her light and love of<br />

rainbows through our charity, The<br />

Jordana’s Rainbows Foundation.<br />

Our mission is to raise awareness<br />

for DIPG, and raise funds toward<br />

childhood cancer research.<br />

What kind of self-care do you practice,<br />

so that you can survive motherhood<br />

every day?<br />

Apart from regular excercise, reading,<br />

and quality time with friends, my<br />

work with Jordana’s Rainbows is also<br />

an important part of my self care. It<br />

has allowed me to be vulnerable with<br />

my pain. Expressing and sharing my<br />

story has allowed me to heal, while<br />

helping others at the same time.<br />

There are many moms out there who<br />

struggle with loss on Mother’s Day.<br />

What would you like to say to them?<br />

You’re not alone. Whatever your<br />

circumstance is, there are so many<br />

people feeling what you are feeling.<br />

This is not something you need to bear<br />

on your own. We are warriors. We were<br />

destined to weather these storms. The<br />

key is to channel your pain into good,<br />

and service for others—this is where<br />

the magic happens. //<br />

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NIKKI HAWKE<br />

Managing kids, a full time career and lockdowns with poise and purpose.<br />

“DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF.”<br />

Tell us a bit about your family.<br />

I have two children: Charlotte, who<br />

just turned 14, and Lukas who is 10.<br />

My kids are three-and-a-half years<br />

apart and opposite sexes, so they don’t<br />

have a lot in common, but they can<br />

always make each other laugh. They<br />

both love the outoors, music, their<br />

friends and their extended family.<br />

Did you always know you wanted to<br />

be a mom?<br />

I have always loved kids and knew<br />

I wanted to be a mom. When I<br />

graduated high school I was voted<br />

most likely to start an orphanage!<br />

How have you been managing kids<br />

and family during the pandemic?<br />

I’m divorced and a full-time working<br />

mom, so it was really hard<br />

at the beginning. And with each<br />

lockdown or pivot, emotions can be<br />

high. I had to learn to ask for help,<br />

something I am terrible at doing—<br />

whether that was by booking a tutor<br />

for my daughter, calling on teachers<br />

for support and advice, or asking for<br />

more flexible working hours.<br />

If you could go back in time and give<br />

your new mom-self some advice, what<br />

would it be?<br />

I felt pressure to go back to work<br />

soon after both of my kids were born<br />

and I regret it. I would tell my new<br />

mom-self: do not sacrifice this time.<br />

It goes fast and your career is long.<br />

Also “don’t sweat the small stuff ”<br />

should be a mommy mantra!<br />

You’re a single mom, and you’re a<br />

powerhouse in business. Can you tell<br />

me about what you do and how you<br />

balance/manage work and family?<br />

I am currently Chief Marketing<br />

Officer for a global advertising<br />

technology company. I have to say<br />

I love what I do. Balance is hard<br />

though—especially in a pandemic<br />

where there are no boundaries<br />

between work and home. A few<br />

things that have helped me keep<br />

it together include: a good chat<br />

with a friend when overwhelmed,<br />

working out, and GoodFood boxes<br />

to take the guesswork out of meal<br />

planning and prep.<br />

What kind of self-care do you practice,<br />

so you can survive motherhood?<br />

For any woman, a lot of who we are<br />

is wrapped up in what we look like<br />

or how we are perceived. A large part<br />

of self-care for me has involved the<br />

treatment of facial paralysis caused<br />

by Bell’s Palsy, a virus which is part<br />

of the chickenpox strain, which I<br />

developed in my 20s.<br />

I always had a huge smile that could<br />

light up a room and with the right side<br />

of my face mostly immobile, I felt lost<br />

and self-conscious for quite a while. I<br />

found a doctor in New York who was<br />

able to use Botox to calm the nerves/<br />

activity on the left side of my face so<br />

that I would have more symmetry.<br />

When I moved back to Toronto, Dr.<br />

Born was the only person I trusted to<br />

work with me on symmetry and the<br />

synkinesis I had developed from my<br />

Bell’s Palsy. He’s been treating me for<br />

the last 15 years, and this past year I<br />

asked him to perform eyelid surgery,<br />

as my right eye was starting to droop<br />

and I already had very hooded lids.<br />

He is literally a magician. My eyes<br />

look brighter and fresher, and the<br />

change gave me the little boost I<br />

needed to look and feel my best.<br />

There are many mom’ out there facing<br />

another Mother’s Day in lockdown,<br />

who have struggled this past year.<br />

What would you like to say to them?<br />

You are not alone. I want more moms<br />

to share their stories and struggles. It<br />

isn’t easy for anyone in these times.<br />

Whether single, divorced, married,<br />

widowed. There is nothing more<br />

powerful than the strength we bring<br />

each other when we come together. //<br />

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JOSEPH TITO<br />

A little bit Mom AND Dad, he’s raising surrogate twin girls all on his own.<br />

“I’VE CHANGED A LOT OF DIAPERS.”<br />

Tell us a bit about your mother/ fatherhood<br />

story.<br />

There was a pivotal moment in my<br />

life—I was 37, living in the Middle<br />

East, earning a good living, travelling<br />

all over the world and living quite a<br />

glamorous life. One morning, I was<br />

sitting by myself in a seven-star hotel<br />

in Dubai watching the sunrise and I<br />

thought to myself: “I need more than<br />

this.” There was something missing<br />

from my life, and I knew then that I<br />

wanted to start a family.<br />

I’m a gay man, which made the process<br />

of adoption difficult. There are<br />

many countries that flat-out prohibit<br />

LGBTQ people from adopting, and<br />

then there was the fact that I was in<br />

a relationship but unmarried, which<br />

was another strike against me. I<br />

eventually found a surrogacy agency<br />

in Kenya that permitted same-sex<br />

couples, and that’s when my parenthood<br />

journey began.<br />

It was a long, tough road. Along the<br />

way, I broke up with my partner, went<br />

through four unsuccessful embryo<br />

transfers, and had to deal with many<br />

legal hurdles. There were times when<br />

I thought that maybe God didn’t want<br />

me to be a parent. When my surrogate<br />

finally did get pregnant (with<br />

twins—surprise!), the agency threw<br />

another curveball at me, telling me<br />

that unless I had a “female” companion<br />

with me, I would not be permitted<br />

to claim my children. I had to bring a<br />

“pretend wife” with me to Mombassa<br />

so that I could get my girls.<br />

It was all worth it though, when<br />

my surrogate brought Stella and<br />

Mia into my world on November<br />

30, 2018. I thought I knew what<br />

love was, but I didn’t know the true<br />

meaning of the word until I held my<br />

babies in my arms.<br />

What are they like?<br />

Mia is exactly like me—moody. She<br />

needs to get her way. She’s a force to<br />

be reckoned with, which I love,<br />

because as a woman in this world, she<br />

needs to be—but as a dad, it’s killing<br />

me! Stella is like my little Buddha.<br />

She always looks after me, making<br />

sure Daddy’s OK.<br />

What’s your favourite part about<br />

being a parent?<br />

Having two people on this earth<br />

who love me unconditionally and<br />

rely on me to take care of them<br />

gives me a great sense of purpose,<br />

which was missing from my life<br />

before. I’m very grateful for that.<br />

Also, every night when I put them<br />

to sleep and I hear them say,<br />

“I love you.” That’s certainly a highlight.<br />

As a single parent, you kind of have to<br />

be both Mom and Dad. What are some<br />

of the ways you fulfill those roles for<br />

your kids?<br />

I really just try to give my girls all the<br />

love and affection that I can. There<br />

has definitely been a learning curve.<br />

I read all the mommy books, all the<br />

daddy books. I’ve had to learn to be<br />

patient, to remain calm and be more<br />

nurturing. I try to give them the kind<br />

of love my own mom gave me—she’s<br />

an incredible woman and has taught<br />

me so much.<br />

I think a lot of the traditional notions<br />

of what “moms” do versus what “dads”<br />

do aren’t realistic nowadays. I know<br />

some dads who have never changed<br />

a diaper because they think it’s “not<br />

their job.” That just doesn’t make sense<br />

to me. I never had a choice. From<br />

day one, I had to be both. And I have<br />

twins, so I’ve changed a lot of diapers!<br />

There are many people out there who<br />

have faced (or are facing) the same<br />

barriers that you did when it comes to<br />

starting a family. What would you like<br />

to say to them?<br />

Don’t give up. Keep going, and<br />

know that everything happens for a<br />

reason. Prejudice, judgement, legal<br />

blockades—I would be lying if I said I<br />

didn’t think about giving up sometimes.<br />

But I never did, and I would do<br />

it all again for them in a heartbeat. //<br />

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DOCTOR’S NOTE<br />

WITH VACCINATIONS ON THE RISE,<br />

THE END OF LOCKDOWN LIFE IS ON THE HORIZON.<br />

BUT THERE IS STILL SOME WORK TO DO<br />

BEFORE WE GET THERE.<br />

GETTING BACK TO<br />

NORMAL<br />

“When will things get back to normal?”<br />

With every month that passes under<br />

the lockdown cloud of COVID-19,<br />

I hear the same question.<br />

I wish I had the answer—but it’s<br />

more complicated than just getting<br />

a vaccine and picking a date on the<br />

calendar. Our outines—the way we<br />

eat, sleep, dress, move, work, travel,<br />

communicate—have all been altered<br />

in response to the pandemic.<br />

Our internal compasses have definitely<br />

become a little “off.” I’m here<br />

to tell you: It’s OK.<br />

Unless you’re some kind of superhuman,<br />

feeling abnormal is the only<br />

genuine response to the collective<br />

trauma we have experienced over<br />

the past year. Anxiety, fear, stress,<br />

loss and pain have dominated our<br />

bodies and minds, leaving us shellshocked.<br />

The World Health Organization<br />

has even declared that the<br />

pandemic has caused mass trauma on<br />

a scale larger than the Second World<br />

War, and anticipates the need for<br />

increased mental health resources for<br />

years to come.<br />

Processing our trauma will be a<br />

critical first step on the journey back<br />

to any true sense of normality. Here<br />

are a few ways we can begin to heal,<br />

rebuild and replenish ourselves in<br />

preparation for the light at the end of<br />

the COVID-19 tunnel. >><br />

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OCTOR’S NOTE<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

ACKNOWLEDGE<br />

NEGATIVE<br />

FEELINGS.<br />

I often see social media posts with<br />

notions like “Positive Vibes Only!” or<br />

“Be the Sunshine on a Cloudy Day”<br />

and I have to admit they concern<br />

me. Many people have been conditioned<br />

to “fight off ” negative feelings<br />

by supplanting them with forced<br />

feelings of positivity and this is not<br />

healthy. Suppressing your emotions,<br />

rather than processing them, can<br />

actually make you sick, mentally and<br />

physically. Research has shown that<br />

emotional repression can lead to<br />

decreased immune function, chronic<br />

stress, hypertension, cardiovascular<br />

disease, digestive issues, the list goes<br />

on. To deal with negative emotions<br />

more constructively, acknowledge<br />

that every now and again, you will<br />

have a bad day, and allow yourself to<br />

experience those feelings.<br />

ADD SOME<br />

STRUCTURE.<br />

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It’s easy to get stuck in a dark place<br />

if you don’t give yourself a proper<br />

“out” from your negative emotions.<br />

Give yourself a strict window of<br />

time to fully experience the feelings—an<br />

hour is more than enough.<br />

During that hour, try giving your<br />

emotions an outlet—write in a<br />

journal, or try drawing or painting,<br />

which has been shown to reduce<br />

cortisol (the stress hormone) in<br />

recent studies. Or if you’re musically<br />

inclined, play an instrument or sing a<br />

sad song. There’s a reason some of the<br />

best music ever written is melancholy—it’s<br />

cathartic! Then, when the<br />

hour is up, close the book and reward<br />

yourself with a soothing gesture like a<br />

good cup of tea, a hot bath or a walk<br />

around the block.<br />

SEEK<br />

PROFESSIONAL<br />

HELP.<br />

While many have adopted productive<br />

coping strategies over the course<br />

of the pandemic, such as meditating,<br />

yoga and deep breathing, it’s important<br />

to make the distinction between<br />

therapeutic activities and actual<br />

therapy. A professional therapist or<br />

psychiatrist can give you actionable<br />

methods and tools to safely process<br />

your feelings, heal and move forward<br />

in your life. If you’re struggling with<br />

feelings of despair, hopelessness,<br />

depression or grief for longer than six<br />

months, it’s probably a good idea to<br />

seek out a registered psychotherapist<br />

or psychiatrist. We have a great network<br />

of providers if you are looking<br />

for someone. Just ask!<br />

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BE<br />

HELPFUL.<br />

As we rebound from the emotional,<br />

social and financial impacts of the pandemic,<br />

we must also help one another—<br />

particularly those who have suffered the<br />

effects of COVID-19 more intensely:<br />

the essential workers, those who face<br />

socio-economic barriers, children and<br />

the elderly. The great thing about helping<br />

others is that it benefits both the<br />

giver and the receiver. Countless studies<br />

have documented the mental and<br />

physical health benefits of giving back,<br />

showing that charity work and philanthropy<br />

release dopamine (our feel-good<br />

hormones), lower blood pressure, reduce<br />

stress and help alleviate depression.<br />

The faster we acknowledge and address<br />

the inequities that have been magnified by<br />

the pandemic, the happier we will all be.<br />

There are many simple ways you can<br />

help those in need of support:<br />

Tim Mossholder/Unsplash<br />

• Deliver healthy meals to frontline<br />

workers<br />

• Petition your local government to provide<br />

paid sick leave for frontline workers<br />

• If you have the means, donate to one<br />

of the many organizations who provide<br />

services, programs and resources to<br />

children in need<br />

• Offer your services or donate to a crisis<br />

support line<br />

A little more patience, understanding<br />

and giving—to ourselves and each other—<br />

will help all of us reach the other side<br />

of the pandemic stronger and more<br />

brilliant than we were before. //<br />

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CODA<br />

MODERNBEAUTY MAGAZINE<br />

MOTHER<br />

LOVE<br />

JUDITH BORN TELLS US WHAT IT WAS<br />

LIKE RAISING OUR FAVOURITE DOCTOR.<br />

What was Dr. Born like as a young boy?<br />

Trevor was a very adventurous little boy. He was<br />

always his own person, independent and fearless,<br />

which I think served him well as an athlete. He<br />

picked up sports very quickly, and once he set his<br />

mind to conquering a sport, that was it!<br />

When did he start showing an interest in medicine?<br />

He was already talking about being a surgeon when<br />

he was 10 years old. The fact that his father (Dr. Gunther<br />

Born) was a surgeon had a lot to do with that, as<br />

he was a huge influence on Trevor. Many of our friends<br />

were also physicians, so he had access to that world long<br />

before he started medical school. They would let him<br />

watch them in the operating room when he was in high<br />

school, which gave him a great head start in the medical<br />

field.<br />

What about him makes you the most proud?<br />

There are so many things that make me proud. He’s a<br />

world-class sailor and has won several titles, including a<br />

bronze medal at the PanAm games. He’s such an accomplished<br />

surgeon, with two successful practices. But above all,<br />

he’s a good person. He’s a very caring individual, and that’s<br />

part of what makes him such a great doctor.<br />

What do you think is the most important advice or life lesson<br />

you taught him?<br />

Well first of all, raising him (and our daughter Leslie) was<br />

very much a team effort. Gunther and I have always been<br />

extremely close, so when it comes to our family, we work<br />

together. I would say we tried to teach Trevor the importance<br />

of setting goals and sticking to them. And really, he never<br />

seemed to have a problem with that. He’s always had big<br />

goals, big dreams, and has created a full and wonderful life<br />

for himself.<br />

Being his mother, I’m perhaps a little biased, but I think he’s<br />

just an absolutely wonderful human being—and a great son. //<br />

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