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CONTENTS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 7 ISSUE X<br />

on the cover<br />

28 Four for the Ages<br />

By Mike Sarafa<br />

Elders share their experiences and expectations<br />

28<br />

features<br />

30 Giving Thanks<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

Feeling gratitude brings a healthier and happier life<br />

32 A Joyful Noise<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

Church choirs hit all the right notes<br />

40 Seeking Information<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

Reward offered in store killing<br />

32 44<br />

On the Cover:<br />

Salim Shamoun,<br />

Dr. Jamil Anton,<br />

Jamil “Jimmy”<br />

Jonna and<br />

Norma HakiM.<br />

Photo by<br />

David Reed<br />

departments<br />

8 From the Editor<br />

10 YOUR LETTERS<br />

11 the COUNSELOR is in<br />

By Iklas J. Bashi, LPC, NCC<br />

Our unhealthy obsession with gossip<br />

13 Noteworthy<br />

15 Community Bulletin Board<br />

16 Chai Time<br />

18 halhole<br />

22 religion<br />

By Robert Moynihan<br />

The strange message from Mar Delly<br />

24 Obituaries<br />

26 economics & Enterprise<br />

Full steam ahead:<br />

CK Mediterranean takes off<br />

By Crystal Kassab Jabiro<br />

44 Events<br />

Project Bismutha<br />

Fall Football<br />

45 Classifieds<br />

building community<br />

34 Sparking Dialogue<br />

By Robert Sklar and Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

Chaldean-Jewish communities develop a strategic model to<br />

build an ethnic network<br />

35 Talking About Culture<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

Jewish and Chaldean teens chat about their differences,<br />

similarities and stereotypes<br />

36 All Aboard the Friendship tour<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

37 Teen Forum a Great First Step<br />

By Angelic Gasso<br />

37 ‘Work as a Community<br />

to Build One’<br />

By Josh Morof<br />

38 ‘A common cause’<br />

By Alan Stamm and Justin Fisette<br />

Chaldeans, Jews extend parents’ gains through public service<br />

39 Chaldeans and Jews<br />

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By Justin Fisette<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS


from the EDITOR<br />

Word to the wise<br />

Published By<br />

The Chaldean News, LLC<br />

Editorial<br />

Editor in Chief<br />

Vanessa Denha-Garmo<br />

managing Editor<br />

Joyce Wiswell<br />

Contributing Writers<br />

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Joseph Kassab<br />

Weam Namou<br />

Mike Sarafa<br />

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Every morning, I get<br />

a prayer from Mercy<br />

High School via email.<br />

On this sunny cool fall day, I<br />

opened the email to read this<br />

prayer:<br />

“Lord, Your word says,<br />

‘But if any of you needs wisdom,<br />

you should ask God for<br />

it. He is generous and enjoys<br />

giving to all people, so he<br />

will give you wisdom’ (James<br />

1:5). God, Please grant insight,<br />

foresight and wisdom<br />

to all of our governmental<br />

leaders. We ask this in Jesus’ name.<br />

And we thank You God for the gift of<br />

this day. Amen.”<br />

This daily prayer emailed to alumni,<br />

board members and others is also read<br />

Vanessa<br />

denha-garmo<br />

editor in chief<br />

co-publisher<br />

prayer and age that we gain<br />

the wisdom we hope to pass<br />

onto the younger generations.<br />

We thank Norma Hakim,<br />

Dr. Jamil Antone, Salim Shamoun<br />

and Jamil “Jimmy” Jonna<br />

for their candid conversation<br />

and sharing with us their insight<br />

and advice with all of us.<br />

You, too, can read what they<br />

had to say about some significant<br />

issues in our community.<br />

Word to the wise: We<br />

will never live long enough to<br />

make every mistake possible in order to<br />

learn the lesson. Learn from others.<br />

Sometimes words of wisdom come<br />

from a generation with few years but<br />

much experience. This month, the Chal-<br />

gious and psychological experts about<br />

the purpose and benefits of expressing<br />

gratitude. It is something I make an effort<br />

to do not only daily but throughout<br />

the day and for those things and people<br />

I am not grateful to have in my life, I<br />

pray for them.<br />

We count our blessings this time of<br />

year as we spend time with family and<br />

friends celebrating this land of freedom.<br />

As we eat our turkey and hammath<br />

kebbi dinners, perhaps we each<br />

can recite one thing we are most grateful<br />

for this decade, this year, this day or<br />

this moment in our lives.<br />

Word to the wise: Figure out what<br />

brings you joy in life and be grateful for it.<br />

In life, we all will have opportunity<br />

to share words of wisdom. Pray for it.<br />

Pray for the wisdom to live a meaningful<br />

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I would elaborate in asking God to<br />

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Word to the wise: Let’s start our<br />

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As I sat in our conference room last<br />

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groups. They are lessons in life we all<br />

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Word to the wise: Don’t judge a<br />

person by his or her religion, race or<br />

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We also heard words of wisdom<br />

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your LETTERS<br />

Good Joe<br />

Several days ago, I rose at the crack<br />

of dawn to watch Joseph Kassab<br />

on the EWTN show, the “Suffering<br />

Church,” thinking that I would simply<br />

be a silent spectator and prayerful<br />

supporter for his continuing advocacy<br />

on behalf of the persecuted Iraqi<br />

Christian peoples. I planned to have<br />

my coffee, then simply say a prayer<br />

and get on with my busy day. So I<br />

flipped to the channel and was totally<br />

engaged by Mr. Kassab’s heartfelt,<br />

knowledgeable and truly inspired discussion,<br />

one that moved me, and I am<br />

sure all who viewed the show, to feelings<br />

of indignation, tears and the desire<br />

to help in whatever way possible.<br />

Over the years of war, occupation<br />

and civil disruption, some have<br />

grown too familiar, even hardened, to<br />

the seemingly never-ending accounts<br />

of suffering, suppression, maiming<br />

and slaughter of our Christian brothers<br />

and sisters. We may have grown<br />

resigned, too, to what seems to be<br />

the world’s indifference to the plight of<br />

our faithful ones — contemporary martyrs<br />

in the name of Jesus Christ. But<br />

not Joe Kassab, for he is as fiery and<br />

passionate an advocate as I remember<br />

from some four years ago when I first<br />

met him at the Chaldean Federation of<br />

America headquarters.<br />

I recall, as many of you do as<br />

well, that Joe’s fondest dream at the<br />

time was to gain recognition for the<br />

refugee and displaced status of the<br />

Chaldean, Assyrian, Sabean, Mandean<br />

and Yezhidi minorities of his homeland.<br />

The struggle seemed futile then<br />

as the multiple rules, regulations, laws<br />

and yes, human obstacles, seemed to<br />

block that initial dream at every turn,<br />

but Joe Kassab pressed on. Joe tackled<br />

the herculean task of identifying a<br />

significant cross-cut sample of Christian<br />

refugees who had fled Iraq — that<br />

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in Diaspora across 31 of the world’s<br />

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from Syria and Jordan to Lebanon,<br />

Greece and Australia. His advocacy<br />

has born fruit as the waves of refugees<br />

began — Michigan, California, Arizona,<br />

Canada and more — and people began<br />

their journey of hope.<br />

Joe’s appearances on radio, TV and<br />

in the press are not new to us, but to<br />

see and hear him tell the story is to hear<br />

it for the first time. At the conclusion of<br />

the broadcast on EWTN, Joe was invited<br />

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Lord’s Prayer in Aramaic. It was truly<br />

moving to hear those words in the language<br />

of Jesus Christ as He spoke<br />

them more than 2,000 years ago.<br />

Thank you, Joe, for a memorable<br />

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the COUNSELOR is in<br />

Our unhealthy obsession with gossip<br />

By Iklas J. Bashi, LPC, NCC<br />

One morning, my<br />

friend and I went to<br />

breakfast at the Big<br />

Boy restaurant on Woodward<br />

and 11 Mile. We were pleasantly<br />

surprised to see an old<br />

friend, Rene, working there<br />

as a waitress. We chatted<br />

a little and Rene sat us near<br />

a booth where I recognized<br />

two girls from high school.<br />

My friend and I had<br />

breakfast and proceeded to<br />

pay our bill. Rene refused<br />

to take money for the bill so<br />

we argued back and forth about who<br />

would pay. Finally we gave in and allowed<br />

her to treat us. We said we’d<br />

keep in touch and left the restaurant.<br />

The next morning my friend Nikki<br />

called me. After the usual hello and<br />

how are you, she asked, “Iklas, were<br />

you at Big Boy yesterday at 7 a.m.<br />

with a bunch of guys, drunk, and they<br />

called the police and had to kick you<br />

out of the restaurant?” I nearly fell<br />

over. My heart sank as I remembered<br />

the two girls sitting nearby. How could<br />

Iklas J. Bashi,<br />

LPC, NCC<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

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one of them actually take the<br />

real scene in the restaurant<br />

and turn it into such malicious<br />

gossip? Whoever it<br />

was, how could she sleep<br />

knowing she made these<br />

false accusations about me?<br />

I found out later that she<br />

spread this gossip throughout<br />

her family and others<br />

who knew my family. When<br />

I saw her a few months later<br />

at a wedding, she acted like<br />

my best friend. I have never<br />

forgotten it.<br />

Although it happened over 25<br />

years ago, I still remember the feelings<br />

– shock, helplessness, anger, grief. I<br />

realized something in the moments following<br />

Nikki’s phone call: “My life is<br />

not in my own hands.” I remember<br />

thinking, “Someone, somewhere, at<br />

any time, can say anything about me<br />

and I am helpless to do anything about<br />

it.” It took me a long time to trust a<br />

Chaldean I didn’t really know.<br />

What is gossip and why are we obsessed<br />

with it as a culture? Gossip<br />

involves habitually revealing personal<br />

or sensational facts about others, a<br />

rumor of some kind or a report of an<br />

intimate nature.<br />

Why do we gossip? One reason is<br />

that it makes us feel better and superior<br />

about ourselves. Many people are<br />

uncomfortable with silence and oftentimes<br />

fill the void with gossip. Avoidance<br />

is another reason. We succeed<br />

in taking the attention off of ourselves<br />

by focusing on others. Gossiping may<br />

make use feel self-important. And the<br />

more information we have, the more<br />

powerful we feel – at the expense of<br />

another.<br />

Gossip, like news, can be factual.<br />

We need to look at intention because<br />

intention is key. If the information being<br />

spread is likely a lie and likely to<br />

do harm, then is it clearly gossip. If it<br />

is an attempt to help, then it is news.<br />

Sometimes gossip is justified because<br />

what’s being spread is truth and therefore<br />

all right to repeat.<br />

The dark side of gossip is malicious,<br />

demeaning, degrading and<br />

when taken to an extreme, harmful. It<br />

often begins with “Did you know…?”<br />

or “Have you heard…?” It spreads<br />

like wildfire. Gossip damages trust<br />

and morale. It distorts truth and people’s<br />

privacy is violated. Relationships<br />

are broken. Our community suffers<br />

great consequences from malicious<br />

gossip. Sadly, there is a pervasive<br />

mistrust among us as a result.<br />

We cannot change the community,<br />

though. Change begins with each one<br />

of us – to honor and respect the privacy<br />

of others and to have the courage<br />

to confront those situations we find<br />

ourselves in that involve gossip.<br />

Iklas J. Bashi is a Licensed Professional<br />

Counselor (LPC) and National<br />

Board Certified Counselor (NBCC),<br />

speaker and writer. She is in private<br />

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she offers life coaching and therapy<br />

services for individuals, couples,<br />

and families. She is also available to<br />

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Pope Benedict XVI receives bishops at the Middle East synod on October 13.<br />

Bishops Gather for<br />

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Bishops summoned to the Vatican for a Synod on the flight of<br />

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territories of creating difficulties in everyday life for Palestinian<br />

Christians, including their religious life since their access to<br />

holy sites is dependent on Israeli military permission.<br />

Pope Benedict XVI called the synod to try to encourage<br />

Christians in the largely Muslim region, where the Catholic<br />

Church has long been a minority and is shrinking as a result of<br />

war, conflict, discrimination and economic problems.<br />

In Iraq alone, Catholics represented 2.89 percent of the<br />

population in 1980; by 2008 they were just .89 percent. In Israel,<br />

home to important Christian holy sites, Catholics made up<br />

3.8 percent of the population in 1980; by 2008 they were just<br />

1.82 percent.<br />

About 185 bishops are taking part in the synod from Latin<br />

and Eastern rite Catholic churches across the region and from<br />

the Diaspora. Mar Ibrahim Ibrahim was among the attendees.<br />

In addition, two Muslim imams and a rabbi were invited.<br />

Patriarch Gregory III, archbishop of the Greek-Melkites<br />

in Damascus, Syria, said fundamentalist movements such as<br />

Hamas or Hezbollah had been born from the Israeli-Palestinian<br />

conflict and warned that the resulting flight of Christians would<br />

make a “society with only one color: only Muslim.”<br />

“Should this happen, should the East be emptied of its<br />

Christians, this would mean that any occasion would be propitious<br />

for a new clash of cultures, of civilizations and even of<br />

Photo by Gregorio Borgia/AP<br />

religions, a destructive clash between the Muslim<br />

Arab East and the Christian West,” he said.<br />

American Cardinal John Foley, a longtime<br />

Vatican official who now raises money to support<br />

Christian sites in the Holy Land, also said the conflict<br />

had contributed to the growth of Islamic fundamentalism<br />

but blamed Israeli policies specifically.<br />

“While many including the Holy See have suggested<br />

a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian<br />

crisis, the more time passes, the more difficult such<br />

a solution becomes, as the building of Israeli settlements<br />

and Israeli-controlled infrastructure in East<br />

Jerusalem and in other parts of the West Bank make<br />

increasingly difficult the development of a viable and<br />

integral Palestinian state,’’ he told the gathering.<br />

In comments to the Associated Press, Israeli<br />

foreign ministry spokesman Yigal Palmor contended<br />

that Israel is “the only country in the Middle East<br />

where the number of Christians has been constantly increasing<br />

over the years. In the Palestinian territories, the Christian<br />

population has dwindled over the years because of pressures<br />

by Islamic extremists. To ignore this key factor and to pretend<br />

that the Christian plight is one and the same across the region<br />

is to do a disservice to truth.”<br />

Upon opening the synod, Pope Benedict said the Catholic<br />

Church must be a “sign and instrument of unity and reconciliation.”<br />

He stressed that the meeting’s aim is mainly pastoral,<br />

even though it cannot ignore “the delicate, and, at times, dramatic<br />

social and political situation of several countries.’’<br />

The Archbishop of Kirkuk, Iraq, Mgr. Louis Sako, asked<br />

the faithful of his archdiocese to pray and fast on October 9<br />

for the successful outcome of the synod,<br />

“The Synod is very important for the Catholic Church in the<br />

Middle East and a unique opportunity of communion and solidarity<br />

among Christians, so they are not limited to mere survival,<br />

but instead become witnesses and a living presence,” he said.<br />

– Associated Press and Asia News<br />

Read more about the Synod on page 22.<br />

More Chaldeans<br />

Calling California Home<br />

Chaldeans are the fastest-growing refugee group in California’s<br />

San Diego County, according to the U.S. State Department.<br />

Many are concentrated in the city of El Cajon. “It is easy<br />

to notice how much the population in the area has changed,”<br />

said a report on 10 News. “Storefronts with signs in Arabic<br />

reflect a growing Iraqi influence.”<br />

In the last few years, 7,000 Chaldeans have moved to San<br />

Diego and another 4,000 are expected this year. El Cajon Valley<br />

High School has 200 extra students last year, the report said,<br />

noteworthy continued on page 14<br />

Refugees<br />

Regret Returning,<br />

Study Says<br />

A majority of Iraqi refugees who<br />

have returned from exile to Baghdad<br />

regret their decision, saying they<br />

face insecurity, a lack of jobs and inadequate<br />

health care, the United Nations<br />

refugee agency said in a report<br />

released last month.<br />

Reuters reports that 61 percent<br />

of those interviewed were sorry they<br />

had left Syria and Jordan, while one<br />

in three was unsure of staying in<br />

Iraq, according to its recently completed<br />

survey of 2,353 Iraqis who<br />

returned to the capital between<br />

2007 and 2008.<br />

Although many returnees said<br />

they had left their host countries because<br />

they could no longer afford<br />

the cost of living there, 87 percent<br />

said their income in Iraq was insufficient<br />

to cover their families’ needs.<br />

Separate polls of a total of<br />

3,500 Iraqi refugees living in Syria<br />

and Jordan, released on October 8,<br />

found most still reluctant to return<br />

home on a permanent basis, according<br />

to the UNHCR. Syria and<br />

Jordan host some 180,000 registered<br />

Iraqi refugees.<br />

The UNHCR does not promote<br />

returns to Iraq due to insecurity<br />

and its guidelines to all governments<br />

strongly recommend that<br />

Iraqis should not be sent home to<br />

five central provinces, including<br />

Baghdad, seen as too dangerous<br />

However, it helps refugees who<br />

voluntarily want to go home, providing<br />

them with transport costs and a<br />

small cash grant. Fewer than 3,000<br />

have taken up the offer since 2007,<br />

though many have returned without<br />

its support, Reuters reports.<br />

The UNHCR also said that it remained<br />

concerned by forced deportations<br />

of failed Iraqi asylum seekers<br />

from five countries in Europe (Britain,<br />

Denmark, Netherlands, Norway<br />

and Sweden). It knew of seven<br />

chartered flights, coordinated by<br />

the European Union border agency<br />

FRONTEX, believed to have flown<br />

several hundred Iraqis back to their<br />

homeland since June.<br />

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noteworthy<br />

noteworthy continued from page 13<br />

requiring it to hire six additional teachers, three for<br />

English as a second language.<br />

The report quoted Dr. Michael Bazzi of St.<br />

Peter’s Chaldean Catholic Church, who talked<br />

about how the community takes care of its own.<br />

“Since I have been here, 1985 to today, I challenge<br />

anyone to show me one Chaldean homeless,”<br />

he said.<br />

Refugees from Burma and Somalia are also resettling<br />

in the San Diego area.<br />

Denno Runs for MSU Board<br />

Dennis Denno is running for<br />

a seat on the Michigan State<br />

University Board of Trustees<br />

in the November 2 election.<br />

Denno, a Democrat whose<br />

parents are from Mosul, Iraq,<br />

said he learned his work ethic<br />

at the family grocery store. He<br />

is a graduate of Detroit Catholic<br />

Central, Michigan State<br />

University and the University<br />

of Michigan.<br />

Dennis Denno<br />

Denno is currently the chief of staff for Senate<br />

Democratic Floor Leader Buzz Thomas (D-Detroit).<br />

His said his priorities for MSU are making tuition affordable<br />

for all families and making sure that research<br />

dollars are creating jobs throughout Michigan.<br />

“We will have a voice at one of the largest and<br />

best research universities in America. Imagine the<br />

doors that could be opened within research, admissions,<br />

and scholarships if we have Dennis Denno on<br />

the board,” said a campaign statement encouraging<br />

the support of the Chaldean community. “His successful<br />

election to the MSU Board will also send a<br />

powerful message that our Iraqi Christian community<br />

is organized and able to elect one of our own to a<br />

statewide election and that we are a force that other<br />

politicians and both political parties need to listen to.”<br />

Learn more at www.dennisdenno.com or call<br />

(517) 402-2453.<br />

Mentors Needed<br />

Have an hour to spare each week? E’rootha’s Youth<br />

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The refugee children have extremely low reading<br />

levels and struggle academically and socially,<br />

E’rootha said. Adjusting is a major challenge<br />

and they can easily be influenced in the wrong<br />

direction. Many have had to take on adult responsibilities<br />

at a young age due to war-widowed parents<br />

or war-separated families.<br />

Mentors commit themselves to one hour a<br />

week from November through May and must attend<br />

a mandatory training session before they may<br />

volunteer. Apply at www.erootha.org/youthapp.<br />

People<br />

Auday Arabo is the new president and CEO<br />

of the Associated Food & Petroleum Dealers.<br />

He was previously the group’s chief<br />

operating officer. He replaces Jane Shallal,<br />

who has retired. At attorney, Arabo is the<br />

former president of the Neighborhood Market<br />

Association in California.<br />

Iklas Bashi has opened a private practice<br />

called A Higher Way, LLC, in West<br />

Bloomfield. She has been a pioneer in<br />

helping break the stigma of mental health<br />

in the Chaldean community, beginning 10<br />

years ago with the Strengthening Chaldean<br />

Families Program, then acting as Clinical<br />

Therapist at the Arab-Chaldean Council’s<br />

Behavioral Health Program where she<br />

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John Hindo has been appointed to the<br />

Wayne County Building Authority Board of<br />

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Authority’s purpose is to acquire,<br />

furnish, operate and maintain all buildings<br />

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Community Bulletin Board<br />

Check This Out<br />

Mimi Luljdjuraj and Richard Kallabat<br />

check out their favorite magazine during a<br />

recent visit to Czechoslovakia. During the<br />

trip, Richard proposed to Mimi while on<br />

a horse and carriage ride. They’re seen<br />

here at the Old Town Square in Prague.<br />

Kudos<br />

Dr. Nathima Atchoo was among the honorees at<br />

the Esteemed Women of Michigan Luncheon on<br />

September 27 at the Royal Park Hotel in Rochester.<br />

Atchoo, seen here with her daughter Fanar<br />

Wright, was named the 2009 Humanitarian<br />

of the Year by the Chaldean American Chamber<br />

of Commerce, she was cited for her volunteer<br />

work at the Gary Burnstein Community Health<br />

Clinic in Pontiac. She has been practicing<br />

medicine for more than 50 years. “Dr. Atchoo is<br />

loved and respected by all of us at the clinic,”<br />

said Volunteer Coordinator Pam Haratsis.<br />

Team Effort<br />

Thirty-eight members of the<br />

Chaldean American Chamber<br />

of Commerce walked five miles<br />

around Belle Isle on October<br />

9 in the annual Making Strides<br />

for Breast Cancer event. The<br />

team raised more than $5,400,<br />

putting it in fourth place. It’s<br />

not too late to make a donation;<br />

visit cancer.org/stridesonline<br />

and click on the Chaldean<br />

Chamber team page.<br />

News Maker<br />

Assyrian Diane Pathieu was the subject<br />

of a recent feature article on OnMilwaukee.com.<br />

The Chicago native is seen on<br />

TMJ4, where she is a news reporter and<br />

a midday anchor. Her native language<br />

is Assyrian, but Pathieu, who joined<br />

the Milwaukee station five years ago,<br />

has yet to find a way to work it<br />

into a newscast, the article noted.<br />

Touring Detroit<br />

One of the biggest misconceptions about Detroit is that it has no good grocery<br />

stores. Ask any Chaldean and they will tell you otherwise. They own about 90<br />

percent of the independent grocery stores in Detroit, including full-service grocery<br />

and gourmet stores.<br />

That myth was one of many that the Detroit Regional News Hub worked to<br />

dispel while hosting 37 reporters on a two-day tour of the Detroit region.<br />

“There’s no spin to this,” said Marjorie Sorge, executive director of the<br />

Detroit Regional News Hub, at one of the many events organized for reporters.<br />

“We’re showing people the good, the bad and the ugly. [But] it’s really a time to<br />

talk to the media locally and nationally about what we’re doing in the region to<br />

transform it. A lot of people don’t know all of the things that are happening here.”<br />

Have an item for the Bulletin Board? Send it to<br />

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community events in and around metro detroit <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong><br />

[Wednesday, November 3]<br />

Chamber: The Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce holds its<br />

annual Business Conference. The<br />

keynote address is by Detroit Mayor<br />

Dave Bing. 11 a.m., Regency Manor in<br />

Southfield. Tickets are $50 members,<br />

$60 non-members. (248) 996-8340<br />

or lkalou@chaldeanchamber.com.<br />

[Wednesday, November 3]<br />

Shopping: The Chaldean American Ladies<br />

of Charity hold their annual Holiday<br />

Shopping Extravaganza. More than 50<br />

vendors will be at Shenandoah Country<br />

Club from 6-10 p.m. Tickets are $20<br />

and must be purchased in advance.<br />

(248) 538-8300 or (248) 939-6943.<br />

[Wednesday, November 3]<br />

Health: Annual Women’s Night Out<br />

educates women on staying healthy,<br />

with sessions on gynecology, depression,<br />

plastic surgery, incontinence,<br />

osteoporosis and varicose veins. $25<br />

includes strolling supper, cash bar and<br />

two breakout sessions. Presented by<br />

St. Joseph Mercy Oakland Hospital<br />

at the Auburn Hills Marriott-Pontiac at<br />

Centerpoint. (800) 372-6094.<br />

[Saturday, November 6]<br />

Expo: Annual Fall Consumers Expo<br />

from the Sterling Heights Regional<br />

Chamber of Commerce features<br />

exhibitors displaying their goods, giveaways<br />

and drawings. Free. 10 a.m.-3<br />

p.m., Warren Community Center<br />

Multi-Purpose Room, 5460 Arden.<br />

www.shrcci.com.<br />

[Wednesday, November 10]<br />

Chamber: Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce holds its<br />

annual elections for board of directors.<br />

The Quarterly Networking Meeting<br />

follows. Open to members only. 6<br />

p.m., Shenandoah Country Club.<br />

(248) 996-8340.<br />

[Friday, November 12]<br />

Fashion: St. Joseph Mercy Oakland<br />

presents “An Evening with Tracy<br />

Reese,” a benefit for the hospital’s<br />

Cancer Resource and Support<br />

Center, 6 p.m. at the Townsend Hotel<br />

in Birmingham. Features a reception,<br />

simple supper, program and informal<br />

modeling of the designer’s fashions by<br />

local community members. Tickets are<br />

$75-$150. (248) 858-6146.<br />

[Thursday, November 18]<br />

Awards: The Chaldean American Bar<br />

Association holds its Second Annual<br />

Honors Ceremony, honoring Karim Sarafa,<br />

Peter Mansour and Burt Kassab. 7<br />

p.m., Shenandoah Country Club. Tickets<br />

are $40 and include dinner. A portion of<br />

proceeds benefits the Chaldean Federation<br />

of America. Derek Dickow, (248)<br />

521-2900 or derekdickow@hotmail.com.<br />

[Thursday, November 18]<br />

Safety: Cyber Safety is a free<br />

seminar about how to protect your<br />

family, yourself and your integrity<br />

online. 7-9 p.m., Handelman Hall<br />

of the D. Dan and Betty Kahn<br />

Jewish Community Center in West<br />

Bloomfield. (248) 432-5411 or<br />

sbraunstein@hermelinort.org.<br />

[Friday, November 19]<br />

Christmas: Detroit Aglow, the annual<br />

lighting of Detroit’s official Christmas<br />

tree, begins at 5 p.m. at Campus<br />

Martius Park, 800 Woodward Avenue.<br />

www.campusmartiuspark.org.<br />

[Monday, November 22]<br />

Shenandoah: General membership<br />

meeting for members of Shenandoah<br />

Country Club takes place in the ballroom.<br />

(248) 683-6363.<br />

[Thursday, November 25]<br />

Parade: Detroit’s 84th annual<br />

Thanksgiving Parade has the theme<br />

“Celebrate the Spirit.” Step off is at<br />

9:20 a.m. on Woodward and Mack;<br />

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Khloe Mia<br />

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Blessed parents are Alvin &<br />

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Dominic Basil<br />

Andrew Jacob<br />

Freddie Nicholas<br />

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RELIGION<br />

The strange message from Mar Delly<br />

By Robert Moynihan<br />

An old, white-bearded man<br />

walked out of the Synod aula<br />

and down the wide, sloping<br />

steps toward the waiting cars and buses,<br />

his long robe sweeping the square<br />

grey Vatican City cobblestones. He<br />

quickly left behind the light of the<br />

Paul VI Audience Hall entranceway<br />

and began to be engulfed by the darkening<br />

Roman evening. It was 6:30<br />

p.m. on October 23.<br />

The man was His Beatitude Cardinal<br />

Emmanuel III Delly, the 83-<br />

year-old Patriarch of the Chaldean<br />

Church in Iraq.<br />

I’d been hoping to meet him. I<br />

turned to a fellow journalist who was<br />

waiting with me by the entrance to<br />

the Paul VI audience hall, and said,<br />

“That’s Patriarch Delly, isn’t it?” The<br />

journalist nodded.<br />

Mar Delly was already heading for<br />

the bus that would carry him and other<br />

Synod Fathers to their residence,<br />

so I hurried to catch up to him. He<br />

was walking with a taller man who<br />

appeared to be his personal secretary.<br />

“Your Eminence,” I said. “Could I<br />

have a word with you….”<br />

“Yes?” said Delly, stopping and<br />

looking at me quizzically. “Go ahead.”<br />

He seemed to me quite young for his<br />

83 years, and when I held out my<br />

hand to shake his, his grip was unexpectedly<br />

firm.<br />

He was about five foot eight, not<br />

a physically imposing man, but there<br />

was an energy in his gaze which surprised<br />

me. I had expected that, from<br />

close up, he might look old and weary,<br />

but he looked energetic and in<br />

good health.<br />

I told him who I was and that I<br />

was writing on the Vatican and the<br />

Synod. He was silent and, it seemed,<br />

somewhat cold.<br />

“And I wanted to ask you about<br />

the remarks you made the other<br />

night....”<br />

“I have nothing more to say,” he<br />

said. “What I had to say, I said to the<br />

Synod. I’m sorry.”<br />

A political murder?<br />

I left Patriarch Delly and walked<br />

back to the entrance of the Synod<br />

hall. There, purely by chance, I ran<br />

into another prelate who has left his<br />

mark on this two-week Synod: Archbishop<br />

Ruggero Franceschini, an<br />

Italian Franciscan who is the successor<br />

of the slain Italian Bishop Luigi<br />

Padovese as vicar of Anatolia.<br />

Last Friday Archbishop Franceschini<br />

spoke to the Synod — the<br />

same afternoon as Mar Delly.<br />

“May I ask you about your talk?”<br />

I said.<br />

“Sure,” he said.<br />

“You have a theory about Bishop<br />

Padovese and his murder last June,<br />

right?”<br />

“Yes,” Franceschini replied. “I<br />

believe it was premeditated murder<br />

arranged by ultra-nationalists and<br />

religious fanatics who do not want<br />

Turkey to enter Europe.”<br />

Bishop Padovese’s driver,<br />

Murat Altun, 26, who<br />

had been in his employ for<br />

many years, shot him to<br />

death in June.<br />

“He claimed the reason<br />

for the killing was a<br />

homosexual relationship<br />

he had with the Bishop,”<br />

Archbishop Franceschini<br />

said. “But it seems that immediately<br />

after the murder<br />

he shouted ‘Allah akbar! I<br />

killed the great Satan.’”<br />

At the time, the Vatican<br />

and Turkish government<br />

stuck to the hypothesis that<br />

the killing took place for<br />

“personal reasons” excluding<br />

the possibility of a religious<br />

or political motive.<br />

“I had a terrible time<br />

with the Secretariat of<br />

State,” the Franciscan bishop said.<br />

“They wanted only the version of the<br />

nuncio, that it was an entirely personal<br />

matter, but it was not.”<br />

As we stood there, many of the<br />

Synod Fathers walked past us: Cardinal<br />

Mahoney of Los Angeles, Cardinal<br />

Levada of the Congregation for the<br />

Doctrone of the Faith, Cardinal Tauran<br />

of Inter-religious Dialohgue, Cardinaldesignate<br />

Burke, and many others.<br />

“And what did you think of Patriarch<br />

Delly’s talk?” I asked.<br />

“I disagreed with it,” he said. “But<br />

he must have his reasons for saying<br />

what he said,” Archbishop Franceschini<br />

said. “We don’t know all his<br />

reasons.”<br />

“Well, they say someone got up in<br />

the Synod Hall right after he spoke,<br />

and was weeping and saying, ‘Why<br />

are you saying these things?’”<br />

“No, no,” Archbishop Franceschini<br />

said, “That’s not what happened.<br />

I spoke before Patriarch Delly.<br />

And I was the one who wept. But it<br />

was about the murder of Monsignor<br />

Padovese...”<br />

Once More, the Facts<br />

The Chaldean Church inside Iraq<br />

has shrunk in number from 1.5 million<br />

to less than 500,000 over the<br />

past seven years.<br />

Patriarch Delly, the leader of the<br />

Catholic Chaldeans, has in recent<br />

years often cried out publicly that his<br />

people are suffering a “Calvary” and<br />

Mar Delly’s remarks at the Synod raised eyebrows.<br />

need help from the rest of the world.<br />

“The world has forgotten Iraq’s<br />

Christians,” Patriarch Delly said four<br />

years go, on October 16, 2006, following<br />

the murder of his friend, Fr.<br />

Paulos Eskandar. Mar Delly said the<br />

indifference of the international community<br />

threatened the very existence<br />

of Christians in the Middle East.<br />

“There is the danger that the<br />

Middle East, the blessed land of God,<br />

will be emptied of its Christian presence,”<br />

he said then. “Already 80 percent<br />

have gone away.”<br />

Then on October 15, Mar Delly<br />

asked for time to make some remarks<br />

to the Synod, and he was granted the<br />

time.<br />

When he spoke, he said almost<br />

exactly the opposite of what he had<br />

been saying for seven years. Addressing<br />

the assembled bishops without a<br />

prepared text, this is what he said (it<br />

is a translation, because he spoke in<br />

Italian). I’m printing this again here<br />

because I cannot make the argument<br />

for the strangeness of this text without<br />

having it here to study:<br />

“Many people want to hear something<br />

about Iraq that today occupies<br />

an important position in the Middle<br />

East, a position that is a little bit, if<br />

I say, exaggerated: I sincerely thank<br />

all those who have spoken about<br />

Iraq in this hall and have shown<br />

their sympathy for this country that<br />

is the cradle of Christians and especially<br />

the cradle of the Chaldean<br />

Church, the Eastern Church in the<br />

Persian Empire, and as of today, 78<br />

percent of Mesopotamian Christians<br />

are Chaldean Catholics. The<br />

population of this country,<br />

crossed by two famous rivers,<br />

the Tigris and the Euphrates,<br />

is 24 million, all<br />

Muslims, with whom we<br />

live peacefully and freely.<br />

In Baghdad alone, the capital<br />

of Iraq, Christians have<br />

53 chapels and churches.<br />

The Chaldeans have more<br />

than seven dioceses in the<br />

country, the Patriarch of<br />

the Chaldean Church lives<br />

today in Baghdad.<br />

“Christians are good with<br />

their fellow Muslims and<br />

in Iraq there is mutual respect<br />

among them. Christian<br />

schools are highly thought of.<br />

Today people prefer to attend<br />

these schools directed by the<br />

Christian institutions, especially<br />

those run by the religious<br />

orders.<br />

“Despite all the political and religious<br />

situations, and emigration, we<br />

now have nearly one million Christians<br />

in Iraq out of 25 million Muslims.<br />

We have the freedom of religion<br />

in our Churches. The Bishop or<br />

Priest, religious leader is listened to<br />

and respected by his fellow citizens.<br />

We have our own seminary, and<br />

Chaldean monks and nuns and religious.”<br />

(End of Mar Delly’s remarks.)<br />

In these paragraphs, there is no<br />

mention at all of the suffering of<br />

Iraq’s Christians. Mar Delly in this<br />

text is describing a country, seemingly,<br />

at peace.<br />

I have bold-faced the words which<br />

seem optimistic, positive, hopeful,<br />

and put in a few notes after Patriarch<br />

Delly’s phrases:<br />

synod continued on page 42<br />

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obituaries<br />

Rudy Najor Huhn and Robert J. Huhn<br />

Mother and son die a day apart<br />

Rudy Najor Huhn was born in Detroit<br />

on October 15, 1936, the only daughter<br />

of one of the original Chaldean pioneer<br />

leaders, Jack Najor, and his wife, Dorothy.<br />

She grew up with her two brothers,<br />

Raymond and Richard, on Boston Boulevard<br />

in Detroit and attended Blessed<br />

Sacrament Cathedral Catholic School.<br />

Later, Jack Najor moved his family to<br />

what was then considered a distant suburb,<br />

Birmingham, and she graduated<br />

from Birmingham High School (now<br />

known as Seaholm) in 1954. She also Rudy Najor Huhn<br />

attended Highland Park Junior College.<br />

Ruby embraced both her father’s<br />

Chaldean culture and her mother’s American<br />

culture. She was truly bicultural;<br />

she embodied the best of both cultures.<br />

She had a zest for life and participated in<br />

many Chaldean festivities and everyone<br />

enjoyed her graceful dancing to the traditional<br />

Chaldean music. Ruby also loved<br />

singing, entertaining and being around<br />

her many cherished Chaldean friends.<br />

She was an ardent, supportive member<br />

of the first generation of Chaldean-American<br />

youth born during the Great Depres-<br />

Robert J. Huhn<br />

sion of the 1930s, raised during World War II of the 1940s, and the<br />

booming postwar era of the 1950s at a time when the core Chaldean<br />

community was just beginning to gel. Ruby was an icon, a role model<br />

and well loved by that first generation of Chaldean-Americans.<br />

Ruby was a pivotal figure in the establishment of the first Chaldean<br />

Youth Club in the mid 1950s, helping plan many fun-filled,<br />

wholesome, parent-approved activities for the Chaldean teenagers<br />

and young adults. Her enthusiasm and initiative helped solidify<br />

the Chaldean-American identity of our growing young community,<br />

which was successfully melding the traditional moral values of their<br />

parents with the more modern customs of the American environment<br />

in which they were living.<br />

Ruby was also active in the Chaldean Ladies of Charity in its<br />

early years and served as a former president of that worthy organization.<br />

Her youthful vitality and her devotion and love for her<br />

Chaldean community persisted throughout her life.<br />

In addition to her radiant physical beauty, Ruby was blessed with a<br />

kind and generous heart. She never uttered a mean word to or about<br />

anyone. She always saw the good in others. She was loved and esteemed<br />

by all who knew her for her grace and gentleness, especially<br />

by her close-knit Chaldean friends with whom she continued to maintain<br />

a lasting relationship throughout her lifetime.<br />

At age 22, Ruby married Robert Huhn, and they raised two<br />

children, Lisa and Robbie. Ruby and Bob had a very happy, loving<br />

marriage that lasted more than 52 years. However, Ruby also<br />

bore grave personal tragedy in her family with great courage. She<br />

and her husband lost their beloved daughter, Lisa, to cancer in<br />

2009. Their son, Robbie, had been diagnosed with juvenile diabetes<br />

at the tender age of 6, and all the complications of this disease<br />

plagued him throughout his lifetime. He withstood the pain and<br />

discomfort of peripheral neuropathy, dialysis, a kidney transplant<br />

donated by his loving father, was legally blind, and suffered the loss<br />

of both his legs. Robbie endured his calamity with immense fortitude<br />

and a sense of humor. Sadly, he passed away on September<br />

19, <strong>2010</strong>. His mother, Ruby, tragically lost her battle with leukemia<br />

the very next day on September 20, <strong>2010</strong>. She will be truly missed<br />

by all who knew her and were touched by her life.<br />

Ruby Hahn leaves behind her beloved husband, Robert; her<br />

brother, Richard; three granddaughters from Lisa: Christiana, Jacqueline<br />

and Monica; four grandsons from Robbie: Noah, Christian,<br />

Brandon and Dominic; and two great grandsons from Christian.<br />

– Josephine Saroki Sarafa<br />

Marjeunta Nafso<br />

Marjeunta Nafso was born on May 06,<br />

1930, and passed away on October 10,<br />

<strong>2010</strong>.<br />

Allow me to tell you the story of our<br />

mother. Let time take us back 80 years,<br />

when a beautiful girl with bright blue<br />

eyes was born to two humble parents.<br />

She was truly the light of their lives,<br />

just as she was for her sister and two<br />

brothers, who loved and cared for her<br />

so much.<br />

That little girl grew up and her beauty<br />

grew with her. When she was 12 Marjeunta Nafso<br />

years old, a wonderful and handsome<br />

man saw her, and God wanted them for each other. Time passed<br />

and she became the mother of eight children. She gave them<br />

her whole life and she gave them all the love that existed in the<br />

world. She taught them to love and not to hate. She taught them<br />

to forgive and not to hold grudges. She would always say that<br />

the lower land brings the better fruit, teaching her children to be<br />

humble and forgiving. She taught them to live holy lives and to be<br />

good role models for each other. She succeeded in bringing her<br />

children along this virtuous path. She never stopped praying to<br />

God and God always answered her prayers.<br />

Many years passed and she was blessed with sons-in-law<br />

and daughters-in-law, as well as 32 grandchildren. Those grandchildren<br />

became beautiful young men and women. She instilled<br />

in them valuable morals on how to be righteous and honorable<br />

people. She loved them with all her heart and that love grew in<br />

them so that they could pass it on to their children, just as their<br />

parents had passed it on to them.<br />

Time passed on and there were good times as well as bad<br />

times. God wanted her to carry a cross that would make her even<br />

stronger. Her greatest suffering came when God took the eldest<br />

of her children. She offered that suffering to Jesus and her suffering<br />

continued in many different ways, until the day that God<br />

wanted her to be with Him, and she carried her cross to the end.<br />

In a very short period of time, He transferred her comfortably and<br />

with great honor. Being surrounded by her family and hearing<br />

their prayers, she transferred in the most peaceful way. That was<br />

our mother, Marjeunta. Her name was as beautiful as she was.<br />

My dear mother, rest in peace and do not worry about us,<br />

especially Thair. You and Baba used to worry about Thair and<br />

Masoud so much. We used to joke with you saying, “You love<br />

the boys more than you love us.” You would always laugh and<br />

reply, “There’s no difference between any of you and I love you<br />

all the same.”<br />

Nana, we are all here with you: your children and grandchildren,<br />

who are very proud and thankful that you were their mother;<br />

your sons-in-law and daughters-in-law, whom you loved deeply,<br />

and they loved and honored you in return; your dear brother, who<br />

has always had a special place for you in his heart; your nieces<br />

and nephews, who were so thankful to have such a wonderful<br />

aunt; all of your relatives, who will never forget what a kind and<br />

loving person you were to them; and your friends, who will never<br />

forget the true friendships you shared with them. We all tell you<br />

to rest in peace and we ask that you pray for all of us, especially<br />

your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, so that they can follow<br />

the same path that you helped us to follow.<br />

Dear mother, the love of our lives, go on your journey<br />

happily. You will be together again with Baba, Masoud, Miaad,<br />

your brother and sister, your mom and dad, and the angelic baby<br />

girl that you lost too soon, Firyal. They are all anxiously waiting for<br />

you with their hugs and kisses.<br />

Marjeunta Nafso is survived by her late husband, Aziz Nafso, and<br />

their children, the late Masoud (Ahlam) Nafso, Thair (Stephanie) Nafso,<br />

Suad (Adel) Hilanto, Suhaila Nafso, Faiza (Thamir) Nafso, Maysoon<br />

(Wadie) Kassab, Khilood (Yass) Kashat, and Wiaam (Raad) Samona.<br />

Rest in peace.<br />

– Khilood Kashat<br />

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ECONOMICS & enterprise<br />

PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />

Ouse Gulli at<br />

the new Detroit<br />

location of CK<br />

Mediterranean<br />

Grille.<br />

Full steam ahead: CK Mediterranean takes off<br />

By Crystal Kassab Jabiro<br />

When the Gulli family built a gas station<br />

on the corner of 12 Mile and<br />

Coolidge in Berkley, they set aside<br />

1,000 square feet where they could one day open<br />

an eatery. After considering franchise options,<br />

they decided to give customers a taste of the<br />

Mediterranean food to which they were accustomed.<br />

Several years later, business is soaring.<br />

It did not come easy. For a year prior, Ouse,<br />

the oldest of the brothers, toiled under the head<br />

chef at Al-Oumara in West Bloomfield, who<br />

taught him how to prepare and cook Middle<br />

Eastern fare. In 2003, the Gulli family opened<br />

Mr. Kabob at their gas station. Business was<br />

moderate, though the mom, Fadia, kept tweaking<br />

to bring the food to another level.<br />

Then the Detroit Free Press named it a “Best<br />

of Detroit” restaurant in 2004, and the media<br />

attention sparked diners’ interests. Fox 2 News<br />

even invited the Gullis to cook live on their<br />

broadcast, and the clan was inspired to expand<br />

their business.<br />

“We wanted to make Mediterranean cuisine<br />

part of the mainstream,” said Ouse. “You<br />

can find a Chinese or Mexican restaurant<br />

anywhere, but you can’t always find Mediterranean.”<br />

In 2008, the family opened Café Kabob<br />

in Southfield, and a year later, they created a<br />

franchise for the fast-casual market and trademarked<br />

their official name as CK (for Café Kabob)<br />

Mediterranean Grille & Catering. This<br />

past July, their first franchised restaurant opened<br />

in San Diego. In August, they opened in downtown<br />

Detroit on the perimeter of the Compuware<br />

building, where they serve 200 people an<br />

hour during the lunchtime rush.<br />

Ouse, who maintains he could have never<br />

done it alone, enjoys this partnership with not<br />

only his own family, but also with his cousins,<br />

the Kenayas. Together, they wanted to create<br />

a relaxed, family-friendly atmosphere<br />

where customers could see their food<br />

freshly made and then pick it up at the<br />

end of the counter. They also wanted<br />

their patrons to serve themselves drinks<br />

and even be able to watch television on<br />

one of several hanging plasmas. The<br />

entrepreneurs did not want them to feel intimidated<br />

by pictures of camels, fake palm trees<br />

and Arabic music, or even worry about leaving<br />

a tip. They hoped that eating Mediterranean<br />

food would just be natural. The company offers<br />

catering from five to 500 people from everything<br />

from business meetings to weddings.<br />

“We have an international concept,”<br />

Ouse said. “We can take this not only to<br />

other states, but other countries, like Canada,<br />

Europe and even the Middle East.”<br />

While there are many Mediterranean restaurants<br />

in the Metro Detroit area, Ouse believes<br />

their food surpasses others because of<br />

their fusion of Lebanese recipes with a Chaldean<br />

flair. All ingredients are fresh, never<br />

frozen, and there are no additives or preservatives.<br />

The prices are pleasing too; nothing<br />

costs more than $15, and that is for the Steak<br />

Kabob dinner, cooked to order from an 8- to<br />

10-ounce filet mignon.<br />

The company is pursuing other locations<br />

“We wanted to make Mediterranean<br />

cuisine part of the mainstream.”<br />

in Michigan and California, and is in discussions<br />

with interested restaurateurs in Arizona,<br />

Florida, Illinois and Texas. Potential investors<br />

are encouraged to browse franchise opportunities<br />

on their website, www.ckgrille.com.<br />

Ouse said working 80 to100 hours a week<br />

is worth it.<br />

“If I didn’t dream big, I’d still be in the gas<br />

station,” he said. “Anything can be done when<br />

you put your mind to it.”<br />

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four for the ages<br />

Elders share their experiences and expectations<br />

By Mike Sarafa<br />

They have been in this country<br />

longer than most living Chaldeans.<br />

They lived through the<br />

Great Depression and two world wars<br />

and have seen 10 U.S. presidents<br />

come and go. They have watched<br />

the Chaldean community in Michigan<br />

grow from a couple hundred to<br />

more than 120,000 people. They are<br />

living witnesses to the fits, changes,<br />

successes and failures that have come<br />

with that growth.<br />

The Chaldean News recently sat<br />

down with Norma Hakim, Dr. Jamil<br />

Antone, Salim Shamoun and Jamil<br />

“Jimmy” Jonna to hear their insights<br />

on a range of topics. All are in their<br />

mid 80s and have been in the U.S.<br />

for six to eight decades.<br />

Here are some highlights from<br />

the roundtable discussion.<br />

On Change in the United States<br />

“The culture and attitudes have<br />

changed a lot,” said Shamoun.<br />

“When I first came to this country,<br />

there was not even one Chaldean on<br />

welfare. Today people expect something<br />

for nothing.”<br />

“Salim and I came in the same<br />

year [1949],” said Jonna. “There were<br />

only 60 families at the time within<br />

10 square miles. We all worked in<br />

the grocery business and had the entrepreneurial<br />

spirit. The old timers<br />

provided us with the chance and we<br />

took advantage of it.”<br />

“Our way of life is different,”<br />

added Hakim. “Life was much simpler<br />

back then. Today is different, we<br />

have different expectations. But our<br />

quality of life is better too. When I<br />

first came to this country, we had no<br />

refrigeration, no electricity and no<br />

gas.”<br />

“I have seen a big change in the<br />

education of our children,” said Antone,<br />

a retired educator. “Kids are<br />

smarter, better leaders. We have more<br />

and more graduates from the professions.<br />

Before, a college degree was<br />

very rare. Now it has mushroomed.”<br />

On Iraq<br />

“In my time working at Iraqi Petroleum,<br />

everybody got along,” said<br />

Shamoun. “There was no Muslim<br />

and no Christian, no hate.”<br />

Dr. Anton agreed. “As a young<br />

teacher, I was selected and promoted<br />

to a supervisory position in the education<br />

system, which included supervising<br />

Muslim teachers and students<br />

and even the teaching of Islam.”<br />

Norma Hakim has been here the<br />

longest amongst the four, immigrating<br />

more than 73 years ago. “Well, I<br />

don’t miss it to tell you the truth. It’s<br />

been so many years.”<br />

Jonna agreed. He had operated a<br />

hotel, restaurant and liquor store in<br />

Baghdad. “When they started cracking<br />

down on liquor licenses, I ran out<br />

of there as fast as I could. I love this<br />

country [America] more than anything<br />

in my life, including Iraq.”<br />

On the Future of<br />

Chaldeans in Iraq<br />

Most agreed that the future for Chaldeans<br />

in Iraq is bleak. “Not now,”<br />

said Shamoun. “How can they have<br />

a chance? Telkapa’s gone.”<br />

“It’s very bad,” said Hakim. “There’s<br />

not any Chaldeans left [in Telkaif].”<br />

“Maybe in the north near the<br />

Kurds,” said Jonna. ‘There are still a<br />

lot of Chaldean people there and they<br />

need to have a chance somewhere.”<br />

Antone took a longer view. “I<br />

think there should be [a future]. This<br />

is our home. We are the historical<br />

people of that land. The first priority<br />

belongs to us.”<br />

On Assimilating<br />

into American Culture<br />

“Everyone tells me I never change,”<br />

said Shamoun. “That’s the way I<br />

like it. I’m old fashion. [On another<br />

note], gambling has caused a lot of<br />

damage. People lose their money,<br />

their store, their house, their wife.”<br />

“One thing I’ve noticed,” said<br />

Antone, “when I was living in Basra,<br />

we never saw divorce or separation.<br />

Some people are following the<br />

American way of life and we are losing<br />

our culture.”<br />

Hakim thinks things have<br />

changed dramatically due to the<br />

population numbers. “My brotherin-law<br />

used to say ‘don’t let too many<br />

[Chaldeans] in.’”<br />

Jonna was more philosophical.<br />

28 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


From left:<br />

Salim Shamoun<br />

said he worked<br />

“eight days a week<br />

for 25 cents an<br />

hour” when he first<br />

came to Michigan.<br />

“It’s better here,”<br />

says Norma Hakim,<br />

who came to the<br />

United States in<br />

1937.<br />

Jamil “Jimmy”<br />

Jonna was named<br />

Business Person<br />

of the Year by the<br />

Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of<br />

Commerce in 2006.<br />

Dr. Jamil Antone,<br />

who has a doctorate<br />

from Wayne<br />

State University,<br />

put two younger<br />

brothers through<br />

college.<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

“People have to adapt. Young people<br />

have their own ways. Things<br />

change every 10 years, so I’ve seen<br />

six changes. Things are more open<br />

now. They don’t close their eyes the<br />

way we did.”<br />

On Today’s Economy<br />

and President Obama<br />

Hakim keeps things in perspective.<br />

“When I first came here,” she said.<br />

“Things were pretty tough. So, even<br />

the last two years don’t seem so bad.”<br />

The others weren’t so sure.<br />

“Chaldeans have improved every<br />

year since I’ve been here until now.<br />

Now is the worst time,” said Shamoun.<br />

Antone looked back to the<br />

last presidential election. “We were<br />

promised change,” he said, “but it<br />

seems it’s not for the better.”<br />

“The American economy is like<br />

a rollercoaster,” said Jonna. “Things<br />

were up and down through the ‘70s,<br />

‘80s and ‘90s, but <strong>2010</strong> is the worst<br />

I’ve ever seen.” But, he said, things<br />

will improve. “Americans are the<br />

most intelligent people in the world.<br />

I was happy when Obama won because<br />

it was historic but he has to<br />

learn on the job.”<br />

“Who’s going to teach him?”<br />

piped up Shamoun.<br />

“It seems his administration is failing,”<br />

added Antone. “All the indicators<br />

are moving in the wrong direction.”<br />

What’s your advice<br />

for young people?<br />

Norma Hakim: “There’s a saying in Chaldean — ‘when you go to<br />

buy a dress, make sure it’s not too long or you’ll trip.’ In other words,<br />

live within your means.”<br />

Jamil Antone: “If you don’t have it, don’t do it. Invest in education<br />

and graduate. It will improve your life.”<br />

Jamil Jonna: “There’s another good saying: ‘If you’re covered with<br />

a blanket, don’t stick your foot out because you will get cold.’ In other<br />

words, don’t expect more than is available. And keep going to college.”<br />

Salim Shamoun: “Work hard. Stay out of trouble. Unite more.”<br />

“And he’s spending money we<br />

don’t have,” said Hakim.<br />

Shamoun agreed. “He hasn’t<br />

done anything right.”<br />

On Social Issues<br />

“When you get married, you marry<br />

the whole family,” said Antone.<br />

Shamoun put it more bluntly. “If<br />

you don’t marry one of your kind,<br />

you’re in trouble.”<br />

Hakim disagreed. “No, that’s not<br />

how it is anymore,” she said. “There<br />

are a lot of nice American people.”<br />

Jonna concurred. “My kids<br />

married a Greek, an Armenian, an<br />

American, a Dutch and a Palestinian.<br />

They’re all great.”<br />

All four agreed about the pitfalls<br />

of materialism.<br />

“Today, people struggle to keep<br />

their honor,” Antone said. “They<br />

have to keep up with others with<br />

no regard to legality or ethics. They<br />

get into drugs, crime and even killing<br />

over money, and want to be rich<br />

no matter what. In a materialistic society<br />

like the United States, this is<br />

expected.”<br />

Jonna agreed. “People live above<br />

their means and that’s how they get<br />

in trouble.”<br />

Shamoun believes that the parents<br />

must do a better job in this regard.<br />

“These things can be [impacted]<br />

by the mother and father.”<br />

On Community Organizations<br />

This group of pioneers has watched<br />

the community not only grow, but<br />

organize. Shamoun and Jonna were<br />

both around when the first money<br />

was raised to build Southfield Manor,<br />

the precursor to Shenandoah Country<br />

Club. “Now we have the most<br />

beautiful community organization<br />

and club in the state,” said Jonna,<br />

one of the original co-founders of the<br />

Chaldean Iraqi American Association<br />

of Michigan.<br />

Hakim was one of the founders<br />

of the Chaldean American Ladies of<br />

Charity and has watched its progress<br />

for more than 40 years. “I’m very<br />

proud of them,” she said.<br />

For years, Antone led the education<br />

efforts for the Chaldean Federation<br />

of America and presided over<br />

the annual Chaldean Commencement<br />

ceremony.<br />

Said Jonna, “Our organizations<br />

are excellent. Everybody has gotten<br />

together to work for the community.<br />

We have the best organizations starting<br />

with Shenandoah.”<br />

But all agreed that more unity in<br />

the community is needed. “There<br />

are so many problems that require<br />

good leadership to bring the people<br />

together,” said Antone.<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29


giving thanks<br />

Feeling gratitude brings a healthier and happier life<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

When we receive gifts<br />

or kind words we are<br />

taught to say thank you,<br />

showing gratitude.<br />

The essence of Christianity is<br />

knowing that life is a gift from God.<br />

As Psalm 75 says, “As believers in<br />

God almighty, we know that all that<br />

we are and all that we have is a gift<br />

from God. We give thanks to God for<br />

the gift of life itself, for the gift of creation<br />

that speaks of His wonders.”<br />

Although Americans celebrate<br />

Thanksgiving as a national holiday,<br />

giving thanks is a prominent practice<br />

in Christianity. And Thanksgiving<br />

is the time of the year Americans<br />

tend to reflect on the goodness life<br />

offers. “Gratitude begins with what<br />

you have and being content with it,”<br />

said Fr. Frank Kalabat, pastor of St.<br />

Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church<br />

in West Bloomfield. “Not to say that<br />

one cannot petition the Lord, but unfortunately<br />

many of us only petition<br />

and refuse to see what we have.”<br />

Quoting from Philipians 2, Fr.<br />

Frank continued, “What we have is<br />

an awesome God who loves me and<br />

you to death, even death on a cross.<br />

When we begin with Him, then I<br />

can truly fall in love with Him, and<br />

out of that conviction, I see Him as<br />

He is, and then my heart moves to<br />

say, ‘Thank you ... I love You ... I give<br />

You my all because You deserve it<br />

and much more!’<br />

“Therefore, ‘Give thanks to the<br />

Lord for He is good, for His mercy endures<br />

forever,’” continued Fr. Frank,<br />

quoting from Psalm 136. “This giving<br />

thanks comes from a personal<br />

encounter with God, first by seeing<br />

Him as He is ‘Good’ and then seeing<br />

His many gifts in creation and in my<br />

personal life. ‘For His mercy endures<br />

forever.’”<br />

In recent years, there have been<br />

research studies, books and talk show<br />

topics focused on this concept of<br />

gratitude. However, religious leaders,<br />

philosophers and psychologists have<br />

long embraced gratitude as a way to<br />

manifest a healthy and balanced life.<br />

“Gratitude can make the difference<br />

between success and failure,” said clinical<br />

psychologist Rhonda (George)<br />

Laurencelle, Ph.D., who works with<br />

recently laid-off executives on a daily<br />

basis. She explained that those unemployed<br />

people who can look their previous<br />

employers in the eye and thank<br />

them for the opportunity to be a part<br />

of their company have a much greater<br />

chance of finding employment. “Not<br />

only is gratitude great for the soul,<br />

people want to help those who express<br />

gratitude. We are psychologically<br />

pulled to them as if our psyche is<br />

searching and trying to connect with<br />

those with healthy minds and hearts,”<br />

said Laurencelle.<br />

“Without gratitude, we just expect<br />

everything and tend to have<br />

a sense of entitlement,” said Iklas<br />

Bashi, a licensed professional counselor.<br />

“Being grateful is important<br />

because we choose to see and nurture<br />

the gifts God bestows on us, out of<br />

His goodness and love for us. Give<br />

back to the people who have cared<br />

for and supported you. Authentic<br />

happiness is a byproduct of cultivating<br />

gratitude in our life.”<br />

This practice of expressing gratitude<br />

is becoming a common in our<br />

culture today with an increase of<br />

books on the issue published every<br />

year. “Any faith book easily translates<br />

into a book of gratitude because<br />

when we explore our faith, it is a natural<br />

expression of our growing faith<br />

to be grateful,” said Cheryl Dickow,<br />

publisher of Bezalel Books in Waterford.<br />

“We understand the value of<br />

our lives, the graces we’ve been given<br />

and the mercy we’ve been shown.<br />

Living in faith will always translate<br />

into living in gratitude.”<br />

Studies and research show that<br />

there are tremendous benefits to the<br />

practice of showing gratitude. Many<br />

experts recommend ending your day<br />

by writing in a journal five things you<br />

are grateful for that day. A Miami<br />

University study on the subject of<br />

gratitude and Thanksgiving showed<br />

that participants who kept gratitude<br />

lists were more likely to have made<br />

progress toward important personal<br />

goals such as academic, interpersonal<br />

and health-based goals over a<br />

two-month period.<br />

The recent economic downturn<br />

in our country has given people a<br />

different perspective on life. The experts<br />

in this area say there is no better<br />

time to focus on the good then when<br />

negative things seem to be happening<br />

around us. “We begin to develop<br />

a deep appreciation and gratitude for<br />

the basics — food, water, shelter —<br />

things that many of us have taken for<br />

granted,” said Laurencelle. “These<br />

situations often bring people closer<br />

to God and, in fact, some scholars<br />

believe that human beings are internally<br />

wired to search for a higher<br />

power to guide them through these<br />

situations.”<br />

“Western culture has tipped the<br />

scale in monstrous propositions<br />

when it comes to materialism, and<br />

Chaldeans are right there at the head<br />

of the line,” said Bashi. “We have an<br />

excess of everything and no matter<br />

how much stuff we acquire, we<br />

cannot seem to be fulfilled. We are<br />

seeped in gluttony. Gratitude is a hot<br />

topic because there’s a huge need for<br />

it in our culture.”<br />

There are several ways to practice<br />

daily gratitude expressions. With her<br />

clients, Bashi has created the “values<br />

inventory,” asking them to identify<br />

everything in life they value. “Most<br />

of the time, people realize there’s a<br />

lot they take for granted like their<br />

spouse, children and leisure time,”<br />

said Bashi. She also recommends that<br />

people write down the top 10 things<br />

they take for granted. “It is not a ‘to<br />

do’ list. It is a ‘to be’ list.”<br />

Using St. Therese of Lisieux as an<br />

example, Laurencelle reminds people<br />

to be grateful for the little things, as<br />

well as public service. “Think about<br />

bringing joy to others,” she recommended.<br />

“Go help someone else. Not<br />

only will you feel gratitude for what<br />

you have in life, you will be uplifted<br />

by being able to do something good<br />

for someone else.”<br />

Bazelel has several books that<br />

touch on gratitude including “Where<br />

Do Priests Come From?,” a book of<br />

gratitude for the men who have responded<br />

to God’s call upon their<br />

lives. “The Rosary Workout” is about<br />

spiritual and physical health and the<br />

overriding gratitude for Mary’s “yes.”<br />

As Psalm 8 says, “We give thanks<br />

to You, O God, we give thanks, For<br />

Your name is near; Men declare Your<br />

wondrous works.”<br />

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a joyful noise<br />

Church choirs hit all the right notes<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

Nearly 800 people jammed<br />

into the new Holy Martyrs<br />

Chaldean Catholic Church<br />

in Sterling Heights on October 16 for<br />

the Sixth Annual Choirs Concert.<br />

The 250 choir members (spread<br />

over seven churches) were each allowed<br />

to invite several people. The<br />

event is so crowded that it’s not open<br />

to the public.<br />

It used to be that the church<br />

hosting the concert organized the<br />

entire event. For the past two years,<br />

the choir committee, which consists<br />

of seven members (one representative<br />

from each church), has been in<br />

charge. Each church donates money<br />

that is primarily used for the afterconcert<br />

party held in the church<br />

hall for the choir members and the<br />

attendees.<br />

“Fr. Boji is very encouraging<br />

of this choir concert,” said Mayce<br />

George, a committee member representing<br />

Mother of God Church.<br />

“He’s our major fan.”<br />

To the pastor of Holy Martyrs, the<br />

music represents much more than<br />

simple songs.<br />

“The continuous history of persecution<br />

that our church has experienced<br />

caused the Chaldeans not to<br />

have schools and universities,” said<br />

Fr. Boji. “Our heritage, even our theology,<br />

was kept alive through singing<br />

hymns.”<br />

Hymns were sung in English, traditional<br />

Arabic and Chaldean at the<br />

concert, which had the theme “The<br />

Life of Jesus Christ.”<br />

“We’ve been preparing for this<br />

since February,” said George. “It’s<br />

a lot of work, but it pays off. It’s rewarding<br />

to learn songs, get to know<br />

each other, and listen to other peoples’<br />

work.”<br />

Nora Sheena, a committee member<br />

representing St. Thomas, likes<br />

that when the choirs come together,<br />

there’s no Eastside/Westside mentality.<br />

Rather than one labeling another<br />

by residence, it is more like, “Oh,<br />

you’re from St. Joseph, you’re from<br />

Mar Addai,” she said. “We’re all on<br />

even ground, all serving the church<br />

in the same way, all doing our best to<br />

give the gift God gave us to everyone<br />

around us. It’s nice to come in and<br />

1<br />

2<br />

6<br />

7<br />

1. Mother of<br />

God’s Youth<br />

Choir<br />

2. The Chaldean<br />

Choir of Mother<br />

of God<br />

3. The choir of<br />

Holy Martyrs<br />

4. Fr. Manual<br />

Boji, Fr. Fadi<br />

Philip and Fr.<br />

Ayad Khanjaro<br />

5. James<br />

Khawaja of<br />

St. Joseph<br />

6. Holy Family<br />

Church of<br />

Windsor<br />

7. St. Thomas’<br />

choir<br />

8. All gathered<br />

for a closing<br />

song<br />

32 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


witness that. Even those from across<br />

the border have gathered here.”<br />

Indeed, Fr. Niaz Toma from Holy<br />

Family Church in Windsor, Canada,<br />

and his church’s choir have participated<br />

in the concert from the beginning.<br />

“Having the choirs come together<br />

like this is a tradition that in Iraq has<br />

been going on for many, many years,”<br />

said Rafi Ballo, a committee member<br />

representing Holy Family. “There’s<br />

no competition here. As we’re all<br />

here to praise the Lord, we’re in a<br />

harmonious relationship.”<br />

Ballo said being in choir makes<br />

him feel closer to the Chaldean Mass<br />

and lets him learn more about the<br />

“rich Chaldean liturgy.”<br />

“It is perceived that when you<br />

sing something it’s nicer than when<br />

you say it,” he said, noting that the<br />

area in the brain that stores music,<br />

the auditory cortex, is the last to<br />

deteriorate.<br />

“I saw a man with Alzheimer’s<br />

who was reciting prayers and singing<br />

— without skipping words,” Ballo<br />

said. “I was very impressed.”<br />

The requirements to join a Chaldean<br />

church choir are simple: a love<br />

of God, an interest in singing, and a<br />

desire to interact with others in the<br />

community.<br />

These are the reasons that a group<br />

of five women from Holy Martyrs got<br />

involved, despite having young children<br />

and jobs.<br />

“When we practice we bring our<br />

children with us,” said Suhair Shayia.<br />

“This church is simple but it’s a<br />

strong connection to our hearts.”<br />

The Our Lady of Perpetual Help<br />

Mission is happy with their large<br />

group of choir members, claiming<br />

it’s “God’s blessings!”<br />

“Doing this is what keeps me going,”<br />

said Rami Suleiman. “It inspires me.”<br />

“We’re here because we love God,<br />

honey!” said Vivian Osachi. “God is<br />

No. 1 in our life.”<br />

“Two things draw people to the<br />

choir,” noted Fr. Boji. “One, the spiritual<br />

aspect — glorifying God and<br />

appreciating the talent He has given<br />

them. Second, it’s the social component.<br />

The concert shows that the<br />

choirs belong to different parishes,<br />

but finally one diocese.”<br />

Each church has its own rehearsal<br />

schedule, but most practice an average<br />

of two to four hours per week<br />

— more as the big concert nears. Organizers<br />

hope to one day take it to<br />

a theater and sell tickets to the<br />

general public.<br />

“We need those who are not<br />

familiar with the caliber of good singers<br />

and orchestrators in our church<br />

to come in and enjoy the Chaldean<br />

hymns,” said Fr. Boji, who noted<br />

that everything in the Church of the<br />

East is based off songs. That is how<br />

it was kept going from generation<br />

to generation. It was an easy way to<br />

learn, especially for the mothers and<br />

fathers who didn’t know how to read<br />

and write.<br />

“Many of these songs were sung<br />

by our mothers and grandmothers<br />

to their babies while putting them<br />

to sleep,” said Fr. Boji. “Hymns are<br />

something very special and important<br />

in our culture.”<br />

Photos by Nora Bahrou Downs<br />

3 4<br />

5<br />

8


sparking dialogue<br />

Chaldean-Jewish communities develop a strategic model<br />

to build an ethnic network.<br />

ROBERT SKLAR<br />

EDITOR | DETROIT JEWISH NEWS<br />

VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />

EDITOR | CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

Eighth of a nine-part monthly series<br />

The Chaldean-Jewish initiative<br />

begun last April as a<br />

fragile, cross-cultural experiment<br />

in community building continues<br />

to create awareness and buzz<br />

outside the two ethnic communities.<br />

Interfaith groups, hospitals and<br />

health systems, universities, public<br />

school districts, political leaders,<br />

foundation executive directors and<br />

business entrepreneurs have communicated<br />

their interest in the initia-<br />

tive, dubbed “Building Community.”<br />

Some intend to participate<br />

in the evolving initiative<br />

as it moves beyond its<br />

formal wind-down in January<br />

to a second, more grassroots-led<br />

stage next February.<br />

Others have expressed a desire<br />

to expand the cultural footprint<br />

to include other ethnic<br />

and religious groups in Southeastern<br />

Michigan.<br />

The original hope was to draw<br />

together the Chaldean and Jewish<br />

communities, which share common<br />

roots in the Middle East (Iraq for the<br />

Chaldean community and Israel for<br />

the Jewish community). The goal<br />

was to have the communities mingle,<br />

appreciate each other’s culture,<br />

work together to improve the quality<br />

of life in Metro Detroit — and<br />

perhaps serve as a regional or even<br />

national model for a multicultural<br />

ethnic network.<br />

While the planks of that ambitious<br />

model continue to be laid,<br />

Building Community’s original ethnic<br />

groups are discussing the possibility<br />

of arranging a mini-mission of<br />

Chaldeans and Jews to travel to Israel<br />

and the Holy Land. The groups<br />

would travel together, explore their<br />

respective religious and cultural heritages<br />

and link up for shared events<br />

and celebrations.<br />

“The glue that binds this initiative<br />

together are the opportunities<br />

created for face-to-face interactions,”<br />

said Arthur Horwitz, publisher of the<br />

Detroit Jewish News.<br />

Strengthening Fabric<br />

Building Community is a joint project<br />

of the JN and the Chaldean<br />

News, both based in Southfi eld a<br />

short distance apart on Northwestern<br />

Highway. Here in Metro Detroit,<br />

the two ethnic groups share parallel<br />

patterns in geographic location, entrepreneurial<br />

interests and professional<br />

careers.<br />

“Over the past several months,”<br />

Horwitz said, “individual friendships<br />

have been made and, in some cases,<br />

renewed. Business opportunities and<br />

collaborations have emerged among<br />

entrepreneurs. And Chaldean and<br />

Jewish families have broken<br />

bread together.”<br />

New insights continue to<br />

bubble up.<br />

The University of Michigan-Dearborn<br />

College of<br />

Business benchmarked attitudes<br />

and perceptions of<br />

Chaldeans toward Jews, and<br />

Jews toward Chaldeans, at<br />

the outset of this project.<br />

In the coming months,<br />

U-M will update its research.<br />

“We expect to see statistically<br />

signifi cant improvements<br />

in these attitudes and<br />

perceptions as a result of the<br />

Building Community initiative,”<br />

Horwitz said.<br />

Leaders from both ethnic<br />

groups contribute to Southeast<br />

Michigan’s economic,<br />

philanthropic, political, cultural<br />

and religious wellbeing.<br />

Ron Asmar<br />

Jeannie Weiner<br />

Solid Teamwork<br />

The Building Community initiative<br />

inspired four ad hoc workgroups, listed<br />

here with their co-chairs:<br />

<br />

Saad Hajjar, Ron Asmar, Howard<br />

Rosenberg;<br />

<br />

ma, Jeannie Weiner;<br />

<br />

Nancy Welber Barr;<br />

<br />

<br />

Under the guidance of Jewish<br />

News Publisher Arthur Horwitz<br />

and Chaldean News Co-Publisher<br />

Martin Manna, the two newspapers<br />

will continue to furnish counsel and<br />

support to assist the workgroups; the<br />

workgroups, however, are not tied to<br />

either publication.<br />

Saad Hajjar, one of the Chaldean<br />

co-chairs of the Economic Development<br />

Committee, is enthused about<br />

the progress of the workgroup, which<br />

meets weekly.<br />

“There is a lot of knowledge both<br />

the Chaldean and Jewish communities<br />

can share together; a lot of<br />

potential when we work<br />

together,” said Hajjar, the<br />

CEO of West Bloomfi eldbased<br />

Advanced Technology<br />

Systems and a former<br />

chair of the Chaldean<br />

American Chamber of<br />

Commerce.<br />

Hajjar and his fellow<br />

chairs — Ron Asmar, the<br />

<br />

yards Deli in Farmington<br />

Hills, and Howard Rosenberg,<br />

a Jewish attorney,<br />

investor and hedge fund<br />

creator — are concentrating<br />

on such ideas as<br />

teaching about franchising<br />

opportunities. Their<br />

goal is to bring more jobs<br />

to Michigan.<br />

“Chaldeans and Jews<br />

have been supporting<br />

each other for many years and we<br />

want to see more of it happen,” Asmar<br />

said. “We want to make sure that<br />

everyone understands that when you<br />

support a Jewish business or a Chaldean<br />

business, it really helps out<br />

the whole entire community. We<br />

need especially to be teaching our<br />

young people the importance of having<br />

stronger ties. It’s one of the legs<br />

Michigan needs to get back on the<br />

right economic track.”<br />

The Social Action workgroup has<br />

met twice while the two co-chairs<br />

have met several times, partly to get<br />

acquainted and mostly to begin planning<br />

how to engage Jews and Chaldeans<br />

in inter-community projects.<br />

“Networking does not take long,<br />

and these potential partnerships and<br />

coalitions may reap benefi ts long into<br />

the future for the participants as well<br />

as for the larger community,” said<br />

continued on page 36<br />

34 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


Talking about Culture<br />

Jewish and Chaldean teens chat about their differences, similarities<br />

and stereotypes.<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

EDITOR | CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

Jewish and Chaldean teenagers<br />

were encouraged to speak candidly<br />

about their cultural similarities<br />

and differences at a teen forum hosted<br />

by Bloomfi eld Hills Schools on Oct 6.<br />

as part of the Detroit Jewish News and<br />

Chaldean News Building Community<br />

collaboration.<br />

Although teens did share some<br />

ideas and misconceptions, the hesitation<br />

to be open was apparent and<br />

the tendency to gravitate to one’s<br />

own culture was evident by the split<br />

in the room at Model High School in<br />

Bloomfi eld Hills. Most of the Jewish<br />

kids sat on one side, while the Chaldeans<br />

gathered on the opposite side of<br />

the room.<br />

The cross-cultural teen forum was<br />

hosted by radio personality Mojo of<br />

95.5-FM (Tom Carballo) who entertainingly<br />

encouraged the nearly 150<br />

teenagers to be honest and to not worry<br />

about offending anyone with their<br />

portrayals of the Jewish and Chaldean<br />

communities in Michigan.<br />

He posed candid questions to the<br />

teen panel as well as to the audience,<br />

starting out the session with the appropriate<br />

question: “What is the fi rst<br />

thing that comes to mind when you<br />

hear the word Chaldean or Jew?” The<br />

Chaldeans kids said they think of Jews<br />

being wealthy, business people and<br />

stingy with their money; the Jewish<br />

teens thought of Chaldeans as gas station<br />

owners and wearers of designer<br />

attire such as Ed Hardy.<br />

Mojo, who is of Cuban descent,<br />

said his house sits between a Jewish<br />

family and a Chaldean family. “I am<br />

really impressed with my Jewish and<br />

Chaldean neighbors because you guys<br />

take care of each other,” he said. “Nobody<br />

takes care of their cultures better<br />

than Jews and Chaldeans. You stand<br />

up for cultures, fi ght for each other<br />

and do everything you can to make<br />

sure your family is taken care of. You<br />

guys love being Jewish and love being<br />

Chaldean.”<br />

The panel consisted<br />

of two religious leaders,<br />

Rabbi Josh Bennett from<br />

Temple Israel in West<br />

Bloomfi eld and Fr. Antho-<br />

<br />

of God Chaldean Church<br />

in Southfi eld, and four<br />

students from Bloomfi eld<br />

Hills Schools. Chaldeans<br />

were represented by students<br />

Thomas Sandiha<br />

and Angelic Gasso, while<br />

the two Jewish teens were<br />

Marli Siegel and Josh Morof.<br />

First Exposure<br />

Prior to moving to Michigan<br />

from Chicago, Bennett<br />

had never heard of<br />

Chaldeans. He recognized<br />

the stereotypes, but said<br />

what he struggles with<br />

is what is never talked<br />

about.<br />

“What is more diffi -<br />

cult is what we don’t say<br />

out loud and what persists<br />

in the undercurrent,” he<br />

said, speaking of biases<br />

each community holds.<br />

Before being asked to be part of the<br />

<br />

counters with any Jewish people and<br />

had only stereotypical perceptions<br />

about the Jewish community. “The<br />

fi rst time I sat down with a Jewish person<br />

was when I met Arthur Horwitz<br />

and Rabbi Bennett,” he said.<br />

Bennett explained that the communities<br />

share more similarities than<br />

differences. Both trace their lineage<br />

to Abraham; both communities have<br />

been persecuted; and both have assimilated<br />

and succeeded in the United<br />

States.<br />

Gasso related how she is often mistaken<br />

for a non-Chaldean and recalled<br />

being offended by remarks made by<br />

both non-Chaldeans and Chaldeans.<br />

“When I meet Chaldeans for the<br />

fi rst time, I have heard girls say in<br />

Chaldean, ‘What is this white girl<br />

Nearly 150 teens attended the Jewish-Chaldean teen forum at Bloomfield<br />

Hills Model High School.<br />

Mojo asks for responses from the teen audience.<br />

doing here?’ They have no idea I am<br />

Chaldean because I don’t look it.”<br />

Gasso admits she does not like<br />

dealing with the negative talk about<br />

the Chaldeans so she does not confront<br />

it. Josh Morof can relate. He,<br />

too, is bothered by offensive statements.<br />

He said the stereotypical jokes<br />

voiced at the expense of the Jews are<br />

what upset him most. “There are Jewish<br />

stereotypes and jokes out there,<br />

and it is so surprising that it is still out<br />

there; and these jokes are said all the<br />

time, and I don’t like it at all,” he said.<br />

Marli Siegel recalled an afternoon<br />

a couple of years ago the day before a<br />

Jewish holiday, when she heard fellow<br />

students talking. “They said, ‘The only<br />

reason I love Jews is because of these<br />

days,’ because they got the holidays<br />

off of school,” she said. “It made me<br />

realize that these people don’t know<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

me personally and are<br />

making these remarks<br />

without knowing me<br />

as a Jew.”<br />

Thomas Sandiha<br />

expressed a positive<br />

trait about being<br />

Chaldean he is proud<br />

to share with others<br />

— the similarities between<br />

the Chaldean<br />

and Jewish communities<br />

and the positive<br />

attributes that the<br />

communities want<br />

others to know and<br />

remember. “Church<br />

is important to us and<br />

so is family,” Sandiha<br />

said.<br />

Bill Boyle, principal<br />

of Model High<br />

School and Bowers<br />

Academy, said he was<br />

honored to host the<br />

event. “The benefi t<br />

is giving kids a process<br />

and forum to talk<br />

about and learn things<br />

about each other,”<br />

he said. “They know<br />

about the tensions<br />

and stereotypes, but when we have a<br />

process in place like this, we can all<br />

learn from this.”<br />

Moving Forward<br />

Bloomfi eld Hills Schools spokesperson<br />

Betsy Ericson said, “Education<br />

thought leaders say that empathy is<br />

the No. 1 skill set for success in the<br />

21st century. This Building Community<br />

initiative is one important step<br />

in nurturing understanding in our increasingly<br />

diverse community. We’re<br />

grateful the Jewish News and Chaldean<br />

News included our high school<br />

students in this endeavor.”<br />

This panel broke new ground<br />

within the communities and, with<br />

the help of Mojo and religious leaders,<br />

engaged the teens in a productive<br />

conversation.<br />

continued on page 37<br />

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Friendships and relationships<br />

require time to grow (even at the<br />

leadership level), but Weiner is excited<br />

about the prospects. The past<br />

president of the Jewish Community<br />

Relations Council of Metropolitan<br />

Detroit has some Chaldean friends<br />

who go back 20 years.<br />

“This is a wonderful opportunity<br />

for Southeast Michigan to demonstrate<br />

that different religious groups<br />

can come together as neighbors, colleagues,<br />

clients and friends,” she said.<br />

“If friendships and better understanding<br />

between the groups were the only<br />

result, it would be enough; but much,<br />

much more is happening, and I fi nd it<br />

very gratifying.”<br />

Real Change<br />

When Building Community was<br />

launched, the JN’s Horwitz and the<br />

Chaldean News’ Manna could not<br />

have imagined the amount of interest<br />

and support their newspapers would<br />

receive for the effort.<br />

“It seems that with each monthly<br />

installment of the Building Community<br />

content that appears in our publications,”<br />

Horwitz said, “additional<br />

ideas for collaboration emerge.<br />

“Most of the ideas and desire to<br />

participate come from the grassroots<br />

level, a sign that we are fundamentally<br />

changing the ways these two communities<br />

will interact for years, and<br />

perhaps decades, to come.”<br />

Creative director, Deborah Schultz<br />

Senior copy editor, David Sachs<br />

Story development editor,<br />

Keri Guten Cohen<br />

Our eighth two-page monthly spread,<br />

developed by the Farmington Hills<br />

strategic communications fi rm Tanner<br />

Friedman, appears on pages 38-39<br />

T h e P o w e r o f Y o u r C o m m u n i t y e = D T E ®<br />

All Aboard The Friendship Tour<br />

The Chaldean/Jewish Friendship Tour, a special occasion on Nov. 15<br />

presented by Building Community’s Arts & Culture Committee, marks<br />

the fi rst public event from one of the initiative’s grassroots workgroups.<br />

Participants will gain an understanding of the architecture, symbolism,<br />

usability, history and culture of each community’s central facilities<br />

— Shenandoah Country Club and the Jewish Community Center. Both<br />

are located in West Bloomfi eld.<br />

The night begins at 6 p.m. at Shenandoah for wine, hors d’oeuvres<br />

and a tour of the facility by its architect, Victor Saroki of Birmingham.<br />

Shenandoah is owned by the Chaldean Iraqi American Association of<br />

Michigan (CIAAM) and is a favorite gathering place among community<br />

members.<br />

At 7:30, participants will drive to the Jewish Community Center for<br />

a tour by JCC Executive Director Mark Lit and architect Joel Smith,<br />

whose fi rm Neumann/Smith Associates of Southfi eld designed the<br />

Frankel Jewish Academy of Metropolitan Detroit and the under-construction<br />

Berman Center for the Performing Arts, both part of the JCC<br />

building complex. Coffee and a sampling of Jewish-inspired sweets at<br />

the JCC round out the evening, which concludes at 9 p.m.<br />

Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the door. Send checks payable<br />

to the Jewish Community Center to the JCC, 6600 W. Maple Road,<br />

West Bloomfi eld, MI 48322. Learn more by calling Avita Bacall at (248)<br />

681-5050 or Monika Whale, (248) 432-5419.<br />

The Arts & Culture Committee is headed by Mary Romaya and Barbara<br />

Kratchman. Committee members are Mira Burak, Stephen Goldman,<br />

Mark Kassa, Mark Lit, Dr. Sulafa Roumayah, Dale Rubin, Michelle<br />

Saroki, Firyal Yono and Sharon Zimmerman.<br />

— Joyce Wiswell, managing editor, Chaldean News<br />

36 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


continued from page 35<br />

“The morning started with stereotypes<br />

and ended with truth, compassion<br />

and empathy,” Mojo said. “I am so<br />

impressed with those high school kids.”<br />

Focus On Youth<br />

The teen forum represents an important<br />

progression in the Building<br />

Community initiative. While all<br />

previous interactions associated with<br />

this initiative have been between<br />

Chaldean and Jewish adults, this<br />

was the fi rst time the two publishing<br />

companies provided a forum and a<br />

safe space for youth to strip away the<br />

veneer of stereotypes and recognize<br />

the commonalities they share.<br />

“In many households, high schoolage<br />

children have the most opportunities<br />

for interaction and involvement<br />

with Chaldeans and Jews,” said Arthur<br />

Horwitz, publisher of the Jewish<br />

News. “We’re hopeful content from<br />

the forum provides ‘teachable moments’<br />

in reverse, with the children<br />

enlightening their parents.”<br />

Horwitz and Martin Manna, copublisher<br />

of the Chaldean News, are<br />

spearheading the Building Community<br />

initiative.<br />

Both are pleased that other school<br />

districts with signifi cant Chaldean<br />

and Jewish student populations are<br />

interested in hosting their own teen<br />

forums, and they look forward to facilitating<br />

this with them.<br />

“The only way to rid people of<br />

their ignorance about each other is<br />

to talk about our differences and similarities,”<br />

Manna said.<br />

“This is what the teen forum was<br />

all about — to educate people about<br />

the Jewish and Chaldean communities.”<br />

Teen forum a great<br />

first step.<br />

BY ANGELIC GASSO<br />

People stereotype one another<br />

daily. It’s usually unintentional<br />

and, in most cases, the origin is<br />

unknown. People are stereotyped by<br />

the color of their skin, gender, religious<br />

beliefs and even culture. High<br />

school is a very common ground for<br />

stereotyping. It happens because we<br />

are unaware of one another’s differences<br />

so, in turn, we generalize.<br />

Bloomfi eld Hills Lahser and<br />

Andover high schools<br />

have a clear separation<br />

amongst the Jewish and<br />

Chaldean teenage populations.<br />

Both cultures<br />

have attended school<br />

in the same district for<br />

years, but neither group<br />

has made the effort to<br />

understand the other on<br />

a higher and intellectual<br />

level until now.<br />

On Oct. 6, Chaldean<br />

and Jewish students,<br />

a priest, a rabbi<br />

Angelic Gasso<br />

and Mojo from 95.5-FM<br />

met at Model High School in Bloomfi<br />

eld Hills to discuss cultural differences<br />

and similarities. Students were<br />

allowed to sit anywhere they pleased<br />

— naturally, the two cultures generally<br />

sat on opposing sides. This further<br />

evidenced the separation that<br />

exists amongst the groups not only in<br />

school, but also extracurricular activities,<br />

work settings and free time.<br />

I will admit, my knowledge of the<br />

Jewish culture is rather limited. I was<br />

eager to learn more about the Jewish<br />

community and the forum provided<br />

just that exactly. In the short hour the<br />

forum lasted, I learned more about the<br />

Jewish community than I had learned<br />

in my entire life.<br />

Mojo challenged the audience<br />

to directly answer questions regarding<br />

each culture. One Jewish girl was<br />

asked how her parents would react if<br />

she married someone outside her Jewish<br />

faith.<br />

“My parents defi nitely would not<br />

be happy because it would create a<br />

halt in my culture,” she said. “It’s not<br />

that they disrespect other cultures, it’s<br />

just the fact that they want our Jewish<br />

culture to thrive and grow by sticking<br />

together.”<br />

I saw many students’<br />

heads nod in<br />

agreement, including<br />

my own.<br />

To me, the forum<br />

was an overall shock.<br />

I never realized nor<br />

took the time to think<br />

that other cultures,<br />

though different, may<br />

be the same after all.<br />

Both the Jewish<br />

and Chaldean communities<br />

value and<br />

pride themselves in<br />

their cultures, a key<br />

component in maintaining any ethnicity.<br />

The forum made me feel accomplished<br />

and gave me a sense of<br />

hope for the two cultures. The participants<br />

were honest; every stereotype<br />

was brought to the surface in raw<br />

form.<br />

It was a big step for both groups in<br />

tightening the gap between the Jewish<br />

and Chaldean communities, but it is<br />

just the beginning. With time and further<br />

knowledge of one another’s cultures,<br />

I feel a sense of community and<br />

understanding will be gained.<br />

— Angelic Gasso is a senior<br />

at Bloomfi eld Hills<br />

Lahser High School.<br />

‘Work as a community<br />

to build one.’<br />

BY JOSH MOROF<br />

As an active member of both<br />

Andover High School and<br />

the Jewish community, I<br />

was chosen to serve on a panel for<br />

the “Building Community” teen forum<br />

held Oct. 6. Along with Rabbi<br />

Josh Bennett of Temple Israel in<br />

West Bloomfi eld and Father Anthony<br />

<br />

of God Chaldean<br />

Church in Southfi eld,<br />

there were two Chaldean<br />

students and a<br />

second Jewish student.<br />

In the audience were<br />

more than 100 Bloomfi<br />

eld Hills students.<br />

One of the very<br />

fi rst things discussed<br />

was stereotyping. “You<br />

don’t look Jewish.”<br />

“You don’t act Chaldean.”<br />

I personally<br />

Josh Morof<br />

hate hearing Jewish jokes and stereotypes<br />

as often as I do. I have never<br />

been able to understand how someone<br />

could classify or even make fun<br />

of another person based on something<br />

like their religion.<br />

However, before this forum, I never<br />

looked at the situation the other<br />

way around. Even when we do not<br />

realize it, we are constantly categorizing<br />

and judging those around us. If<br />

you tell yourself that you have never<br />

made fun of someone because of the<br />

way they look, act, talk or even because<br />

of their beliefs, you would most<br />

likely be lying to yourself.<br />

One question that really stood out<br />

to me was asked by a student. The<br />

question was not “How do we improve<br />

the relationship between Jews<br />

and Chaldeans?” but rather “How<br />

do we create a relationship between<br />

Chaldeans and Jews?” This question<br />

is so interesting to me because<br />

it points out that there is currently<br />

not a relationship between Jews and<br />

Chaldeans.<br />

Within Andover High School,<br />

there is extremely limited interaction<br />

between the two groups. The Chaldeans<br />

have their benches in the main<br />

hallway, and the Jews congregate in<br />

front of the stairs to the<br />

second fl oor. Even at the<br />

forum, the Chaldeans<br />

and Jews automatically<br />

separated, each generally<br />

sitting on different sides<br />

of the room. Outside of<br />

school it is not much<br />

different. Jewish teens<br />

hang out with other<br />

Jews, and the same with<br />

Chaldeans. Personally, I<br />

have very few Chaldean<br />

friends, only one I ever<br />

see outside of school.<br />

It is about time we<br />

start breaking down the walls between<br />

the two groups — and the<br />

Building Community initiative has<br />

defi nitely begun this process. However,<br />

it is up to both Jews and Chaldeans<br />

alike to make this happen. If we all<br />

did something as simple as inviting a<br />

Chaldean friend or neighbor over for<br />

a Shabbat dinner, imagine the impact<br />

that would have on the relationship<br />

between both Jews and Chaldeans.<br />

We have an opportunity to begin<br />

focusing on how to improve our relationship<br />

instead of worrying about<br />

how to create one. All we have to is<br />

work as a community in order to build<br />

one.<br />

— Josh Morof is a junior at<br />

Bloomfi eld Hills<br />

Andover High School.<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 37


C O MM U N I T<br />

Y<br />

‘A common cause’<br />

Chaldeans, Jews extend parents’<br />

gains through public service<br />

By Alan Stamm and Justin Fisette<br />

Our parents’ most vivid lessons last a lifetime. For Michael<br />

J. George and Carl Levin, values gained during childhood<br />

kindled enduring commitments to community service.<br />

George, founder of a successful business group, has<br />

given many Chaldean store owners a startup boost through loans<br />

and mentoring. Levin, with a public service career spanning nearly<br />

half a century, is a sixth-term U.S. senator who earlier held state and<br />

city government posts. Even as a teen, he was elected an officer by<br />

the Class of 1952 at Central High in Detroit.<br />

“As kids, [my parents] really taught us to participate in a common<br />

cause,” says the 76-year-old senator. The native Detroiter became<br />

interested in politics “when I was a kid at the dinner table with my<br />

dad and mother, talking about FDR and the New Deal, and how we<br />

all had to pull together to get out of a Depression.”<br />

Brother Sander Levin, a U.S. Representative and Chair of the<br />

House Ways and Means Committee, has been influential in the fight<br />

“With each generation, the<br />

more educated they became,<br />

the more they were involved in<br />

the American system.”<br />

Michael J. George, business leader<br />

for minority rights and religious freedom, here and abroad. “We consider<br />

it our duty to try to respond,” he says of persecution in Iraq, an<br />

issue he says resonates powerfully among the Jewish community.<br />

Their father Saul, an attorney, set an example of public service<br />

through volunteer assistance to immigrants and farm workers and as<br />

a four-year appointee on the Michigan Corrections Commission. Another<br />

role model was uncle Theodore Levin, an immigration lawyer<br />

and federal judge in Detroit, after whom the federal courthouse for<br />

the Eastern District of Michigan is named.<br />

Building a future<br />

A powerful example also inspired George, who created Melody Farms<br />

Dairy and a family-led business group called George Enterprises. His<br />

father Tom left Iraq in 1929 and opened a small grocery in Detroit<br />

— carving a foothold in a land where he didn’t know the language.<br />

Like other second-generation Chaldean Americans, the plucky<br />

son used education to expand parental achievements. In 1950,<br />

George created Tom George & Sons Dairy Distributors, which grew<br />

into Melody Farms — a three-generation firm sold to Dallas-based<br />

Dean Foods Co. in 2003. “When I went into business,” the founder<br />

recalls, “a lot of [Chaldean] people couldn’t get support from the<br />

banks because they didn’t have financial documents. We helped with<br />

loans and business advice.”<br />

George also served on many civic groups, including a Detroit<br />

casino gambling study commission. In Lansing, he worked to reduce<br />

hurdles for merchants seeking retail liquor licenses.<br />

Now the 78-year-old entrepreneur is heartened to see political science<br />

become a popular college major among Chaldeans. “With each<br />

generation, the more educated they became, the more they were involved<br />

in the American system — becoming professionals — and many<br />

want to be politicians. They want to be involved in how the country<br />

runs.” The son of pioneering immigrants expects to see more Chaldeans<br />

in public service, following another group’s path.<br />

“The Jewish community was here ahead of us, a<br />

generation or two ahead of us,” he notes.<br />

Recruiting Chaldeans<br />

Also involved in the American system is Zahra<br />

Roberts, a Central Intelligence Agency program<br />

manager for Middle East community outreach.<br />

She spreads the word to Chaldean and Arab-<br />

American groups in Chicago and Metro Detroit<br />

about a need for recruits with specialized cultural<br />

and linguistic backgrounds. “We’re still very much in the education<br />

phase,” Roberts says. “We attend events and are on the right<br />

track. It’s a long-term commitment.”<br />

Not all jobs involve espionage or risky field work. Career paths<br />

include human resources, engineering, finance, information technology,<br />

data analysis and translation. Mid-career professionals, as well<br />

as recent graduates, are wanted.<br />

“The U.S. government is interested in heritage communities<br />

across the board,” says the outreach manager. “We can do a much<br />

better job in providing information to policymakers if we have people<br />

from every part of the country working in government.”<br />

Federal judges in Detroit<br />

For Avern Cohn, born in Detroit 86 years ago, the route to public<br />

service led from the University of Michigan (undergraduate and law<br />

degrees) to his dad’s law office for 12 years to state and city com-<br />

38 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


P R E S E N T I N G S P O N S O R<br />

G O L D S P O N S O R S<br />

Diane D’Agostini Marc Barron<br />

Kimberly Small<br />

Chaldeans and Jews serve side-by-side<br />

As one of the first Chaldeans in<br />

Metro Detroit to break into public<br />

service, Diane D’Agostini focuses<br />

on keeping her community<br />

safe in her role as a 48th District<br />

Court judge in Oakland County.<br />

“I saw more members of the<br />

Chaldean community robbed<br />

and murdered at their place of<br />

business. I wanted to help victims<br />

of crime and be their voice,”<br />

D’Agostini explains.<br />

She serves alongside Judges<br />

Marc Barron and Kimberly<br />

Small, both Jewish. They handle<br />

cases from Bloomfield Township,<br />

West Bloomfield, Bloomfield<br />

Hills, Keego Harbor, Orchard<br />

Lake Village, Sylvan Lake<br />

and Birmingham. The court’s<br />

bench offers a snapshot of the<br />

population they serve.<br />

“There is a large percentage<br />

in this district of both Jewish<br />

and Chaldean individuals, and I<br />

think it’s given us perspective to<br />

really understand some of the dynamics<br />

that are involved in both<br />

communities,” says D’Agostini of<br />

the mix on the bench. “You don’t<br />

need to be of an ethnic group to<br />

understand it, but we may understand<br />

a bit better because of<br />

the community aspect.”<br />

Her community supported<br />

D’Agostini while running for office,<br />

culminating in an electionnight<br />

victory and a tray of popsicles<br />

being sent by a voter she<br />

connected with while campaigning.<br />

“One couple invited me<br />

into their house, and we talked<br />

about both communities while<br />

reviewing my qualifications. The<br />

husband even offered me a popsicle,”<br />

D’Agostini recalls.<br />

Ultimately, D’Agostini feels,<br />

the victory uplifts more than one<br />

person. “When I succeeded, the<br />

Chaldean community felt joy, not<br />

just me,” she explains. “The Chaldean<br />

community realized how<br />

significant it was to vote and be<br />

involved in the political process.<br />

It’s important for all groups to be<br />

a part of the process.”<br />

– Justin Fisette<br />

S I LV E R S P O N S O R S<br />

mission appointments and ultimately to a federal judgeship<br />

— “catching the brass ring,” as Cohn describes<br />

it. He still hears cases at U.S. District Court in Detroit<br />

— where colleagues include Chief Judge Gerald Rosen,<br />

Paul D. Borman, Nancy Edmunds, Bernard Friedman<br />

and Stewart Newblatt, and where Jewish predecessors<br />

include Lawrence Gubow (1968-78) and Theodore<br />

Levin (1946-70). A new generation of Jewish judges<br />

will include Mark Goldsmith, to be sworn in later this<br />

month. Another Jewish Detroiter, Helene White, currently<br />

serves on the region’s U.S. Court of Appeals for<br />

the Sixth Circuit in Cincinnati.<br />

“In the Jewish community, it seemed natural to be active”<br />

in community service, says Cohn, a past president<br />

of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit who was<br />

nominated to his lifetime judgeship by President Jimmy<br />

Carter in May 1979. “Some people naturally gravitate toward<br />

political and social activity,” he adds. “The effort you<br />

extend to support yourself isn’t really sufficient to satisfy<br />

all your needs. . . . Man does not live on bread alone.”<br />

Alan Stamm and Justin Fisette are writers for<br />

Tanner Friedman, a marketing communications<br />

firm in Farmington Hills.


seeking<br />

information<br />

Reward offered in store killing<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

A<br />

$12,500 cash reward has been offered<br />

for information on the death of Mazin<br />

Khmoro, who was gunned down outside<br />

his family’s Southfield liquor store on October 6.<br />

Khmoro, a resident of Farmington Hills, was taking<br />

out the trash behind Cronin’s Liquor Store on<br />

the 29000 block of Northwestern Highway when<br />

he was shot and killed at about 4 p.m. Police said<br />

surveillance video shows that the suspect’s vehicle<br />

waited more than an hour before the<br />

shooting. It is described as a four-door,<br />

mid-size sports utility vehicle, possibly<br />

a black GMC Envoy, and was occupied<br />

by a thin male with a dark complexion<br />

wearing a light-colored dress shirt.<br />

“We believe someone who knows the<br />

victim and the store operation knows<br />

something about this,” said Southfield<br />

Police Chief Joseph E. Thomas, Jr., at an<br />

emotional press conference on October<br />

14. “This was deliberate and intended<br />

for one particular person.”<br />

Crimes Stoppers of Michigan put up<br />

the initial $2,500 reward. The Waad<br />

Murad Advocacy Fund, a division of the<br />

Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce,<br />

added $10,000. The reward is for<br />

information that leads to the arrest of the person or<br />

people responsible for the killing.<br />

“He died right in my arms,” sobbed the victim’s<br />

sister, May Khemmoro (who spells her name differently)<br />

at the press conference. “He was a good<br />

father, brother and son, and a good friend to all of<br />

us. My brother was the kindest man — he helped<br />

everybody. We just want to know why [he was<br />

killed],” she said.<br />

“Our hearts are really broken. My brother read<br />

the Bible every single day,” said a second sister,<br />

Brenda Thweny. “We have to vote for the death<br />

penalty in Michigan.”<br />

Thomas said the perpetrator lied in wait for<br />

at least two days. “This is not stranger danger,”<br />

Above:<br />

The press conference included remarks by Police Chief<br />

Joseph E. Thomas, Jr., Crime Stoppers President John<br />

Broad, and the victim’s sisters, May Khemmoro and<br />

Brenda Thweny.<br />

Left: The suspect’s vehicle<br />

he said. “We will be dogmatic about this and<br />

the person involved will not be unpunished,” he<br />

said. “Somebody needs to get off the couch and<br />

make a phone call.”<br />

The chief vowed that the case will be solved.<br />

“We’re going to hunt this person down,” he said.<br />

“We’re going to make it hurt.”<br />

People with information on the crime are urged<br />

to call Crime Stoppers, (800) SPEAK UP, visit<br />

www.1800speakup.org, or text CSM and your<br />

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synod continued from page 22<br />

“The population of this country<br />

... is 24 million, all Muslims, with<br />

whom we live peacefully and freely.”<br />

(Note one oddity: Iraq’s population,<br />

of course, is not “all Muslims”<br />

— the Chaldeans are Iraqis. Why<br />

did he say this? It is not clear.)<br />

“The Patriarch of the Chaldean<br />

Church (that is, Mar Delly himself;<br />

he is speaking of himself here in<br />

the third person, instead of saying,<br />

“I”) lives in Baghdad.” (That is, has<br />

not fled, or been forced to leave; he<br />

is still at home, in his community.)<br />

“Christians are good with their<br />

fellow Muslims and there is mutual<br />

respect among them.” (No hint of<br />

any tensions at all.)<br />

“Despite all the political and religious<br />

situations, and emigration,<br />

we now have nearly one million<br />

Christians in Iraq out of 25 million<br />

Muslims.” (He says “political<br />

and religious situations” instead of<br />

more negative words like “wars, invasions,<br />

car bombings, kidnappings,<br />

religious fanaticism” — all these<br />

are subsumed under “situations.”<br />

Then he says there are “nearly<br />

one million Christians in Iraq out<br />

of 25 million Muslims.” Again<br />

an odd phrase, since one million<br />

Christians and 25 million Muslims<br />

would make 26 million Iraqis, not<br />

25 million.)<br />

“We have the freedom of religion<br />

in our Churches. The Bishop or<br />

Priest, religious leader is listened to<br />

and respected by his fellow citizens.<br />

We have our own seminary, and<br />

Chaldean monks and nuns and religious.”<br />

(He says “we have freedom<br />

of religion in our Churches” — but<br />

he does not say if there is freedom<br />

of religion in the country, in Iraq in<br />

general. He says the “religious leader”<br />

— the word is in the singular; is<br />

he referring perhaps to himself? — is<br />

“listened to and respected.” However,<br />

we know that Archbishop Delly<br />

himself, despite his years of crying<br />

out on behalf of his people, has not<br />

been listened to. “We have our own<br />

seminary,” he says — but another<br />

Iraqi speaker said the seminary has<br />

actually been moved out of Baghdad<br />

because of a bombing incident, and<br />

reopened, but only hundreds of miles<br />

to the north.)<br />

Seeking the meaning<br />

On many occasions this week, I<br />

asked Synod participants and other<br />

journalists what they thought of Patriarch<br />

Delly’s remarks.<br />

I was told variously that he is<br />

“misinformed,” that his staff “no<br />

longer informs him of the true situation,”<br />

that he “lives in a palace” and<br />

is now “out of touch” with the reality<br />

on the ground; that he has gotten<br />

“old and weary” of the struggle<br />

he faces; that he wishes to emphasize<br />

the positive because emphasizing the<br />

negative has not served any positive<br />

purpose; and that he is “afraid is stirring<br />

up anything.”<br />

“Despite all the<br />

political and religious<br />

situations, and<br />

emigration, we now<br />

have nearly one<br />

million Christians in<br />

Iraq out of 25 million<br />

Muslims.”<br />

– Mar delly<br />

Someone told me that a bishop<br />

from Turkey had been so upset with<br />

Mar Delly’s words that he had stood up<br />

with tears in eyes and asked Mar Delly<br />

how he could speak in the way he had.<br />

A couple of days ago, I wrote a<br />

piece suggesting that Mar Delly may<br />

have been speaking in a veiled, or<br />

intentionally coded, way like that<br />

used by persecuted men in all countries<br />

when they wish to get a message<br />

across without arousing the ire of<br />

their persecutors.<br />

I noted that Leo Strauss, the primary<br />

intellectual influence in the founding<br />

of the neo-conservative movement<br />

in America, had worked out a theory<br />

that in every age the persecuted must<br />

resort to elegant, imaginative subterfuges<br />

to get their true message across<br />

and not be censored, or silenced, as<br />

they try to fly “under the radar” of the<br />

“inquisitors” of their time.<br />

Pivotal moments<br />

The intervention of Patriarch Delly was<br />

a pivotal moment in the Synod. Archbishop<br />

Franceschini’s talk was also.<br />

What the Synod will lead to in<br />

terms of concrete action to help the<br />

Christians of the Middle East, I do<br />

not know.<br />

But that the Christians of the<br />

region need the solidarity of Christians,<br />

and others of good will, from<br />

the rest of the world if they are to<br />

survive is clear.<br />

This is what the silence of Mar<br />

Delly, and the tears of Archbishop<br />

Franceschini, mean.<br />

Robert Moynihan, Ph.D., is the editor<br />

of Inside the Vatican Magazine,<br />

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Apartment Complexes<br />

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42 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


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A PA S S I O N f or H E A L I N G<br />

H O S P I T A L S I N S O U T H F I E L D A N D N O V I<br />

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events<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3 4 5<br />

6<br />

8<br />

fall<br />

football<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

Football fans and fanatics once again gathered for the annual Chaldean<br />

Football League Chy Cup game on October 16. Team White won in a<br />

20-7 game over Team Green. Before that action, the ladies took to the<br />

field in the second annual East. vs. West Powder Puff game. West won<br />

in triple overtime, 12-6.<br />

7<br />

1. Nick Hermiz<br />

catches a pass<br />

between Tony<br />

Attisha and<br />

Anthony Yaldo.<br />

2. Team White<br />

quarterback<br />

and coach Joey<br />

Jonna rolls to his<br />

right and looks<br />

downfield.<br />

3. Justin Orow<br />

of Team Green<br />

intercepts<br />

the ball.<br />

4. Mark Hajjar<br />

catches a pass.<br />

5. Sandy Acho<br />

of East runs, but<br />

Jenny Farida pulls<br />

her flag while<br />

Linda Zetouna<br />

gets in front<br />

to help.<br />

6. Bianca Jiddou<br />

looks to elude<br />

the rush.<br />

7. Vanessa Zeer<br />

shows off the<br />

trophy.<br />

8. West<br />

celebrates<br />

their win.<br />

44 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


classified listings<br />

HELP WANTED<br />

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Perform analyses of the<br />

customer’s energy usages/<br />

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projects; Establish<br />

administrator contractor<br />

activities. CEM by AEE<br />

preferred. Requires Masters<br />

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INSURANCE AGENT /<br />

MANAGER or CSR<br />

We sell Auto & Home<br />

Insurance (NOVI, MI).<br />

Must be experienced.<br />

Salary or Hourly plus<br />

commission $$$$$$$.<br />

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Exterior & Interior.<br />

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Web store Design and<br />

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Agent Programs<br />

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Accredited Buyer Representative<br />

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events<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

4<br />

5<br />

6<br />

7<br />

8<br />

project bismutha<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

1. Fr. Manuel<br />

Boji<br />

2. Master of<br />

ceremonies Al<br />

Zara<br />

3. Margaret<br />

Butti, Suhair<br />

Kallabat,<br />

Shahraz<br />

Hanaee and<br />

Bernie Garmo<br />

4. Michael &<br />

Najat George,<br />

Dr. Nathima<br />

Atchoo and<br />

Rula Yono<br />

5. Heather<br />

& Regheed<br />

Akrawi and<br />

Hanadi & Holly<br />

Gallozi<br />

6. Sawson<br />

Shayota, Rand<br />

Thary and<br />

Lavon Ammori<br />

7. CALC<br />

President<br />

LeeAnn Kirma<br />

8. Dr. Nahid<br />

Elyas,<br />

president of<br />

CAAHP<br />

9<br />

9. Mindi Fynke,<br />

president<br />

and CEO of<br />

Employee<br />

Health<br />

Insurance<br />

Management<br />

Project Bismutha had its premiere event on October 13 at<br />

Shenandoah Country Club. The organization has been established<br />

by the Chaldean American Ladies of Charity and<br />

the Chaldean American Association of Health Professionals<br />

to provide free medical services to qualified uninsured<br />

individuals. Visit ProjectBismutha.org.<br />

46 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


Proudly<br />

serving the<br />

Chaldean<br />

community<br />

for 49 years!<br />

14 Mile & Franklin Road, 1 Mile West of Telegraph<br />

National Historic Site since 1832<br />

177th Year Anniversary<br />

Featuring U-Pick Apples<br />

Michigan’s largest variety of fresh apples- all Michigan grown!<br />

Home of the “Honey Crisp” Apple - Always in stock<br />

Large assortment of:<br />

• Indian Corn<br />

• Corn Stalks<br />

• Baby Pumpkins<br />

Come See Our New<br />

Candy Apple Red Water Wheel!<br />

OPEN NOW through November 28th<br />

Mon-Fri, 7am-6:30pm. Sat-Sun, 8am-6:30pm<br />

Open Thanksgiving Day, 8-4pm<br />

Host your child’s birthday party<br />

at Franklin Cider Mill<br />

Call for field trips, and school outings.<br />

Carve Pumpkins & Gourds<br />

Featuring Hickory Farms<br />

Meat and Cheeses<br />

Free Coffee<br />

weekdays<br />

7am-11am<br />

248-626-8261<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 47

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