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Jada Pinkett Smith: What Manner of Love?

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FEATURE<br />

November 19, 2017 in a star-studded<br />

ceremony, and they welcomed their<br />

first son, Hazaiah, in January 2021.<br />

It appears Banky W is really<br />

enjoying his marriage to Etomi and<br />

has found the secret ingredient to<br />

sustain the union. In a recent interview,<br />

the musician cum politician shared<br />

some nuggets on why he believes<br />

couples do not enjoy their marriages.<br />

The 41-year-old singer shared his<br />

thoughts during a radio programme<br />

together with his wife, Adesua Etomi,<br />

hosted by the Nigerian media<br />

personality, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, in<br />

the series, the Black Box Interview.<br />

The singer, who was responding<br />

to a question on how he had met his<br />

wife, Adesua, revealed that he wasn’t<br />

able to pay attention to her after they<br />

had met a number of times because<br />

he wasn’t ready to settle down.<br />

He also pointed out that couples<br />

struggled to stay together because<br />

they rushed into marriage when they<br />

were not ready.<br />

He said, “I honestly think that God<br />

blinded my eyes until I was in a place<br />

where I would be working to be the<br />

type of man that would treat his<br />

daughter properly. Until I got to that<br />

place, God didn’t let me see her.<br />

“So I saw her, you know, and I was<br />

like, ‘nice girl, fine girl, okay nice to<br />

meet you,’ and I kept moving. I was in<br />

a different place in my life. And men<br />

know, men always know when we are<br />

ready. And until you’re ready, you’re<br />

not ready.<br />

“And if you’re not ready, it doesn’t<br />

matter how great somebody is, if you<br />

as a man, you’re not ready to settle<br />

down and be dedicated or whatever,<br />

you’re just gonna mess it up or end up<br />

in this miserable situation.<br />

“And that’s why I think today that<br />

marriage has turned into this thing we<br />

endure rather than enjoy.”<br />

Banky W and Adesua got married<br />

over four years ago on 19 November<br />

2017, and in early 2021, they<br />

announced they had a baby boy.<br />

Recently, Adesua, has for the<br />

“<br />

And if you’re not ready, it doesn’t<br />

matter how great somebody is, if<br />

you as a man, you’re not ready to<br />

settle down and be dedicated or<br />

whatever, you’re just gonna mess<br />

it up or end up in this miserable<br />

situation<br />

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