La Mode

I say GREED because most women (and people in
general) these days have embraced this new found
liberation and gender equality ‘hoohaa’ and are running
wild with it. In their heads the saying ‘what men can do,
women can do better’ means in EVERYTHING
including sex. I disagree and beg to differ. A lot of you
with ‘open minds’ will argue and say it’s a personal choice
whom one chooses to sleep with and that is true…to an
extent. I say this because if this was entirely true, we will
not look down on or find humans sleeping with animals
appalling and disagreeable.
I say CONFUSED because a lot of the women who are
choosing to either engage in homosexuality or bisexuality
(in this part of the world) are mostly bitter and don’t
know how to deal with their bad experiences with men or
in most cases process the hurt and anger they’ve
experienced.
I don’t disagree that this topic goes in deeper and further
but I am not a psychologist I am a writer and from recent
trends in society and listening to people talk, a lot of
these young women are generally just fed up of men
taking the piss and toiling with their hearts and generally
JUST curious and bored. A lot of these young women
have been sexually abused from childhood or have just
been sexually active from an early age so by the time
they’re in their 20s, they have experienced being with a
man and now are ready to try new things.
However, the confusion comes in when they think that
sleeping with another woman is the answer. I’m a woman
and I cannot stand women! I have very few female
friends because the ‘WAHALA DON PLENTY FOR
ME’ (too much drama for me)!
In my opinion, although many of us, if not all, have
encountered or experienced homosexuality, the
growing number of you young women choosing to
hide behind it by ways of safe guarding your heart and
feelings is rapidly growing and quite frankly it is sad
and pathetic.
LAMODE REALITY
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had my heart broken and
wondered why I even bother with men! And to tell you the truth, a
lot of women and people think I’m Gay or Bi-sexual, I don’t
mind, I just laugh and correct them.
In today’s society, there are many young; self sufficient, financially
independent and well to do women who basically DO NOT need
the security that man have been known to provide for women
anymore. For this reason, when we are hurt and disappointed, so
many of us wonder why we even bother putting ourselves through
the lies and the cheating!
Whiles this is understandable, I don’t see how sleeping with
another woman is the answer because they can hurt you too, they
are human.
I cannot judge anyone but I am entitled to my personal opinion.
This issue is becoming a problem in our society and as Africans
with upstanding morals, traditions and rich cultures, it is important
that we discuss it and deal with it instead of shying away from it
and leaving it to affect and infect our current and upcoming
generation who are the future.
And men…it would help if you treated us right so we will enjoy
womanhood in all its glory.
Please share your views with me by leaving a comment below.
Till next time, Keep it Thicck!