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LAMODE DATING & RELATIONSHIPS
Of course time heals all wounds but
sometimes we really can't keep waiting
for time, instead, we should take "the
bull by the horn". Heartbreak or what I
will like to call "The unwanted visitor",
has become rather more rampant than
necessary, especially in this computer
age where young ones do not know
exactly what it takes to keep a
relationship, rather, they break up at
every little misunderstanding.Heartbreak
either as a result of divorce or break-up
leaves one party or even both very
devastated. Some of the characteristics
associated with heartbreaks include:
Shock and Denial
Realisation and Pain
Anger, Blame & Frustration
Depression, loneliness and a sense
of hopelessness
Low self esteem
Trying to cope with heartbreak is very
difficult and painful but necessary,
especially if you intend to move on.
The below steps will help reduce the
pain and increase recovery:
1
Cry if you have to but only for a while
and then wipe your tears. That way, you
can let go of all your anger and pain.
2
Getting over a heartbreak all starts and
ends with the individual's decision to do
so. You must accept that the relationship
is over and move on with your life.
3
Get rid of all items and personal
belongings of your ex, by doing this, you
are constantly not reminded about
him/her.
4
Spend more time with your friends and
family, they would help you out of your
situation.
5
Go out and meet new people, belonging
to "The Open Market" is quite fun.
Yemi
Okwechime
Of course time
heals all wounds
but sometimes
we really can't
keep waiting for
time, instead,
we should take
"the bull by the
horn".
Heartbreak or
what I will like
to call "The
unwanted
visitor"
6
Always understand that the relationship
ended because you deserve better.
7
Exercising is the greatest healer. Try a
couple of routines; Yoga would just do it.
8
Always be busy, it helps.
DATING
9
Do things you enjoy, try new ones too.
10
You won't believe what music can do to
your soul! Listen to music more often
and let it be your saviour in this difficult
time.
11
Everything happens for a reason so take
the lessons learnt from the past
relationship, let go of the heartbreak and
move on, but be sure you are ready
before going into another.