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Victoria Vancouver Island Grandparenting Magazine Fall 2021, Profile: Linda Rogers, poet, novelist, essayist and kid-at-heart; On-the Job Training: Learning from our grandchildren; 5 Photo Sharing Apps;Grandparent Giving: Financial help that makes a difference

Victoria Vancouver Island Grandparenting Magazine Fall 2021,
Profile: Linda Rogers, poet, novelist, essayist and kid-at-heart; On-the Job Training: Learning from our grandchildren; 5 Photo Sharing Apps;Grandparent Giving: Financial help that makes a difference

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MORE difficult to get to sleep. Sure, if<br />

your grandbaby is a little older a little<br />

shift here and there in the schedule<br />

will not be detrimental but if your<br />

grandbaby is under one years old,<br />

then let’s stick to their sleep schedule,<br />

it’ll be much more pleasurable.<br />

Napping is important!<br />

Don’t forget that babies need to<br />

nap. We can forego a nap because<br />

adult sleep needs are not as high as<br />

a baby’s sleep needs. And if a baby is<br />

well rested through the day, then the<br />

baby will be more fun though the day<br />

and easier to put down for bedtime.<br />

The idea “let’s get them tired and they<br />

will sleep through the night,” doesn’t<br />

apply to babies. Again, trust me, it’ll<br />

only backfire on you to not nap the<br />

baby. It’s ok to do an on-the-go nap in<br />

a stroller or carrier if you just can’t<br />

seem to get them down in the crib. Just<br />

try not to abort the nap altogether.<br />

Respect the parents’ hard work.<br />

For many grandparents, their ideas<br />

differ greatly from the baby’s parents.<br />

It may be hard for you to let go of your<br />

ideas and apply the ideas of the parents.<br />

Remember everyone has the baby’s<br />

best interest at heart but nobody<br />

wants to make an already stressful<br />

situation (leaving the baby overnight)<br />

for the parents more stressful.<br />

Likely it has taken a lot of work for<br />

the parents to set up sleep routines<br />

and schedules. As a sleep consultant I<br />

know how anxiety provoking changing<br />

sleep habits can be! So why not<br />

just help the parents keep to their<br />

routine as best as you can? It may also<br />

help with you getting another chance<br />

at watching the baby overnight…wink,<br />

wink. It will also help the parents anxiety<br />

of leaving the baby with you. We<br />

want the parent to enjoy their night<br />

off, not be worried that their baby is<br />

not sleeping.<br />

Have fun!<br />

During wake hours, have a much<br />

fun as possible. Enjoy these precious<br />

times with your grandbaby. You are<br />

a gift to the baby’s parents for taking<br />

the baby overnight and a gift to the<br />

baby for being at great grandparent.<br />

Sukkie Sandhu of<br />

HappyBaby Sleep<br />

Solutions is a Registered<br />

Clinical Counsellor<br />

and Certified<br />

Baby/Child Sleep<br />

Consultant who<br />

works with families<br />

to create health<br />

sleep habits. The cost of a sleep consultation<br />

may be covered under your extended<br />

medical plan. For more information visit<br />

happybabysleepsolutions.com or for a<br />

free evaluation call 250-857-1408.<br />

grandmag.ca<br />

Vol. IV, Ed. III 23

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