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THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 7 ISSUE X<br />
on the cover<br />
28 Four for the Ages<br />
By Mike Sarafa<br />
Elders share their experiences and expectations<br />
28<br />
features<br />
30 Giving Thanks<br />
By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />
Feeling gratitude brings a healthier and happier life<br />
32 A Joyful Noise<br />
By Weam Namou<br />
Church choirs hit all the right notes<br />
40 Seeking Information<br />
By Joyce Wiswell<br />
Reward offered in store killing<br />
32 44<br />
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8 From the Editor<br />
10 YOUR LETTERS<br />
11 the COUNSELOR is in<br />
By Iklas J. Bashi, LPC, NCC<br />
Our unhealthy obsession with gossip<br />
13 Noteworthy<br />
15 Community Bulletin Board<br />
16 Chai Time<br />
18 halhole<br />
22 religion<br />
By Robert Moynihan<br />
The strange message from Mar Delly<br />
24 Obituaries<br />
26 economics & Enterprise<br />
Full steam ahead:<br />
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44 Events<br />
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45 Classifieds<br />
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34 Sparking Dialogue<br />
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Chaldean-Jewish communities develop a strategic model to<br />
build an ethnic network<br />
35 Talking About Culture<br />
By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />
Jewish and Chaldean teens chat about their differences,<br />
similarities and stereotypes<br />
36 All Aboard the Friendship tour<br />
By Joyce Wiswell<br />
37 Teen Forum a Great First Step<br />
By Angelic Gasso<br />
37 ‘Work as a Community<br />
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38 ‘A common cause’<br />
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39 Chaldeans and Jews<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS
from the EDITOR<br />
Word to the wise<br />
Published By<br />
The Chaldean News, LLC<br />
Editorial<br />
Editor in Chief<br />
Vanessa Denha-Garmo<br />
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Every morning, I get<br />
a prayer from Mercy<br />
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On this sunny cool fall day, I<br />
opened the email to read this<br />
prayer:<br />
“Lord, Your word says,<br />
‘But if any of you needs wisdom,<br />
you should ask God for<br />
it. He is generous and enjoys<br />
giving to all people, so he<br />
will give you wisdom’ (James<br />
1:5). God, Please grant insight,<br />
foresight and wisdom<br />
to all of our governmental<br />
leaders. We ask this in Jesus’ name.<br />
And we thank You God for the gift of<br />
this day. Amen.”<br />
This daily prayer emailed to alumni,<br />
board members and others is also read<br />
Vanessa<br />
denha-garmo<br />
editor in chief<br />
co-publisher<br />
prayer and age that we gain<br />
the wisdom we hope to pass<br />
onto the younger generations.<br />
We thank Norma Hakim,<br />
Dr. Jamil Antone, Salim Shamoun<br />
and Jamil “Jimmy” Jonna<br />
for their candid conversation<br />
and sharing with us their insight<br />
and advice with all of us.<br />
You, too, can read what they<br />
had to say about some significant<br />
issues in our community.<br />
Word to the wise: We<br />
will never live long enough to<br />
make every mistake possible in order to<br />
learn the lesson. Learn from others.<br />
Sometimes words of wisdom come<br />
from a generation with few years but<br />
much experience. This month, the Chal-<br />
gious and psychological experts about<br />
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gratitude. It is something I make an effort<br />
to do not only daily but throughout<br />
the day and for those things and people<br />
I am not grateful to have in my life, I<br />
pray for them.<br />
We count our blessings this time of<br />
year as we spend time with family and<br />
friends celebrating this land of freedom.<br />
As we eat our turkey and hammath<br />
kebbi dinners, perhaps we each<br />
can recite one thing we are most grateful<br />
for this decade, this year, this day or<br />
this moment in our lives.<br />
Word to the wise: Figure out what<br />
brings you joy in life and be grateful for it.<br />
In life, we all will have opportunity<br />
to share words of wisdom. Pray for it.<br />
Pray for the wisdom to live a meaningful<br />
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As I sat in our conference room last<br />
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Good Joe<br />
Several days ago, I rose at the crack<br />
of dawn to watch Joseph Kassab<br />
on the EWTN show, the “Suffering<br />
Church,” thinking that I would simply<br />
be a silent spectator and prayerful<br />
supporter for his continuing advocacy<br />
on behalf of the persecuted Iraqi<br />
Christian peoples. I planned to have<br />
my coffee, then simply say a prayer<br />
and get on with my busy day. So I<br />
flipped to the channel and was totally<br />
engaged by Mr. Kassab’s heartfelt,<br />
knowledgeable and truly inspired discussion,<br />
one that moved me, and I am<br />
sure all who viewed the show, to feelings<br />
of indignation, tears and the desire<br />
to help in whatever way possible.<br />
Over the years of war, occupation<br />
and civil disruption, some have<br />
grown too familiar, even hardened, to<br />
the seemingly never-ending accounts<br />
of suffering, suppression, maiming<br />
and slaughter of our Christian brothers<br />
and sisters. We may have grown<br />
resigned, too, to what seems to be<br />
the world’s indifference to the plight of<br />
our faithful ones — contemporary martyrs<br />
in the name of Jesus Christ. But<br />
not Joe Kassab, for he is as fiery and<br />
passionate an advocate as I remember<br />
from some four years ago when I first<br />
met him at the Chaldean Federation of<br />
America headquarters.<br />
I recall, as many of you do as<br />
well, that Joe’s fondest dream at the<br />
time was to gain recognition for the<br />
refugee and displaced status of the<br />
Chaldean, Assyrian, Sabean, Mandean<br />
and Yezhidi minorities of his homeland.<br />
The struggle seemed futile then<br />
as the multiple rules, regulations, laws<br />
and yes, human obstacles, seemed to<br />
block that initial dream at every turn,<br />
but Joe Kassab pressed on. Joe tackled<br />
the herculean task of identifying a<br />
significant cross-cut sample of Christian<br />
refugees who had fled Iraq — that<br />
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in Diaspora across 31 of the world’s<br />
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from Syria and Jordan to Lebanon,<br />
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Joe’s appearances on radio, TV and<br />
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see and hear him tell the story is to hear<br />
it for the first time. At the conclusion of<br />
the broadcast on EWTN, Joe was invited<br />
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of Jesus Christ as He spoke<br />
them more than 2,000 years ago.<br />
Thank you, Joe, for a memorable<br />
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the COUNSELOR is in<br />
Our unhealthy obsession with gossip<br />
By Iklas J. Bashi, LPC, NCC<br />
One morning, my<br />
friend and I went to<br />
breakfast at the Big<br />
Boy restaurant on Woodward<br />
and 11 Mile. We were pleasantly<br />
surprised to see an old<br />
friend, Rene, working there<br />
as a waitress. We chatted<br />
a little and Rene sat us near<br />
a booth where I recognized<br />
two girls from high school.<br />
My friend and I had<br />
breakfast and proceeded to<br />
pay our bill. Rene refused<br />
to take money for the bill so<br />
we argued back and forth about who<br />
would pay. Finally we gave in and allowed<br />
her to treat us. We said we’d<br />
keep in touch and left the restaurant.<br />
The next morning my friend Nikki<br />
called me. After the usual hello and<br />
how are you, she asked, “Iklas, were<br />
you at Big Boy yesterday at 7 a.m.<br />
with a bunch of guys, drunk, and they<br />
called the police and had to kick you<br />
out of the restaurant?” I nearly fell<br />
over. My heart sank as I remembered<br />
the two girls sitting nearby. How could<br />
Iklas J. Bashi,<br />
LPC, NCC<br />
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one of them actually take the<br />
real scene in the restaurant<br />
and turn it into such malicious<br />
gossip? Whoever it<br />
was, how could she sleep<br />
knowing she made these<br />
false accusations about me?<br />
I found out later that she<br />
spread this gossip throughout<br />
her family and others<br />
who knew my family. When<br />
I saw her a few months later<br />
at a wedding, she acted like<br />
my best friend. I have never<br />
forgotten it.<br />
Although it happened over 25<br />
years ago, I still remember the feelings<br />
– shock, helplessness, anger, grief. I<br />
realized something in the moments following<br />
Nikki’s phone call: “My life is<br />
not in my own hands.” I remember<br />
thinking, “Someone, somewhere, at<br />
any time, can say anything about me<br />
and I am helpless to do anything about<br />
it.” It took me a long time to trust a<br />
Chaldean I didn’t really know.<br />
What is gossip and why are we obsessed<br />
with it as a culture? Gossip<br />
involves habitually revealing personal<br />
or sensational facts about others, a<br />
rumor of some kind or a report of an<br />
intimate nature.<br />
Why do we gossip? One reason is<br />
that it makes us feel better and superior<br />
about ourselves. Many people are<br />
uncomfortable with silence and oftentimes<br />
fill the void with gossip. Avoidance<br />
is another reason. We succeed<br />
in taking the attention off of ourselves<br />
by focusing on others. Gossiping may<br />
make use feel self-important. And the<br />
more information we have, the more<br />
powerful we feel – at the expense of<br />
another.<br />
Gossip, like news, can be factual.<br />
We need to look at intention because<br />
intention is key. If the information being<br />
spread is likely a lie and likely to<br />
do harm, then is it clearly gossip. If it<br />
is an attempt to help, then it is news.<br />
Sometimes gossip is justified because<br />
what’s being spread is truth and therefore<br />
all right to repeat.<br />
The dark side of gossip is malicious,<br />
demeaning, degrading and<br />
when taken to an extreme, harmful. It<br />
often begins with “Did you know…?”<br />
or “Have you heard…?” It spreads<br />
like wildfire. Gossip damages trust<br />
and morale. It distorts truth and people’s<br />
privacy is violated. Relationships<br />
are broken. Our community suffers<br />
great consequences from malicious<br />
gossip. Sadly, there is a pervasive<br />
mistrust among us as a result.<br />
We cannot change the community,<br />
though. Change begins with each one<br />
of us – to honor and respect the privacy<br />
of others and to have the courage<br />
to confront those situations we find<br />
ourselves in that involve gossip.<br />
Iklas J. Bashi is a Licensed Professional<br />
Counselor (LPC) and National<br />
Board Certified Counselor (NBCC),<br />
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Pope Benedict XVI receives bishops at the Middle East synod on October 13.<br />
Bishops Gather for<br />
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Bishops summoned to the Vatican for a Synod on the flight of<br />
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Christians, including their religious life since their access to<br />
holy sites is dependent on Israeli military permission.<br />
Pope Benedict XVI called the synod to try to encourage<br />
Christians in the largely Muslim region, where the Catholic<br />
Church has long been a minority and is shrinking as a result of<br />
war, conflict, discrimination and economic problems.<br />
In Iraq alone, Catholics represented 2.89 percent of the<br />
population in 1980; by 2008 they were just .89 percent. In Israel,<br />
home to important Christian holy sites, Catholics made up<br />
3.8 percent of the population in 1980; by 2008 they were just<br />
1.82 percent.<br />
About 185 bishops are taking part in the synod from Latin<br />
and Eastern rite Catholic churches across the region and from<br />
the Diaspora. Mar Ibrahim Ibrahim was among the attendees.<br />
In addition, two Muslim imams and a rabbi were invited.<br />
Patriarch Gregory III, archbishop of the Greek-Melkites<br />
in Damascus, Syria, said fundamentalist movements such as<br />
Hamas or Hezbollah had been born from the Israeli-Palestinian<br />
conflict and warned that the resulting flight of Christians would<br />
make a “society with only one color: only Muslim.”<br />
“Should this happen, should the East be emptied of its<br />
Christians, this would mean that any occasion would be propitious<br />
for a new clash of cultures, of civilizations and even of<br />
Photo by Gregorio Borgia/AP<br />
religions, a destructive clash between the Muslim<br />
Arab East and the Christian West,” he said.<br />
American Cardinal John Foley, a longtime<br />
Vatican official who now raises money to support<br />
Christian sites in the Holy Land, also said the conflict<br />
had contributed to the growth of Islamic fundamentalism<br />
but blamed Israeli policies specifically.<br />
“While many including the Holy See have suggested<br />
a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian<br />
crisis, the more time passes, the more difficult such<br />
a solution becomes, as the building of Israeli settlements<br />
and Israeli-controlled infrastructure in East<br />
Jerusalem and in other parts of the West Bank make<br />
increasingly difficult the development of a viable and<br />
integral Palestinian state,’’ he told the gathering.<br />
In comments to the Associated Press, Israeli<br />
foreign ministry spokesman Yigal Palmor contended<br />
that Israel is “the only country in the Middle East<br />
where the number of Christians has been constantly increasing<br />
over the years. In the Palestinian territories, the Christian<br />
population has dwindled over the years because of pressures<br />
by Islamic extremists. To ignore this key factor and to pretend<br />
that the Christian plight is one and the same across the region<br />
is to do a disservice to truth.”<br />
Upon opening the synod, Pope Benedict said the Catholic<br />
Church must be a “sign and instrument of unity and reconciliation.”<br />
He stressed that the meeting’s aim is mainly pastoral,<br />
even though it cannot ignore “the delicate, and, at times, dramatic<br />
social and political situation of several countries.’’<br />
The Archbishop of Kirkuk, Iraq, Mgr. Louis Sako, asked<br />
the faithful of his archdiocese to pray and fast on October 9<br />
for the successful outcome of the synod,<br />
“The Synod is very important for the Catholic Church in the<br />
Middle East and a unique opportunity of communion and solidarity<br />
among Christians, so they are not limited to mere survival,<br />
but instead become witnesses and a living presence,” he said.<br />
– Associated Press and Asia News<br />
Read more about the Synod on page 22.<br />
More Chaldeans<br />
Calling California Home<br />
Chaldeans are the fastest-growing refugee group in California’s<br />
San Diego County, according to the U.S. State Department.<br />
Many are concentrated in the city of El Cajon. “It is easy<br />
to notice how much the population in the area has changed,”<br />
said a report on 10 News. “Storefronts with signs in Arabic<br />
reflect a growing Iraqi influence.”<br />
In the last few years, 7,000 Chaldeans have moved to San<br />
Diego and another 4,000 are expected this year. El Cajon Valley<br />
High School has 200 extra students last year, the report said,<br />
noteworthy continued on page 14<br />
Refugees<br />
Regret Returning,<br />
Study Says<br />
A majority of Iraqi refugees who<br />
have returned from exile to Baghdad<br />
regret their decision, saying they<br />
face insecurity, a lack of jobs and inadequate<br />
health care, the United Nations<br />
refugee agency said in a report<br />
released last month.<br />
Reuters reports that 61 percent<br />
of those interviewed were sorry they<br />
had left Syria and Jordan, while one<br />
in three was unsure of staying in<br />
Iraq, according to its recently completed<br />
survey of 2,353 Iraqis who<br />
returned to the capital between<br />
2007 and 2008.<br />
Although many returnees said<br />
they had left their host countries because<br />
they could no longer afford<br />
the cost of living there, 87 percent<br />
said their income in Iraq was insufficient<br />
to cover their families’ needs.<br />
Separate polls of a total of<br />
3,500 Iraqi refugees living in Syria<br />
and Jordan, released on October 8,<br />
found most still reluctant to return<br />
home on a permanent basis, according<br />
to the UNHCR. Syria and<br />
Jordan host some 180,000 registered<br />
Iraqi refugees.<br />
The UNHCR does not promote<br />
returns to Iraq due to insecurity<br />
and its guidelines to all governments<br />
strongly recommend that<br />
Iraqis should not be sent home to<br />
five central provinces, including<br />
Baghdad, seen as too dangerous<br />
However, it helps refugees who<br />
voluntarily want to go home, providing<br />
them with transport costs and a<br />
small cash grant. Fewer than 3,000<br />
have taken up the offer since 2007,<br />
though many have returned without<br />
its support, Reuters reports.<br />
The UNHCR also said that it remained<br />
concerned by forced deportations<br />
of failed Iraqi asylum seekers<br />
from five countries in Europe (Britain,<br />
Denmark, Netherlands, Norway<br />
and Sweden). It knew of seven<br />
chartered flights, coordinated by<br />
the European Union border agency<br />
FRONTEX, believed to have flown<br />
several hundred Iraqis back to their<br />
homeland since June.<br />
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noteworthy<br />
noteworthy continued from page 13<br />
requiring it to hire six additional teachers, three for<br />
English as a second language.<br />
The report quoted Dr. Michael Bazzi of St.<br />
Peter’s Chaldean Catholic Church, who talked<br />
about how the community takes care of its own.<br />
“Since I have been here, 1985 to today, I challenge<br />
anyone to show me one Chaldean homeless,”<br />
he said.<br />
Refugees from Burma and Somalia are also resettling<br />
in the San Diego area.<br />
Denno Runs for MSU Board<br />
Dennis Denno is running for<br />
a seat on the Michigan State<br />
University Board of Trustees<br />
in the November 2 election.<br />
Denno, a Democrat whose<br />
parents are from Mosul, Iraq,<br />
said he learned his work ethic<br />
at the family grocery store. He<br />
is a graduate of Detroit Catholic<br />
Central, Michigan State<br />
University and the University<br />
of Michigan.<br />
Dennis Denno<br />
Denno is currently the chief of staff for Senate<br />
Democratic Floor Leader Buzz Thomas (D-Detroit).<br />
His said his priorities for MSU are making tuition affordable<br />
for all families and making sure that research<br />
dollars are creating jobs throughout Michigan.<br />
“We will have a voice at one of the largest and<br />
best research universities in America. Imagine the<br />
doors that could be opened within research, admissions,<br />
and scholarships if we have Dennis Denno on<br />
the board,” said a campaign statement encouraging<br />
the support of the Chaldean community. “His successful<br />
election to the MSU Board will also send a<br />
powerful message that our Iraqi Christian community<br />
is organized and able to elect one of our own to a<br />
statewide election and that we are a force that other<br />
politicians and both political parties need to listen to.”<br />
Learn more at www.dennisdenno.com or call<br />
(517) 402-2453.<br />
Mentors Needed<br />
Have an hour to spare each week? E’rootha’s Youth<br />
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tutoring/mentoring of Iraqi refugee youths in Walled<br />
Lake, Sterling Heights and Madison Heights.<br />
The refugee children have extremely low reading<br />
levels and struggle academically and socially,<br />
E’rootha said. Adjusting is a major challenge<br />
and they can easily be influenced in the wrong<br />
direction. Many have had to take on adult responsibilities<br />
at a young age due to war-widowed parents<br />
or war-separated families.<br />
Mentors commit themselves to one hour a<br />
week from November through May and must attend<br />
a mandatory training session before they may<br />
volunteer. Apply at www.erootha.org/youthapp.<br />
People<br />
Auday Arabo is the new president and CEO<br />
of the Associated Food & Petroleum Dealers.<br />
He was previously the group’s chief<br />
operating officer. He replaces Jane Shallal,<br />
who has retired. At attorney, Arabo is the<br />
former president of the Neighborhood Market<br />
Association in California.<br />
Iklas Bashi has opened a private practice<br />
called A Higher Way, LLC, in West<br />
Bloomfield. She has been a pioneer in<br />
helping break the stigma of mental health<br />
in the Chaldean community, beginning 10<br />
years ago with the Strengthening Chaldean<br />
Families Program, then acting as Clinical<br />
Therapist at the Arab-Chaldean Council’s<br />
Behavioral Health Program where she<br />
worked extensively with refugees and their<br />
families. Visit ahigherwayllc.com.<br />
John Hindo has been appointed to the<br />
Wayne County Building Authority Board of<br />
Directors for a term of five years. The Building<br />
Authority’s purpose is to acquire,<br />
furnish, operate and maintain all buildings<br />
servicing Wayne County. Hindo is a partner<br />
in the law firm of Mekani, Orow, Mekani,<br />
Shallal & Hindo, P.C., in Birmingham.<br />
Channelle Kizy-White has been recognized<br />
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Star for <strong>2010</strong>. She is an associate at Beals<br />
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Community Bulletin Board<br />
Check This Out<br />
Mimi Luljdjuraj and Richard Kallabat<br />
check out their favorite magazine during a<br />
recent visit to Czechoslovakia. During the<br />
trip, Richard proposed to Mimi while on<br />
a horse and carriage ride. They’re seen<br />
here at the Old Town Square in Prague.<br />
Kudos<br />
Dr. Nathima Atchoo was among the honorees at<br />
the Esteemed Women of Michigan Luncheon on<br />
September 27 at the Royal Park Hotel in Rochester.<br />
Atchoo, seen here with her daughter Fanar<br />
Wright, was named the 2009 Humanitarian<br />
of the Year by the Chaldean American Chamber<br />
of Commerce, she was cited for her volunteer<br />
work at the Gary Burnstein Community Health<br />
Clinic in Pontiac. She has been practicing<br />
medicine for more than 50 years. “Dr. Atchoo is<br />
loved and respected by all of us at the clinic,”<br />
said Volunteer Coordinator Pam Haratsis.<br />
Team Effort<br />
Thirty-eight members of the<br />
Chaldean American Chamber<br />
of Commerce walked five miles<br />
around Belle Isle on October<br />
9 in the annual Making Strides<br />
for Breast Cancer event. The<br />
team raised more than $5,400,<br />
putting it in fourth place. It’s<br />
not too late to make a donation;<br />
visit cancer.org/stridesonline<br />
and click on the Chaldean<br />
Chamber team page.<br />
News Maker<br />
Assyrian Diane Pathieu was the subject<br />
of a recent feature article on OnMilwaukee.com.<br />
The Chicago native is seen on<br />
TMJ4, where she is a news reporter and<br />
a midday anchor. Her native language<br />
is Assyrian, but Pathieu, who joined<br />
the Milwaukee station five years ago,<br />
has yet to find a way to work it<br />
into a newscast, the article noted.<br />
Touring Detroit<br />
One of the biggest misconceptions about Detroit is that it has no good grocery<br />
stores. Ask any Chaldean and they will tell you otherwise. They own about 90<br />
percent of the independent grocery stores in Detroit, including full-service grocery<br />
and gourmet stores.<br />
That myth was one of many that the Detroit Regional News Hub worked to<br />
dispel while hosting 37 reporters on a two-day tour of the Detroit region.<br />
“There’s no spin to this,” said Marjorie Sorge, executive director of the<br />
Detroit Regional News Hub, at one of the many events organized for reporters.<br />
“We’re showing people the good, the bad and the ugly. [But] it’s really a time to<br />
talk to the media locally and nationally about what we’re doing in the region to<br />
transform it. A lot of people don’t know all of the things that are happening here.”<br />
Have an item for the Bulletin Board? Send it to<br />
Chaldean News, 29850 Northwestern<br />
Highway, Southfield, MI 48034, or e-mail<br />
info@chaldeannews.com.<br />
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community events in and around metro detroit <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong><br />
[Wednesday, November 3]<br />
Chamber: The Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of Commerce holds its<br />
annual Business Conference. The<br />
keynote address is by Detroit Mayor<br />
Dave Bing. 11 a.m., Regency Manor in<br />
Southfield. Tickets are $50 members,<br />
$60 non-members. (248) 996-8340<br />
or lkalou@chaldeanchamber.com.<br />
[Wednesday, November 3]<br />
Shopping: The Chaldean American Ladies<br />
of Charity hold their annual Holiday<br />
Shopping Extravaganza. More than 50<br />
vendors will be at Shenandoah Country<br />
Club from 6-10 p.m. Tickets are $20<br />
and must be purchased in advance.<br />
(248) 538-8300 or (248) 939-6943.<br />
[Wednesday, November 3]<br />
Health: Annual Women’s Night Out<br />
educates women on staying healthy,<br />
with sessions on gynecology, depression,<br />
plastic surgery, incontinence,<br />
osteoporosis and varicose veins. $25<br />
includes strolling supper, cash bar and<br />
two breakout sessions. Presented by<br />
St. Joseph Mercy Oakland Hospital<br />
at the Auburn Hills Marriott-Pontiac at<br />
Centerpoint. (800) 372-6094.<br />
[Saturday, November 6]<br />
Expo: Annual Fall Consumers Expo<br />
from the Sterling Heights Regional<br />
Chamber of Commerce features<br />
exhibitors displaying their goods, giveaways<br />
and drawings. Free. 10 a.m.-3<br />
p.m., Warren Community Center<br />
Multi-Purpose Room, 5460 Arden.<br />
www.shrcci.com.<br />
[Wednesday, November 10]<br />
Chamber: Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of Commerce holds its<br />
annual elections for board of directors.<br />
The Quarterly Networking Meeting<br />
follows. Open to members only. 6<br />
p.m., Shenandoah Country Club.<br />
(248) 996-8340.<br />
[Friday, November 12]<br />
Fashion: St. Joseph Mercy Oakland<br />
presents “An Evening with Tracy<br />
Reese,” a benefit for the hospital’s<br />
Cancer Resource and Support<br />
Center, 6 p.m. at the Townsend Hotel<br />
in Birmingham. Features a reception,<br />
simple supper, program and informal<br />
modeling of the designer’s fashions by<br />
local community members. Tickets are<br />
$75-$150. (248) 858-6146.<br />
[Thursday, November 18]<br />
Awards: The Chaldean American Bar<br />
Association holds its Second Annual<br />
Honors Ceremony, honoring Karim Sarafa,<br />
Peter Mansour and Burt Kassab. 7<br />
p.m., Shenandoah Country Club. Tickets<br />
are $40 and include dinner. A portion of<br />
proceeds benefits the Chaldean Federation<br />
of America. Derek Dickow, (248)<br />
521-2900 or derekdickow@hotmail.com.<br />
[Thursday, November 18]<br />
Safety: Cyber Safety is a free<br />
seminar about how to protect your<br />
family, yourself and your integrity<br />
online. 7-9 p.m., Handelman Hall<br />
of the D. Dan and Betty Kahn<br />
Jewish Community Center in West<br />
Bloomfield. (248) 432-5411 or<br />
sbraunstein@hermelinort.org.<br />
[Friday, November 19]<br />
Christmas: Detroit Aglow, the annual<br />
lighting of Detroit’s official Christmas<br />
tree, begins at 5 p.m. at Campus<br />
Martius Park, 800 Woodward Avenue.<br />
www.campusmartiuspark.org.<br />
[Monday, November 22]<br />
Shenandoah: General membership<br />
meeting for members of Shenandoah<br />
Country Club takes place in the ballroom.<br />
(248) 683-6363.<br />
[Thursday, November 25]<br />
Parade: Detroit’s 84th annual<br />
Thanksgiving Parade has the theme<br />
“Celebrate the Spirit.” Step off is at<br />
9:20 a.m. on Woodward and Mack;<br />
the parade ends at Congress.<br />
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Freddie Nicholas<br />
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Dominic Basil<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 21
RELIGION<br />
The strange message from Mar Delly<br />
By Robert Moynihan<br />
An old, white-bearded man<br />
walked out of the Synod aula<br />
and down the wide, sloping<br />
steps toward the waiting cars and buses,<br />
his long robe sweeping the square<br />
grey Vatican City cobblestones. He<br />
quickly left behind the light of the<br />
Paul VI Audience Hall entranceway<br />
and began to be engulfed by the darkening<br />
Roman evening. It was 6:30<br />
p.m. on October 23.<br />
The man was His Beatitude Cardinal<br />
Emmanuel III Delly, the 83-<br />
year-old Patriarch of the Chaldean<br />
Church in Iraq.<br />
I’d been hoping to meet him. I<br />
turned to a fellow journalist who was<br />
waiting with me by the entrance to<br />
the Paul VI audience hall, and said,<br />
“That’s Patriarch Delly, isn’t it?” The<br />
journalist nodded.<br />
Mar Delly was already heading for<br />
the bus that would carry him and other<br />
Synod Fathers to their residence,<br />
so I hurried to catch up to him. He<br />
was walking with a taller man who<br />
appeared to be his personal secretary.<br />
“Your Eminence,” I said. “Could I<br />
have a word with you….”<br />
“Yes?” said Delly, stopping and<br />
looking at me quizzically. “Go ahead.”<br />
He seemed to me quite young for his<br />
83 years, and when I held out my<br />
hand to shake his, his grip was unexpectedly<br />
firm.<br />
He was about five foot eight, not<br />
a physically imposing man, but there<br />
was an energy in his gaze which surprised<br />
me. I had expected that, from<br />
close up, he might look old and weary,<br />
but he looked energetic and in<br />
good health.<br />
I told him who I was and that I<br />
was writing on the Vatican and the<br />
Synod. He was silent and, it seemed,<br />
somewhat cold.<br />
“And I wanted to ask you about<br />
the remarks you made the other<br />
night....”<br />
“I have nothing more to say,” he<br />
said. “What I had to say, I said to the<br />
Synod. I’m sorry.”<br />
A political murder?<br />
I left Patriarch Delly and walked<br />
back to the entrance of the Synod<br />
hall. There, purely by chance, I ran<br />
into another prelate who has left his<br />
mark on this two-week Synod: Archbishop<br />
Ruggero Franceschini, an<br />
Italian Franciscan who is the successor<br />
of the slain Italian Bishop Luigi<br />
Padovese as vicar of Anatolia.<br />
Last Friday Archbishop Franceschini<br />
spoke to the Synod — the<br />
same afternoon as Mar Delly.<br />
“May I ask you about your talk?”<br />
I said.<br />
“Sure,” he said.<br />
“You have a theory about Bishop<br />
Padovese and his murder last June,<br />
right?”<br />
“Yes,” Franceschini replied. “I<br />
believe it was premeditated murder<br />
arranged by ultra-nationalists and<br />
religious fanatics who do not want<br />
Turkey to enter Europe.”<br />
Bishop Padovese’s driver,<br />
Murat Altun, 26, who<br />
had been in his employ for<br />
many years, shot him to<br />
death in June.<br />
“He claimed the reason<br />
for the killing was a<br />
homosexual relationship<br />
he had with the Bishop,”<br />
Archbishop Franceschini<br />
said. “But it seems that immediately<br />
after the murder<br />
he shouted ‘Allah akbar! I<br />
killed the great Satan.’”<br />
At the time, the Vatican<br />
and Turkish government<br />
stuck to the hypothesis that<br />
the killing took place for<br />
“personal reasons” excluding<br />
the possibility of a religious<br />
or political motive.<br />
“I had a terrible time<br />
with the Secretariat of<br />
State,” the Franciscan bishop said.<br />
“They wanted only the version of the<br />
nuncio, that it was an entirely personal<br />
matter, but it was not.”<br />
As we stood there, many of the<br />
Synod Fathers walked past us: Cardinal<br />
Mahoney of Los Angeles, Cardinal<br />
Levada of the Congregation for the<br />
Doctrone of the Faith, Cardinal Tauran<br />
of Inter-religious Dialohgue, Cardinaldesignate<br />
Burke, and many others.<br />
“And what did you think of Patriarch<br />
Delly’s talk?” I asked.<br />
“I disagreed with it,” he said. “But<br />
he must have his reasons for saying<br />
what he said,” Archbishop Franceschini<br />
said. “We don’t know all his<br />
reasons.”<br />
“Well, they say someone got up in<br />
the Synod Hall right after he spoke,<br />
and was weeping and saying, ‘Why<br />
are you saying these things?’”<br />
“No, no,” Archbishop Franceschini<br />
said, “That’s not what happened.<br />
I spoke before Patriarch Delly.<br />
And I was the one who wept. But it<br />
was about the murder of Monsignor<br />
Padovese...”<br />
Once More, the Facts<br />
The Chaldean Church inside Iraq<br />
has shrunk in number from 1.5 million<br />
to less than 500,000 over the<br />
past seven years.<br />
Patriarch Delly, the leader of the<br />
Catholic Chaldeans, has in recent<br />
years often cried out publicly that his<br />
people are suffering a “Calvary” and<br />
Mar Delly’s remarks at the Synod raised eyebrows.<br />
need help from the rest of the world.<br />
“The world has forgotten Iraq’s<br />
Christians,” Patriarch Delly said four<br />
years go, on October 16, 2006, following<br />
the murder of his friend, Fr.<br />
Paulos Eskandar. Mar Delly said the<br />
indifference of the international community<br />
threatened the very existence<br />
of Christians in the Middle East.<br />
“There is the danger that the<br />
Middle East, the blessed land of God,<br />
will be emptied of its Christian presence,”<br />
he said then. “Already 80 percent<br />
have gone away.”<br />
Then on October 15, Mar Delly<br />
asked for time to make some remarks<br />
to the Synod, and he was granted the<br />
time.<br />
When he spoke, he said almost<br />
exactly the opposite of what he had<br />
been saying for seven years. Addressing<br />
the assembled bishops without a<br />
prepared text, this is what he said (it<br />
is a translation, because he spoke in<br />
Italian). I’m printing this again here<br />
because I cannot make the argument<br />
for the strangeness of this text without<br />
having it here to study:<br />
“Many people want to hear something<br />
about Iraq that today occupies<br />
an important position in the Middle<br />
East, a position that is a little bit, if<br />
I say, exaggerated: I sincerely thank<br />
all those who have spoken about<br />
Iraq in this hall and have shown<br />
their sympathy for this country that<br />
is the cradle of Christians and especially<br />
the cradle of the Chaldean<br />
Church, the Eastern Church in the<br />
Persian Empire, and as of today, 78<br />
percent of Mesopotamian Christians<br />
are Chaldean Catholics. The<br />
population of this country,<br />
crossed by two famous rivers,<br />
the Tigris and the Euphrates,<br />
is 24 million, all<br />
Muslims, with whom we<br />
live peacefully and freely.<br />
In Baghdad alone, the capital<br />
of Iraq, Christians have<br />
53 chapels and churches.<br />
The Chaldeans have more<br />
than seven dioceses in the<br />
country, the Patriarch of<br />
the Chaldean Church lives<br />
today in Baghdad.<br />
“Christians are good with<br />
their fellow Muslims and<br />
in Iraq there is mutual respect<br />
among them. Christian<br />
schools are highly thought of.<br />
Today people prefer to attend<br />
these schools directed by the<br />
Christian institutions, especially<br />
those run by the religious<br />
orders.<br />
“Despite all the political and religious<br />
situations, and emigration, we<br />
now have nearly one million Christians<br />
in Iraq out of 25 million Muslims.<br />
We have the freedom of religion<br />
in our Churches. The Bishop or<br />
Priest, religious leader is listened to<br />
and respected by his fellow citizens.<br />
We have our own seminary, and<br />
Chaldean monks and nuns and religious.”<br />
(End of Mar Delly’s remarks.)<br />
In these paragraphs, there is no<br />
mention at all of the suffering of<br />
Iraq’s Christians. Mar Delly in this<br />
text is describing a country, seemingly,<br />
at peace.<br />
I have bold-faced the words which<br />
seem optimistic, positive, hopeful,<br />
and put in a few notes after Patriarch<br />
Delly’s phrases:<br />
synod continued on page 42<br />
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obituaries<br />
Rudy Najor Huhn and Robert J. Huhn<br />
Mother and son die a day apart<br />
Rudy Najor Huhn was born in Detroit<br />
on October 15, 1936, the only daughter<br />
of one of the original Chaldean pioneer<br />
leaders, Jack Najor, and his wife, Dorothy.<br />
She grew up with her two brothers,<br />
Raymond and Richard, on Boston Boulevard<br />
in Detroit and attended Blessed<br />
Sacrament Cathedral Catholic School.<br />
Later, Jack Najor moved his family to<br />
what was then considered a distant suburb,<br />
Birmingham, and she graduated<br />
from Birmingham High School (now<br />
known as Seaholm) in 1954. She also Rudy Najor Huhn<br />
attended Highland Park Junior College.<br />
Ruby embraced both her father’s<br />
Chaldean culture and her mother’s American<br />
culture. She was truly bicultural;<br />
she embodied the best of both cultures.<br />
She had a zest for life and participated in<br />
many Chaldean festivities and everyone<br />
enjoyed her graceful dancing to the traditional<br />
Chaldean music. Ruby also loved<br />
singing, entertaining and being around<br />
her many cherished Chaldean friends.<br />
She was an ardent, supportive member<br />
of the first generation of Chaldean-American<br />
youth born during the Great Depres-<br />
Robert J. Huhn<br />
sion of the 1930s, raised during World War II of the 1940s, and the<br />
booming postwar era of the 1950s at a time when the core Chaldean<br />
community was just beginning to gel. Ruby was an icon, a role model<br />
and well loved by that first generation of Chaldean-Americans.<br />
Ruby was a pivotal figure in the establishment of the first Chaldean<br />
Youth Club in the mid 1950s, helping plan many fun-filled,<br />
wholesome, parent-approved activities for the Chaldean teenagers<br />
and young adults. Her enthusiasm and initiative helped solidify<br />
the Chaldean-American identity of our growing young community,<br />
which was successfully melding the traditional moral values of their<br />
parents with the more modern customs of the American environment<br />
in which they were living.<br />
Ruby was also active in the Chaldean Ladies of Charity in its<br />
early years and served as a former president of that worthy organization.<br />
Her youthful vitality and her devotion and love for her<br />
Chaldean community persisted throughout her life.<br />
In addition to her radiant physical beauty, Ruby was blessed with a<br />
kind and generous heart. She never uttered a mean word to or about<br />
anyone. She always saw the good in others. She was loved and esteemed<br />
by all who knew her for her grace and gentleness, especially<br />
by her close-knit Chaldean friends with whom she continued to maintain<br />
a lasting relationship throughout her lifetime.<br />
At age 22, Ruby married Robert Huhn, and they raised two<br />
children, Lisa and Robbie. Ruby and Bob had a very happy, loving<br />
marriage that lasted more than 52 years. However, Ruby also<br />
bore grave personal tragedy in her family with great courage. She<br />
and her husband lost their beloved daughter, Lisa, to cancer in<br />
2009. Their son, Robbie, had been diagnosed with juvenile diabetes<br />
at the tender age of 6, and all the complications of this disease<br />
plagued him throughout his lifetime. He withstood the pain and<br />
discomfort of peripheral neuropathy, dialysis, a kidney transplant<br />
donated by his loving father, was legally blind, and suffered the loss<br />
of both his legs. Robbie endured his calamity with immense fortitude<br />
and a sense of humor. Sadly, he passed away on September<br />
19, <strong>2010</strong>. His mother, Ruby, tragically lost her battle with leukemia<br />
the very next day on September 20, <strong>2010</strong>. She will be truly missed<br />
by all who knew her and were touched by her life.<br />
Ruby Hahn leaves behind her beloved husband, Robert; her<br />
brother, Richard; three granddaughters from Lisa: Christiana, Jacqueline<br />
and Monica; four grandsons from Robbie: Noah, Christian,<br />
Brandon and Dominic; and two great grandsons from Christian.<br />
– Josephine Saroki Sarafa<br />
Marjeunta Nafso<br />
Marjeunta Nafso was born on May 06,<br />
1930, and passed away on October 10,<br />
<strong>2010</strong>.<br />
Allow me to tell you the story of our<br />
mother. Let time take us back 80 years,<br />
when a beautiful girl with bright blue<br />
eyes was born to two humble parents.<br />
She was truly the light of their lives,<br />
just as she was for her sister and two<br />
brothers, who loved and cared for her<br />
so much.<br />
That little girl grew up and her beauty<br />
grew with her. When she was 12 Marjeunta Nafso<br />
years old, a wonderful and handsome<br />
man saw her, and God wanted them for each other. Time passed<br />
and she became the mother of eight children. She gave them<br />
her whole life and she gave them all the love that existed in the<br />
world. She taught them to love and not to hate. She taught them<br />
to forgive and not to hold grudges. She would always say that<br />
the lower land brings the better fruit, teaching her children to be<br />
humble and forgiving. She taught them to live holy lives and to be<br />
good role models for each other. She succeeded in bringing her<br />
children along this virtuous path. She never stopped praying to<br />
God and God always answered her prayers.<br />
Many years passed and she was blessed with sons-in-law<br />
and daughters-in-law, as well as 32 grandchildren. Those grandchildren<br />
became beautiful young men and women. She instilled<br />
in them valuable morals on how to be righteous and honorable<br />
people. She loved them with all her heart and that love grew in<br />
them so that they could pass it on to their children, just as their<br />
parents had passed it on to them.<br />
Time passed on and there were good times as well as bad<br />
times. God wanted her to carry a cross that would make her even<br />
stronger. Her greatest suffering came when God took the eldest<br />
of her children. She offered that suffering to Jesus and her suffering<br />
continued in many different ways, until the day that God<br />
wanted her to be with Him, and she carried her cross to the end.<br />
In a very short period of time, He transferred her comfortably and<br />
with great honor. Being surrounded by her family and hearing<br />
their prayers, she transferred in the most peaceful way. That was<br />
our mother, Marjeunta. Her name was as beautiful as she was.<br />
My dear mother, rest in peace and do not worry about us,<br />
especially Thair. You and Baba used to worry about Thair and<br />
Masoud so much. We used to joke with you saying, “You love<br />
the boys more than you love us.” You would always laugh and<br />
reply, “There’s no difference between any of you and I love you<br />
all the same.”<br />
Nana, we are all here with you: your children and grandchildren,<br />
who are very proud and thankful that you were their mother;<br />
your sons-in-law and daughters-in-law, whom you loved deeply,<br />
and they loved and honored you in return; your dear brother, who<br />
has always had a special place for you in his heart; your nieces<br />
and nephews, who were so thankful to have such a wonderful<br />
aunt; all of your relatives, who will never forget what a kind and<br />
loving person you were to them; and your friends, who will never<br />
forget the true friendships you shared with them. We all tell you<br />
to rest in peace and we ask that you pray for all of us, especially<br />
your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, so that they can follow<br />
the same path that you helped us to follow.<br />
Dear mother, the love of our lives, go on your journey<br />
happily. You will be together again with Baba, Masoud, Miaad,<br />
your brother and sister, your mom and dad, and the angelic baby<br />
girl that you lost too soon, Firyal. They are all anxiously waiting for<br />
you with their hugs and kisses.<br />
Marjeunta Nafso is survived by her late husband, Aziz Nafso, and<br />
their children, the late Masoud (Ahlam) Nafso, Thair (Stephanie) Nafso,<br />
Suad (Adel) Hilanto, Suhaila Nafso, Faiza (Thamir) Nafso, Maysoon<br />
(Wadie) Kassab, Khilood (Yass) Kashat, and Wiaam (Raad) Samona.<br />
Rest in peace.<br />
– Khilood Kashat<br />
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ECONOMICS & enterprise<br />
PHOTO BY DAVID REED<br />
Ouse Gulli at<br />
the new Detroit<br />
location of CK<br />
Mediterranean<br />
Grille.<br />
Full steam ahead: CK Mediterranean takes off<br />
By Crystal Kassab Jabiro<br />
When the Gulli family built a gas station<br />
on the corner of 12 Mile and<br />
Coolidge in Berkley, they set aside<br />
1,000 square feet where they could one day open<br />
an eatery. After considering franchise options,<br />
they decided to give customers a taste of the<br />
Mediterranean food to which they were accustomed.<br />
Several years later, business is soaring.<br />
It did not come easy. For a year prior, Ouse,<br />
the oldest of the brothers, toiled under the head<br />
chef at Al-Oumara in West Bloomfield, who<br />
taught him how to prepare and cook Middle<br />
Eastern fare. In 2003, the Gulli family opened<br />
Mr. Kabob at their gas station. Business was<br />
moderate, though the mom, Fadia, kept tweaking<br />
to bring the food to another level.<br />
Then the Detroit Free Press named it a “Best<br />
of Detroit” restaurant in 2004, and the media<br />
attention sparked diners’ interests. Fox 2 News<br />
even invited the Gullis to cook live on their<br />
broadcast, and the clan was inspired to expand<br />
their business.<br />
“We wanted to make Mediterranean cuisine<br />
part of the mainstream,” said Ouse. “You<br />
can find a Chinese or Mexican restaurant<br />
anywhere, but you can’t always find Mediterranean.”<br />
In 2008, the family opened Café Kabob<br />
in Southfield, and a year later, they created a<br />
franchise for the fast-casual market and trademarked<br />
their official name as CK (for Café Kabob)<br />
Mediterranean Grille & Catering. This<br />
past July, their first franchised restaurant opened<br />
in San Diego. In August, they opened in downtown<br />
Detroit on the perimeter of the Compuware<br />
building, where they serve 200 people an<br />
hour during the lunchtime rush.<br />
Ouse, who maintains he could have never<br />
done it alone, enjoys this partnership with not<br />
only his own family, but also with his cousins,<br />
the Kenayas. Together, they wanted to create<br />
a relaxed, family-friendly atmosphere<br />
where customers could see their food<br />
freshly made and then pick it up at the<br />
end of the counter. They also wanted<br />
their patrons to serve themselves drinks<br />
and even be able to watch television on<br />
one of several hanging plasmas. The<br />
entrepreneurs did not want them to feel intimidated<br />
by pictures of camels, fake palm trees<br />
and Arabic music, or even worry about leaving<br />
a tip. They hoped that eating Mediterranean<br />
food would just be natural. The company offers<br />
catering from five to 500 people from everything<br />
from business meetings to weddings.<br />
“We have an international concept,”<br />
Ouse said. “We can take this not only to<br />
other states, but other countries, like Canada,<br />
Europe and even the Middle East.”<br />
While there are many Mediterranean restaurants<br />
in the Metro Detroit area, Ouse believes<br />
their food surpasses others because of<br />
their fusion of Lebanese recipes with a Chaldean<br />
flair. All ingredients are fresh, never<br />
frozen, and there are no additives or preservatives.<br />
The prices are pleasing too; nothing<br />
costs more than $15, and that is for the Steak<br />
Kabob dinner, cooked to order from an 8- to<br />
10-ounce filet mignon.<br />
The company is pursuing other locations<br />
“We wanted to make Mediterranean<br />
cuisine part of the mainstream.”<br />
in Michigan and California, and is in discussions<br />
with interested restaurateurs in Arizona,<br />
Florida, Illinois and Texas. Potential investors<br />
are encouraged to browse franchise opportunities<br />
on their website, www.ckgrille.com.<br />
Ouse said working 80 to100 hours a week<br />
is worth it.<br />
“If I didn’t dream big, I’d still be in the gas<br />
station,” he said. “Anything can be done when<br />
you put your mind to it.”<br />
– Ouse Gulli<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 27
four for the ages<br />
Elders share their experiences and expectations<br />
By Mike Sarafa<br />
They have been in this country<br />
longer than most living Chaldeans.<br />
They lived through the<br />
Great Depression and two world wars<br />
and have seen 10 U.S. presidents<br />
come and go. They have watched<br />
the Chaldean community in Michigan<br />
grow from a couple hundred to<br />
more than 120,000 people. They are<br />
living witnesses to the fits, changes,<br />
successes and failures that have come<br />
with that growth.<br />
The Chaldean News recently sat<br />
down with Norma Hakim, Dr. Jamil<br />
Antone, Salim Shamoun and Jamil<br />
“Jimmy” Jonna to hear their insights<br />
on a range of topics. All are in their<br />
mid 80s and have been in the U.S.<br />
for six to eight decades.<br />
Here are some highlights from<br />
the roundtable discussion.<br />
On Change in the United States<br />
“The culture and attitudes have<br />
changed a lot,” said Shamoun.<br />
“When I first came to this country,<br />
there was not even one Chaldean on<br />
welfare. Today people expect something<br />
for nothing.”<br />
“Salim and I came in the same<br />
year [1949],” said Jonna. “There were<br />
only 60 families at the time within<br />
10 square miles. We all worked in<br />
the grocery business and had the entrepreneurial<br />
spirit. The old timers<br />
provided us with the chance and we<br />
took advantage of it.”<br />
“Our way of life is different,”<br />
added Hakim. “Life was much simpler<br />
back then. Today is different, we<br />
have different expectations. But our<br />
quality of life is better too. When I<br />
first came to this country, we had no<br />
refrigeration, no electricity and no<br />
gas.”<br />
“I have seen a big change in the<br />
education of our children,” said Antone,<br />
a retired educator. “Kids are<br />
smarter, better leaders. We have more<br />
and more graduates from the professions.<br />
Before, a college degree was<br />
very rare. Now it has mushroomed.”<br />
On Iraq<br />
“In my time working at Iraqi Petroleum,<br />
everybody got along,” said<br />
Shamoun. “There was no Muslim<br />
and no Christian, no hate.”<br />
Dr. Anton agreed. “As a young<br />
teacher, I was selected and promoted<br />
to a supervisory position in the education<br />
system, which included supervising<br />
Muslim teachers and students<br />
and even the teaching of Islam.”<br />
Norma Hakim has been here the<br />
longest amongst the four, immigrating<br />
more than 73 years ago. “Well, I<br />
don’t miss it to tell you the truth. It’s<br />
been so many years.”<br />
Jonna agreed. He had operated a<br />
hotel, restaurant and liquor store in<br />
Baghdad. “When they started cracking<br />
down on liquor licenses, I ran out<br />
of there as fast as I could. I love this<br />
country [America] more than anything<br />
in my life, including Iraq.”<br />
On the Future of<br />
Chaldeans in Iraq<br />
Most agreed that the future for Chaldeans<br />
in Iraq is bleak. “Not now,”<br />
said Shamoun. “How can they have<br />
a chance? Telkapa’s gone.”<br />
“It’s very bad,” said Hakim. “There’s<br />
not any Chaldeans left [in Telkaif].”<br />
“Maybe in the north near the<br />
Kurds,” said Jonna. ‘There are still a<br />
lot of Chaldean people there and they<br />
need to have a chance somewhere.”<br />
Antone took a longer view. “I<br />
think there should be [a future]. This<br />
is our home. We are the historical<br />
people of that land. The first priority<br />
belongs to us.”<br />
On Assimilating<br />
into American Culture<br />
“Everyone tells me I never change,”<br />
said Shamoun. “That’s the way I<br />
like it. I’m old fashion. [On another<br />
note], gambling has caused a lot of<br />
damage. People lose their money,<br />
their store, their house, their wife.”<br />
“One thing I’ve noticed,” said<br />
Antone, “when I was living in Basra,<br />
we never saw divorce or separation.<br />
Some people are following the<br />
American way of life and we are losing<br />
our culture.”<br />
Hakim thinks things have<br />
changed dramatically due to the<br />
population numbers. “My brotherin-law<br />
used to say ‘don’t let too many<br />
[Chaldeans] in.’”<br />
Jonna was more philosophical.<br />
28 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
From left:<br />
Salim Shamoun<br />
said he worked<br />
“eight days a week<br />
for 25 cents an<br />
hour” when he first<br />
came to Michigan.<br />
“It’s better here,”<br />
says Norma Hakim,<br />
who came to the<br />
United States in<br />
1937.<br />
Jamil “Jimmy”<br />
Jonna was named<br />
Business Person<br />
of the Year by the<br />
Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of<br />
Commerce in 2006.<br />
Dr. Jamil Antone,<br />
who has a doctorate<br />
from Wayne<br />
State University,<br />
put two younger<br />
brothers through<br />
college.<br />
Photos by David Reed<br />
“People have to adapt. Young people<br />
have their own ways. Things<br />
change every 10 years, so I’ve seen<br />
six changes. Things are more open<br />
now. They don’t close their eyes the<br />
way we did.”<br />
On Today’s Economy<br />
and President Obama<br />
Hakim keeps things in perspective.<br />
“When I first came here,” she said.<br />
“Things were pretty tough. So, even<br />
the last two years don’t seem so bad.”<br />
The others weren’t so sure.<br />
“Chaldeans have improved every<br />
year since I’ve been here until now.<br />
Now is the worst time,” said Shamoun.<br />
Antone looked back to the<br />
last presidential election. “We were<br />
promised change,” he said, “but it<br />
seems it’s not for the better.”<br />
“The American economy is like<br />
a rollercoaster,” said Jonna. “Things<br />
were up and down through the ‘70s,<br />
‘80s and ‘90s, but <strong>2010</strong> is the worst<br />
I’ve ever seen.” But, he said, things<br />
will improve. “Americans are the<br />
most intelligent people in the world.<br />
I was happy when Obama won because<br />
it was historic but he has to<br />
learn on the job.”<br />
“Who’s going to teach him?”<br />
piped up Shamoun.<br />
“It seems his administration is failing,”<br />
added Antone. “All the indicators<br />
are moving in the wrong direction.”<br />
What’s your advice<br />
for young people?<br />
Norma Hakim: “There’s a saying in Chaldean — ‘when you go to<br />
buy a dress, make sure it’s not too long or you’ll trip.’ In other words,<br />
live within your means.”<br />
Jamil Antone: “If you don’t have it, don’t do it. Invest in education<br />
and graduate. It will improve your life.”<br />
Jamil Jonna: “There’s another good saying: ‘If you’re covered with<br />
a blanket, don’t stick your foot out because you will get cold.’ In other<br />
words, don’t expect more than is available. And keep going to college.”<br />
Salim Shamoun: “Work hard. Stay out of trouble. Unite more.”<br />
“And he’s spending money we<br />
don’t have,” said Hakim.<br />
Shamoun agreed. “He hasn’t<br />
done anything right.”<br />
On Social Issues<br />
“When you get married, you marry<br />
the whole family,” said Antone.<br />
Shamoun put it more bluntly. “If<br />
you don’t marry one of your kind,<br />
you’re in trouble.”<br />
Hakim disagreed. “No, that’s not<br />
how it is anymore,” she said. “There<br />
are a lot of nice American people.”<br />
Jonna concurred. “My kids<br />
married a Greek, an Armenian, an<br />
American, a Dutch and a Palestinian.<br />
They’re all great.”<br />
All four agreed about the pitfalls<br />
of materialism.<br />
“Today, people struggle to keep<br />
their honor,” Antone said. “They<br />
have to keep up with others with<br />
no regard to legality or ethics. They<br />
get into drugs, crime and even killing<br />
over money, and want to be rich<br />
no matter what. In a materialistic society<br />
like the United States, this is<br />
expected.”<br />
Jonna agreed. “People live above<br />
their means and that’s how they get<br />
in trouble.”<br />
Shamoun believes that the parents<br />
must do a better job in this regard.<br />
“These things can be [impacted]<br />
by the mother and father.”<br />
On Community Organizations<br />
This group of pioneers has watched<br />
the community not only grow, but<br />
organize. Shamoun and Jonna were<br />
both around when the first money<br />
was raised to build Southfield Manor,<br />
the precursor to Shenandoah Country<br />
Club. “Now we have the most<br />
beautiful community organization<br />
and club in the state,” said Jonna,<br />
one of the original co-founders of the<br />
Chaldean Iraqi American Association<br />
of Michigan.<br />
Hakim was one of the founders<br />
of the Chaldean American Ladies of<br />
Charity and has watched its progress<br />
for more than 40 years. “I’m very<br />
proud of them,” she said.<br />
For years, Antone led the education<br />
efforts for the Chaldean Federation<br />
of America and presided over<br />
the annual Chaldean Commencement<br />
ceremony.<br />
Said Jonna, “Our organizations<br />
are excellent. Everybody has gotten<br />
together to work for the community.<br />
We have the best organizations starting<br />
with Shenandoah.”<br />
But all agreed that more unity in<br />
the community is needed. “There<br />
are so many problems that require<br />
good leadership to bring the people<br />
together,” said Antone.<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29
giving thanks<br />
Feeling gratitude brings a healthier and happier life<br />
By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />
When we receive gifts<br />
or kind words we are<br />
taught to say thank you,<br />
showing gratitude.<br />
The essence of Christianity is<br />
knowing that life is a gift from God.<br />
As Psalm 75 says, “As believers in<br />
God almighty, we know that all that<br />
we are and all that we have is a gift<br />
from God. We give thanks to God for<br />
the gift of life itself, for the gift of creation<br />
that speaks of His wonders.”<br />
Although Americans celebrate<br />
Thanksgiving as a national holiday,<br />
giving thanks is a prominent practice<br />
in Christianity. And Thanksgiving<br />
is the time of the year Americans<br />
tend to reflect on the goodness life<br />
offers. “Gratitude begins with what<br />
you have and being content with it,”<br />
said Fr. Frank Kalabat, pastor of St.<br />
Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church<br />
in West Bloomfield. “Not to say that<br />
one cannot petition the Lord, but unfortunately<br />
many of us only petition<br />
and refuse to see what we have.”<br />
Quoting from Philipians 2, Fr.<br />
Frank continued, “What we have is<br />
an awesome God who loves me and<br />
you to death, even death on a cross.<br />
When we begin with Him, then I<br />
can truly fall in love with Him, and<br />
out of that conviction, I see Him as<br />
He is, and then my heart moves to<br />
say, ‘Thank you ... I love You ... I give<br />
You my all because You deserve it<br />
and much more!’<br />
“Therefore, ‘Give thanks to the<br />
Lord for He is good, for His mercy endures<br />
forever,’” continued Fr. Frank,<br />
quoting from Psalm 136. “This giving<br />
thanks comes from a personal<br />
encounter with God, first by seeing<br />
Him as He is ‘Good’ and then seeing<br />
His many gifts in creation and in my<br />
personal life. ‘For His mercy endures<br />
forever.’”<br />
In recent years, there have been<br />
research studies, books and talk show<br />
topics focused on this concept of<br />
gratitude. However, religious leaders,<br />
philosophers and psychologists have<br />
long embraced gratitude as a way to<br />
manifest a healthy and balanced life.<br />
“Gratitude can make the difference<br />
between success and failure,” said clinical<br />
psychologist Rhonda (George)<br />
Laurencelle, Ph.D., who works with<br />
recently laid-off executives on a daily<br />
basis. She explained that those unemployed<br />
people who can look their previous<br />
employers in the eye and thank<br />
them for the opportunity to be a part<br />
of their company have a much greater<br />
chance of finding employment. “Not<br />
only is gratitude great for the soul,<br />
people want to help those who express<br />
gratitude. We are psychologically<br />
pulled to them as if our psyche is<br />
searching and trying to connect with<br />
those with healthy minds and hearts,”<br />
said Laurencelle.<br />
“Without gratitude, we just expect<br />
everything and tend to have<br />
a sense of entitlement,” said Iklas<br />
Bashi, a licensed professional counselor.<br />
“Being grateful is important<br />
because we choose to see and nurture<br />
the gifts God bestows on us, out of<br />
His goodness and love for us. Give<br />
back to the people who have cared<br />
for and supported you. Authentic<br />
happiness is a byproduct of cultivating<br />
gratitude in our life.”<br />
This practice of expressing gratitude<br />
is becoming a common in our<br />
culture today with an increase of<br />
books on the issue published every<br />
year. “Any faith book easily translates<br />
into a book of gratitude because<br />
when we explore our faith, it is a natural<br />
expression of our growing faith<br />
to be grateful,” said Cheryl Dickow,<br />
publisher of Bezalel Books in Waterford.<br />
“We understand the value of<br />
our lives, the graces we’ve been given<br />
and the mercy we’ve been shown.<br />
Living in faith will always translate<br />
into living in gratitude.”<br />
Studies and research show that<br />
there are tremendous benefits to the<br />
practice of showing gratitude. Many<br />
experts recommend ending your day<br />
by writing in a journal five things you<br />
are grateful for that day. A Miami<br />
University study on the subject of<br />
gratitude and Thanksgiving showed<br />
that participants who kept gratitude<br />
lists were more likely to have made<br />
progress toward important personal<br />
goals such as academic, interpersonal<br />
and health-based goals over a<br />
two-month period.<br />
The recent economic downturn<br />
in our country has given people a<br />
different perspective on life. The experts<br />
in this area say there is no better<br />
time to focus on the good then when<br />
negative things seem to be happening<br />
around us. “We begin to develop<br />
a deep appreciation and gratitude for<br />
the basics — food, water, shelter —<br />
things that many of us have taken for<br />
granted,” said Laurencelle. “These<br />
situations often bring people closer<br />
to God and, in fact, some scholars<br />
believe that human beings are internally<br />
wired to search for a higher<br />
power to guide them through these<br />
situations.”<br />
“Western culture has tipped the<br />
scale in monstrous propositions<br />
when it comes to materialism, and<br />
Chaldeans are right there at the head<br />
of the line,” said Bashi. “We have an<br />
excess of everything and no matter<br />
how much stuff we acquire, we<br />
cannot seem to be fulfilled. We are<br />
seeped in gluttony. Gratitude is a hot<br />
topic because there’s a huge need for<br />
it in our culture.”<br />
There are several ways to practice<br />
daily gratitude expressions. With her<br />
clients, Bashi has created the “values<br />
inventory,” asking them to identify<br />
everything in life they value. “Most<br />
of the time, people realize there’s a<br />
lot they take for granted like their<br />
spouse, children and leisure time,”<br />
said Bashi. She also recommends that<br />
people write down the top 10 things<br />
they take for granted. “It is not a ‘to<br />
do’ list. It is a ‘to be’ list.”<br />
Using St. Therese of Lisieux as an<br />
example, Laurencelle reminds people<br />
to be grateful for the little things, as<br />
well as public service. “Think about<br />
bringing joy to others,” she recommended.<br />
“Go help someone else. Not<br />
only will you feel gratitude for what<br />
you have in life, you will be uplifted<br />
by being able to do something good<br />
for someone else.”<br />
Bazelel has several books that<br />
touch on gratitude including “Where<br />
Do Priests Come From?,” a book of<br />
gratitude for the men who have responded<br />
to God’s call upon their<br />
lives. “The Rosary Workout” is about<br />
spiritual and physical health and the<br />
overriding gratitude for Mary’s “yes.”<br />
As Psalm 8 says, “We give thanks<br />
to You, O God, we give thanks, For<br />
Your name is near; Men declare Your<br />
wondrous works.”<br />
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a joyful noise<br />
Church choirs hit all the right notes<br />
By Weam Namou<br />
Nearly 800 people jammed<br />
into the new Holy Martyrs<br />
Chaldean Catholic Church<br />
in Sterling Heights on October 16 for<br />
the Sixth Annual Choirs Concert.<br />
The 250 choir members (spread<br />
over seven churches) were each allowed<br />
to invite several people. The<br />
event is so crowded that it’s not open<br />
to the public.<br />
It used to be that the church<br />
hosting the concert organized the<br />
entire event. For the past two years,<br />
the choir committee, which consists<br />
of seven members (one representative<br />
from each church), has been in<br />
charge. Each church donates money<br />
that is primarily used for the afterconcert<br />
party held in the church<br />
hall for the choir members and the<br />
attendees.<br />
“Fr. Boji is very encouraging<br />
of this choir concert,” said Mayce<br />
George, a committee member representing<br />
Mother of God Church.<br />
“He’s our major fan.”<br />
To the pastor of Holy Martyrs, the<br />
music represents much more than<br />
simple songs.<br />
“The continuous history of persecution<br />
that our church has experienced<br />
caused the Chaldeans not to<br />
have schools and universities,” said<br />
Fr. Boji. “Our heritage, even our theology,<br />
was kept alive through singing<br />
hymns.”<br />
Hymns were sung in English, traditional<br />
Arabic and Chaldean at the<br />
concert, which had the theme “The<br />
Life of Jesus Christ.”<br />
“We’ve been preparing for this<br />
since February,” said George. “It’s<br />
a lot of work, but it pays off. It’s rewarding<br />
to learn songs, get to know<br />
each other, and listen to other peoples’<br />
work.”<br />
Nora Sheena, a committee member<br />
representing St. Thomas, likes<br />
that when the choirs come together,<br />
there’s no Eastside/Westside mentality.<br />
Rather than one labeling another<br />
by residence, it is more like, “Oh,<br />
you’re from St. Joseph, you’re from<br />
Mar Addai,” she said. “We’re all on<br />
even ground, all serving the church<br />
in the same way, all doing our best to<br />
give the gift God gave us to everyone<br />
around us. It’s nice to come in and<br />
1<br />
2<br />
6<br />
7<br />
1. Mother of<br />
God’s Youth<br />
Choir<br />
2. The Chaldean<br />
Choir of Mother<br />
of God<br />
3. The choir of<br />
Holy Martyrs<br />
4. Fr. Manual<br />
Boji, Fr. Fadi<br />
Philip and Fr.<br />
Ayad Khanjaro<br />
5. James<br />
Khawaja of<br />
St. Joseph<br />
6. Holy Family<br />
Church of<br />
Windsor<br />
7. St. Thomas’<br />
choir<br />
8. All gathered<br />
for a closing<br />
song<br />
32 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
witness that. Even those from across<br />
the border have gathered here.”<br />
Indeed, Fr. Niaz Toma from Holy<br />
Family Church in Windsor, Canada,<br />
and his church’s choir have participated<br />
in the concert from the beginning.<br />
“Having the choirs come together<br />
like this is a tradition that in Iraq has<br />
been going on for many, many years,”<br />
said Rafi Ballo, a committee member<br />
representing Holy Family. “There’s<br />
no competition here. As we’re all<br />
here to praise the Lord, we’re in a<br />
harmonious relationship.”<br />
Ballo said being in choir makes<br />
him feel closer to the Chaldean Mass<br />
and lets him learn more about the<br />
“rich Chaldean liturgy.”<br />
“It is perceived that when you<br />
sing something it’s nicer than when<br />
you say it,” he said, noting that the<br />
area in the brain that stores music,<br />
the auditory cortex, is the last to<br />
deteriorate.<br />
“I saw a man with Alzheimer’s<br />
who was reciting prayers and singing<br />
— without skipping words,” Ballo<br />
said. “I was very impressed.”<br />
The requirements to join a Chaldean<br />
church choir are simple: a love<br />
of God, an interest in singing, and a<br />
desire to interact with others in the<br />
community.<br />
These are the reasons that a group<br />
of five women from Holy Martyrs got<br />
involved, despite having young children<br />
and jobs.<br />
“When we practice we bring our<br />
children with us,” said Suhair Shayia.<br />
“This church is simple but it’s a<br />
strong connection to our hearts.”<br />
The Our Lady of Perpetual Help<br />
Mission is happy with their large<br />
group of choir members, claiming<br />
it’s “God’s blessings!”<br />
“Doing this is what keeps me going,”<br />
said Rami Suleiman. “It inspires me.”<br />
“We’re here because we love God,<br />
honey!” said Vivian Osachi. “God is<br />
No. 1 in our life.”<br />
“Two things draw people to the<br />
choir,” noted Fr. Boji. “One, the spiritual<br />
aspect — glorifying God and<br />
appreciating the talent He has given<br />
them. Second, it’s the social component.<br />
The concert shows that the<br />
choirs belong to different parishes,<br />
but finally one diocese.”<br />
Each church has its own rehearsal<br />
schedule, but most practice an average<br />
of two to four hours per week<br />
— more as the big concert nears. Organizers<br />
hope to one day take it to<br />
a theater and sell tickets to the<br />
general public.<br />
“We need those who are not<br />
familiar with the caliber of good singers<br />
and orchestrators in our church<br />
to come in and enjoy the Chaldean<br />
hymns,” said Fr. Boji, who noted<br />
that everything in the Church of the<br />
East is based off songs. That is how<br />
it was kept going from generation<br />
to generation. It was an easy way to<br />
learn, especially for the mothers and<br />
fathers who didn’t know how to read<br />
and write.<br />
“Many of these songs were sung<br />
by our mothers and grandmothers<br />
to their babies while putting them<br />
to sleep,” said Fr. Boji. “Hymns are<br />
something very special and important<br />
in our culture.”<br />
Photos by Nora Bahrou Downs<br />
3 4<br />
5<br />
8
sparking dialogue<br />
Chaldean-Jewish communities develop a strategic model<br />
to build an ethnic network.<br />
ROBERT SKLAR<br />
EDITOR | DETROIT JEWISH NEWS<br />
VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />
EDITOR | CHALDEAN NEWS<br />
Eighth of a nine-part monthly series<br />
The Chaldean-Jewish initiative<br />
begun last April as a<br />
fragile, cross-cultural experiment<br />
in community building continues<br />
to create awareness and buzz<br />
outside the two ethnic communities.<br />
Interfaith groups, hospitals and<br />
health systems, universities, public<br />
school districts, political leaders,<br />
foundation executive directors and<br />
business entrepreneurs have communicated<br />
their interest in the initia-<br />
tive, dubbed “Building Community.”<br />
Some intend to participate<br />
in the evolving initiative<br />
as it moves beyond its<br />
formal wind-down in January<br />
to a second, more grassroots-led<br />
stage next February.<br />
Others have expressed a desire<br />
to expand the cultural footprint<br />
to include other ethnic<br />
and religious groups in Southeastern<br />
Michigan.<br />
The original hope was to draw<br />
together the Chaldean and Jewish<br />
communities, which share common<br />
roots in the Middle East (Iraq for the<br />
Chaldean community and Israel for<br />
the Jewish community). The goal<br />
was to have the communities mingle,<br />
appreciate each other’s culture,<br />
work together to improve the quality<br />
of life in Metro Detroit — and<br />
perhaps serve as a regional or even<br />
national model for a multicultural<br />
ethnic network.<br />
While the planks of that ambitious<br />
model continue to be laid,<br />
Building Community’s original ethnic<br />
groups are discussing the possibility<br />
of arranging a mini-mission of<br />
Chaldeans and Jews to travel to Israel<br />
and the Holy Land. The groups<br />
would travel together, explore their<br />
respective religious and cultural heritages<br />
and link up for shared events<br />
and celebrations.<br />
“The glue that binds this initiative<br />
together are the opportunities<br />
created for face-to-face interactions,”<br />
said Arthur Horwitz, publisher of the<br />
Detroit Jewish News.<br />
Strengthening Fabric<br />
Building Community is a joint project<br />
of the JN and the Chaldean<br />
News, both based in Southfi eld a<br />
short distance apart on Northwestern<br />
Highway. Here in Metro Detroit,<br />
the two ethnic groups share parallel<br />
patterns in geographic location, entrepreneurial<br />
interests and professional<br />
careers.<br />
“Over the past several months,”<br />
Horwitz said, “individual friendships<br />
have been made and, in some cases,<br />
renewed. Business opportunities and<br />
collaborations have emerged among<br />
entrepreneurs. And Chaldean and<br />
Jewish families have broken<br />
bread together.”<br />
New insights continue to<br />
bubble up.<br />
The University of Michigan-Dearborn<br />
College of<br />
Business benchmarked attitudes<br />
and perceptions of<br />
Chaldeans toward Jews, and<br />
Jews toward Chaldeans, at<br />
the outset of this project.<br />
In the coming months,<br />
U-M will update its research.<br />
“We expect to see statistically<br />
signifi cant improvements<br />
in these attitudes and<br />
perceptions as a result of the<br />
Building Community initiative,”<br />
Horwitz said.<br />
Leaders from both ethnic<br />
groups contribute to Southeast<br />
Michigan’s economic,<br />
philanthropic, political, cultural<br />
and religious wellbeing.<br />
Ron Asmar<br />
Jeannie Weiner<br />
Solid Teamwork<br />
The Building Community initiative<br />
inspired four ad hoc workgroups, listed<br />
here with their co-chairs:<br />
<br />
Saad Hajjar, Ron Asmar, Howard<br />
Rosenberg;<br />
<br />
ma, Jeannie Weiner;<br />
<br />
Nancy Welber Barr;<br />
<br />
<br />
Under the guidance of Jewish<br />
News Publisher Arthur Horwitz<br />
and Chaldean News Co-Publisher<br />
Martin Manna, the two newspapers<br />
will continue to furnish counsel and<br />
support to assist the workgroups; the<br />
workgroups, however, are not tied to<br />
either publication.<br />
Saad Hajjar, one of the Chaldean<br />
co-chairs of the Economic Development<br />
Committee, is enthused about<br />
the progress of the workgroup, which<br />
meets weekly.<br />
“There is a lot of knowledge both<br />
the Chaldean and Jewish communities<br />
can share together; a lot of<br />
potential when we work<br />
together,” said Hajjar, the<br />
CEO of West Bloomfi eldbased<br />
Advanced Technology<br />
Systems and a former<br />
chair of the Chaldean<br />
American Chamber of<br />
Commerce.<br />
Hajjar and his fellow<br />
chairs — Ron Asmar, the<br />
<br />
yards Deli in Farmington<br />
Hills, and Howard Rosenberg,<br />
a Jewish attorney,<br />
investor and hedge fund<br />
creator — are concentrating<br />
on such ideas as<br />
teaching about franchising<br />
opportunities. Their<br />
goal is to bring more jobs<br />
to Michigan.<br />
“Chaldeans and Jews<br />
have been supporting<br />
each other for many years and we<br />
want to see more of it happen,” Asmar<br />
said. “We want to make sure that<br />
everyone understands that when you<br />
support a Jewish business or a Chaldean<br />
business, it really helps out<br />
the whole entire community. We<br />
need especially to be teaching our<br />
young people the importance of having<br />
stronger ties. It’s one of the legs<br />
Michigan needs to get back on the<br />
right economic track.”<br />
The Social Action workgroup has<br />
met twice while the two co-chairs<br />
have met several times, partly to get<br />
acquainted and mostly to begin planning<br />
how to engage Jews and Chaldeans<br />
in inter-community projects.<br />
“Networking does not take long,<br />
and these potential partnerships and<br />
coalitions may reap benefi ts long into<br />
the future for the participants as well<br />
as for the larger community,” said<br />
continued on page 36<br />
34 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
Talking about Culture<br />
Jewish and Chaldean teens chat about their differences, similarities<br />
and stereotypes.<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
EDITOR | CHALDEAN NEWS<br />
Jewish and Chaldean teenagers<br />
were encouraged to speak candidly<br />
about their cultural similarities<br />
and differences at a teen forum hosted<br />
by Bloomfi eld Hills Schools on Oct 6.<br />
as part of the Detroit Jewish News and<br />
Chaldean News Building Community<br />
collaboration.<br />
Although teens did share some<br />
ideas and misconceptions, the hesitation<br />
to be open was apparent and<br />
the tendency to gravitate to one’s<br />
own culture was evident by the split<br />
in the room at Model High School in<br />
Bloomfi eld Hills. Most of the Jewish<br />
kids sat on one side, while the Chaldeans<br />
gathered on the opposite side of<br />
the room.<br />
The cross-cultural teen forum was<br />
hosted by radio personality Mojo of<br />
95.5-FM (Tom Carballo) who entertainingly<br />
encouraged the nearly 150<br />
teenagers to be honest and to not worry<br />
about offending anyone with their<br />
portrayals of the Jewish and Chaldean<br />
communities in Michigan.<br />
He posed candid questions to the<br />
teen panel as well as to the audience,<br />
starting out the session with the appropriate<br />
question: “What is the fi rst<br />
thing that comes to mind when you<br />
hear the word Chaldean or Jew?” The<br />
Chaldeans kids said they think of Jews<br />
being wealthy, business people and<br />
stingy with their money; the Jewish<br />
teens thought of Chaldeans as gas station<br />
owners and wearers of designer<br />
attire such as Ed Hardy.<br />
Mojo, who is of Cuban descent,<br />
said his house sits between a Jewish<br />
family and a Chaldean family. “I am<br />
really impressed with my Jewish and<br />
Chaldean neighbors because you guys<br />
take care of each other,” he said. “Nobody<br />
takes care of their cultures better<br />
than Jews and Chaldeans. You stand<br />
up for cultures, fi ght for each other<br />
and do everything you can to make<br />
sure your family is taken care of. You<br />
guys love being Jewish and love being<br />
Chaldean.”<br />
The panel consisted<br />
of two religious leaders,<br />
Rabbi Josh Bennett from<br />
Temple Israel in West<br />
Bloomfi eld and Fr. Antho-<br />
<br />
of God Chaldean Church<br />
in Southfi eld, and four<br />
students from Bloomfi eld<br />
Hills Schools. Chaldeans<br />
were represented by students<br />
Thomas Sandiha<br />
and Angelic Gasso, while<br />
the two Jewish teens were<br />
Marli Siegel and Josh Morof.<br />
First Exposure<br />
Prior to moving to Michigan<br />
from Chicago, Bennett<br />
had never heard of<br />
Chaldeans. He recognized<br />
the stereotypes, but said<br />
what he struggles with<br />
is what is never talked<br />
about.<br />
“What is more diffi -<br />
cult is what we don’t say<br />
out loud and what persists<br />
in the undercurrent,” he<br />
said, speaking of biases<br />
each community holds.<br />
Before being asked to be part of the<br />
<br />
counters with any Jewish people and<br />
had only stereotypical perceptions<br />
about the Jewish community. “The<br />
fi rst time I sat down with a Jewish person<br />
was when I met Arthur Horwitz<br />
and Rabbi Bennett,” he said.<br />
Bennett explained that the communities<br />
share more similarities than<br />
differences. Both trace their lineage<br />
to Abraham; both communities have<br />
been persecuted; and both have assimilated<br />
and succeeded in the United<br />
States.<br />
Gasso related how she is often mistaken<br />
for a non-Chaldean and recalled<br />
being offended by remarks made by<br />
both non-Chaldeans and Chaldeans.<br />
“When I meet Chaldeans for the<br />
fi rst time, I have heard girls say in<br />
Chaldean, ‘What is this white girl<br />
Nearly 150 teens attended the Jewish-Chaldean teen forum at Bloomfield<br />
Hills Model High School.<br />
Mojo asks for responses from the teen audience.<br />
doing here?’ They have no idea I am<br />
Chaldean because I don’t look it.”<br />
Gasso admits she does not like<br />
dealing with the negative talk about<br />
the Chaldeans so she does not confront<br />
it. Josh Morof can relate. He,<br />
too, is bothered by offensive statements.<br />
He said the stereotypical jokes<br />
voiced at the expense of the Jews are<br />
what upset him most. “There are Jewish<br />
stereotypes and jokes out there,<br />
and it is so surprising that it is still out<br />
there; and these jokes are said all the<br />
time, and I don’t like it at all,” he said.<br />
Marli Siegel recalled an afternoon<br />
a couple of years ago the day before a<br />
Jewish holiday, when she heard fellow<br />
students talking. “They said, ‘The only<br />
reason I love Jews is because of these<br />
days,’ because they got the holidays<br />
off of school,” she said. “It made me<br />
realize that these people don’t know<br />
Photos by David Reed<br />
me personally and are<br />
making these remarks<br />
without knowing me<br />
as a Jew.”<br />
Thomas Sandiha<br />
expressed a positive<br />
trait about being<br />
Chaldean he is proud<br />
to share with others<br />
— the similarities between<br />
the Chaldean<br />
and Jewish communities<br />
and the positive<br />
attributes that the<br />
communities want<br />
others to know and<br />
remember. “Church<br />
is important to us and<br />
so is family,” Sandiha<br />
said.<br />
Bill Boyle, principal<br />
of Model High<br />
School and Bowers<br />
Academy, said he was<br />
honored to host the<br />
event. “The benefi t<br />
is giving kids a process<br />
and forum to talk<br />
about and learn things<br />
about each other,”<br />
he said. “They know<br />
about the tensions<br />
and stereotypes, but when we have a<br />
process in place like this, we can all<br />
learn from this.”<br />
Moving Forward<br />
Bloomfi eld Hills Schools spokesperson<br />
Betsy Ericson said, “Education<br />
thought leaders say that empathy is<br />
the No. 1 skill set for success in the<br />
21st century. This Building Community<br />
initiative is one important step<br />
in nurturing understanding in our increasingly<br />
diverse community. We’re<br />
grateful the Jewish News and Chaldean<br />
News included our high school<br />
students in this endeavor.”<br />
This panel broke new ground<br />
within the communities and, with<br />
the help of Mojo and religious leaders,<br />
engaged the teens in a productive<br />
conversation.<br />
continued on page 37<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 35
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Jeannie Weiner, the Jewish co-chair.<br />
Friendships and relationships<br />
require time to grow (even at the<br />
leadership level), but Weiner is excited<br />
about the prospects. The past<br />
president of the Jewish Community<br />
Relations Council of Metropolitan<br />
Detroit has some Chaldean friends<br />
who go back 20 years.<br />
“This is a wonderful opportunity<br />
for Southeast Michigan to demonstrate<br />
that different religious groups<br />
can come together as neighbors, colleagues,<br />
clients and friends,” she said.<br />
“If friendships and better understanding<br />
between the groups were the only<br />
result, it would be enough; but much,<br />
much more is happening, and I fi nd it<br />
very gratifying.”<br />
Real Change<br />
When Building Community was<br />
launched, the JN’s Horwitz and the<br />
Chaldean News’ Manna could not<br />
have imagined the amount of interest<br />
and support their newspapers would<br />
receive for the effort.<br />
“It seems that with each monthly<br />
installment of the Building Community<br />
content that appears in our publications,”<br />
Horwitz said, “additional<br />
ideas for collaboration emerge.<br />
“Most of the ideas and desire to<br />
participate come from the grassroots<br />
level, a sign that we are fundamentally<br />
changing the ways these two communities<br />
will interact for years, and<br />
perhaps decades, to come.”<br />
Creative director, Deborah Schultz<br />
Senior copy editor, David Sachs<br />
Story development editor,<br />
Keri Guten Cohen<br />
Our eighth two-page monthly spread,<br />
developed by the Farmington Hills<br />
strategic communications fi rm Tanner<br />
Friedman, appears on pages 38-39<br />
T h e P o w e r o f Y o u r C o m m u n i t y e = D T E ®<br />
All Aboard The Friendship Tour<br />
The Chaldean/Jewish Friendship Tour, a special occasion on Nov. 15<br />
presented by Building Community’s Arts & Culture Committee, marks<br />
the fi rst public event from one of the initiative’s grassroots workgroups.<br />
Participants will gain an understanding of the architecture, symbolism,<br />
usability, history and culture of each community’s central facilities<br />
— Shenandoah Country Club and the Jewish Community Center. Both<br />
are located in West Bloomfi eld.<br />
The night begins at 6 p.m. at Shenandoah for wine, hors d’oeuvres<br />
and a tour of the facility by its architect, Victor Saroki of Birmingham.<br />
Shenandoah is owned by the Chaldean Iraqi American Association of<br />
Michigan (CIAAM) and is a favorite gathering place among community<br />
members.<br />
At 7:30, participants will drive to the Jewish Community Center for<br />
a tour by JCC Executive Director Mark Lit and architect Joel Smith,<br />
whose fi rm Neumann/Smith Associates of Southfi eld designed the<br />
Frankel Jewish Academy of Metropolitan Detroit and the under-construction<br />
Berman Center for the Performing Arts, both part of the JCC<br />
building complex. Coffee and a sampling of Jewish-inspired sweets at<br />
the JCC round out the evening, which concludes at 9 p.m.<br />
Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the door. Send checks payable<br />
to the Jewish Community Center to the JCC, 6600 W. Maple Road,<br />
West Bloomfi eld, MI 48322. Learn more by calling Avita Bacall at (248)<br />
681-5050 or Monika Whale, (248) 432-5419.<br />
The Arts & Culture Committee is headed by Mary Romaya and Barbara<br />
Kratchman. Committee members are Mira Burak, Stephen Goldman,<br />
Mark Kassa, Mark Lit, Dr. Sulafa Roumayah, Dale Rubin, Michelle<br />
Saroki, Firyal Yono and Sharon Zimmerman.<br />
— Joyce Wiswell, managing editor, Chaldean News<br />
36 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
continued from page 35<br />
“The morning started with stereotypes<br />
and ended with truth, compassion<br />
and empathy,” Mojo said. “I am so<br />
impressed with those high school kids.”<br />
Focus On Youth<br />
The teen forum represents an important<br />
progression in the Building<br />
Community initiative. While all<br />
previous interactions associated with<br />
this initiative have been between<br />
Chaldean and Jewish adults, this<br />
was the fi rst time the two publishing<br />
companies provided a forum and a<br />
safe space for youth to strip away the<br />
veneer of stereotypes and recognize<br />
the commonalities they share.<br />
“In many households, high schoolage<br />
children have the most opportunities<br />
for interaction and involvement<br />
with Chaldeans and Jews,” said Arthur<br />
Horwitz, publisher of the Jewish<br />
News. “We’re hopeful content from<br />
the forum provides ‘teachable moments’<br />
in reverse, with the children<br />
enlightening their parents.”<br />
Horwitz and Martin Manna, copublisher<br />
of the Chaldean News, are<br />
spearheading the Building Community<br />
initiative.<br />
Both are pleased that other school<br />
districts with signifi cant Chaldean<br />
and Jewish student populations are<br />
interested in hosting their own teen<br />
forums, and they look forward to facilitating<br />
this with them.<br />
“The only way to rid people of<br />
their ignorance about each other is<br />
to talk about our differences and similarities,”<br />
Manna said.<br />
“This is what the teen forum was<br />
all about — to educate people about<br />
the Jewish and Chaldean communities.”<br />
Teen forum a great<br />
first step.<br />
BY ANGELIC GASSO<br />
People stereotype one another<br />
daily. It’s usually unintentional<br />
and, in most cases, the origin is<br />
unknown. People are stereotyped by<br />
the color of their skin, gender, religious<br />
beliefs and even culture. High<br />
school is a very common ground for<br />
stereotyping. It happens because we<br />
are unaware of one another’s differences<br />
so, in turn, we generalize.<br />
Bloomfi eld Hills Lahser and<br />
Andover high schools<br />
have a clear separation<br />
amongst the Jewish and<br />
Chaldean teenage populations.<br />
Both cultures<br />
have attended school<br />
in the same district for<br />
years, but neither group<br />
has made the effort to<br />
understand the other on<br />
a higher and intellectual<br />
level until now.<br />
On Oct. 6, Chaldean<br />
and Jewish students,<br />
a priest, a rabbi<br />
Angelic Gasso<br />
and Mojo from 95.5-FM<br />
met at Model High School in Bloomfi<br />
eld Hills to discuss cultural differences<br />
and similarities. Students were<br />
allowed to sit anywhere they pleased<br />
— naturally, the two cultures generally<br />
sat on opposing sides. This further<br />
evidenced the separation that<br />
exists amongst the groups not only in<br />
school, but also extracurricular activities,<br />
work settings and free time.<br />
I will admit, my knowledge of the<br />
Jewish culture is rather limited. I was<br />
eager to learn more about the Jewish<br />
community and the forum provided<br />
just that exactly. In the short hour the<br />
forum lasted, I learned more about the<br />
Jewish community than I had learned<br />
in my entire life.<br />
Mojo challenged the audience<br />
to directly answer questions regarding<br />
each culture. One Jewish girl was<br />
asked how her parents would react if<br />
she married someone outside her Jewish<br />
faith.<br />
“My parents defi nitely would not<br />
be happy because it would create a<br />
halt in my culture,” she said. “It’s not<br />
that they disrespect other cultures, it’s<br />
just the fact that they want our Jewish<br />
culture to thrive and grow by sticking<br />
together.”<br />
I saw many students’<br />
heads nod in<br />
agreement, including<br />
my own.<br />
To me, the forum<br />
was an overall shock.<br />
I never realized nor<br />
took the time to think<br />
that other cultures,<br />
though different, may<br />
be the same after all.<br />
Both the Jewish<br />
and Chaldean communities<br />
value and<br />
pride themselves in<br />
their cultures, a key<br />
component in maintaining any ethnicity.<br />
The forum made me feel accomplished<br />
and gave me a sense of<br />
hope for the two cultures. The participants<br />
were honest; every stereotype<br />
was brought to the surface in raw<br />
form.<br />
It was a big step for both groups in<br />
tightening the gap between the Jewish<br />
and Chaldean communities, but it is<br />
just the beginning. With time and further<br />
knowledge of one another’s cultures,<br />
I feel a sense of community and<br />
understanding will be gained.<br />
— Angelic Gasso is a senior<br />
at Bloomfi eld Hills<br />
Lahser High School.<br />
‘Work as a community<br />
to build one.’<br />
BY JOSH MOROF<br />
As an active member of both<br />
Andover High School and<br />
the Jewish community, I<br />
was chosen to serve on a panel for<br />
the “Building Community” teen forum<br />
held Oct. 6. Along with Rabbi<br />
Josh Bennett of Temple Israel in<br />
West Bloomfi eld and Father Anthony<br />
<br />
of God Chaldean<br />
Church in Southfi eld,<br />
there were two Chaldean<br />
students and a<br />
second Jewish student.<br />
In the audience were<br />
more than 100 Bloomfi<br />
eld Hills students.<br />
One of the very<br />
fi rst things discussed<br />
was stereotyping. “You<br />
don’t look Jewish.”<br />
“You don’t act Chaldean.”<br />
I personally<br />
Josh Morof<br />
hate hearing Jewish jokes and stereotypes<br />
as often as I do. I have never<br />
been able to understand how someone<br />
could classify or even make fun<br />
of another person based on something<br />
like their religion.<br />
However, before this forum, I never<br />
looked at the situation the other<br />
way around. Even when we do not<br />
realize it, we are constantly categorizing<br />
and judging those around us. If<br />
you tell yourself that you have never<br />
made fun of someone because of the<br />
way they look, act, talk or even because<br />
of their beliefs, you would most<br />
likely be lying to yourself.<br />
One question that really stood out<br />
to me was asked by a student. The<br />
question was not “How do we improve<br />
the relationship between Jews<br />
and Chaldeans?” but rather “How<br />
do we create a relationship between<br />
Chaldeans and Jews?” This question<br />
is so interesting to me because<br />
it points out that there is currently<br />
not a relationship between Jews and<br />
Chaldeans.<br />
Within Andover High School,<br />
there is extremely limited interaction<br />
between the two groups. The Chaldeans<br />
have their benches in the main<br />
hallway, and the Jews congregate in<br />
front of the stairs to the<br />
second fl oor. Even at the<br />
forum, the Chaldeans<br />
and Jews automatically<br />
separated, each generally<br />
sitting on different sides<br />
of the room. Outside of<br />
school it is not much<br />
different. Jewish teens<br />
hang out with other<br />
Jews, and the same with<br />
Chaldeans. Personally, I<br />
have very few Chaldean<br />
friends, only one I ever<br />
see outside of school.<br />
It is about time we<br />
start breaking down the walls between<br />
the two groups — and the<br />
Building Community initiative has<br />
defi nitely begun this process. However,<br />
it is up to both Jews and Chaldeans<br />
alike to make this happen. If we all<br />
did something as simple as inviting a<br />
Chaldean friend or neighbor over for<br />
a Shabbat dinner, imagine the impact<br />
that would have on the relationship<br />
between both Jews and Chaldeans.<br />
We have an opportunity to begin<br />
focusing on how to improve our relationship<br />
instead of worrying about<br />
how to create one. All we have to is<br />
work as a community in order to build<br />
one.<br />
— Josh Morof is a junior at<br />
Bloomfi eld Hills<br />
Andover High School.<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 37
C O MM U N I T<br />
Y<br />
‘A common cause’<br />
Chaldeans, Jews extend parents’<br />
gains through public service<br />
By Alan Stamm and Justin Fisette<br />
Our parents’ most vivid lessons last a lifetime. For Michael<br />
J. George and Carl Levin, values gained during childhood<br />
kindled enduring commitments to community service.<br />
George, founder of a successful business group, has<br />
given many Chaldean store owners a startup boost through loans<br />
and mentoring. Levin, with a public service career spanning nearly<br />
half a century, is a sixth-term U.S. senator who earlier held state and<br />
city government posts. Even as a teen, he was elected an officer by<br />
the Class of 1952 at Central High in Detroit.<br />
“As kids, [my parents] really taught us to participate in a common<br />
cause,” says the 76-year-old senator. The native Detroiter became<br />
interested in politics “when I was a kid at the dinner table with my<br />
dad and mother, talking about FDR and the New Deal, and how we<br />
all had to pull together to get out of a Depression.”<br />
Brother Sander Levin, a U.S. Representative and Chair of the<br />
House Ways and Means Committee, has been influential in the fight<br />
“With each generation, the<br />
more educated they became,<br />
the more they were involved in<br />
the American system.”<br />
Michael J. George, business leader<br />
for minority rights and religious freedom, here and abroad. “We consider<br />
it our duty to try to respond,” he says of persecution in Iraq, an<br />
issue he says resonates powerfully among the Jewish community.<br />
Their father Saul, an attorney, set an example of public service<br />
through volunteer assistance to immigrants and farm workers and as<br />
a four-year appointee on the Michigan Corrections Commission. Another<br />
role model was uncle Theodore Levin, an immigration lawyer<br />
and federal judge in Detroit, after whom the federal courthouse for<br />
the Eastern District of Michigan is named.<br />
Building a future<br />
A powerful example also inspired George, who created Melody Farms<br />
Dairy and a family-led business group called George Enterprises. His<br />
father Tom left Iraq in 1929 and opened a small grocery in Detroit<br />
— carving a foothold in a land where he didn’t know the language.<br />
Like other second-generation Chaldean Americans, the plucky<br />
son used education to expand parental achievements. In 1950,<br />
George created Tom George & Sons Dairy Distributors, which grew<br />
into Melody Farms — a three-generation firm sold to Dallas-based<br />
Dean Foods Co. in 2003. “When I went into business,” the founder<br />
recalls, “a lot of [Chaldean] people couldn’t get support from the<br />
banks because they didn’t have financial documents. We helped with<br />
loans and business advice.”<br />
George also served on many civic groups, including a Detroit<br />
casino gambling study commission. In Lansing, he worked to reduce<br />
hurdles for merchants seeking retail liquor licenses.<br />
Now the 78-year-old entrepreneur is heartened to see political science<br />
become a popular college major among Chaldeans. “With each<br />
generation, the more educated they became, the more they were involved<br />
in the American system — becoming professionals — and many<br />
want to be politicians. They want to be involved in how the country<br />
runs.” The son of pioneering immigrants expects to see more Chaldeans<br />
in public service, following another group’s path.<br />
“The Jewish community was here ahead of us, a<br />
generation or two ahead of us,” he notes.<br />
Recruiting Chaldeans<br />
Also involved in the American system is Zahra<br />
Roberts, a Central Intelligence Agency program<br />
manager for Middle East community outreach.<br />
She spreads the word to Chaldean and Arab-<br />
American groups in Chicago and Metro Detroit<br />
about a need for recruits with specialized cultural<br />
and linguistic backgrounds. “We’re still very much in the education<br />
phase,” Roberts says. “We attend events and are on the right<br />
track. It’s a long-term commitment.”<br />
Not all jobs involve espionage or risky field work. Career paths<br />
include human resources, engineering, finance, information technology,<br />
data analysis and translation. Mid-career professionals, as well<br />
as recent graduates, are wanted.<br />
“The U.S. government is interested in heritage communities<br />
across the board,” says the outreach manager. “We can do a much<br />
better job in providing information to policymakers if we have people<br />
from every part of the country working in government.”<br />
Federal judges in Detroit<br />
For Avern Cohn, born in Detroit 86 years ago, the route to public<br />
service led from the University of Michigan (undergraduate and law<br />
degrees) to his dad’s law office for 12 years to state and city com-<br />
38 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
P R E S E N T I N G S P O N S O R<br />
G O L D S P O N S O R S<br />
Diane D’Agostini Marc Barron<br />
Kimberly Small<br />
Chaldeans and Jews serve side-by-side<br />
As one of the first Chaldeans in<br />
Metro Detroit to break into public<br />
service, Diane D’Agostini focuses<br />
on keeping her community<br />
safe in her role as a 48th District<br />
Court judge in Oakland County.<br />
“I saw more members of the<br />
Chaldean community robbed<br />
and murdered at their place of<br />
business. I wanted to help victims<br />
of crime and be their voice,”<br />
D’Agostini explains.<br />
She serves alongside Judges<br />
Marc Barron and Kimberly<br />
Small, both Jewish. They handle<br />
cases from Bloomfield Township,<br />
West Bloomfield, Bloomfield<br />
Hills, Keego Harbor, Orchard<br />
Lake Village, Sylvan Lake<br />
and Birmingham. The court’s<br />
bench offers a snapshot of the<br />
population they serve.<br />
“There is a large percentage<br />
in this district of both Jewish<br />
and Chaldean individuals, and I<br />
think it’s given us perspective to<br />
really understand some of the dynamics<br />
that are involved in both<br />
communities,” says D’Agostini of<br />
the mix on the bench. “You don’t<br />
need to be of an ethnic group to<br />
understand it, but we may understand<br />
a bit better because of<br />
the community aspect.”<br />
Her community supported<br />
D’Agostini while running for office,<br />
culminating in an electionnight<br />
victory and a tray of popsicles<br />
being sent by a voter she<br />
connected with while campaigning.<br />
“One couple invited me<br />
into their house, and we talked<br />
about both communities while<br />
reviewing my qualifications. The<br />
husband even offered me a popsicle,”<br />
D’Agostini recalls.<br />
Ultimately, D’Agostini feels,<br />
the victory uplifts more than one<br />
person. “When I succeeded, the<br />
Chaldean community felt joy, not<br />
just me,” she explains. “The Chaldean<br />
community realized how<br />
significant it was to vote and be<br />
involved in the political process.<br />
It’s important for all groups to be<br />
a part of the process.”<br />
– Justin Fisette<br />
S I LV E R S P O N S O R S<br />
mission appointments and ultimately to a federal judgeship<br />
— “catching the brass ring,” as Cohn describes<br />
it. He still hears cases at U.S. District Court in Detroit<br />
— where colleagues include Chief Judge Gerald Rosen,<br />
Paul D. Borman, Nancy Edmunds, Bernard Friedman<br />
and Stewart Newblatt, and where Jewish predecessors<br />
include Lawrence Gubow (1968-78) and Theodore<br />
Levin (1946-70). A new generation of Jewish judges<br />
will include Mark Goldsmith, to be sworn in later this<br />
month. Another Jewish Detroiter, Helene White, currently<br />
serves on the region’s U.S. Court of Appeals for<br />
the Sixth Circuit in Cincinnati.<br />
“In the Jewish community, it seemed natural to be active”<br />
in community service, says Cohn, a past president<br />
of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit who was<br />
nominated to his lifetime judgeship by President Jimmy<br />
Carter in May 1979. “Some people naturally gravitate toward<br />
political and social activity,” he adds. “The effort you<br />
extend to support yourself isn’t really sufficient to satisfy<br />
all your needs. . . . Man does not live on bread alone.”<br />
Alan Stamm and Justin Fisette are writers for<br />
Tanner Friedman, a marketing communications<br />
firm in Farmington Hills.
seeking<br />
information<br />
Reward offered in store killing<br />
By Joyce Wiswell<br />
A<br />
$12,500 cash reward has been offered<br />
for information on the death of Mazin<br />
Khmoro, who was gunned down outside<br />
his family’s Southfield liquor store on October 6.<br />
Khmoro, a resident of Farmington Hills, was taking<br />
out the trash behind Cronin’s Liquor Store on<br />
the 29000 block of Northwestern Highway when<br />
he was shot and killed at about 4 p.m. Police said<br />
surveillance video shows that the suspect’s vehicle<br />
waited more than an hour before the<br />
shooting. It is described as a four-door,<br />
mid-size sports utility vehicle, possibly<br />
a black GMC Envoy, and was occupied<br />
by a thin male with a dark complexion<br />
wearing a light-colored dress shirt.<br />
“We believe someone who knows the<br />
victim and the store operation knows<br />
something about this,” said Southfield<br />
Police Chief Joseph E. Thomas, Jr., at an<br />
emotional press conference on October<br />
14. “This was deliberate and intended<br />
for one particular person.”<br />
Crimes Stoppers of Michigan put up<br />
the initial $2,500 reward. The Waad<br />
Murad Advocacy Fund, a division of the<br />
Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce,<br />
added $10,000. The reward is for<br />
information that leads to the arrest of the person or<br />
people responsible for the killing.<br />
“He died right in my arms,” sobbed the victim’s<br />
sister, May Khemmoro (who spells her name differently)<br />
at the press conference. “He was a good<br />
father, brother and son, and a good friend to all of<br />
us. My brother was the kindest man — he helped<br />
everybody. We just want to know why [he was<br />
killed],” she said.<br />
“Our hearts are really broken. My brother read<br />
the Bible every single day,” said a second sister,<br />
Brenda Thweny. “We have to vote for the death<br />
penalty in Michigan.”<br />
Thomas said the perpetrator lied in wait for<br />
at least two days. “This is not stranger danger,”<br />
Above:<br />
The press conference included remarks by Police Chief<br />
Joseph E. Thomas, Jr., Crime Stoppers President John<br />
Broad, and the victim’s sisters, May Khemmoro and<br />
Brenda Thweny.<br />
Left: The suspect’s vehicle<br />
he said. “We will be dogmatic about this and<br />
the person involved will not be unpunished,” he<br />
said. “Somebody needs to get off the couch and<br />
make a phone call.”<br />
The chief vowed that the case will be solved.<br />
“We’re going to hunt this person down,” he said.<br />
“We’re going to make it hurt.”<br />
People with information on the crime are urged<br />
to call Crime Stoppers, (800) SPEAK UP, visit<br />
www.1800speakup.org, or text CSM and your<br />
message to 274637.<br />
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synod continued from page 22<br />
“The population of this country<br />
... is 24 million, all Muslims, with<br />
whom we live peacefully and freely.”<br />
(Note one oddity: Iraq’s population,<br />
of course, is not “all Muslims”<br />
— the Chaldeans are Iraqis. Why<br />
did he say this? It is not clear.)<br />
“The Patriarch of the Chaldean<br />
Church (that is, Mar Delly himself;<br />
he is speaking of himself here in<br />
the third person, instead of saying,<br />
“I”) lives in Baghdad.” (That is, has<br />
not fled, or been forced to leave; he<br />
is still at home, in his community.)<br />
“Christians are good with their<br />
fellow Muslims and there is mutual<br />
respect among them.” (No hint of<br />
any tensions at all.)<br />
“Despite all the political and religious<br />
situations, and emigration,<br />
we now have nearly one million<br />
Christians in Iraq out of 25 million<br />
Muslims.” (He says “political<br />
and religious situations” instead of<br />
more negative words like “wars, invasions,<br />
car bombings, kidnappings,<br />
religious fanaticism” — all these<br />
are subsumed under “situations.”<br />
Then he says there are “nearly<br />
one million Christians in Iraq out<br />
of 25 million Muslims.” Again<br />
an odd phrase, since one million<br />
Christians and 25 million Muslims<br />
would make 26 million Iraqis, not<br />
25 million.)<br />
“We have the freedom of religion<br />
in our Churches. The Bishop or<br />
Priest, religious leader is listened to<br />
and respected by his fellow citizens.<br />
We have our own seminary, and<br />
Chaldean monks and nuns and religious.”<br />
(He says “we have freedom<br />
of religion in our Churches” — but<br />
he does not say if there is freedom<br />
of religion in the country, in Iraq in<br />
general. He says the “religious leader”<br />
— the word is in the singular; is<br />
he referring perhaps to himself? — is<br />
“listened to and respected.” However,<br />
we know that Archbishop Delly<br />
himself, despite his years of crying<br />
out on behalf of his people, has not<br />
been listened to. “We have our own<br />
seminary,” he says — but another<br />
Iraqi speaker said the seminary has<br />
actually been moved out of Baghdad<br />
because of a bombing incident, and<br />
reopened, but only hundreds of miles<br />
to the north.)<br />
Seeking the meaning<br />
On many occasions this week, I<br />
asked Synod participants and other<br />
journalists what they thought of Patriarch<br />
Delly’s remarks.<br />
I was told variously that he is<br />
“misinformed,” that his staff “no<br />
longer informs him of the true situation,”<br />
that he “lives in a palace” and<br />
is now “out of touch” with the reality<br />
on the ground; that he has gotten<br />
“old and weary” of the struggle<br />
he faces; that he wishes to emphasize<br />
the positive because emphasizing the<br />
negative has not served any positive<br />
purpose; and that he is “afraid is stirring<br />
up anything.”<br />
“Despite all the<br />
political and religious<br />
situations, and<br />
emigration, we now<br />
have nearly one<br />
million Christians in<br />
Iraq out of 25 million<br />
Muslims.”<br />
– Mar delly<br />
Someone told me that a bishop<br />
from Turkey had been so upset with<br />
Mar Delly’s words that he had stood up<br />
with tears in eyes and asked Mar Delly<br />
how he could speak in the way he had.<br />
A couple of days ago, I wrote a<br />
piece suggesting that Mar Delly may<br />
have been speaking in a veiled, or<br />
intentionally coded, way like that<br />
used by persecuted men in all countries<br />
when they wish to get a message<br />
across without arousing the ire of<br />
their persecutors.<br />
I noted that Leo Strauss, the primary<br />
intellectual influence in the founding<br />
of the neo-conservative movement<br />
in America, had worked out a theory<br />
that in every age the persecuted must<br />
resort to elegant, imaginative subterfuges<br />
to get their true message across<br />
and not be censored, or silenced, as<br />
they try to fly “under the radar” of the<br />
“inquisitors” of their time.<br />
Pivotal moments<br />
The intervention of Patriarch Delly was<br />
a pivotal moment in the Synod. Archbishop<br />
Franceschini’s talk was also.<br />
What the Synod will lead to in<br />
terms of concrete action to help the<br />
Christians of the Middle East, I do<br />
not know.<br />
But that the Christians of the<br />
region need the solidarity of Christians,<br />
and others of good will, from<br />
the rest of the world if they are to<br />
survive is clear.<br />
This is what the silence of Mar<br />
Delly, and the tears of Archbishop<br />
Franceschini, mean.<br />
Robert Moynihan, Ph.D., is the editor<br />
of Inside the Vatican Magazine,<br />
www.InsideTheVatican.com.<br />
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events<br />
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6<br />
8<br />
fall<br />
football<br />
Photos by David Reed<br />
Football fans and fanatics once again gathered for the annual Chaldean<br />
Football League Chy Cup game on October 16. Team White won in a<br />
20-7 game over Team Green. Before that action, the ladies took to the<br />
field in the second annual East. vs. West Powder Puff game. West won<br />
in triple overtime, 12-6.<br />
7<br />
1. Nick Hermiz<br />
catches a pass<br />
between Tony<br />
Attisha and<br />
Anthony Yaldo.<br />
2. Team White<br />
quarterback<br />
and coach Joey<br />
Jonna rolls to his<br />
right and looks<br />
downfield.<br />
3. Justin Orow<br />
of Team Green<br />
intercepts<br />
the ball.<br />
4. Mark Hajjar<br />
catches a pass.<br />
5. Sandy Acho<br />
of East runs, but<br />
Jenny Farida pulls<br />
her flag while<br />
Linda Zetouna<br />
gets in front<br />
to help.<br />
6. Bianca Jiddou<br />
looks to elude<br />
the rush.<br />
7. Vanessa Zeer<br />
shows off the<br />
trophy.<br />
8. West<br />
celebrates<br />
their win.<br />
44 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
classified listings<br />
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events<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3<br />
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7<br />
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project bismutha<br />
Photos by David Reed<br />
1. Fr. Manuel<br />
Boji<br />
2. Master of<br />
ceremonies Al<br />
Zara<br />
3. Margaret<br />
Butti, Suhair<br />
Kallabat,<br />
Shahraz<br />
Hanaee and<br />
Bernie Garmo<br />
4. Michael &<br />
Najat George,<br />
Dr. Nathima<br />
Atchoo and<br />
Rula Yono<br />
5. Heather<br />
& Regheed<br />
Akrawi and<br />
Hanadi & Holly<br />
Gallozi<br />
6. Sawson<br />
Shayota, Rand<br />
Thary and<br />
Lavon Ammori<br />
7. CALC<br />
President<br />
LeeAnn Kirma<br />
8. Dr. Nahid<br />
Elyas,<br />
president of<br />
CAAHP<br />
9<br />
9. Mindi Fynke,<br />
president<br />
and CEO of<br />
Employee<br />
Health<br />
Insurance<br />
Management<br />
Project Bismutha had its premiere event on October 13 at<br />
Shenandoah Country Club. The organization has been established<br />
by the Chaldean American Ladies of Charity and<br />
the Chaldean American Association of Health Professionals<br />
to provide free medical services to qualified uninsured<br />
individuals. Visit ProjectBismutha.org.<br />
46 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2010</strong>
Proudly<br />
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• Baby Pumpkins<br />
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Call for field trips, and school outings.<br />
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