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CONTENTS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 2 ISSUE I<br />

features<br />

18 CHALDEAN TRADITIONS<br />

BY CRYSTAL JABIRO<br />

How some couples plan their Big Fat<br />

Chaldean Weddings<br />

20 SELECTING A GOWN<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

The more you know, the better you’ll look<br />

22 THE DIGNIFIED DEMEANOR<br />

BY CHRISTINA GAPPY<br />

Some dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette<br />

26 LET THERE BE MUSIC<br />

BY OMAR BINNO<br />

Picking the right band for your wedding<br />

36 IMMIGRATION BIAS?<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

Why Chaldeans can’t get asylum in the U.S.<br />

17<br />

departments<br />

8 FROM THE EDITOR<br />

9 IN OUR VIEW<br />

9 YOUR LETTERS<br />

10 NOTEWORTHY<br />

12<br />

12 HALHOLE<br />

32<br />

28<br />

14 RELIGION<br />

15 OBITUARIES<br />

16 CALC CORNER<br />

28 ECONOMICS AND ENTERPRISE<br />

The wedding planner makes it look easy<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />

30 CHAI TIME<br />

32 IRAQ TODAY<br />

34 ONE-ON-ONE<br />

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38 CLASSIFIEDS<br />

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39 BOUSHALA<br />

40 EVENT<br />

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Here we are one year<br />

later. I know time flies; I<br />

really can’t believe I am<br />

sitting here writing the Editor’s<br />

Note for our one-year anniversary<br />

issue. I am wiping my forward<br />

and uttering the sound<br />

“phew!”<br />

It has been exhausting but<br />

fun. More so, it has been<br />

rewarding working so closely<br />

to our community and learning<br />

a great deal about the talents<br />

and expertise of so many people.<br />

This anniversary is a celebration for<br />

the entire community, because The<br />

Chaldean News is a newsmagazine<br />

designed for all of us. It is your community<br />

magazine that we hope everyone is<br />

proud of, because its stories reflect the<br />

current events in all of our lives.<br />

Instead of a cover story this issue,<br />

we dedicate much to weddings. As a<br />

recent bride, I know that you need<br />

guidance when planning your big<br />

soiree. I looked to experts and did my<br />

research, interviewing dozens of vendors.<br />

In this issue, wedding planner<br />

Lawrence Yaldo gives us the dos and<br />

don’ts of wedding etiquette, while<br />

Jeana Asmaro talks about Chaldean<br />

wedding traditions. Longtime wedding<br />

planner and event coordinator<br />

Lenne George helps<br />

couples put the day in<br />

perspective in our<br />

Economics and<br />

Enterprise piece as he<br />

talks about the business<br />

he built from referrals.<br />

Anna Castaldi-Roselli<br />

of Roma Sposa helps brides<br />

find the right fit when they pick a<br />

gown. Finally, writer Omar Binno<br />

talked to two hot bands in our community<br />

about the traditional tunes a<br />

Chaldean wedding just can’t go without.<br />

For women, our wedding day is<br />

something we dream about for years. I<br />

remember wearing my Communion<br />

dress pretending that my longtime<br />

friend, Laith Haisha, was my groom.<br />

We were 7 years old, taking the Holy<br />

Eucharist for the first time at Holy<br />

Trinity in San Diego. My dad drove us<br />

to church that morning. Years later<br />

Laith and I reminisced about that day<br />

and he said, “Can you believe your dad<br />

rented a limousine for us?” I had to<br />

chuckle and explain it was actually my<br />

dad’s Cadillac.<br />

Weddings are romantic and a festive<br />

time. My wedding day was more<br />

wonderful than dreams I had as a little<br />

VANESSA<br />

DENHA-<br />

GARMO<br />

EDITOR<br />

girl — because as Lenne<br />

explained, the beauty in the<br />

wedding comes in every day<br />

after with the love you share.<br />

This issue focuses on<br />

more than just our anniversary<br />

and weddings; Iraqis all over<br />

the world are discussing the<br />

elections and the plight of<br />

Christians in Iraq. Copy Editor<br />

Joyce Wiswell investigated<br />

the hard time Chaldeans have<br />

receiving asylum in the U.S.<br />

despite the fear in which they<br />

live. Is there an immigration bias? That<br />

is the question we set out to answer.<br />

We know the issue is controversial, but<br />

we would be remiss as journalists and<br />

as a true newsmagazine if we do not<br />

cover issues at the forefront of our<br />

Happy<br />

Birthday<br />

Chaldean<br />

News!<br />

community. We have received phone<br />

calls at our offices from Christians desperate<br />

to get their families out of Iraq.<br />

We decided to pursue the story.<br />

And we will continue to report, write<br />

and investigate all kinds of news events.<br />

Here we are one year later, forging<br />

ahead with The Chaldean News as the<br />

source that keeps all of us abreast of<br />

issues important in our lives.<br />

Alaha Imid Koullen<br />

(God Be With Us All)<br />

Vanessa Denha-Garmo<br />

vdenha@chaldeannews.com<br />

8 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong>


in our VIEW<br />

Keep Iraqi Voting Opportunity in Perspective<br />

It is true that the facts and circumstances<br />

surrounding the Iraqi election<br />

and the right of expatriates<br />

and their children to vote in it have<br />

been confusing at best. It is also true<br />

that the International Organization for<br />

Migration (IOM), which is in charge<br />

of the election in places outside of<br />

Iraq, is disorganized.<br />

But let us keep in mind the historic<br />

and monumental undertaking at hand<br />

— the first ever democratic election<br />

in a country that has been ruled by a<br />

fascist dictator, a general and a king<br />

for most of the last 50 years. In terms<br />

of experience and knowledge of democratic<br />

processes and organization,<br />

this first Iraqi election was like removing<br />

the teachers and principal from an<br />

elementary school and telling the students<br />

to organize and govern themselves.<br />

Even though there was substantial<br />

assistance from the U.S. and<br />

international organizations, this election<br />

was a work in progress.<br />

So when we complain about the<br />

selection of Southgate as the polling<br />

place, we should keep in mind that<br />

Iraqis risked their lives to go vote.<br />

We should keep in mind that thousands<br />

of insurgents, terrorists and<br />

thugs were plotting, with some success,<br />

to disrupt the election however,<br />

whenever and wherever they could.<br />

As far as distance goes, some Iraqi<br />

expatriates on the West Coast traveled<br />

for hours and stayed overnight<br />

both to register and then again to<br />

vote.<br />

Many Chaldeans thought the easiest<br />

and most convenient locations for<br />

voting would have been one or all of<br />

our churches. But the regulations<br />

governing this election prohibited any<br />

Iraqi institutions from being used as<br />

polling places and apparently this<br />

applied to our churches. We know<br />

that the Chaldean community in<br />

Southeast Michigan is the largest<br />

concentration of Iraqis outside of Iraq.<br />

The fact that the groups and organizations<br />

running the election seemingly<br />

JEFF STAHLER © REPRINTED BY PERMISSION OF NEWSPAPER ENTERPRISE ASSOCIATION INC.<br />

did not know this before they got here<br />

is more our problem than theirs.<br />

In the end, a short trip to Southgate<br />

and the opportunity to help rebuild our<br />

a sign of the times…<br />

Old Country is more a cause to celebrate<br />

than to complain. Keeping<br />

things in perspective, it wasn’t such a<br />

bad trip.<br />

your LETTERS<br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

PUBLISHED BY<br />

The Chaldean News, LLC<br />

Tony Antone<br />

Vanessa Denha-Garmo<br />

Martin Manna<br />

Unhappy with Coverage<br />

Your report about CIAAM in the<br />

January issue, namely “Shenandoah<br />

Opens,” is inadequate and misleading.<br />

You totally neglected any reference<br />

to the Founding Fathers, those<br />

real bulwarks and bedrocks who started,<br />

nourished and developed CIAAM<br />

from day one to its glorious present.<br />

The report neglected any reference<br />

to the comprehensive final membership<br />

meeting in CIAAM premises on<br />

November 16, 2004, in which honoring<br />

plaques were awarded to three<br />

distinguished members with an<br />

engravement that reads: “In appreciation<br />

for your many years of service and<br />

commitment to CIAAM.” The three<br />

honorees are: Salman Sesi, Karim<br />

Sarafa and Joseph Nadhir.<br />

Martin Manna was personally<br />

approached and reminded of this event<br />

by club member Basim Binno right<br />

after the December issue was printed<br />

void of the event. Mr. Manna apologized<br />

and assured Mr. Binno that a full<br />

report thereof would be printed in the<br />

January issue. It did not happen.<br />

It is really amazing and hard to<br />

understand how a newsworthy<br />

Chaldean event like this could be<br />

neglected by the Chaldean News<br />

while the tiniest personal happenings<br />

are printed herein.<br />

Joseph Nadhir<br />

Sharing the Credit<br />

Thank you for including the Ethnic<br />

Bazaar at my high school in your<br />

January issue. We really appreciate<br />

the coverage, but I do not feel right<br />

taking full credit for the choreography<br />

of our dance. My peer and good<br />

friend Vanessa Najor played an equal<br />

role in the choreography as well.<br />

Ashley Jolagh<br />

Letters to the editor can be sent via<br />

email to vdenha@chaldeannews.com<br />

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NOTEworthy<br />

Arthur Ramo<br />

(left), Adbulahad<br />

Akrawi and<br />

Bashir Shallal<br />

discuss registration<br />

in Southgate.<br />

[Local]<br />

CHALDEAN VOTING LIGHT<br />

At press time, it appeared that Chaldean-American participation<br />

in Iraq’s historic elections was light.<br />

Community members were upset about the choice of<br />

polling space — Southgate — and said it represented<br />

a bias against them, since few Chaldeans live in that<br />

area. However, several community organizations led the<br />

way to make registering and voting easier by bussing<br />

groups of Chaldeans to the site. The former HQ store<br />

is owned by Wayne County. County Executive Robert<br />

Ficano secured the site within 48 hours of receiving a<br />

call from the White House asking for help.<br />

In California, meanwhile, Mar Sarhad Jammo led<br />

lobbying efforts to have a polling site established in<br />

San Diego, where the majority of that state’s<br />

Chaldeans live. But Los Angeles remained the sole<br />

polling site. The Chaldean community of San Diego<br />

and Arizona also bussed groups to the polls.<br />

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The bank has more than 180 investors.<br />

It is currently seeking deposits and loan<br />

applications.<br />

Longtime Michigan banker George<br />

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FEELING FLUSH<br />

Even the preschool set knows where to<br />

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The 2-year-old is the son of Sam and<br />

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The book, which is in Arabic, is the result of more than 25 years of research, Fatuhi said.<br />

He hopes the work will help prove to Iraq’s new government that Chaldeans are native<br />

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language needs to be taught in schools.<br />

The book costs $100 for four copies, plus shipping and handling. Contact Amer Fatuhi,<br />

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After hearing those magic words, “come on<br />

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Mammo attended a taping of the show with her<br />

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It’s embarrassing,” said the 21-year-old resident<br />

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thing, and the fact that my whole family got to go<br />

up on stage when I won made the experience<br />

more worthwhile.”<br />

‘BREAKFAST OF NATIONS’<br />

FEATURES CHALDEANS<br />

Shenandoah Country Club was the site of<br />

Leadership Oakland’s Breakfast of Nations on<br />

January 12. The event brought together nine<br />

leading ethnic organizations to discuss how<br />

diversity can lead to profitability in business and<br />

in the community.<br />

Breakfast of Nations was designed to change<br />

attitudes about diversity and to encourage interaction<br />

between ethnic groups. Noted researcher,<br />

Kurt Metzger, Ph.D., Research Director, Center<br />

for Urban Studies and Director, Michigan<br />

Metropolitan Information Center, Wayne State<br />

University delivered the keynote presentation:<br />

“Community Health — How to Build Healthy,<br />

Diverse Communities.” His speech touched on<br />

the current state of diversity, patterns in the<br />

region and approaches of other cities.<br />

Participating groups included: Chaldean<br />

American Chamber of Commerce, Anti-<br />

Defamation League, Arab American Chamber of<br />

Commerce, Council of Asian Pacific Americans,<br />

Jewish Community Council, Michigan Hispanic<br />

Chamber of Commerce, Native American<br />

Business Alliance, NAACP — North and South<br />

Oakland Chapters and New Detroit.<br />

YOUTH GROUP HELPS FAMILY<br />

Chaldean Americans Coming Together<br />

(C.A.C.T.), a group for Chaldean students at<br />

Walled Lake Western High School, recently<br />

held a bake sale to raise money for a needy<br />

family in the area.<br />

“We wanted to do something charitable for<br />

the holidays,” explained member Darin Sitto.<br />

C.A.C.T. also plans a field trip to Walled<br />

Lake Middle School to recruit more students.<br />

The group meets once a month to discuss various<br />

issues and topics and to plan diverse<br />

activities.<br />

Fax any press releases or news items to the<br />

Editorial Department at 248-932-9161<br />

FROM THE ARCHIVES<br />

The Chaldean Iraqi Association of Michigan had 496 active<br />

members, according to its October 30, 1981 newsletter.<br />

Membership fees were $2,085 and annual dues were<br />

$400.<br />

The issue announces the newly elected board of directors:<br />

Michael J. George, president; Joseph Nadhir, 1st vice<br />

president; Najib Karmo, 2nd vice president, Manuel<br />

Meram, recording secretary; Ralph Ayar, corresponding<br />

secretary; Badie Bodiya, treasurer; George P. Najor, assistant<br />

treasurer; and, serving on the reserve board, Salim<br />

Sarafa, Cal Abbo and Bernie Garmo.<br />

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HALHOLE!<br />

[Births]<br />

Sabrina Rose<br />

It’s a girl for first-time parents Jimmy and Amanda Marrogy. Sabrina Rose was<br />

born on January 12, <strong>2005</strong> at 10:45 a.m. She weighted 8 lbs, 2 oz and measured<br />

21 inches long. Sabrina Rose is the fourth grandchild of Hikma and the<br />

late Hekmat Marrogy and the fifth grandchild for Manuel and Zehour Asmar.<br />

Bridgette Kelly<br />

Kelly and Inam Denha are proud to announce the birth of their first daughter,<br />

Bridgette Kelly. She was born on October 13, 2004 at 9:55 p.m., weighing<br />

in at 6 lbs, 9 oz and measuring 20 inches long. Bridgette is the 12th grandchild<br />

of Mrs. Intisar Denha, wife of the beloved Louis E. Denha and the 19th<br />

of Mrs. Jamila Samona, wife of the beloved Gorguis P. Samona.<br />

Sabrina Rose<br />

Bridgette Kelly<br />

Brandon Thomas<br />

Thomas and Connie Kenaya are proud to announce the birth of their son,<br />

Brandon Thomas. He was born on September 3, 2004 at 4:51 p.m. weighing<br />

8 lbs, 7 oz. Brandon is the first grandchild to Sabah & the late Salima<br />

Kenaya and Na’il & Dot Basmaji.<br />

Jacob Francis<br />

Sam Jr. and Christina Yono are happy to announce the birth of Jacob<br />

Francis. Jake was born on September 20, 2004 at 8:36 a.m. He weighed<br />

7 lbs, 7 oz and was 21 inches long. Older brother Sam II loves him very<br />

much. Proud grandparents are Sam and Lillian Yono and Walid and Niran<br />

Habboo.<br />

Brandon Thomas<br />

Jacob Francis<br />

12 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong>


Editor’s note: In honor of our wedding issue, we asked contributors<br />

to this month’s engagements and weddings in Halhole to share the<br />

story of their romance.<br />

[Engagement]<br />

Thane and Heather<br />

Thane Namy, son of Harry Namy & the late Najat Namy, proposed to<br />

Heather Marshall, daughter of John & Janice Marshall, on December 18.<br />

The two plan to be married at St. Rene’s Catholic Church in Sterling<br />

Heights with a reception following at Shenandoah Country Club in<br />

September. The couple were friends for more than five years before they<br />

began dating a year and a half ago.<br />

“Although I was concerned about jeopardizing our friendship, we took a<br />

chance anyway and now we are happy and in love,” said Heather. “He proposed<br />

to me in Rochester Park, on a beautiful winter evening with<br />

snowflakes gently falling around us.”<br />

[Wedding]<br />

Christopher and Janice<br />

Christopher Shamoun, son of Salah & Kheloud Shamoun, waited at the alter<br />

to marry Janice Najor, daughter of Nadia Najor & the late George, and niece<br />

of Ameer Najor on November 7, 2004. The ceremony took place at St.<br />

Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church. The celebration was held at Penna’s of<br />

Sterling. “My husband and I met through a mutual friend. I knew he was the<br />

one the moment I met him,” said Janice. “After dating for a while he surprised<br />

me with a marriage proposal on a hot-air balloon. A year and a half after that<br />

we became husband and wife.”<br />

Thane and Heather<br />

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MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; 248-356-0565<br />

RECTOR: Rev. Manuel Boji<br />

PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Wisam Matti<br />

MASS SCHEDULE: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday 10 a.m. in Sourath<br />

(Aramaic) and Arabic, Tuesday 5:50 p.m. in Sourath and Arabic, Saturday 5:30<br />

p.m. in English, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in Arabic and Sourath, 10 a.m. in English,<br />

12 p.m. in Sourath<br />

SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

310 W. Seven Mile Road, Detroit, MI 48203, 313-368-6214<br />

PASTOR: Rev. Jacob Yasso<br />

MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Saturday 5 p.m. in Sourath, Sunday 8:30 a.m. in Arabic<br />

and Sourath, 10 a.m. in English, 12 p.m. in Sourath<br />

MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

24010 Coolidge Hwy, Oak Park, MI 48237, 248-547-4648<br />

PASTOR: Rev. Stephen Kallabat<br />

PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Shlaman Denha<br />

MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Sunday 10 a.m. in Sourath<br />

and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />

ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2442 E. Big Beaver Rd., Troy, MI 48083, 248-528-3676<br />

PASTOR: Rev. Emanuel Shaleta<br />

PAROCHIAL VICAR: Rev. Jirjis Abrahim<br />

MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m in Sourath, Saturday 5 p.m. in Soureth,<br />

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6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322, 248-788-2460<br />

PASTOR: Rev. Frank Kalabat<br />

Rev. Emanuel Rayes (retired)<br />

MASS SCHEDULE: Monday - Friday 10 a.m. in Sourath, Saturday 5 p.m. in English,<br />

Sunday 9 a.m. in Arabic/Sourath, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in English<br />

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PASTOR: Rev. Toma Behnama<br />

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obituaries<br />

Alvin Sabah Shina<br />

Alvin Sabah Shina was born on October 11, 1988, the first child of<br />

his proud parents, Sabah and Nancy. He was very close with his<br />

family and relatives, and he loved to spend time and travel with<br />

them. In his middle school years, he was an award-winning soccer<br />

and hockey player. Alvin was a sophomore at West Bloomfield<br />

High School and was very skilled in computers. His future hopes<br />

included becoming a successful lawyer, marrying and having a large family. He<br />

unconditionally loved and cared for Shyne, his pit bull. One of his happiest<br />

moments was the baptism of his baby twin brother and sister. Alvin died suddenly<br />

the next day, January 7, <strong>2005</strong>. He was only 16 years old.<br />

Alvin also spent countless hours with many friends from his school. Teachers and<br />

students alike mourned his death. The school designed a memory board and wrote<br />

messages to him. They also had a “Remembering Alvin” gathering where they<br />

shared stories and feelings about their beloved classmate. He was a very thoughtful,<br />

caring and giving person who would do anything to help someone in need.<br />

Alvin’s grandfather, Habib Shina, and his uncle, Zuhair Shina, preceded him in death.<br />

He is survived by his parents Sabah and Nancy; sisters Lavon, Alexia and Leanza; brother<br />

Christian; grandmother Jamila Shina and her children and their families — Zuhaira<br />

Shina, Hanna Shina, Izzat Shina, Sahira Tella, Suhama Seman and Thia Shina; grandfather<br />

and grandmother Salim and Samira Mansour (Kachkuocha) and their children and<br />

families — Jaklin Shina, Ziad Kachkuocha, Nermin Kachkuocha and Dalia Kachkuocha.<br />

The students at his school call him “an angel in disguise,” sent to silently protect<br />

the souls of those who remember him. The name Alvin means “loved by all,” and<br />

he truly was. The family would like to thank those who offered their condolences<br />

and support. May he rest in peace.<br />

Narmi Habbo Sitto<br />

Narmi Habbo Sitto was born December 1, 1907 in Telkaif, Iraq, and<br />

passed away on January 2, <strong>2005</strong> in Scottsdale, Arizona. She was<br />

known as “Nana” by her children, Marie, Margo, Najah, Sabah,<br />

Amir, Mouwaffak and Munther, and by her 18 grandchildren and 16<br />

great grandchildren. She kept her family together and close by her<br />

overwhelming love. Her heart and home were always open to all.<br />

Nana lived a good life and shared it with others.<br />

She is met in heaven by her husband, Namu, and oldest son, George. She was also<br />

predeceased by her two brothers, Yousif and Yagoub Habbo, and beloved sister Najiba<br />

Salmu. We remember all the happy times and Nana’s memory will live in our hearts.<br />

Gorguis Patrous Samona<br />

Gorguis Patrous Samona left us on December 3 2004, only 76<br />

years old. He is survived by his loving wife, Jamila Samona, and nine<br />

children: Imad (wife Kifah), Khairi (wife Taghrid), Thair (wife Shiela),<br />

Bashar (wife Ibtisam), Mazin, Peter, John, Inam (husband Kelly<br />

Denha), and Luke (wife Dawn). He was the grandfather of 19 and<br />

counting. His only daughter, Inam, was thrilled that her father had a<br />

chance to see her firstborn Bridgette only two months old.<br />

Gorguis was married in 1950 and worked hard to bring his family to America in<br />

1973. Seeing his family walk through the door put the biggest smile on his face.<br />

He grew the best watermelons in his garden and could not wait for his grandkids<br />

to come help him pick them. It would light up his face when his grandkids asked<br />

him to play cards since he was the best Kon-Kan player around. He did not know<br />

much English but he sure enjoyed watching “General Hospital.”<br />

His family would like to thank all those who share their sorrow. His memory will<br />

go on forever. We love you.<br />

Natiq Zora<br />

Natiq Zora passed away on January 11, <strong>2005</strong> at the age of 63. He<br />

was born in Telkeppe to the late Yosif and Victoria Zora. He immigrated<br />

to the United States in 1977, where he established a home<br />

and business with his wife, Florenca. Together they have five children:<br />

Bassam and his wife Nora, Alia and her husband Zahir<br />

Bahoora, and Ziyad, Andrea and Layth.<br />

Natiq’s seven grandchildren were the joy of his life and most of<br />

his time was spent loving and laughing with them. He was a father<br />

very proud of his children, always encouraging the best for them.<br />

Two brothers predeceased him, Akrem and Mekha. Surviving brothers are Zohair<br />

and Mohson in the United States and sisters Thriya, Bernadit and Wifia in Iraq.<br />

The family thanks all who shared in their sorrow and offered prayers. To them,<br />

Natiq is at peace with the Lord and forever in their hearts.<br />

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CALC corner<br />

NOTE from the<br />

PRESIDENT<br />

The Chaldean American<br />

Ladies of Charity designates<br />

year <strong>2005</strong> as “Friendship with<br />

Our Seniors.” During the year<br />

we will provide dedicated service<br />

and commitment to enhancing<br />

the quality of life of our Clair Konja<br />

senior citizens. Our organization’s<br />

mission includes developing and providing<br />

a multitude of services that will enable senior<br />

citizens to enjoy the highest quality of life.<br />

We also have many youth and social programs<br />

coming up throughout the year. We hope that<br />

you can be a part of this mission by volunteering<br />

your time at some of the many programs and<br />

services we have planned this year. If you wish<br />

to help with some of the programs or events,<br />

please complete the form on this page and return<br />

to the CALC office or you can call the CALC<br />

office at (248) 352-5018. Check the monthly<br />

CALC Corner in the Chaldean News for more<br />

detailed information about upcoming events.<br />

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APRIL<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

April 4 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays and Wednesday<br />

at 6-8p.m. weekly<br />

Southfield & West Bloomfield<br />

STROKE - PREVENTION IS<br />

THE BEST TREATMENT<br />

April 11 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

(Dr. Marisa Abbo)<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ST. ANTHONY NURSING HOME<br />

MOVIE NIGHT & REFRESHMENTS<br />

April 16 at 6:00 p.m.<br />

Warren, MI<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

April 19 at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

CREATIVE FLORAL DESIGN<br />

(ARTS & CRAFTS)<br />

(LAWRENCE YALDO)<br />

April 25 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

MAY<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays and Wednesday<br />

6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.<br />

Southfield & West Bloomfield<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

May 2 at noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

44TH ANNUAL MEETING & MASS<br />

May 5 at Noon<br />

Mother of God Church &<br />

Shenandoah Country Club<br />

SENIORS MOTHER DAY<br />

CELEBRATION<br />

AND MOTHER-DAUGHTER<br />

LUNCHEON<br />

May 9 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

CLOTHING DRIVE FOR THE NEEDY<br />

May 11, 12, 13<br />

Oak Park, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.<br />

HEALTH INSURANCE NEEDS &<br />

INFORMATION FOR THE ELDERLY<br />

(EDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP)<br />

May 16 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ALL EYES ON YOU -<br />

HEALTHY VISION<br />

May 23 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Dr. Rovetta Qashat, Optometrist<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

JUNE<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

June 6 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays - Weekly<br />

6-8p.m. - St. Joseph Church-Troy<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

June 14 at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SENIORS FATHER’S DAY<br />

CELEBRATION<br />

FATHER–SON LUNCHEON<br />

June 20 at 6:30 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SENIORS SPRING PLANTING<br />

June 25 at 9:00 a.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ESTATE PLANNING & WILLS<br />

EDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP<br />

(RANDALL DENHA, ESQ.)<br />

June 27 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

PROJECT CAN START<br />

Summer <strong>2005</strong>, Detroit<br />

JULY<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

July 5 at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ADVERTORIAL<br />

SENIORS PICNIC AND BBQ<br />

July 9 at noon<br />

Chaldean Manor Gardens<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

July 11 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays - Weekly<br />

6-8p.m. - St. Joseph Church Troy<br />

EATING HEALTHY-<br />

HEALTH WORKSHOP<br />

(PAM THOMAS HADDAD,<br />

NUTRITIONIST)<br />

July 26 at 1:00 p.m., Chaldean Manor<br />

AUGUST<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

August 1 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays - Weekly<br />

6-8p.m. - St. Joseph Church Troy<br />

AGING & CARE GIVING<br />

(DR. NEERAN BAJOUKA)<br />

August 8 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

August 16 at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ARAB & CHALDEAN NIGHT<br />

WITH DETROIT TIGERS<br />

August 24 at 7:00 p.m.<br />

Comerica Park<br />

LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE<br />

(COMEDY MOVIE NIGHT)<br />

August 30 at 7:00p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SEPTEMBER<br />

STRENGTHENING CHALDEAN<br />

FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />

Mondays - Weekly<br />

6-8p.m. - St. Joseph Church Troy<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

September 6 at noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

FIRE PREVENTION TIPS<br />

(EDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP)<br />

(INSPECTOR ALBO - CITY OF<br />

SOUTHFIELD FIRE DEPARTMENT)<br />

September 7 at noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

September 12 at noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

CONTROLLING YOUR BLOOD<br />

SUGAR: A BALANCING ACT<br />

(FLORA J. DALLO, MPH, PHD<br />

KELLOGG SCHOLAR IN<br />

HEALTH DISPARITIES)<br />

September 20 at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

TAKING A WALK DOWN<br />

MEMORY LANE<br />

(BERNADETTE NAJOR, PHD)<br />

September 28 at 7 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

OCTOBER<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

October 3 at noon, Chaldean Manor<br />

CLOTHING DRIVE FOR THE NEEDY<br />

October 5,6,7<br />

9am to 3 p.m. - Detroit<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

October 11 at noon, Chaldean Manor<br />

THE FILE OF LIFE: CREATING A<br />

MINI MEDICAL HISTORY CARD<br />

FOR YOU AND EMERGENCY<br />

PERSONNEL<br />

October 17 at 7 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ROLLING BLACKOUT AND<br />

EMERGENCIES<br />

EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS<br />

(SPEAKER: TBD)<br />

October 24 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

CHILDRENS HALLOWEEN BINGO<br />

October 28 at 6:00 p.m.<br />

St. Thomas Church Hall<br />

COAT DRIVE FOR NEEDY FAMILIES<br />

October through December <strong>2005</strong><br />

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EXTRAVAGANZA<br />

November 3 at 6 p.m.<br />

Shenandoah Country Club<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

November 7 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

TEACHING EVERYDAY ENGLISH<br />

(HELPFUL WORDS FOR SENIORS)<br />

November 15, <strong>2005</strong> at Noon<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SENIORS THANKSGIVING DINNER<br />

November 17, <strong>2005</strong> at 6 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

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November 19 at 4:00 p.m.<br />

Warren, MI<br />

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November 21 & 28, <strong>2005</strong><br />

at 1:00 p.m. at Chaldean Manor<br />

HOLIDAY LIGHTS & THE FESTIVAL<br />

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November <strong>2005</strong><br />

Dearborn, MI<br />

DECEMBER<br />

SENIORS BINGO<br />

December 5 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ADVENT BY CANDLELIGHT<br />

December 1 at 7:00 p.m.<br />

Shenandoah<br />

WREATH MAKING FOR SENIORS<br />

(ARTS & CRAFTS)<br />

December 12 at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

SENIORS CHRISTMAS DINNER<br />

December 13 at 6 p.m.<br />

Chaldean Manor<br />

ST. ANTHONY NURSING HOME<br />

CHRISTMAS DINNER AND<br />

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December 17 at 4:00 p.m.<br />

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The Bridal Issue<br />

<strong>2005</strong><br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

BY WILSON SARKIS<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 17


The Bridal Issue<br />

Chaldean weddings usually involve the entire extended<br />

family. Grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins all<br />

participate in some way with the wedding process,<br />

much like the celebrated antics of Nia Vardalos’s “My Big Fat<br />

Greek Wedding.”<br />

The traditional Chaldean marriage is some type of arrangement.<br />

This was more commonplace years ago — a bachelor’s mother<br />

phones a potential bride’s family and asks to meet her for tea and<br />

small talk. If the budding groom would like to see her again, his<br />

parents call her parents and ask for their permission to meet.<br />

The groom and bride-to-be continue to meet at her house only<br />

and must be accompanied by a group if they go out in public<br />

because they are just courting and not yet engaged.<br />

Arranged marriages still exist today but have changed a bit.<br />

Potential grooms and their families ask to see a prospective bride<br />

outside of the house. The two most common places to meet a<br />

woman are at church and work (if she works in a public place, like<br />

the mall). If the man would like to meet her, he has his parents<br />

call her parents and they arrange to meet. They continue to meet<br />

at the girl’s house and refrain from going out in public unless they<br />

are in a group or escorted by a family member.<br />

If all goes well in both cases, the families hold a tenatha, “the<br />

word.” This includes the extended family at the bride’s home. The<br />

groom’s father asks the bride’s father for his daughter’s hand in marriage,<br />

offering the traditional saying, “We would like to plant a<br />

flower from your garden into ours.” Sometimes, the bride’s mother<br />

will begin to serve tea and the groom’s family will refuse until they<br />

“give away” their daughter.<br />

When the bride’s family accepts, the groom’s family gives her<br />

jewelry and their extended families get acquainted. The couple still<br />

avoids going out alone in public until the engagement, which<br />

chaldean<br />

How some couples plan their<br />

makes their union formal. The engagement is important to families<br />

because church officials perform prayers and a blessing of the rings.<br />

After the engagement, it becomes acceptable for the whole community<br />

to know that the couple are an item.<br />

Many Chaldean young couples are on the dating scene. Even<br />

those who marry non-Chaldeans incorporate tradition in their<br />

weddings. Undoubtedly, there are families that do not hold tightly<br />

to these customs. Some families find dating<br />

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traditions<br />

Big Fat Chaldean Weddings<br />

BY CRYSTAL JABIRO<br />

acceptable and allow their sons and daughters to freely socialize.<br />

But according to Jeana Asmaro, a wedding coordinator with A<br />

Night to Remember, the single most important thing that a family<br />

looks at before accepting their son’s or daughter’s companion is his<br />

or her family’s reputation.<br />

“Reputations consist of the guy’s or girl’s own, and their parents<br />

and siblings — and at times, their aunts and uncles,” noted<br />

Asmaro. Some families refuse a potential marrying mate because of<br />

old grudges or past incidences. “It’s a shame that to this day I’ve<br />

seen families not accept a bride or groom because of a family<br />

member’s name.” This is why families discourage couples from<br />

going out in public until the church makes it official.<br />

Asmaro, who works about 40 hours a week as a Command<br />

Center Leader for the OnStar Division at General Motors, has<br />

spent three years making weddings stress-free for happy couples.<br />

Weddings have become her life. Her husband, Abeer, plays percussion<br />

and sings for the Shams Band with his brother Ameed. She<br />

also has a 20-month-old, Angelina Nidhal. But she has always<br />

enjoyed weddings, and she especially likes themed events.<br />

“You can get so creative,” said Asmaro. “We can do Chaldean<br />

customs with a theme. They make the wedding so unique.”<br />

Asmaro has planned many weddings for Americans,<br />

Palestinians, Italians and Armenians, but Chaldeans are the<br />

majority of her clients. They are also the ones with the most<br />

distinctive traditions.<br />

One such tradition that is hardly done anymore is the fyaka,<br />

or “offering.” The fyaka kicked off the weeklong wedding celebration<br />

in Iraq. The groom’s family would come to the bride’s<br />

home and offer money, property or belongings to her family,<br />

like a dowry. “I love seeing old Chaldean customs like this,” said<br />

Asmaro. Nowadays, families do the fyaka for fun and offer a<br />

small amount of money, a bottle of wine or even a live chicken.<br />

“Many people might say they don’t want a typical Chaldean<br />

wedding, but they don’t realize that Chaldean customs make the<br />

wedding different,” Asmaro said.<br />

Whether a couple has seen each other three times or dated for<br />

three years, one thing is for sure: Their decision to marry is not<br />

really theirs, and there is no escaping traditional music, ethnic<br />

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The Bridal Issue<br />

selecting a gown<br />

The more you know, the better you’ll look<br />

It’s never too early to start thinking about one of the most<br />

important aspects of your wedding day: the bridal gown.<br />

It’s best to work seven to eight months in advance,<br />

which leaves plenty of time for production (usually six months)<br />

and alterations. A dress can be delivered in as little as three<br />

months, but expect to pay 10-15 percent more in rush charges,<br />

said Anna Castaldi-Roselli, who owns Roma Sposa bridal salon in<br />

Birmingham.<br />

“The world of wedding gowns has a language all its own,” she<br />

pointed out. “The more you understand, the easier it is to find<br />

your dream dress.”<br />

When selecting a shop for your wedding dress, keep your eye<br />

on the big picture, Castaldi-Roselli advises. The person who<br />

helps you should act more as a consultant than a salesperson,<br />

wanting to hear all about your wedding and its theme, not just<br />

what you want to wear. And what your mother and bridesmaids<br />

wear is as important as your own dress.<br />

“If it’s not coordinated well, you can really make a big mistake,”<br />

Castaldi-Roselli said. “Say the mother wears a cheap polyester<br />

dress. When she’s standing next to you, it will not show off<br />

your dress as it should be.”<br />

When it comes to gowns, what’s hot these days are halter tops,<br />

strapless gowns and the portrait look, in which the gown wraps<br />

around the tips of your shoulders to frame your face. For a more<br />

modest look during the church ceremony, Castaldi-Roselli suggests<br />

a bolero jacket or a shoulder wrap that buttons onto the<br />

gown. Either can be removed for the reception.<br />

Hairpins or sticks are very much in style. They are usually jeweled<br />

and work especially well with updos. Tiaras also continue to<br />

be popular. When selecting one, keep in mind the shape of your<br />

face; if it’s long, go for a rounded top, and if it’s short, choose one<br />

with a point.<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

Some tiaras are made with pearls and precious stones that can<br />

be removed after the wedding and made into earrings or a<br />

bracelet. Or, Castaldi-Roselli jokes, “wear it while you’re cooking<br />

to remind him of who is the queen.”<br />

Also popular are mantillas, either worn on its own or under a<br />

tiara. Lace is back in a big way, Castaldi-Roselli said.<br />

“Vintage French lace is very much in style. It’s classic and<br />

timeless,” she said.<br />

Not thrilled with your figure? The right gown will accentuate<br />

the positive and minimize the negative. For instance, an asymmetrical<br />

waistline will smooth a thick waist, while a corset bodice<br />

gives a V-shaped look.<br />

Castaldi-Roselli said brides should expect to pay at least<br />

$2,300 for a fine gown. Dresses in the neighborhood of $8,000 are<br />

not uncommon if they are designer couture and one of a kind.<br />

A good mantilla may cost as much as $3,000 to $4,000, but<br />

Castaldi-Roselli said to look at the big picture.<br />

“Your daughter will wear it one day,” she said. “You are making<br />

an investment.”<br />

KNOW YOUR STYLES<br />

BALLGOWN: A very full skirt with either a natural or<br />

dropped waist<br />

MERMAID: Hugs the bodice with a skirt that flares dramatically<br />

just below the knee<br />

SHEATH: Usually fitted in a straight, long line<br />

PRINCESS: Also called Redingote, usually fitted with vertical<br />

panels extending into an A-line<br />

EMPIRE: A high waist that starts right under the bust and<br />

flows into a slim skirt<br />

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The Bridal Issue<br />

the dignified demeanor<br />

Finally, it’s the big wedding day,<br />

All people attending will look your way.<br />

Each detail and occurrence, the people there will rave,<br />

Do you know how to behave?<br />

Both planning and attending a wedding<br />

can be tough. Here are some helpful<br />

hints on common wedding etiquette to<br />

help ease the tension on the big day.<br />

One of the first choices for the bride and groom<br />

to consider is whether to hire a wedding planner.<br />

Lawrence Yaldo, a full-service event planner and<br />

owner of Elegante Production and Amazing Events florist<br />

shop in Troy, believes doing so is essential. The wedding planning<br />

staff, he said, become the couple’s “eyes and ears of the big day.”<br />

Some dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette<br />

BY CHRISTINA GAPPY<br />

They can also help smooth over breaches of etiquette.<br />

Many couples choose to have a wedding without children<br />

attending. The proper way to request no children, Yaldo said, is to<br />

declare an “adult reception” in the invitation. Couples may<br />

also politely inform the guests to limit the number of<br />

people brought along to the wedding by not including<br />

“...and family” when addressing the envelopes. As a<br />

guest, remember that only those specifically named<br />

on the envelope are actually invited.<br />

Response cards are sent along with the invitations<br />

so the couple can get an accurate count of<br />

guests. Whether you plan on coming or not, you must<br />

always respond. If people do not, Yaldo said the proper<br />

way to handle the situation is for the wedding planning staff<br />

DIGNIFIED DEMEANOR continued on page 24<br />

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Continued from page 22<br />

to call them directly to find out who<br />

will attend.<br />

If guests have already responded<br />

yes and then discover they cannot<br />

attend, Yaldo said they should call<br />

the couple themselves and explain.<br />

The polite thing is also to send a gift,<br />

usually money, along with a family<br />

member to congratulate the couple.<br />

It is also very common for guests to<br />

have more than one wedding on the<br />

same night. The proper way to handle<br />

the situation is for the guests to arrive<br />

at the first wedding early and stay<br />

until right before dinner, Yaldo said.<br />

Then arrive at the second wedding<br />

just in time for dinner. Often, the<br />

bride and groom will not even notice<br />

who is coming and who is going.<br />

Assigned seating is one of the<br />

most strategic and difficult tasks. The<br />

immediate family is usually placed in<br />

front of the head table and aunts and<br />

uncles around the dance floor.<br />

The most common issue at a wedding,<br />

Yaldo said, is when guests<br />

switch seats. This is in poor taste! If<br />

you really feel you must change your<br />

seat, ask the wedding planner.<br />

“We will accommodate them as<br />

best as possible and try to not be so<br />

noticeable of transferring guests to a<br />

different table,” Yaldo said.<br />

The couples may also find it difficult<br />

to choose the bridesmaids and<br />

groomsmen because of the extensive<br />

number of family members. If a couple<br />

feels that they have excluded someone<br />

from participating in the wedding,<br />

there are other activities people<br />

can be involved in, such as reciting a<br />

reading at the church, being an usher,<br />

being a greeter at the reception, or<br />

being an announcer for the Zeffa.<br />

What about the centerpiece? Is it<br />

okay to take it home?<br />

“Absolutely, a lot of hard work and<br />

time went into making each centerpiece,<br />

so I do urge the guests to take<br />

them home and enjoy them,” said<br />

Yaldo. However, keep in mind that the<br />

stands on some centerpieces are rental<br />

items, so should not be taken. Usually<br />

the first guest seated at the table gets to<br />

take the centerpiece home. Another<br />

option is for everyone at the table to<br />

share it by picking out enough flowers<br />

to fill a vase at home.<br />

24 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong>


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<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 25


The Bridal Issue<br />

let there be music<br />

ideos and pictures capture the wedding ceremony, but it is<br />

the music that sets the scene during the reception.<br />

Traditional dances are kept alive and many of the most popular<br />

songs, both old and new, are preformed by local bands.<br />

From new songs like “Eed wa Hoob” and “Mabrook oo Elif<br />

Mabrook” — sung during the Zeffa — to older songs like “Hel<br />

Laila Zefaina il Hilou” and “Ahya Wa Moot Al Basra” — sung<br />

as a way to reminisce — wedding halls resonate with the familiar<br />

sounds and styles of Chaldean and Arabic music.<br />

All the bands may perform the same songs, but each puts on<br />

a different show. It has become a popular wedding custom in<br />

recent years to hire the band that interacts the most with the<br />

crowd. It is not enough to be up-to-date on the latest songs or<br />

have the singer with the best voice. It is the singer who gets off<br />

stage, dances and sings among the crowd and calls the families’<br />

Choosing a wedding band<br />

BY OMAR BINNO<br />

names throughout the night who is the most sought after.<br />

Ameed Asmaro, the singer for Al-Shams, one of the hottest<br />

bands in the market, said that interaction with the crowd is definitely<br />

the main attraction of any party.<br />

“This is a wedding, not a concert,” Asmaro said. “So you<br />

don’t have to worry so much about being the ‘best’ singer as<br />

much as you’re concerned with giving your audience a good<br />

time. People want you to mingle with them, have fun with them<br />

and make them feel like their wedding is special. When I go out<br />

there, I’m there to entertain, and to make sure that the people<br />

I’m entertaining are happy and are enjoying themselves.”<br />

Picking the band also has to do with which one is the most<br />

popular at the time. A common characteristic within the<br />

Chaldean community is the competitive streak that seems to<br />

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will make an impression, so they want the “best” or “most popular”<br />

band to help make their wedding memorable.<br />

Majid Kakka, founder, singer and keyboardist for the internationally<br />

recognized Bells Band, said musicians recognized for<br />

their performing capabilities are what people want at their weddings.<br />

He wrote the song “Tair A-Saad” more than 10 years ago,<br />

and people still love to hear it for the Zeffa. Some other local<br />

bands perform it as well.<br />

“It’s all about quality,” Kakka said. “You<br />

know that people are willing to pay for you<br />

because of the effort and quality you put into<br />

your music, and into giving the people what<br />

they want.”<br />

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Chaldean and Arabic music, so the band that integrates these<br />

effectively is likely to become the most appreciated. This new<br />

style of westernizing Middle Eastern music is drawing the<br />

younger Chaldeans back to their music.<br />

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ECONOMICS and ENTERPRISE<br />

The wedding planner makes it look easy<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />

He fell into the business by combining<br />

his sense of style and his<br />

compassion for others. Leonard<br />

George, known to friends and family as<br />

Lenne, has a hard time saying no.<br />

He is the founder of Lenne George<br />

Event Planning and he has been creating<br />

memorable moments for the past<br />

11 years as a wedding planner and<br />

event coordinator.<br />

It all started when his father,<br />

Michael George, asked him to help run<br />

the Compri Hotel in Los Angeles. Lenne<br />

spent a year and half working at various<br />

levels of the business, including director<br />

of sales, short-order cook, housekeeping<br />

and front desk — and always going<br />

far beyond the call of duty.<br />

The Host with the Most<br />

Sitting in his Bloomfield Hills home, his<br />

hospitality is the prominent presence in<br />

the room as he offers pomegranate<br />

juice, making fresh watermelon drinks<br />

one day, ordering salad and serving tea<br />

on another as he reminisces about his<br />

days in the hotel business. The 40-<br />

year-old, who resembles a cover model<br />

who may have graced the pages of<br />

GQ magazine, welcomes a guest into<br />

his home as if hosting a party, always<br />

cordial and energetic.<br />

After spending a year and a half on<br />

the West Coast, Lenne moved back<br />

home to manage the Compri in<br />

Southfield — and found himself doing<br />

exactly the same things as in L.A. —<br />

anything guests asked. “If someone<br />

asked me for strawberries or fine chocolates,<br />

I ran out and bought them,” said<br />

Lenne. “If they wanted their shirts<br />

pressed, I did it.”<br />

The requests expanded beyond a<br />

run to the grocery store or an hour in<br />

the laundry. The demands of the job<br />

took a toll and Lenne found himself<br />

working almost around the clock. He<br />

was asked to help decorate the banquet<br />

hall for various events by creating<br />

floral arrangements and food tables,<br />

which today is his specialty. He would<br />

also find other vendors or another<br />

venue if necessary. It wasn’t part of<br />

Lenne’s job description, but the former<br />

fashion expert couldn’t say no. The<br />

requests evolved and Lenne started to<br />

build a client list. His first Chaldean<br />

bridal shower was for Kim Atchoo and<br />

his first wedding was for Natalie<br />

Sheena — both close friends of Lenne.<br />

However, Lenne’s first passion was<br />

in clothing and he set out for a career<br />

in fashion. Even wearing a simple pair<br />

of jeans and white pullover, Lenne<br />

exudes style.<br />

He spent the majority of his younger<br />

years studying the fashion industry in<br />

the U.S. and Japan. He started working<br />

in the business at age 11 as a stock<br />

boy for Enroute in the Oakland Mall.<br />

Next, he moved onto doing alterations.<br />

His career evolved into owning his<br />

own business — F.A.C.E, an acronym<br />

for Fashion Accessories, Closet<br />

Experts. Lenne would evaluate a person’s<br />

closet. After ridding it of any<br />

fashion faux pas, he rebuilt it with clothing<br />

and accessories to customize that<br />

person’s style.<br />

Parties with Panache<br />

Much like what he did with someone’s<br />

wardrobe, Lenne creates a statement<br />

with each event he coordinates. The<br />

majority of his business comes from<br />

house parties, his favorite venue. “You<br />

can really personalize a party, including<br />

a wedding, at someone’s home,” said<br />

Lenne. “The saying goes, if you want<br />

your house clean, have a party. If you<br />

want your house spotless, hire me. I<br />

will have even the garage completely<br />

cleaned and stocked with appropriate<br />

party needs, like paper towels, cups<br />

and soft drinks.”<br />

Lenne customizes each party<br />

according to the hosts and each event<br />

has its own sense of style and mood.<br />

When it comes to weddings he offers<br />

some advice to the bride and groom.<br />

“The biggest decoration inside your<br />

room is your guest list,” said Lenne. “I<br />

always tell the couple that they are the<br />

host and they need to work the room.”<br />

Even before the big day, Lenne<br />

works closely with couples on a game<br />

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take on a wedding,” he said. “I have to<br />

approve the bride’s gown.”<br />

He runs his business with a checklist.<br />

It’s part of his everyday life and<br />

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Lenne’s success has been built<br />

from word of mouth and having<br />

worked with a professional team of<br />

vendors. He relies on the work of all<br />

other trades to pull off a successful<br />

soirée. “I use Zina and Donald<br />

George and Scott Winfrey with<br />

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do a fabulous job with their catering<br />

company, and have an excellent staff,”<br />

said Lenne. “I work with Special<br />

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rent just about anything from them.”<br />

His humble spirit won’t allow Lenne<br />

to take total credit for his premier events.<br />

He has worked for free and without<br />

recognition for the Chaldean community,<br />

including events for the Chaldean<br />

American Ladies of Charity and the<br />

October 2004 gala fund-raiser for the<br />

Chaldean Community Cultural Center.<br />

Every Detail in Place<br />

Lenne prides himself on working as part<br />

of a team and is famously known among<br />

the industry for his “walk through,” in<br />

which he leads the team of workers<br />

through the event venue delegating the<br />

work that needs to be done. “Motivating<br />

people is vital,” said Lenne. “I surround<br />

myself with positive people and believe<br />

that we motivate with positive energy.”<br />

Lenne’s business sense kicks in as<br />

he plans each event — and the planner<br />

can stretch a dollar. “You used to be<br />

able to do a topnotch wedding five<br />

years ago with 400 guests for<br />

$65,000,” said Lenne. “Today you<br />

can’t do the same top-of-the-line event<br />

for less than $85,000.” Some things a<br />

couple can spend less on, Lenne suggests,<br />

are the invitations and the cake.<br />

An old saying goes: “expect the<br />

worst but hope for the best.”<br />

Regardless of how well he plans,<br />

Lenne knows that things don’t always<br />

go as hoped. “I remember a wedding<br />

where the couple did not take my<br />

advice on what the size of their wedding<br />

cake should be. During the reception<br />

the cake toppled over — you<br />

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Left: Natalie (Sheena) and Emanuel Casenas at their wedding:<br />

Lenne George's first Chaldean wedding.<br />

Above: Elegant table settings are a Lenne George trademark.<br />

heard this big bang,” he said “I decided<br />

to throw a tablecloth on the floor<br />

and have the couple sit next to the<br />

cake and take a bite. We shot a picture<br />

and it ended up being the photo for<br />

their thank you notes. We turned a<br />

messy situation into a festive one.”<br />

Today, Lenne still goes far beyond<br />

what is expected to make sure the<br />

wedding day becomes the reality of<br />

which the bride has dreamed.<br />

Recently, a bride forgot to buy shoes.<br />

That very day, not too long before she<br />

walked down the aisle, Lenne ran out<br />

to the mall and purchased six pairs to<br />

choose from.<br />

Lenne is more than a personal wedding<br />

planner; he quickly becomes a<br />

confidant and loyal friend keeping his<br />

couples in check. His ability to put<br />

things in perspective is reflective on<br />

how he runs his business.<br />

“The wedding is not just about that<br />

one day,” he said. “It’s every day after<br />

that — your life together as a couple<br />

and a family.”<br />

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IRAQ today<br />

Freed Archbishop Says Kidnappers<br />

Didn’t Realize Who He Was<br />

VATICAN CITY/AP<br />

ACatholic archbishop kidnapped<br />

in Iraq was released the next<br />

day without payment of ransom,<br />

the Vatican said. The prelate said his<br />

kidnappers didn’t realize who he was<br />

when they abducted him on January 17<br />

in the northern city of Mosul.<br />

Archbishop Basile Georges<br />

Casmoussa was back resting in his<br />

home shortly after his 19-hour-long kidnapping<br />

ended and told Vatican Radio<br />

he had not been mistreated.<br />

``I suspected that they kidnapped<br />

me thinking I was another person,’’<br />

Casmoussa told reporters in Mosul.<br />

``They were kind with me and told me<br />

that I will be released very soon.’’<br />

It was not clear if Casmoussa was<br />

wearing clerical garb when he was<br />

captured just after he came out of the<br />

home of a parishioner that Monday<br />

evening in Mosul.<br />

Casmoussa was quoted as telling<br />

the Italian news agency ANSA that he<br />

thought Pope John Paul II’s strong<br />

appeal on his behalf was a ``decisive<br />

factor’’ in his release. The Vatican had<br />

called the abduction a ``despicable terrorist<br />

act’’ and demanded that the kidnappers<br />

free him immediately.<br />

``I am truly, and, like a son, grateful<br />

to the pope, by whom I felt strongly<br />

supported in this very new situation for<br />

me,’’ Casmoussa was quoted as telling<br />

ANSA. ``The kidnappers themselves<br />

told me this morning about his appeal,<br />

which I maintain was a decisive factor<br />

in my liberation.’’<br />

The pontiff, who had prayed for the<br />

bishop’s release, was informed immediately<br />

of the good news, said papal<br />

spokesman Joaquin Navarro-Valls. ``He<br />

changed his prayer to one of thanks,’’<br />

he said.<br />

The kidnappers initially demanded a<br />

$200,000 ransom but then released the<br />

bishop without any payment, the<br />

Vatican said.<br />

Casmoussa, a 66-year-old Iraqi, is<br />

from the Syrian Catholic Church, one<br />

of the branches of the Roman Catholic<br />

Church.<br />

A priest in Iraq said on condition of<br />

anonymity that the archbishop was<br />

walking in front of the Al-Bishara<br />

church in Mosul’s eastern neighborhood<br />

of Muhandeseen when gunmen<br />

“I am truly, and<br />

like a son, grateful<br />

to the pope.”<br />

— ARCHBISHOP CASMOUSSA<br />

forced him into a car and drove away.<br />

Mosul, in Iraq’s north, has been a<br />

hotspot for the violent insurgency in<br />

recent months.<br />

``I think that my kidnapping was a<br />

coincidence,’’ the archbishop told<br />

Vatican Radio. ``It doesn’t seem to me<br />

that they wanted to strike at the Church<br />

per se.’’<br />

Navarro-Valls said the Vatican didn’t<br />

view the kidnapping as an anti-<br />

Christian act but part of the general climate<br />

of violence in Iraq. He said the<br />

archbishop was well-loved in the community<br />

.<br />

Basile Georges<br />

Casmoussa, 66,<br />

the Archbishop of the<br />

Syrian Catholic Church,<br />

sits in a chair after<br />

he arrived back to the<br />

church in Mosul, some<br />

360 kilometers,<br />

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ONE-on-ONE<br />

Michigan Democratic Party’s Mark Brewer<br />

Mark Brewer, chair for the Michigan Democratic<br />

Party (MPD), talked to The Chaldean News about<br />

what is going on in the State of Michigan as it<br />

impacts the Chaldean community and the Democratic<br />

Party.<br />

Chaldean News (CN): Can you tell us briefly about<br />

some of the initiatives from the Michigan Democratic<br />

Party?<br />

Mark Brewer (MB): Michigan Democratic Party<br />

policy initiatives include:<br />

• Election Reform, including no-restriction absentee<br />

voting, same-day voter registration and early voting.<br />

• Economic development for small business.<br />

• Increase in the minimum wage.<br />

• Ensuring that all Michiganders have affordable<br />

health care.<br />

• Quality public education.<br />

• Fighting against President Bush’s plan to privatize<br />

Social Security.<br />

CN: Michigan always seems to be near the bottom<br />

of the list in the country when it comes to receiving<br />

federal dollars. Why? And what can you do to help<br />

change that?<br />

MB: Senators Levin and Stabenow and our<br />

Democratic Congressional delegation are tirelessly<br />

working to make sure Michigan receives every federal<br />

dollar that it deserves.<br />

CN: The Iraqi election is an historical time. What<br />

has the Democratic Party done to assist the President<br />

with the election process to ensure a true democracy,<br />

considering many Iraqi-Americans were eligible to<br />

vote?<br />

MB: As a political party, we have always supported<br />

the aspirations of people everywhere seeking a<br />

free and democratic society. We fully support the Iraqi<br />

people, their elections and their freedom. We encouraged<br />

all eligible Iraqi Americans to register and vote<br />

in the Iraqi elections.<br />

CN: Jobs were one of the issues at the forefront of<br />

this past presidential election. What has the State of<br />

Michigan and the Democratic Party done to attract<br />

jobs? Have we done everything possible to bring jobs<br />

to the state?<br />

MB: The Granholm Administration is working to<br />

kick start the state’s economy. The Governor invested<br />

$25 million in the Technology Tri Corridor to ignite<br />

investment in life sciences and high-tech job-creating<br />

capabilities and charged the Commission on Higher<br />

Education with development of strategies to double<br />

the number of college graduates to create a highly<br />

educated and well-trained workforce.<br />

Governor Granholm’s goal is to make Michigan a<br />

global economic powerhouse in the 21st century. In<br />

2004, more than 54,000 jobs were created or<br />

retained as a result of targeted assistance provided<br />

by the Michigan Economic Development Corporation.<br />

Overall during 2004, the Governor announced the<br />

creation or retention of some 130,000 jobs by all state<br />

agencies.<br />

CN: What is the Democratic Party doing to get<br />

involved in the rebuilding efforts of Iraq, if anything?<br />

MB: As a political party, we are not directly<br />

involved in the rebuilding process, but we believe in<br />

and advocate a vigorous effort to rebuild Iraq.<br />

CN: How can Chaldeans Americans become<br />

more involved in doing business with various levels of<br />

government? What type of outreach has the<br />

Michigan Democratic Party done with the Chaldean<br />

community?<br />

MB: I encourage all Chaldean Americans in<br />

Michigan to get involved with the Michigan<br />

Democratic Party as voters, members and candidates.<br />

The MDP has a Chaldean Democratic Club<br />

and Chaldean Americans can also get involved with<br />

their congressional district and county parties, which<br />

would give them the opportunity to meet and work<br />

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governments. Information about the MDP and its<br />

activities can be found at its website: www.mi-democrats.com,<br />

or by calling (517) 371-5410.<br />

CN: Various elected officials in both the<br />

Democratic and Republican parties have appointed<br />

Chaldeans to their administration, yet many other<br />

administrations have no representatives from our<br />

community. How can we remedy that? Also, many<br />

Chaldean Americans often feel overlooked by elected<br />

officials or lumped into another group. Do you believe<br />

that state officials really understand our community<br />

and our needs? If not, how can we better educate<br />

them on who we are?<br />

MB: There are several ways we can remedy the<br />

lack of Chaldean representation and educate the public<br />

on the Chaldean American community. Becoming<br />

active in the MDP is one answer. Further, the MDP<br />

can promote various Chaldean American activities<br />

(conferences, forums) through e-mail and the<br />

Internet.<br />

In addition, this summer Governor Granholm created<br />

the Commission on Arab and Chaldean<br />

American Affairs. The commission serves in an advisory<br />

capacity to the Governor, alerting her to pertinent<br />

issues within the largest Chaldean American community<br />

outside of the Middle East.<br />

The commission will also make recommendations<br />

about programs and policies for the betterment of<br />

Arab and Chaldean Americans in Michigan and will<br />

help promote public awareness of Arab and<br />

Chaldean culture and accomplishments.<br />

CN: The Governor presented the “Cool Cities”<br />

concept that attracts “Creative Classes,” but according<br />

to a questionnaire of 1,300 state residents age<br />

18-35, they prefer comfort. They don’t want pricey<br />

“I encourage<br />

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Michigan to<br />

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— MARK BREWER<br />

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changed the Governor’s “Cool Cities” campaign?<br />

MB: The Granholm Administration agrees with the<br />

results of the survey. They understand that a vital part<br />

of any city is its safety and security. A place might not<br />

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immigration bias?<br />

Why Chaldedans can’t get<br />

asylum in the U.S.<br />

Ask any Chaldean who<br />

has contact with fellow<br />

Christians still<br />

living in the homeland. They tell<br />

stories of persecution at the hands of<br />

Islamic fundamentalists, of liquor<br />

stores and beauty parlors attacked, of<br />

Christians kidnapped, of churches<br />

bombed. Why then are Iraq’s<br />

Christians having such a difficult<br />

time receiving asylum from the U.S.<br />

government?<br />

Many immigration attorneys<br />

blame both the U.S. government<br />

and Chaldean Church leaders. Each,<br />

they say, maintain the position that<br />

all of Iraq’s people are suffering, and<br />

that Christians in particular are not<br />

being targeted.<br />

“Our government is not going to<br />

admit that it can’t protect these people,”<br />

said Namir Daman, an immigration<br />

attorney based in Oak Park.<br />

“And the church is really hampering<br />

our efforts in obtaining across-theboard<br />

asylum for Christians. Church<br />

leaders are saying the bombings<br />

have only been isolated incidents<br />

and that the Christian situation is<br />

improving.”<br />

Steven Garmo, an immigration<br />

attorney in Farmington Hills, agrees.<br />

“The United States wants stability<br />

in Iraq. Without Christians, we<br />

may not have the stability,” he said.<br />

“The U.S. government doesn’t want<br />

Christians to leave Iraq, and neither<br />

does the Chaldean clergy.”<br />

In fact, Garmo said, Mar<br />

Emmanuel Delly, Iraq’s Chaldean<br />

patriarch, insists to the media that<br />

mosques are being bombed as well as<br />

churches. He, as well as Yonadam<br />

Kanna, the interim government’s<br />

Chaldean representative, must always<br />

keep politics in mind, Garmo said.<br />

BY JOYCE WISWELL<br />

“You have to be political in Iraq<br />

— you can’t just say that Christians<br />

are being persecuted,” said Garmo.<br />

“If you talk about it too much, you<br />

will only bring more violence, more<br />

Christians targeted.”<br />

Daman agreed politics plays a<br />

role, but said church leaders are<br />

going too far to downplay problems.<br />

“They are going out of their way<br />

to say these are only isolated incidents,”<br />

he said. “They say, ‘everyone<br />

is suffering, just give it more time.’”<br />

Southfield Attorney Jane Shallal<br />

said asylum is difficult for Chaldeans<br />

to achieve because a lot of the persecution<br />

is general in nature.<br />

“Asylum laws require you to be<br />

very case-specific,” she said. “They<br />

want to hear exactly who, when,<br />

where the persecution took place.”<br />

But a lot of the persecution<br />

Christians are undergoing is more<br />

subtle, such as social ostranization or<br />

women being pressured to cover<br />

their head with a hijab. The kidnappings<br />

of Christians, she said, can be<br />

viewed as the work of thugs after<br />

money rather than an organized persecution.<br />

WHAT TO DO?<br />

Shallal recommends that Chaldeans<br />

coming from Iraq and hoping to seek<br />

asylum bring as much collaborating<br />

evidence as possible, including — if<br />

they exist — medical records for<br />

injuries from torture, psychiatric<br />

records from treatment for post-traumatic<br />

syndrome and affidavits of witnesses<br />

and family members.<br />

It’s often easier to enter the country<br />

on a three-year employment visa,<br />

she said, which can be extended for<br />

another three years. After that, if<br />

BIAS continued on page 39<br />

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BIAS<br />

Continued from page 36<br />

the employer is willing, such immigrants<br />

can get labor certification<br />

and get legal permanent residence.<br />

This is only a viable option for people<br />

with professional degrees, she<br />

said, but it’s easier than going for<br />

asylum.<br />

Daman said Iraqi Christians who<br />

feel they are in danger should leave<br />

the country for Jordan, Lebanon or<br />

another neighboring nation and<br />

apply at its United Nations office for<br />

refuge status. Temporary residence is<br />

guaranteed, he said, until the person<br />

finds a country that will allow the<br />

person to move there permanently.<br />

Garmo recommends that Iraqi<br />

Chaldeans consider immigrating to<br />

Canada.<br />

“Many people forget that Canada<br />

has a very flexible immigrations system<br />

— significantly more flexible<br />

than the U.S.,” he said.<br />

Daman, who is currently representing<br />

about 100 Chaldeans in Metro<br />

Detroit and 20 in the Chicago area,<br />

said no one has been deported back to<br />

Iraq yet. But he worries that once the<br />

U.S. government believes the situation<br />

in Iraq is stabilized, that may happen.<br />

LOOKING DOWN THE ROAD<br />

The attorneys agree that immigration<br />

officials have become a bit more sympathetic<br />

to Iraqi Christians since the<br />

coordinated church bombings in<br />

August 2004.<br />

“Asylum officers have not been very<br />

knowledgable about the plight of<br />

Christians in Iraq,” said Shallal. “Only<br />

recently, since the church bombings, is<br />

there really understanding. So now<br />

Chaldeans can use religious persecution<br />

to seek asylum rather than political<br />

persecution.”<br />

But, Garmo said, it’s still an uphill<br />

battle.<br />

“Since the church bombings it has<br />

become a little easier,” Garmo agreed,<br />

“but the immigration judges in Detroit<br />

continue to believe and listen to the<br />

U.S. government, State Department<br />

and our own church elders in Iraq, who<br />

say Christians are not being persecuted.”<br />

Mar Ibrahim N. Ibrahim, bishop<br />

of the St. Thomas Chaldean Church<br />

Diocese, declined to comment on<br />

the issue.<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 39


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<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2005</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 41


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