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WINTER <strong>2022</strong> | VOL. 5 ISSUE 4


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Fun & games for 30-year coach<br />

By Joey Barrett<br />

In the fall of 1992, when Lynnfield<br />

created a junior varsity team for its boys<br />

soccer program, Marblehead resident Brett<br />

Munroe had no idea what kind of legacy<br />

would follow – becoming the face of Lynnfield<br />

soccer for the next three decades.<br />

Munroe played the game at Marblehead<br />

High before suiting up for Franklin<br />

Pierce College a few years later. Once his<br />

collegiate tenure ended, Munroe continued<br />

to play in some adult leagues, and couldn’t<br />

quite shake his love for the game.<br />

“I liked soccer growing up. I’ve always<br />

liked it,” Munroe said. “To be honest with<br />

you, I love it.”<br />

Munroe has since coached the Pioneers<br />

for 30 years: eight with junior varsity; 22<br />

with varsity. Three decades is a long time to<br />

be working the same job, and to Munroe, it<br />

truly is a dream one.<br />

“I am still having fun. I still have a blast,”<br />

Munroe said. “It isn’t just about the season.<br />

I’m thinking about it all year long. I used to<br />

be able to play and be competitive at stuff,<br />

and now this is my competitive outlet and<br />

I love it.”<br />

With that many years, comes the same<br />

amount of rosters to coach. Munroe says<br />

the teams that are the most fun to coach<br />

Munroe is all smiles prior to a game earlier this fall.<br />

STAFF PHOTO: LIBBY O'NEILL<br />

are made up of players all pulling in the<br />

same direction, and for one another.<br />

“When you have a bunch of kids with<br />

a singular goal, whatever that may be, it<br />

might be to get in the tournament, it might<br />

be to win your league. If you’re all working<br />

towards it, it makes the season more enjoyable,”<br />

Munroe said.<br />

If you ask current Pioneer players, they’ll<br />

tell you – it’s a great mix of soccer and fun.<br />

“He [Munroe] makes you want to come<br />

out every single day, and you want to run<br />

through a wall for him,” Gentile said. “Just<br />

the fun that he adds to the game. It’s not<br />

all work, we have fun while we win.”<br />

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six times – memories he says he’ll cherish<br />

forever.<br />

“I’m really proud of our team success<br />

overall,” Munroe said. “In high school<br />

sports, it’s not all about winning, but we’ve<br />

had a great run.”<br />

Another fond memory of his comes<br />

from the team’s 2019 tournament run when<br />

Lynnfield upset Watertown – a day that’s<br />

still reminisced about in the Lynnfield<br />

locker room.<br />

“That was a great day for us,” Munroe<br />

said. “I know some of our kids that are on<br />

our team now still remember that day.”<br />

When it comes to learning from those<br />

who have played exceptionally well, there’s<br />

plenty Munroe can share about the sport<br />

itself. He believes too many coaches think<br />

tactical play and analysis is the way to win<br />

games – and, from his perspective – it’s all<br />

about the basics.<br />

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the ball. The kids who are comfortable with<br />

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Marblehead<br />

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A purported fake monk and a real rabbi.<br />

A baseball Hall of Famer and a soccer player-turned-coach.<br />

A guy who crafted a 20-foot Egyptian cobra goddess and a woman who revels<br />

in death.<br />

A marine surveyor and gardeners.<br />

Welcome to the <strong>Winter</strong> edition of <strong>01945</strong>.<br />

Let’s start with the maybe monk who is accused of being a true phony.<br />

Fraud. Greed. FBI raids. Arrests.<br />

It has all the makings of a Netflix crime drama, but the story you’ll read about<br />

Brian Andrew Bushell is anything but fiction.<br />

After pulling off perhaps the scam of the decade, the self-described monk<br />

has to answer to federal charges. Known around town as “Father Andrew,” he<br />

parlayed a small, quasi-religious business empire into a scheme to sidetrack<br />

millions of dollars in pandemic relief funds. He and his live-in attorney poured<br />

the money into lavish real-estate renovations, home furnishings, designer<br />

handbags and watches, expensive wine, private social clubs and more.<br />

So much for a vow of poverty.<br />

Pivoting to a true man of the cloth, Rabbi David J.Meyer’s long tenure<br />

leading Temple Emanu-El is coming to an end, but he is staying busy writing<br />

music and remaining a force in the congregation’s life.<br />

I love a good sports story, especially if it involves baseball. After demolishing<br />

school and league records for home runs in a season and career, Doug<br />

Shribman earned his spot as one of the best players Bucknell University has<br />

ever seen, and now he’s earned his spot in the school’s Hall of Fame.<br />

Former soccer player-turned-coach Brett Munroe could never quite shake his<br />

love of the game. He’s in his 30th year coaching in Lynnfield and is building<br />

quite a legacy through his abiding goal of giving players time with the ball.<br />

Elsewhere in this issue, you’ll learn more about the town’s garden and flower<br />

enthusiasts; discover the man behind the red trucks, who happens to be one<br />

of the most experienced marine surveyors in New England; and get some tips<br />

from obituary writer Margo Steiner.<br />

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WINTER <strong>2022</strong> | 5<br />

An out-of-the-park career<br />

By Ryan Vermette<br />

For as long as he can remember, Doug<br />

Shribman had always wanted to play on<br />

the diamond, but he couldn’t have anticipated<br />

becoming one of the best hitters that<br />

Bucknell University has ever seen. Now<br />

a <strong>2022</strong> Bucknell Hall of Fame Inductee,<br />

Shribman takes a look back on his incredible<br />

career in Lewisburg.<br />

Shribman was born and raised in Marblehead<br />

and grew up in a baseball family,<br />

so it was only natural that he found himself<br />

playing ball at Gatchell’s field. After<br />

attending a few Red Sox games and watching<br />

baseball on television, it grew apparent<br />

that this was something that Shribman was<br />

becoming passionate about.<br />

“Once I kind of figured out I was pretty<br />

decent at it, I wanted to play as long as I<br />

possibly could,” Shribman said. “That’s sort<br />

of what led me to want to play in college.”<br />

Shribman’s standout performances on<br />

the baseball team at Belmont Hill got<br />

him on the Division One radar. Bucknell<br />

decided that they wanted to give him a<br />

chance. Standing out to the college was<br />

his dual-threat ability as both a hitter and<br />

a pitcher, so they decided to recruit him.<br />

When he arrived at school, he wasn’t sure<br />

if he would be focusing more on throwing<br />

or hitting.<br />

With the team already having a solid<br />

first baseman, Bucknell had him focus on<br />

pitching his freshman year, though he still<br />

took batting practice. After some pieces<br />

had moved around the following season<br />

however, a spot in the lineup opened up.<br />

“As it turned out, the senior graduated,<br />

another kid transferred, and first base was<br />

kind of there for the taking. I was a better<br />

hitter than I was a pitcher at that point, It<br />

just sort of made sense that I took over that<br />

slot,” he said.<br />

After finding his way into the starting<br />

lineup in his sophomore year, Shribman<br />

made the most of his opportunity.<br />

Throughout his career at Bucknell, Shribman<br />

crushed multiple school and league<br />

records highlighted by his 21 home run<br />

season in 2010.<br />

That number was both a Bucknell and<br />

Patriot league record and his 43 career<br />

home runs smashed both records as well.<br />

He broke the team’s records of career total<br />

bases (385) and doubles (45). Perhaps<br />

the most impressive part about his career<br />

statistics is the fact that it was all done in<br />

three years, with Shribman only registering<br />

five at bats as a freshman.<br />

The Bucknell hall of famer had 153<br />

runs, which ranks second in team history,<br />

Doug Shribman made a career out of hitting home runs which earned him a spot in the Bucknell Hall of Fame.<br />

and holds a top ten batting average at the<br />

school with an all-time mark of .347.<br />

Shribman talked about the success that<br />

he had while at Bucknell, especially his<br />

junior year where he smashed the single<br />

season home run record.<br />

“Our offense was stacked from top to<br />

bottom,” he said. “We were this power<br />

hitting force and I was just sort of in the<br />

middle of it.”<br />

Shribman’s incredible junior year was<br />

capped off by an MVP run in the Patriot<br />

League playoffs. In just six games, the<br />

power-hitter tallied seven homers, 16 runs<br />

batted in, and 10 runs scored to go with a<br />

red hot .423 batting average and a slugging<br />

percentage of 1.308.<br />

He helped the team beat Army on the<br />

road to advance to the conference championship<br />

against Holy Cross, where one of<br />

Shribman’s best moments as a player happened.<br />

In the deciding game 3, the Bisons<br />

trailed 7-6 in the seventh inning with two<br />

runners on base.<br />

Shribman was up to bat and had already<br />

knocked two shots out of the park earlier.<br />

Putting the team on his back, Shribman<br />

connected on a ball that sailed over the<br />

fence for his third, and second three-run<br />

homer on the day to put Bucknell up 10-6.<br />

The team went on to win the game 12-7<br />

and received an auto bid for the NCAA<br />

tourney. Shribman recalled the magical ride<br />

that his team went on.<br />

“We went to Army and beat them in the<br />

first round, and the second weekend, we<br />

had to go again on the road to beat them<br />

(Holy Cross),” he said. “I was basically as<br />

hot as I’ve ever been as a hitter, so it was<br />

just one of those weekends where every ball<br />

was hit hard. The go ahead home run, the<br />

pitcher threw a ball that caught too much<br />

of the plate and I got a good piece of it and<br />

took it out to center.”<br />

Shribman’s legendary career will live<br />

on forever as he is now enshrined in the<br />

Bucknell Hall of Fame and will go down as<br />

one of the best hitters not only in Bucknell<br />

baseball history, but in the Patriot League<br />

as well.


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WHAT'S UP<br />

Get your ginger on<br />

What: Decorate a gingerbread house and<br />

embrace the holiday spirit. Decorated<br />

houses may be submitted courtesy of<br />

the Parks & Recreation Department to<br />

the Marblehead Family Fund's annual<br />

gingerbread festival, Dec. 2-4 at the<br />

Jeremiah Lee Mansion.<br />

Where: Community Center dining room,<br />

10 Humphrey St. Visit marblehead.org/<br />

recreation for more information.<br />

When: Wednesday, Nov. 30, 3:15-5:30 p.m.<br />

Get ready, set — Christmas<br />

Walk!<br />

What: Join the Marblehead Chamber of<br />

Commerce for the 51st annual Christmas<br />

Walk complete with tree lighting, Santa's<br />

arrival by lobster boat, a parade, music and<br />

artisans markets.<br />

Where: Visit marbleheadchamber.org/<br />

events for details.<br />

When: Thursday, Dec. 1 - Sunday, Dec. 4<br />

Keep someone warm<br />

What: Marblehead Civic Ballet and the<br />

North Shore School of Ballet are collecting<br />

winter coats and children's pajamas<br />

for cleaning by Anton's Cleaners and<br />

distribution through Coats for Kids and<br />

Families.<br />

Where: Donations may be dropped off at<br />

the dance studio, 115 Pleasant St.<br />

When: Coats and pajamas accepted<br />

through Saturday, Dec. 10. Call 781 631 6262<br />

to schedule a drop.<br />

Grab your greasepaint<br />

What: Marblehead Little Theatre sponsors<br />

auditions for "Tuck Everlasting," a childhood<br />

adventure production.<br />

Where: Little Theatre, 12 School St.<br />

Visit www.mltlive.com/audition for more<br />

information.<br />

When: Monday, Dec. 12, Tuesday, Dec.<br />

13, 7-9 p.m. Callbacks are Dec. 16 and<br />

rehearsals begin January 3 for February and<br />

March shows.<br />

Kids only<br />

What: There are lots of fun activities to do<br />

during the after school holiday kids club for<br />

kindergarteners through fifth graders.<br />

Where: Community Center gymnasium, 10<br />

Humphrey St.<br />

When: Monday, Dec. 19, Tuesday, Dec. 20,<br />

Wednesday, Dec. 21, 3-4:30 p.m.


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Brian Andrew Bushell, the Marblehead<br />

man who presented himself as an<br />

Orthodox Christian monk and operated<br />

a number of organizations in town,<br />

began almost as soon as COVID-19<br />

relief funds became available, according<br />

to an affidavit filed in federal court.<br />

The affidavit alleges Bushell and<br />

his attorney, Tracey M.A. Stockton,<br />

defrauded the federal government of<br />

more than $3.6 million, in part by repeatedly<br />

submitting Economic Injury<br />

Disaster Loan applications for the<br />

businesses Bushell created and then<br />

controlled, and requesting more funds<br />

when the Small Business Administration<br />

upped the maximum they could<br />

receive via said loans.<br />

In a day highlighted by their arrests<br />

and an FBI raid on Bushell's properties,<br />

Bushell and Stockton faced<br />

charges on Oct. 13 of conspiracy to<br />

commit wire fraud and unlawful monetary<br />

transactions.<br />

If convicted of both charges, Bushell<br />

and Stockton could face up to 30 years<br />

in prison, as the charge of conspiracy<br />

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maximum sentence of 20 years and<br />

the charge of conspiracy to commit<br />

unlawful monetary transactions carries<br />

a maximum sentence of 10 years in<br />

prison.<br />

As a result of the allegedly fraudulent<br />

applications, Bushell and Stockton<br />

were able to receive $3.5 million in<br />

Coronavirus Aid, Relief, and Economic<br />

Security (CARES) Act funds and<br />

an additional $146,608 in Paycheck<br />

Protection Program (PPP) funds.<br />

They allegedly overstated the operational<br />

expenses of the organizations<br />

Bushell controlled in order to receive<br />

inflated Economic Injury Disaster<br />

Loans (EIDL), which they then used<br />

FRAUD, continued on page 10


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Tracey M.A. Stockton, left, and Brian Andrew Bushell, right, walk with Attorney Daniel Cloherty after their arraignment in US Federal Court in Boston on charges of wire<br />

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to fund a lavish lifestyle, U.S. Attorney<br />

Rachael S. Rollins’s office said in a<br />

statement.<br />

Bushell controlled St. Paul’s Foundation;<br />

a “monastic house” known as<br />

Shrine of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker,<br />

Patron of Sailors, Brewers<br />

& Repentant Thieves; a purported<br />

residence for clergy known as the<br />

Annunciation House; Marblehead<br />

Brewing Co., a monastic brewery; and<br />

Marblehead Salt Co., a craft saltern.<br />

Stockton served as general counsel<br />

and authorized representative of these<br />

organizations.<br />

St. Nicholas, Marblehead Brewing,<br />

and Marblehead Salt are all located<br />

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House, where Bushell and Stockton<br />

lived together, is located at 22 Endicott<br />

Ave.<br />

Both were released with conditions,<br />

after posting a $10,000 bond, at their<br />

arraignment in Federal Court in Boston.<br />

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The pair were ordered to report to


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probation, surrender their passports,<br />

not apply for any loans without the<br />

approval of the court, not register<br />

or facilitate the registration of any<br />

businesses without the approval of the<br />

court, not encumber any real estate<br />

without the approval of the court, and<br />

report any contact with law enforcement<br />

within 24 hours.<br />

Bushell, a dual citizen of the U.S.<br />

and Greece, was also ordered not to<br />

obtain any other travel documents<br />

while the case is pending.<br />

"Brazen, criminal behavior"<br />

“We allege that these two individuals<br />

engaged in brazen, criminal<br />

behavior that took advantage of our<br />

government’s efforts to rescue organizations<br />

— both for-profit and<br />

nonprofit — by assisting with specific,<br />

legitimate expenses during the<br />

pandemic,” said Rollins in a statement.<br />

“Pandemic relief funds are not ‘free<br />

money’ – they are a lifeline designed to<br />

help business owners and non-profit<br />

leaders experiencing real economic<br />

hardship . . . Hard-working people<br />

deserve these funds.”<br />

In the affidavit, Chad Oakes, an FBI<br />

agent who investigated Bushell and<br />

Stockton, wrote that “Bushell claimed<br />

that he was an Orthodox Christian<br />

monk and that he had trained<br />

at a monastery on Mount Athos in<br />

Greece” but, Oakes said, investigators<br />

were unable to confirm either of those<br />

statements.<br />

When CARES Act funds became<br />

available in April 2020, Bushell and<br />

Stockton allegedly began a conspiracy<br />

that continued until August <strong>2022</strong>,<br />

Oakes said.<br />

The conspiracy consisted of the pair<br />

allegedly conspiring to “obtain EIDL<br />

and PPP funds by submitting fraudulent<br />

applications and to use those<br />

funds for personal and/or non-permitted<br />

purposes,” Oakes wrote.<br />

Between April 2020 and June<br />

<strong>2022</strong>, Bushell and Stockton allegedly<br />

submitted loan applications, supporting<br />

documentation, and, with respect<br />

to EIDLs, loan increase requests to<br />

the Small Business Association and<br />

to Payment Protection Plan lenders,<br />

including Marblehead Bank and<br />

Greylock Credit Union, according to<br />

What is Mount Athos?<br />

Brian Andrew Bushell says he<br />

became a monk when he visited the<br />

Vatopedi Monestary at Mount Athos<br />

in Greece in December 2010.<br />

While there is a mountain called<br />

Mount Athos (6,700 feet high), the<br />

term refers more broadly to a peninsula<br />

in northeastern Greece that juts about<br />

31 miles into the Aegean Sea. The<br />

region is governed by a group of monasteries<br />

called the Athonite Community<br />

and operates autonomously from the<br />

rest of Greece, with the consent of the<br />

European Union. The non-religious<br />

aspects of the region are managed by a<br />

governor appointed by the Ecumenical<br />

Patriarch of Constantinople. That<br />

patriarch is currently Bartholomew<br />

I, who is recognized as the greatest<br />

among equals in the Eastern Orthodox<br />

religion.<br />

There are about 20 monastic<br />

communities on the peninsula which<br />

has been home to Christian religious<br />

communities for more than 1,200<br />

years. These communities have a variety<br />

of practices and traditions, but most<br />

live an ascetic life – characterized by<br />

abstinence and contemplation. Woman<br />

are banned from the mountainside and<br />

the areas controlled by the monasteries<br />

and are subject a year imprisonment for<br />

trespassing. The area is currently home<br />

to an estimated 2,000 monks.<br />

Bushell has stated that he became a<br />

monk at the declaration of an Abbot<br />

of the Vatopedi Monastery and that he<br />

was a member of that Athos community<br />

until August 2017. An FBI search<br />

of his travel history confirmed his December<br />

2010 visit but indicated that he<br />

“…spent little extended time outside of<br />

the United States following that trip.”<br />

The Vatopedi community is not<br />

without its own controversy. Author<br />

Michael Lewis (Moneyball, Liar’s<br />

Poker, etc.), identified some questionable<br />

real estate dealings between senior<br />

Greek officials and the leadership of<br />

the monastery. Several Abbots were<br />

embroiled in criminal investigations<br />

from 2008 through 2015, but ultimately<br />

none of the leadership was convicted.<br />

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Greeted by Kevin Lee, who<br />

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Absolutely fantastic; creative,<br />

innovative and full of<br />

amazing choices.”<br />

Marc T Yelp<br />

“We came to Mai Tai Lounge<br />

tonight and it was amazing.<br />

The food was outstanding, we<br />

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different dishes and each one<br />

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the affidavit.<br />

“On these applications, [Bushell<br />

and Stockton] consistently misrepresented<br />

the organizations’ revenues and<br />

operational and payroll expenses with<br />

the sole purpose of obtaining higher<br />

loan amounts. [Bushell and Stockton]<br />

also falsified financial statements and<br />

other supporting documents in order<br />

to secure these loans,” Oakes wrote.<br />

Marblehead Bank declined to<br />

comment on the loans they made to<br />

Bushell’s entities.<br />

Each time the federal government<br />

increased the maximum amount that<br />

could be received through EIDLs,<br />

Bushell and Stockton allegedly refiled<br />

applications stating higher and higher<br />

operating costs in order to receive<br />

greater funding. In many cases, this<br />

involved restating and increasing the<br />

same costs previously reported, according<br />

to the affidavit.<br />

Upon receiving the funds, Bushell<br />

and Stockton allegedly moved money<br />

between their various entities and<br />

bank accounts and fabricated checks<br />

in order to make it appear as though<br />

they had payroll expenses that would<br />

qualify them for PPP loan forgiveness.<br />

In the documents filed for the<br />

applications, and in correspondence<br />

with PPP lenders, Bushell and Stockton<br />

allegedly inflated the number of<br />

employees and the amount of payroll<br />

expenses that each borrowing organization<br />

had.<br />

“For instance, with respect to several<br />

applications, it is alleged that Bushell<br />

and Stockton listed, as employees, at<br />

least eight individuals who were never<br />

employed by any of Bushell’s organizations,”<br />

the statement said. These<br />

included a general contractor, subcontractors,<br />

a freelance iconographer,<br />

and a photographer. The FBI asserts<br />

that no employment taxes were ever<br />

paid, nor was workman’s compensation<br />

insurance ever purchased for these<br />

“employees.”<br />

According to the affidavit, the total<br />

expenses across all organizational bank<br />

accounts controlled by Bushell and<br />

Stockton in 2019 was approximately<br />

$313,000, a small fraction of the total<br />

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Adjacent building acquired<br />

by Bushell during the<br />

alleged conspiracy.<br />

Orthodox Christian Shrine of St. Nicholas/Marblehead<br />

Salt Co./Marblehead Brewing Co.<br />

Egypt House (property<br />

purchased by Bushell in<br />

June <strong>2022</strong>)<br />

Annunciation House<br />

(Bushell and Stockton's<br />

shared residence)<br />

Monk sued town in 2019, claiming<br />

'religious land use' violation<br />

© <strong>2022</strong> Mapbox © OpenStreetMap<br />

By Charlie McKenna<br />

Map based on Longitude (generated) and Latitude (generated).<br />

The Marblehead resident at the center<br />

of an ongoing Federal fraud investigation<br />

is no stranger to controversy, having<br />

filed suit against the town for an alleged<br />

“religious land use” violation in 2019.<br />

That suit was filed in Federal Court,<br />

and a judge sided with the town and<br />

Building Commissioner Richard<br />

Baldacci over St. Paul’s Foundation, an<br />

organization controlled by Bushell that<br />

oversaw all of his religious and economic<br />

endeavors. Earlier this year, the Court of<br />

Appeals affirmed the lower court’s ruling.<br />

At issue in the suit was efforts to renovate<br />

the interior of 124 Pleasant St., the<br />

property purchased by Bushell in 2017<br />

that houses St. Nicholas, Marblehead<br />

Brewing Co, and Marblehead Salt Co.<br />

Baldacci issued a building permit in 2018<br />

permitting Bushell to go ahead with<br />

renovations to the property to create a<br />

space to brew beer, a chapel for religious<br />

services and activities, and a fellowship<br />

hall to hold religious programming.<br />

Baldacci informed Bushell that the<br />

property would have to be reclassified in<br />

order to serve food or drink and to hold<br />

religious services. In the fall of 2018,<br />

Baldacci issued three letters to St. Paul’s<br />

warning of noncompliance with state<br />

building codes, including “uncompleted<br />

and unauthorized work as required by<br />

the code, and for occupying the space<br />

and serving beer to the public prior to an<br />

inspection and without a proper certificate<br />

of occupancy.”<br />

In November 2018, Baldacci issued a<br />

building code violation for the conduct<br />

cited in his letters. St. Paul’s appealed<br />

the violation to the state Building Code<br />

Appeals Board (BCAB), which affirmed<br />

Baldacci’s actions in February 2019.<br />

“In its decision, the BCAB noted that<br />

Baldacci was justified in enforcing the<br />

building code to ensure the public’s safety<br />

and that a finding in favor of St. Paul’s<br />

would “compromise life safety in ways<br />

that would conflict with [Massachusetts<br />

law],” the judgment in the suit reads.<br />

Around the same time, St. Paul’s<br />

relationship with Siemasko & Verbridge,<br />

the architectural firm hired to complete<br />

the renovation, began to deteriorate after<br />

a disagreement on the work needed to be<br />

completed to achieve certain occupancy<br />

levels. S & V informed the town in<br />

December 2018 that it was no longer<br />

working with Bushell and St. Paul’s.<br />

As a result, on Jan. 16, 2019, Baldacci<br />

suspended the building permit issued<br />

by the town because the renovation no<br />

longer had a registered architect. Architect<br />

Ryan McShera took over the project<br />

in February of that year and submitted<br />

a code review to Baldacci in May that<br />

indicated that previous use designations<br />

made by S&V were “incorrect.”<br />

McShera and Baldacci were unable to<br />

agree on the designations of the property,<br />

and Baldacci informed McShera that<br />

the town would not reinstate the permit<br />

unless McShera amended the proposed<br />

designations for the property.<br />

St. Paul’s again appealed the decision,<br />

and the BCAB again sided with Baldacci.<br />

As a result, St. Paul’s agreed to follow<br />

the original renovation plans and the<br />

BCAB ordered the permit be reinstated.<br />

The town did so in September 2019,<br />

and in December of that year issued a<br />

temporary use and occupancy permit<br />

to St. Paul’s, but required that it refrain<br />

from serving beer to the public until<br />

renovations were completed and a plan<br />

submitted to the health department was<br />

approved.<br />

The court was “not persuaded that the<br />

town’s revocation of the permit amounts<br />

to implementation of land use regulations”<br />

and found that “St. Paul’s has not<br />

alleged sufficient facts to suggest that the<br />

town functionally utilized its building<br />

permit process, or the interim code<br />

review imposed by Baldacci, to make its<br />

zoning decisions or that the process was<br />

disingenuously used to limit or prohibit<br />

St. Paul’s from using the property as<br />

intended.”<br />

“St. Paul’s has not established that the<br />

town’s conditional refusal to reinstate<br />

the permit was arbitrary and capricious.<br />

Without that showing, and since<br />

RLUIPA “does not mean that any land<br />

use restriction on a religious organization<br />

imposes a substantial burden,” St. Paul’s<br />

has failed to show on the undisputed<br />

record that the town’s actions violate<br />

RLUIPA,” Judge Denise J. Casper wrote.


14 | <strong>01945</strong><br />

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operating costs they reported on applications<br />

and increase requests for each<br />

of St. Paul’s and St. Nicholas.<br />

Those expenses allegedly included<br />

cash withdrawals and “items that<br />

appear to be personal expenses, such<br />

as travel and dining, pet care, personal<br />

medical care, grocery store purchases,<br />

subscription services, and the condominium<br />

fee for a property Bushell<br />

maintained in Washington, D.C.”<br />

Oakes wrote that in reviewing the<br />

three bank accounts for St. Paul’s active<br />

in 2019, the organization had, “at<br />

most, approximately $248,000 in paid<br />

expenditures for the year, in contrast<br />

to the approximately $747,000 that<br />

Bushell claimed.”<br />

“On the application, Bushell<br />

provided the following description of<br />

St. Paul’s secular social services: ‘We<br />

provide food, medicine, educational<br />

assistance and job and career counseling.’<br />

However, I did not observe any<br />

expenses corresponding to these categories<br />

in St. Paul’s financial records,”<br />

the affidavit reads.<br />

The affidavit goes on to describe a<br />

similar pattern for each EIDL application<br />

submitted by Bushell — allegedly<br />

claiming inflated operating costs in<br />

order to garner the largest loan possible<br />

and resubmitting applications with<br />

new expense totals when the program<br />

maximums were increased.<br />

Funding a lavish lifestyle<br />

Bushell and Stockton allegedly used<br />

the COVID relief funds to pursue an<br />

expensive lifestyle, spending over $1<br />

million of the CARES Act funds for<br />

extensive renovations to two Marblehead<br />

properties they planned to<br />

develop into a monastic complex that<br />

they hoped would feature a chapel,<br />

brewery, and beer garden. The pair also<br />

allegedly spent approximately $90,000<br />

in audio-video system equipment and<br />

nearly $40,000 on antique furniture.<br />

The pair also allegedly used the<br />

funds to buy a new residential property<br />

abutting their home and various<br />

fixtures, furnishings, and equipment<br />

for their properties. Bushell, who<br />

claimed he had taken a vow of poverty,<br />

allegedly used the funds to buy a nearly<br />

$7,000 Goyard designer handbag for<br />

Stockton, $2,400 on items from Hermès,<br />

spent nearly $92,000 to join two<br />

private social clubs in New York, and<br />

acquired various other luxury goods,<br />

the statement said.<br />

In June <strong>2022</strong>, Bushell purchased a<br />

single family home at 12 Conant St. in<br />

the name of “Egypt House,” purportedly<br />

a religious non-profit corporation<br />

registered in the District of Columbia.<br />

After purchasing the property for over<br />

$800,000 Bushell allegedly attempted<br />

to use it to get another loan.<br />

“We believe they clearly knew that<br />

what they were doing was wrong,<br />

but they did it anyway, spending tens<br />

of thousands of dollars on exclusive<br />

memberships, expensive wine, property,<br />

renovations, and even a $40,000 wristwatch,”<br />

said Joseph R. Bonavolonta,<br />

special agent in charge of the Federal<br />

Bureau of Investigation, Boston<br />

Division, in a statement. “Their alleged<br />

greed is an affront to every hard-working<br />

taxpayer, and during these challenging<br />

times where scammers are<br />

doing everything they can to defraud<br />

people of their hard-earned money,<br />

the FBI is doing everything we can to<br />

make sure they don’t succeed.”<br />

At 124 Pleasant St., the site of Marblehead<br />

Brewing Co., roughly eight to<br />

10 FBI agents could be seen removing<br />

items from the building on the day of<br />

the arrest. Two black unmarked cars<br />

were parked outside the property, and a<br />

large box truck sat in the driveway.<br />

Donna Murphy, 67, who lives nearby<br />

the brewery, described Bushell as a<br />

“bully.” Murphy said she saw FBI<br />

agents in the area around 6:45 a.m.<br />

that morning.<br />

“He’s really a bully,” she said. “I’m<br />

smiling.”<br />

Bushell submits<br />

Paycheck Protection<br />

Plan Loan application<br />

to Marblehead<br />

Bank; receives<br />

$41,665 loan for St.<br />

Paul’s.<br />

Small Business<br />

Administration approves<br />

$150,000 loan<br />

for St. Paul's<br />

SBA increases<br />

maximum EIDL<br />

from $150,000 to<br />

$500,000<br />

May 26,<br />

2011<br />

April<br />

2020<br />

April 1,<br />

2020<br />

June 4,<br />

2020<br />

January<br />

2021<br />

April 6,<br />

2021<br />

Bushell registers St.<br />

Paul's with the Delaware<br />

Department of<br />

State<br />

Bushell submits<br />

Economic Injury Disaster<br />

Loan application<br />

for St. Paul's<br />

Bushell submits<br />

“second draw”<br />

PPP application to<br />

Marblehead Bank;<br />

receives $41,667<br />

loan for St. Paul’s<br />

B<br />

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Bushell and Stockton<br />

could be working on plea<br />

By Charlie McKenna<br />

At a virtual hearing on Nov.<br />

3, Brian Andrew Bushell, the<br />

purported orthodox monk who<br />

allegedly defrauded the federal<br />

government of millions, and his<br />

attorney, Tracey M.A. Stockton,<br />

waived their rights to a preliminary<br />

hearing to determine<br />

probable cause.<br />

Bushell and Stockton remain<br />

free on bond as they await<br />

trial on charges of conspiracy<br />

to commit wire fraud and<br />

unlawful monetary transactions.<br />

Court documents suggest<br />

though that progress on a plea<br />

deal is already being made.<br />

On Oct. 25, Judge Patti B.<br />

Saris filed an order in U.S.<br />

District Court in Massachusetts<br />

granting a joint motion by<br />

attorneys representing Bushell<br />

and Stockton as well as the<br />

government to extend the date<br />

on which an indictment must<br />

be filed to Dec. 12.<br />

“The parties are engaged in<br />

preliminary discussions regarding<br />

the possible resolution of<br />

this matter, which might result<br />

in a plea and obviate the need<br />

for an indictment, and the<br />

requested continuance of the<br />

time in which an indictment or<br />

information must be filed will<br />

provide the parties an opportunity<br />

to engage in possible<br />

plea negotiations before the<br />

government is required to seek<br />

an indictment,” the order reads.<br />

No other progress on the<br />

case has been reported in court<br />

documents since the Nov. 3<br />

hearing.<br />

SBA approves EIDL<br />

increase for St. Paul's<br />

to $500,000<br />

Bushell requests another<br />

EIDL increase<br />

Bushell and his<br />

attorney, Tracey M.A.<br />

Stockton, are taken<br />

into federal custody<br />

and charged with<br />

conspiracy to commit<br />

wire fraud and<br />

unlawful monetary<br />

transactions.<br />

April 24,<br />

2021<br />

July 6,<br />

2021<br />

Sept. 8,<br />

2021<br />

Sept. 11,<br />

2021<br />

Nov. 16,<br />

2021<br />

Oct. 13,<br />

<strong>2022</strong><br />

ushell requests inrease<br />

for St. Paul's<br />

IDL<br />

SBA increases maximum<br />

EIDL from<br />

$500,000 to $2<br />

million<br />

SBA approves EIDL<br />

increase to $2<br />

million


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Bushell's bold plan for Swampscott<br />

By Charlie McKenna<br />

Brian Andrew Bushell first attracted<br />

local attention with a bold 2016 plan to<br />

purchase Marian Court in Swampscott<br />

to create a monastery and brewery then<br />

abandoned those plans in the face of<br />

local opposition.<br />

Bushell sought to purchase the property<br />

from The Sisters of Mercy, who had<br />

owned it since 1954 and operated it as<br />

Marian Court College before running<br />

into financial difficulties in 2015. At<br />

one point, the Marblehead man had<br />

an agreement in place to purchase the<br />

property for $4 million, but didn’t close<br />

on the deal after town officials expressed<br />

opposition to his plans.<br />

Officials, including then-Director of<br />

Community Development Peter Kane,<br />

told Bushell it was their belief that zoning<br />

bylaws did not allow for a brewery in<br />

the residential district where the former<br />

college is located. Bushell said his offer<br />

to purchase the property hinged on his<br />

ability to operate a small monastic brewery<br />

and cider house on the site.<br />

“I would like to clarify that the only<br />

way we’re going to proceed with the purchase<br />

of the property is with a brewery,”<br />

Bushell told the Board of Selectmen in<br />

December 2016. “That’s not any doubt in<br />

our mind … It’s our understanding that<br />

we do this by right. It’s our understanding<br />

that any religious organization has<br />

the right to support itself.”<br />

Shortly thereafter, in January 2017,<br />

Bushell withdrew plans to purchase<br />

Marian Court. By August, he had purchased<br />

the property at 124 Pleasant St.<br />

that later became the home of St. Nicholas<br />

and Marblehead Brewing Co. Bushell<br />

purchased that property for $833,000.<br />

Bushell told The Daily Item in 2017<br />

that the Pleasant Street property is not<br />

as large and well-integrated as Marian<br />

Court, which would have allowed the<br />

monks more space for uses such as holding<br />

retreats.<br />

“This is a much smaller property, but<br />

it fits our needs,” he said. “We’ll probably<br />

buy a second property in Marblehead<br />

when the community expands, but<br />

this allows us to start now. If we had<br />

proceeded with the purchase of Marian<br />

Court, we would have had to fight the<br />

town in court, (which) could have taken<br />

years. We have no doubt we would have<br />

won, but it would have delayed things.”<br />

The Marian Court property, which<br />

once acted as President Calvin<br />

Coolidge’s Summer White House, was<br />

sold in 2017 for $2.75 million to CC<br />

White Court LLC, an entity of Centercorp<br />

Retail Properties.<br />

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Brian Andrew Bushell sought to purchase Marian Court College from The Sisters of Mercy in 2016 before the deal fell through in early 2017.<br />

STAFF FILE PHOTO<br />

71


Part of the Arrangers of Marblehead, from left, Becky<br />

Parry, assistant treasurer, Donna Porter, member at<br />

large, Pam Oppelt, recording secretary, Nancy DiLisio<br />

president, and Nancy Donaldson, treasurer.<br />

STAFF PHOTOS: SPENSER HASAK<br />

An enduring arrangement<br />

A fall floral arrangement created in a hollowed-out<br />

pumpkin by The Arrangers Marblehead.


By Sylvia Chen<br />

The Arrangers of Marblehead was<br />

organized in 1933 by a group of women<br />

who liked to entertain and decorate<br />

their homes. The ladies decided to start<br />

a garden club to learn how to make<br />

floral arrangements. The club was<br />

federated in 1937. Next year they are<br />

celebrating their 90th anniversary.<br />

The Arrangers of Marblehead counts<br />

themselves among five garden clubs in<br />

Marblehead, and emphasize floral design,<br />

with regular meetings focused on<br />

horticulture and environmental subjects.<br />

Since they have a master flower judge<br />

as an active member, they invite other<br />

garden clubs to their public events.<br />

“The thing that I really enjoy about<br />

the Arrangers is just that — ‘arranging!’”<br />

said club member Pat Adams.<br />

The club members are also members<br />

of the National Garden Club in the<br />

New England Region and The Garden<br />

Club Federation of Massachusetts in<br />

Northeastern District.<br />

The object of the club is “to study and<br />

create artistic arrangements of floral and<br />

decorative materials, and to promote<br />

interest in horticulture, conservation<br />

and allied activities through education,<br />

preservation and community service."<br />

Adams said she has learned a lot<br />

about placement of flowers and how<br />

to match flower colors with vases or<br />

containers, using different styles such as<br />

a mass arrangement or a line arrangement.<br />

The company of members and<br />

the social events are core values of the<br />

club that she appreciates.<br />

“My greatest times with the Arrangers<br />

were the workshops, making Christmas<br />

wreaths, centerpieces, boxwood<br />

trees and swags,” added Arrangers<br />

member Elaine Greer.<br />

Beyond the joy the club brings to<br />

its members, it gives much happiness<br />

to the community. The Arrangers of<br />

Marblehead maintained the Abbot<br />

Hall gardens for many years. The club<br />

also preserves a memorial garden at<br />

the Marblehead Council on Aging.<br />

Members have participated in decorating<br />

King Hooper Mansion for the<br />

Christmas Walk and many do floral<br />

arrangements for the Lee Mansion.<br />

Each year, the Arrangers award a<br />

financial scholarship to a deserving<br />

Marblehead High School graduate who<br />

will be pursuing a degree in horticulture<br />

or environmental studies.<br />

For more than 15 years, at least 20<br />

high school seniors benefited from the<br />

scholarship. It is a $500 scholarship,<br />

and a committee of three arrangers will<br />

decide who is the best candidate to get<br />

the award.<br />

Arrangers have created and held a<br />

"Holiday Greens" sale at the Council<br />

on Aging along with gift boutiques or<br />

member-donated items which supports<br />

their scholarship fund and yearly<br />

donations to local charities. Prior to the<br />

pandemic, the club had several garage<br />

sales to generate funds.<br />

Every year the arrangers will contribute<br />

to three charities, the Garden Club<br />

scholarship, Healing Abuse Working<br />

for Change (HAWC) and My Brother’s<br />

Table.<br />

“We collect for charity around<br />

Christmas time. With the money, we<br />

take the first $500 right out of the<br />

collection and we split the rest between<br />

the two charities, HAWC and My<br />

Brother's Table,” said club treasurer<br />

Nancy Donaldson.<br />

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The rabbi<br />

turns a page<br />

Rabbi David Meyer will step down as senior<br />

rabbi at Temple Emanu-El in Marblehead<br />

on July 1.<br />

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By Anthony Cammalleri<br />

Senior Rabbi David J. Meyer has seen<br />

a lot of change from the vantage point<br />

standing at the front of Temple Emanu-El's<br />

Marblehead congregation.<br />

Sweeping changes in the kinds of music<br />

his synagogue performs to the temple’s<br />

recent renovations to a modern style are<br />

counterbalanced by faith, community, and<br />

tradition remaining as the leading forces<br />

guiding Emanu-El's work.<br />

In July, Meyer will step down as senior<br />

rabbi and walk away from a more than<br />

30-year post as a community pillar. It will<br />

not be easy, and he will stay involved in<br />

the community as Rabbi Emeritus.<br />

“I'm not leaving the community. I'll<br />

stay in the community but make room<br />

for some new energy and some new ideas<br />

to come in over the next couple of years,”<br />

Meyer said. “ I've been the model for how<br />

to be a senior ally of Temple Emanu-El<br />

for more than 30 years, and there's other<br />

ways to do it. I'm anxious to see how<br />

someone else will do it, and hopefully, for<br />

another long time.”<br />

Meyer said the selection of his successor<br />

will come after the synagogue has<br />

completed its five-year aesthetic and security<br />

renovation project, which preceded<br />

a near 20-year period of infrastructure<br />

improvements.<br />

In Meyer’s office, decorated in a<br />

mid-century modern style that Meyer described<br />

as “Jetsons’ furniture,” he said that<br />

he had not yet finished putting his touch<br />

on the new office, since he knows he will<br />

soon pass it on to someone else.<br />

“The last thing to be done with my<br />

office here is to bring in new furniture.<br />

[We] painted the walls, new carpet, I<br />

didn't even put all my stuff back up on<br />

the walls yet, because I figured in eight<br />

months, I'll be going to a different office,<br />

so it’ll have a fresh look for my successors,”<br />

Meyer said.<br />

Paralleling the structural renovations<br />

the synagogue underwent in recent years<br />

is a complete transformation of the temple’s<br />

funding model.<br />

Under Meyer’s guidance the synagogue<br />

made a shift from “dues"-based financing,<br />

in which all members make fixed<br />

monthly donations, to what he called the<br />

“community model,” in which community<br />

members pay what they can.<br />

“We wanted to remove any obstacle.<br />

I mean, here in town, some say, ‘Rabbi, I<br />

belong to two yacht clubs and the synagogue,<br />

here's what the synagogue is worth<br />

to me, take it or leave it.’ Under dues or a<br />

fair share, what it might have been called,<br />

it’s not right. You know, that doesn't fit<br />

the whole community model,” Meyer said.<br />

“Under our system, we say ‘thank you.’<br />

If someone has an elderly parent, they're<br />

supporting two kids in college, or they’ve<br />

had a financial turn for the worse that<br />

they don't want to make public, whatever<br />

the reason, we tell people, ‘here's what it<br />

costs to run the synagogue, per family,<br />

simple math, budget divided by members.<br />

You tell us what you're able to do to<br />

support the temple.’ ”<br />

In discussion of the temple’s best and<br />

worst moments since 1992, Meyer mentioned<br />

the 9/11 attacks in 2001 as being<br />

one of the darkest days he had seen as a<br />

religious leader, one that challenged him<br />

to try to bring the community together.<br />

“My mind immediately goes to<br />

September 11, 2001. America was under<br />

attack, and the leaders of our faith,<br />

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community, myself and colleagues from<br />

that time, brought the town together that<br />

same evening, for prayer and to rally for<br />

solidarity, and that attack happened just<br />

two days before the Jewish new year. It<br />

was, for all of America, a very, very dark<br />

day and period, but being in a position to<br />

bring solidarity, comfort, hope, healing to<br />

a broken community was very gratifying,”<br />

Meyer said.<br />

Meyer also brought up the ongoing<br />

presence of anti-semetic and racist<br />

incidents directed toward Marblehead’s<br />

Jewish community, which he described<br />

as being painful, but, still, an opportunity<br />

for the community to come together and<br />

heal.<br />

“There have been and continue to be<br />

antisemitic and racist incidents in the<br />

community, which, as a rabbi, and as part<br />

of a ministerial association, calls for our<br />

response. It's incredibly painful and it<br />

continues to grow. But being in a position<br />

to offer direction, resolve, maybe some<br />

healing to the community, again, it's very<br />

gratifying,” he said.<br />

The sanctuary pulpit at Temple<br />

Emanu-El sits below massive sheets of<br />

blue stained glass, built by Swampscott<br />

artist Ingrid Pichler, which faces a droplet-shaped<br />

room with wavy pews. The<br />

room’s blue stained glass Ner Tamid, or<br />

eternal lamp, hangs above the sanctuary<br />

resembling a water droplet.<br />

“We designed it so that everything here<br />

in the sanctuary evokes water. Geographically,<br />

we’re a block from the ocean and so<br />

it's certainly appropriate for Marblehead’s<br />

synagogue, but also spiritually, because<br />

water is the primordial source of life,”<br />

Meyer said. “The light in front is called<br />

a Ner Tamid, a perpetual lamp every<br />

synagogue you go into would have one<br />

and it resembles a droplet of water. What<br />

I wanted to do with the artist here was<br />

to recall a concept in Jewish life that the<br />

spirit of of a human being can be likened<br />

to a droplet of water which comes from<br />

all over the place to its source, which is<br />

the ocean, hence the spirit of the human<br />

being returning to its divine source.”<br />

A mandolin and small amplifier also<br />

sit on the pulpit. Meyer, who plays guitar,<br />

and spent his summers working as a jewish<br />

song leader as a teenager, emphasizes<br />

music in all of his sermons and records<br />

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folk music regularly with community<br />

members.<br />

“Jewish worship has always included<br />

music and song, going back as far as<br />

biblical days. And there's a beautiful line<br />

in the Scripture, ‘serve God with joy and<br />

come before God with singing,’ and that's<br />

what we tried to do, especially over the<br />

last decade, plus ramping up the music.<br />

And for me, re-embracing my own<br />

musical inclinations and skill set has been<br />

a wonderful way to transform in a joyful<br />

way here,” Meyer said.<br />

Most recently, he premiered his newest<br />

song, “A Song About Shoes,” on WERS<br />

FM radio. The song, Meyer said, follows a<br />

Jewish folk tale of a man from Chelm, an<br />

imaginary city full of fools who all believe<br />

they are wise men.<br />

Meyer said that he considered music a<br />

“mysterious” force that can connect people<br />

with each other and with their memories.<br />

“It's always easier to sing with someone<br />

else than to sing by yourself,” Meyer said.<br />

“There have been occasions when I've<br />

gone to a hospital or hospice, a nursing<br />

home with people who are essentially non<br />

communicative, but if I start singing some<br />

of the familiar melodies from their youth,<br />

it's like a key that reopens their cognition,<br />

their memories and their identity. It's a<br />

pretty stunning experience to be part of,<br />

and it is mysterious. I don't know. I just<br />

know that it works. I just know that it’s<br />

true.”<br />

Many of the babies Meyer named<br />

when he first came to Temple Emanu-El<br />

are now getting married, he said. When<br />

asked what his proudest achievement<br />

was in 31 years as lead rabbi, Meyer said<br />

that he takes pride in his family of two<br />

boys, Jeremy and Cory, alongside his wife,<br />

Marla, who, he said, played crucial roles in<br />

the community during Meyers’ decades as<br />

a religious leader.<br />

“It would be serving the congregation<br />

in the broader community while raising<br />

a beautiful family. I'm extremely proud of<br />

my family, my kids, the relationship I have<br />

with my wife, Marla and with all of the<br />

demands on my time, energy, attention,<br />

creativity, and heart. The fact that we've<br />

done it as a family in a lot of ways is<br />

something I'm very proud of,” Meyer said.


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A league of their own<br />

Members of the League<br />

of Women Voters of<br />

Marblehead, front<br />

row from left; Shari<br />

Pressman, Marta<br />

Bach, Alexa Singer,<br />

and Tom Krueger;<br />

second row from left;<br />

Judy Gates, Bonnie<br />

Grenier, Lee Mondale,<br />

Kathy Breslin, Polly<br />

Whitmore, and Mimi<br />

Hollister; and third row<br />

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Kathy Leonardson,<br />

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The Marblehead Chapter of the<br />

League of Women Voters began in the<br />

1900s and has been growing ever since.<br />

With 61 active members, the group is<br />

made up of men — yes, men — and<br />

women from Marblehead, and some from<br />

Salem and Swampscott, who are passionate<br />

about volunteering their time to<br />

inform the public on political issues and<br />

encouraging others to make changes in<br />

the community.<br />

The Marblehead League is one of more<br />

than 800 state and local leagues operating<br />

in all 50 states, the District of Columbia,<br />

the Virgin Islands and Hong Kong.<br />

The history of the League of Women<br />

Voters dates back to the 1920s when it<br />

was formed in Chicago after women<br />

secured the right to vote. As a nonpartisan<br />

political organization, the goal of the<br />

Marblehead League of Women Voters is<br />

to encourage informed and active participation<br />

in government, work to increase<br />

understanding of major public policy<br />

issues, and influence public policy through<br />

education and advocacy.<br />

The local organization focuses on a<br />

variety of issues, reaching their positions<br />

on these topics through studies and a<br />

consensus vote.<br />

"Our emphasis in this league is on local<br />

issues," said member Marta Bach. "We<br />

also participate in studies at a state level<br />

and a national level. Sometimes we'll do<br />

a topic that is suggested by national, and<br />

they supply research and we do research.<br />

We will publicly support issues on which<br />

we have reached a consensus, but we will<br />

not support candidates."<br />

The League works on a variety of political<br />

issues and topics, hosting events and<br />

informational forums on things including<br />

questions on the ballot, the environment,<br />

social issues, how the government should<br />

be structured, gun safety, racial justice, and<br />

LGBTQ.<br />

"For me, personally, I think it's so much<br />

easier to effectuate change on the local<br />

level," said member Bonnie Grenier. "You<br />

can decide on an issue area that's important<br />

to you and just grab it by the horns<br />

and go with it and get other people to go<br />

on board with you."<br />

The group made a motion during<br />

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a Town Meeting last year to change<br />

language in the town's general bylaws so<br />

that the order of candidates listed on the<br />

ballot is determined by random drawing<br />

of names by the town clerk for each race.<br />

This amendment has made its way to<br />

state Sen. Brendan Crighton and is still<br />

pending action.<br />

Another effort made by the League<br />

is the Observer Corp, where members<br />

volunteer to attend a variety of committee<br />

meetings in the town to observe, take<br />

notes, and write them up to be sent to<br />

Marblehead news outlets.<br />

This is one of the many ways the<br />

League helps inform the public on<br />

important issues in the community and<br />

encourage them to get involved, which<br />

member Shari Pressman said is one of<br />

their goals.<br />

"Our primary goal is to inform registered<br />

voters and inform voters and inform<br />

citizens of what's going on in the government<br />

and how to get involved," Pressman<br />

said. "We take positional political<br />

positions, and we do lobby, at all levels of<br />

the government, on positions that we've<br />

come to very carefully."<br />

In Marblehead, some of the members<br />

have been a part of the League since the<br />

1970s, while others are newer, joining<br />

within the last few years.<br />

Since the pandemic, League members<br />

said they have seen an increase in interest<br />

of local government, as Zoom meetings<br />

made it easier for people to get involved<br />

and easier for League members to educate<br />

the public.<br />

In addition to educating people on<br />

local political topics, the League also<br />

helps register first-time voters, assists with<br />

managing the polls during elections and<br />

counts ballots.<br />

"We're looked at as a resource for<br />

the town," said League Treasurer Tom<br />

Krueger.<br />

Through their close work with voters,<br />

member Kathy Leonardson said her goal<br />

is to empower these voters and defend<br />

democracy.<br />

"We treat democracy as a verb so that<br />

we defend it by doing it, which means<br />

voting, getting other people to vote, get<br />

people involved and not feeling helpless<br />

like they can't do anything," Leonardson<br />

said. "I got involved personally because I<br />

was interested in the educational aspect<br />

of learning about something I didn't<br />

know. That's also part of having a healthy<br />

democracy, knowing what information<br />

you can trust."<br />

Every election year, the League hosts<br />

an event where they invite the candidates<br />

to answer questions and talk about why<br />

they are running. This has become a popular<br />

event during election season in the<br />

town, with first-time candidates reaching<br />

out about it to the League and the local<br />

television station streaming it.<br />

While the League does a lot of work<br />

on politics and elections, it isn't their only<br />

focus.<br />

In regards to the environment, the<br />

League helps highlight and continue<br />

efforts the town is already undergoing,<br />

including flood management in the<br />

harbor, building community gardens, and<br />

improving bike paths.<br />

"We want to just elevate some of the<br />

things that are starting to happen on a<br />

greater scale to elevate the environment<br />

and are important for the conversation<br />

about the future and the community's<br />

health," League member Polly Whitmore<br />

said.<br />

In addition to collaborating with<br />

the town on environmental efforts, the<br />

League is also working with Sustainable<br />

Marblehead to put more focus on efforts<br />

to help climate change within the town.<br />

"I just feel like we should elevate the<br />

community in our activism and what we<br />

can do and are doing for the community<br />

and the environment," said Whitmore.<br />

Another issue that the group focuses<br />

on is racial justice. Member Cathy Marie<br />

Michael said they formed a book club<br />

about five years ago dedicated to reading<br />

a wide selection of books on social and<br />

racial justice issues.<br />

"This is an issue in this country. We<br />

informed ourselves and tried to inform<br />

the rest of the town (during a peace<br />

seminar) on what was discovered from the<br />

books that we read," Michael said. "To<br />

come to recognize, completely and totally,<br />

I'll speak for myself, the white privilege<br />

that I grew up with that I was not really<br />

that aware of until the Trump era — I<br />

could really see it reading these books. I<br />

could see how much I did not know, never<br />

knew, and was learning and became aware<br />

of."<br />

The League also hosts another book<br />

club where members bring in an article<br />

relating to a local or national issue that<br />

they are interested in and discuss it with<br />

the group.<br />

"It started as a desire to have an exercise<br />

in civility and civil discourse about<br />

things that can be pretentious," member<br />

Katharine Redmond said.<br />

Another major topic for the League<br />

is gun safety. After the 2018 shooting at<br />

Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland,<br />

FL, the League formed a gun safety<br />

group where they read about national<br />

and international protocols on guns. They<br />

informed themselves on the different laws<br />

in states across the country and how they<br />

differ from gun laws in Massachusetts.<br />

"Various issues came up and various<br />

information came up," Krueger said.<br />

The group then met with representatives<br />

from Mass General Hospital<br />

including surgeons, pediatricians, and<br />

those working in emergency rooms, all<br />

people who see and work with victims of<br />

gun violence.<br />

They discussed how important it is to<br />

have stricter gun laws in places where the<br />

laws are lenient and what they can do to<br />

try to decrease gun violence.<br />

"On a national level, we need to advocate,"<br />

Krueger said.<br />

One of the goals of this group is to<br />

remind people on how to properly and<br />

safely use guns to reduce any accidental<br />

gun-related incidents.<br />

While the League focuses on bringing<br />

light to important political and controversial<br />

topics, members said it also introduced<br />

them to good friends and opened<br />

their minds.<br />

"It's a great community venture,"<br />

Redmond said.<br />

Joining the league requires a $60 fee,<br />

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Bringing<br />

life to<br />

death<br />

Margo Steiner teaches an obituary<br />

writing workshop.<br />

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By Alexandra Rodriguez<br />

Margo Steiner was surprised to find an<br />

unusual number of students attending one<br />

of her recent webinars she held at a Peabody<br />

Library with a final count of 89 students<br />

attending one session. After all, the subject<br />

was, to put it simply, death.<br />

Steiner started her first workshop in<br />

the spring of 2020, completing fourteen<br />

obituary writing workshops to date. Her<br />

workshops are held via Zoom with a limit of<br />

ten students and in-person as high as 25.<br />

What's the interest in her class?<br />

“People are getting more comfortable<br />

about talking about death. It used to be that<br />

people were afraid of death and then I think,<br />

in 2004 there was a Swiss sociologist who<br />

started what he calls a death café, where<br />

people would come very casually and maybe<br />

they have refreshments at somebody’s house,<br />

or a church basement and they would come<br />

together and would talk about anything they<br />

wanted to, to do with death,” she said.<br />

Steiner joined a Death Café in Peabody<br />

and recalls the questions to be very interesting.<br />

At the Café, one of the members spoke<br />

about COVID-19 and his trouble understanding<br />

the six million deaths that resulted<br />

from the pandemic.<br />

Another member spoke about her mother’s<br />

end-of-life wishes being of no obituary,<br />

funeral, or memorial services but the daughters<br />

wanted to remember her. According<br />

to Steiner, the Death Café is a place where<br />

people can dispel the fear of death and talk<br />

out their anxieties or questions.<br />

Steiner majored in Botany and Art History<br />

at Connecticut College for Women and<br />

worked for the Brooklyn Botanic Garden<br />

in New York and the Arnold Arboretum of<br />

Harvard University.<br />

She eventually got involved in working<br />

for universities in the alumni offices and<br />

event planning when in 1988, Steiner was<br />

offered a job at a university in Germany as<br />

a director of public relations and alumni<br />

relations.<br />

Following two years in Germany, she got<br />

a job as an editor of a travel magazine based<br />

in Germany where every month, she had<br />

to take a trip for two weeks somewhere in<br />

Europe and then go back to her work base<br />

and write the story.<br />

“I went everywhere. Wherever you can<br />

dream of to go. Before Thanksgiving, I said,<br />

I will write to the Ritz Hotel cooking school<br />

and finally, maybe I will learn how to make<br />

gravy, but they weren’t making gravy, they<br />

were making frog legs that week,” Steiner<br />

giggled.<br />

Eventually, Steiner decided to come back<br />

home and work in marketing but her love<br />

for writing shifted her career path into<br />

freelance editing and eventually teaching a<br />

memoir course at the Marblehead Council<br />

on Aging.<br />

“One day, two friends that I know well,<br />

asked me if I would consider teaching an<br />

obituary writing workshop. It was right out<br />

here, said Steiner, (as we speak and drink a<br />

cup of coffee at a table in the Blue Canoe).<br />

"It was so funny because I have thought<br />

of that, but I figured nobody would take it,<br />

but I said to them if you can get me a few<br />

friends I’ll host one,” added Steiner.<br />

Steiner went on to create an obituary<br />

website that consists of two sessions. During<br />

the first session, Steiner talks about obituaries<br />

and how they came about, how much<br />

they cost and how to write one. She encourages<br />

her workshop participants to celebrate<br />

and personalize the life of the deceased.<br />

On Thanksgiving, Steiner told her<br />

students to meet with whoever came to<br />

Thanksgiving dinner and ask the guest to<br />

give them five words to describe them, the<br />

student. “Sometimes you don’t think of<br />

yourself the way other people see of you,”<br />

said Steiner.<br />

“Then I told them to do a draft, an obituary<br />

based on that and other things and we<br />

critique them the next week and it was just<br />

so much fun!” added Steiner.<br />

Steiner tells her students when they write<br />

an obituary, write everything they want and<br />

then edit it, put it aside, and edit it. “I remember<br />

the movie 'A River Runs Through<br />

It,' this guy was a newspaper editor and his<br />

son had to write an essay for school and he<br />

came to his father and said, “could you look<br />

over my essay,” the father said, this is very<br />

good. Now go and cut it in half. The kid<br />

comes back, and father says this is getting<br />

better and better, now cut it in half again.<br />

He said, “you can always pair things down<br />

without losing the sense of it.”<br />

“I always tell people too, to share it<br />

with family and let them know where the<br />

obituary is so that they can find it when<br />

they need it and pick a day of the year, your<br />

birthday, or every January 1st take it out<br />

and edit it. Update it, maybe you want to<br />

eliminate something or add something,”<br />

added Steiner.<br />

According to Steiner, the worst time<br />

to write an obituary for someone in your<br />

family is when they die because you are so<br />

grief-stricken.<br />

“It’s hard to write an obituary when you’re<br />

in grief. Sometimes the funeral home would<br />

write it for you, but they get things wrong<br />

sometimes. So, it’s always good to have one<br />

ahead of time,” she said.<br />

Surprisingly, Steiner doesn’t like anything<br />

to do with death. She doesn’t like attending<br />

funerals and she hasn’t written her own<br />

obituary but enjoys teaching how to write<br />

obituaries and the concept that obituaries<br />

can bring people closer and can help in a<br />

way to awaken people’s life and make different<br />

life choices changing how they want to<br />

be remembered.<br />

“There’s an apocryphal story about Alfred<br />

Nobel, you know the Nobel Peace prize<br />

winner. They say it’s not true, but it makes<br />

for a good story. He invented dynamite and<br />

he was in London once, he was reading the<br />

newspaper, and he made headlines. Alfred<br />

Nobel merchants of death dies. He was<br />

shocked! He wasn’t dead. It turns out, they<br />

meant his brother. They got the wrong one<br />

but when he saw that, he said, 'that’s how<br />

I’m going to be remembered, the merchant<br />

of death.' After that he changed things<br />

around and he founded the novel awards<br />

and chemistry and medicine and literature<br />

and peace and now when he died it was the<br />

novel philanthropist dies,” said Steiner.<br />

In some cases, when family members'<br />

death isn’t positive, due to a drug overdose<br />

or a suicide Steiner believes people are<br />

more open to mentioning those details in<br />

obituaries as well.<br />

“If you look at obituaries you see more<br />

and more people telling the real story<br />

because it educated people because so and<br />

so died on such day after a long battle with<br />

addiction or alcoholism. At the bottom it<br />

might say, please make a donation at…,”<br />

said Steiner.<br />

Steiner believes that telling the truth in<br />

obituaries serves as a way to educate people<br />

and that they are not alone when one of<br />

their family members has died of addiction.<br />

On the contrary, obituaries can be funny and<br />

share a sense of humor in the way a family<br />

member wants to be remembered.<br />

According to Steiner, obituaries started<br />

in the 19th century, with a death announcement<br />

in the newspaper, when so many men<br />

particularly died in the civil war. “It was very<br />

simple. Ordinary people didn’t get obituaries<br />

at all,” said Steiner.<br />

In the 1930s and 1940s, obituaries became<br />

longer but were mostly about famous<br />

people that died. As time went on more<br />

and more people wanted to be remembered,<br />

“The New York Times obituary writers, oh<br />

my God, I wish I had that job. They write<br />

obituaries about famous people, and they<br />

keep them and update them from year to<br />

year until the person passes away,” said<br />

Steiner.<br />

“But more and more now, regular people<br />

are getting obituaries. When you have an<br />

obituary it gives you the opportunity, if<br />

you’re writing it yourself or if your family<br />

member is writing it, to really talk about<br />

that person. Who they were and what they<br />

meant to people. It's more personal,” said<br />

Steiner.<br />

To know more, sign up, or get on the list<br />

to attend one of Steiner's obituary workshops<br />

you may email Steiner directly at<br />

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A master at work<br />

Commercial Vessel<br />

Examiner Robert<br />

Scanlan stands with<br />

his custom-built van<br />

that stores marine<br />

professional radio<br />

electronic equipment.<br />

STAFF PHOTOS:<br />

LIBBY O'NEILL<br />

By Anthony Cammalleri<br />

Robert Scanlan's 52 years working with<br />

boats encompasses his career title, Master<br />

Marine Surveyor.<br />

In Scanlan’s driveway sit two red trucks,<br />

both kept immaculately clean, showing not<br />

even a speck of dirt on the tires, and both<br />

showed Scanlan’s name and company, “R.T.<br />

Scanlan, United States Marine Surveyor ''<br />

printed in gold paint on the side.<br />

Within Scanlan’s office, tucked in the<br />

back of his basement, sit dozens, if not<br />

hundreds of model ships. Scanlan took one<br />

off of his desk, explaining that it was a PT<br />

boat, similar to one’s he’s inspected before.<br />

He then pointed through one of many<br />

lines of model boats, explaining that that<br />

particular collection contained every kind<br />

of amphibious assault vehicle from World<br />

War II until Desert Storm. “This is my<br />

vice,” he said.<br />

Scanlan, who turned 70 in January, said<br />

that he began working with boats at the<br />

age of 14, when he got a job working at the<br />

Bass Point marina in Nahant. Scanlan said<br />

that he made a lot of money working at the<br />

boat yard, enough to buy himself a car, and<br />

enough to realize that his time was better<br />

spent working with boats than playing<br />

football at Lynn Classical High School.<br />

“ I went to Lynn Classical High School,<br />

but I was in a khaki uniform, (that read)<br />

‘Bass Point Marina, Rob’ and, Jesus, the<br />

phys ed coach, football coach, the gym<br />

coach on look at me, ‘Oh, we got some<br />

football beef,’ (I said) ‘hold, hold it. I’ve<br />

got a new car, I’ve got a car payment. I got<br />

a job. I'm not giving that up to chase a<br />

pigskin, it's not going to happen,’ ” Scanlan<br />

said.<br />

After graduating from a college prep<br />

course in 1970, Scanlan went on to<br />

spend two years attending Massachusetts<br />

Maritime Academy, spending nights at<br />

law enforcement training sessions in Lynn<br />

English High School.<br />

“That's when I realized, ‘I'm making<br />

more money than the Chief of Police in<br />

Nahant with my business Maritime Yacht<br />

Consults, selling and installing marine<br />

equipment and electronics,” he said.<br />

In the mid-1980s, after a few people<br />

asked Scanlan to look at their boats, he<br />

decided to become a<br />

Marine Surveyor. Scanlan flew down<br />

to Fort Myers, Florida to take his marine<br />

surveyor exams, and opened his practice<br />

inspecting boats and yachts as soon as he<br />

returned to New England.<br />

In his first few years in business, Scanlan<br />

struggled to make ends meet, sometimes,<br />

he said, he had to get creative to cut basic<br />

utilities from his budget.<br />

“It was tough those first few years and I<br />

remember there was the gas stove and the<br />

gas hot water heater. I made a decision to<br />

shut the gas off. I took two electric blankets<br />

and wrapped them around the hot water<br />

heater because we had electricity. The<br />

heating was electric and that's what I did<br />

for six seven months to look good and pick<br />

the business up,” Scanlan said.<br />

In his early days as a surveyor, Scanlan<br />

would also drive hundreds of miles to meet<br />

with clients. He said that he once drove<br />

six hours to Montauk, New York, only to<br />

turn down the assignment. Another time,<br />

Scanlan drove 24 hours to Nova Scotia,<br />

Canada to survey a boat. Scanlan, who<br />

wakes up at 5 a.m. every morning and does<br />

not sleep until he turns in his last survey<br />

report of the night, said that he gets his<br />

disciplined work ethic from his father, who<br />

he said spent 41 years of his life servicing<br />

ships after he left the Navy.<br />

“I'll come down and work in the office<br />

until around 8:30 p.m. and then turn in<br />

and then be up maybe three or four in the<br />

morning to get the report done. Our clients<br />

don't want to hear that you had a family<br />

member passed away. They don't want to


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Coast Gaurd Commerical Vessel Safety<br />

Inspection card.<br />

hear that you’re sick. They want the job<br />

done and they want the report done. No<br />

excuses,” Scanlan said.<br />

When Scanlan’s father died, Scanlan<br />

was inspecting a ship in Marblehead. He<br />

said that his father, who was passing away,<br />

encouraged him to stay and finish the job.<br />

“My father called me, he said ‘Robbie,<br />

whatcha got going on today’ I said ‘Dad,<br />

I’ve got this yacht I have to do out of Marblehead.’<br />

Dad was starting to pass away,<br />

and he says ‘Robbie, you get that [expletive]<br />

job done.”<br />

Scanlan, who also works as an elected<br />

constable for the Massachusetts Bay Constable<br />

Association. He said that the job,<br />

which often involves issuing eviction notices<br />

and divorce papers, is difficult for him,<br />

but that he gets through it by adhering to<br />

respect and discipline.<br />

“These two folks go into a divorce and I<br />

have to serve the other party when they're<br />

going to appear in court. I just had to serve<br />

eight families in Nahant eviction notices. I<br />

do it in uniform, the discipline, the badge,<br />

‘Yes, sir. No, sir,’ he said.<br />

Scanlan said that between his third party<br />

work for the U.S. Coast Guard, his work<br />

as a State Police marine inspector, and<br />

his constable position, his wife, Victoria,<br />

jokes that he will one day wear the wrong<br />

uniform to work.<br />

“In my closet, you’ve got my Marine<br />

Surveying uniforms. You’ve got my Coast<br />

Guard uniforms, You’ve got my constable<br />

uniforms. As of four years ago I'm the<br />

only licensed marine investigator to the<br />

Massachusetts State Police here at noon,<br />

I get those uniforms. So Victoria says to<br />

me, ‘Sweetheart, what happens if you put<br />

a uniform on, you get to the assignment,<br />

and you’ve got the wrong uniform on?’ ”<br />

Scanlan said.<br />

Scanlan said that he will work on ships<br />

and yachts until he physically can not<br />

anymore. He said that discipline, and<br />

unwavering respect and professionalism<br />

toward his clients are what set him aside<br />

from the competition.<br />

“ There are 168.2 hours in a seven day<br />

week cap. I haven’t got time to address<br />

your bull[expletive]. That's how you get out<br />

of it. I can't judge people. Oh my God, my<br />

clients. I don't care who they sleep with,<br />

where they come from, or what their religion<br />

is, as long as they don't hurt anybody<br />

or talk down about me,” Scanlan said. “I’ll<br />

answer a call at 3:30 a.m. if I can [...] It’s<br />

the excitement, the excitement of business,<br />

the excitement of what I do,” he said.<br />

Leaving Scanlan’s driveway, he pointed<br />

to his two red signatured trucks, proud of<br />

the fact that through regular washing, he’s<br />

maintained their clean, polished exterior.<br />

“They’re always clean,” he said. “My<br />

language might be filthy, but my trucks are<br />

always clean.”<br />

Marblehead Pediatrics is pleased to<br />

announce that Amanda Bowers, M.D.<br />

has joined our practice<br />

Doctor of Medicine,<br />

Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, NJ<br />

Residency at Tufts Medical Center<br />

Board Certified in Pediatrics by the<br />

American Board of Pediatrics<br />

70 Atlantic Ave,<br />

Marblehead, MA <strong>01945</strong><br />

781-631-7800<br />

For more information or to schedule appointments,<br />

call our office at 781-631-7800.<br />

Please visit our website at Marbleheadpediatrics.com


Seaglass<br />

serves<br />

seniors<br />

From left, Seaglass<br />

Village President<br />

Heidi Whear, volunteer<br />

Lauren Shaw, events<br />

committee and board<br />

of directors member<br />

Linda Garber, member<br />

Bobbie Cohen, and<br />

Executive Director<br />

Alyce Deveau gather<br />

in the group's<br />

meeting space at First<br />

Congregational Church<br />

in Swampscott.<br />

STAFF PHOTO:<br />

SPENSER HASAK<br />

By Charlie McKenna<br />

Neighbors helping neighbors. That<br />

statement gets at the heart of what Seaglass<br />

Village, a non-profit organization with<br />

members in Swampscott, Nahant, and<br />

Marblehead, aims to do.<br />

Founded in 2021, Seaglass Village is<br />

part of a broader community of villages<br />

throughout the commonwealth and the<br />

nation. The aim of the non-profit is simple:<br />

to help seniors remain in their homes<br />

by allowing them to access a network of<br />

volunteers, primarily other retired people,<br />

who can assist them with things like<br />

moving furniture around the house, getting<br />

rides to and from doctor’s appointments, or<br />

even changing the batteries inside a smoke<br />

alarm.<br />

“We all want to be in our own homes.<br />

We don't want to go to nursing homes or<br />

assisted livings,” explains Seaglass Village<br />

President Heidi Whear. “The overall general<br />

view is that it's about people getting to<br />

know each other, connecting, making new<br />

friends, addressing issues like isolation …<br />

and we've exceeded all expectations and it's<br />

very, very exciting.”<br />

Village founding member Bobbie<br />

Cohen says she chose to stop driving due<br />

to physical disabilities, and not wanting to<br />

rely on her children, she opted to use Uber<br />

as her primary mode of transportation.<br />

But, the unreliability of the service began<br />

to frustrate her, so when the opportunity to<br />

join Seaglass Village arose, Cohen says she<br />

lept at the chance to be the village’s first<br />

member.<br />

“Seaglass has given me my life back,”<br />

Cohen explains. “All I can say is it's the<br />

best thing that ever happened to me, I<br />

love meeting all the volunteers. They are so<br />

intelligent and kind.”<br />

Village members are roughly evenly split<br />

between Swampscott and Marblehead now,<br />

and the events programmed for members<br />

recently included a trip to Fort Sewall.<br />

Attendance at activities has gone “way up”<br />

in recent months, explains events committee<br />

and board of directors member Linda<br />

Garber.<br />

“We can give them some socialization<br />

and they don’t have to stick home. We can<br />

give them a ride to the activities. … Anytime<br />

you go to an event, [you can] always<br />

go up to new people say ‘hi, I'm so and so,<br />

who are you? What's your story? Where<br />

are you from?’ and people immediately feel<br />

welcome,” Garber says, explaining that<br />

she feels she is a “prime example” of the<br />

benefits of joining Seaglass. “I moved here<br />

five years ago. I retired and I didn't know<br />

anyone … and I was knocking on neighbor's<br />

houses introduce myself … and since<br />

[joining the village] I have such a wide circle<br />

of really good friends. My kids tease me<br />

because I have such an active social life. It's<br />

just been wonderful to be a senior and be<br />

able to meet people … this is a really truly<br />

wonderful organization. I'm a big fan.”<br />

“Isolation was one of the biggest<br />

problems of seniors and because of Linda<br />

they’re not isolated anymore,” added Executive<br />

Director Alyce Deveau, who served as<br />

Swampscott’s library director for decades<br />

before retiring last winter.<br />

The connections made between members<br />

at evens are a focus for the village’s board<br />

going forward, Whear said, as those bonds<br />

can lead to requests being fulfilled and<br />

provide seniors with new connections later<br />

in life.<br />

The village’s offices are currently set up<br />

in the First Church of Swampscott, though<br />

Seaglass is non-denominational. Membership<br />

currently costs $360 on an annual<br />

basis (“a dollar a day,” Deveau explains).<br />

As it continues to grow, Seaglass needs<br />

more volunteers, Deveau says, particularly<br />

considering the volume of requests for<br />

transportation put in by members.<br />

“We'd like to have more volunteers to<br />

balance out but right now, we're answering<br />

all the requests that we get. We've been<br />

really fortunate,” Deveau says.<br />

Requests have to be submitted before<br />

10 a.m. the day prior to the event, Deveau<br />

explains, and the majority of requests the<br />

village hasn’t been able to fulfill have been<br />

those for home health aides, a service<br />

Seaglass does not provide. Even odd-ball<br />

requests like burying a cat have been<br />

honored.


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HOUSE MONEY<br />

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15 Spray Ave.<br />

SALE PRICE: $4,850,000<br />

SALE DATE: October 3, <strong>2022</strong><br />

LIST PRICE: $4,499,000<br />

TIME ON MARKET:<br />

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LOT SIZE:<br />

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ROOMS: 15<br />

BEDROOMS: 6<br />

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