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One minute Lou is happily employed, with a perfect flat. The next, her home and<br />

job have gone. The last thing she wants is to move to a tiny Cotswolds village,<br />

and she certainly doesn’t intend to work for curmudgeonly eighty-year-old<br />

Edgar Allsopp. But Edgar is about to make her the kind of promise nobody could<br />

ignore. In return, she secretly vows to help him fall in love with life again. Then<br />

there’s Remy, whose charm and charisma are proving hard to ignore. But Lou<br />

hasn’t recovered from the last time she fell for a charmer. She needs a distraction<br />

and luckily one’s about to turn up. Promise Me is Jill Mansell’s latest chick-lit read.<br />

Headline • Every day, The Housemaid (by Freida McFadden) cleans the Winchesters’<br />

beautiful house. She collects their daughter from school, and cooks a delicious<br />

meal for the whole family before heading up to eat alone in her tiny room<br />

on the top floor. She tries to ignore how Nina Winchester makes a mess just to<br />

watch her clean it up, how she tells strange lies about her own daughter, and<br />

how her husband seems more broken every day. It’s hard not to imagine what it<br />

would be like to live Nina’s life. The walk-in closet, the fancy car, the perfect husband.<br />

But she reassures herself that the Winchesters don’t know who she really is.<br />

They don’t know what she’s capable of. Little Brown<br />

Nobody sits us down and teaches us<br />

how to love. We’re often thrown into<br />

relationships with nothing but romantic<br />

movies and pop culture to help us<br />

muddle through. Until now. In 8 Rules<br />

of Love, instead of presenting love as<br />

an ethereal concept or a collection<br />

of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific,<br />

actionable steps to help you develop<br />

the skills to practice and nurture love.<br />

He shares insights on how to win or<br />

lose together, how to define love,<br />

and why you don’t break in a breakup.<br />

Inspired by Vedic wisdom and<br />

modern science, he tackles the entire<br />

relationship cycle, from first dates to<br />

moving in together to breaking up<br />

and starting over. And he shows us<br />

how to avoid falling for false promises<br />

and unfulfilling partners. Harper Collins<br />

Are you dating Boring Bert (he wears<br />

quilted anoraks and his mancave has<br />

a trainset from his boyhood). Or a<br />

Tradie Ted (he drives a bakkie, calls<br />

you his woman and slaps your arse<br />

as he walks past you). Are there red<br />

flags in your relationship ... he asks to<br />

borrow money, delays and evades,<br />

sulks, withdraws and stonewalls you.<br />

If there’s a resounding yes anywhere<br />

here, it’s probably time to pick up a<br />

copy of Caroline Hurry’s Flow - 21<br />

secrets to refresh your relationship.<br />

Full of hysterical descriptions<br />

of Drunken Duncans, Stingy Steves<br />

and Slobber Stans (his breath is beery,<br />

and feels damp), Caroline doesn’t shy<br />

away from nasty truths ... manipulation<br />

and gaslighting, blame shifting<br />

and abuse. She talks about dating<br />

duds (don’t overinvest, or stalk him on<br />

social media) and relationship flows.<br />

All very tongue-in-cheek ... which<br />

doesn’t mean she doesn’t get it spot<br />

on! It’s not, she firmly points out,<br />

another find-a-husband book (she did<br />

that in Handbook for the Huntress),<br />

but ‘more of an outstretched hand to<br />

those who slipped on the treacherous<br />

rocks of romance and need a little<br />

help getting up again’. Hygge Books<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 20<strong>23</strong> Get It <strong>Lowveld</strong> 05<br />

Compiled by: KYM ARGO

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