sxdomis marTvis, mxareTa morigebis komunikaciuri da ...
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2. qmedebebisa <strong>da</strong> komunikaciis sferoSi SesamCnevia an garkveuli<br />
ga<strong>da</strong>Warbeba (gauTavebeli laparaki), an piriqiT, ukan <strong>da</strong>xeva (TvalSisacemi<br />
dumili, pasiuroba). fsiqologii<strong>da</strong>n cnobilia, rom <strong>da</strong>Zabul<br />
emociur atmosferoSi mxareebi gauazreblad avlenen wlebis manZilze<br />
gamj<strong>da</strong>r reagirebisa <strong>da</strong> qcevis stils;<br />
3. rac Seexeba fsiqikur mdgomareobas, emociebs, aq piriqiT, gaRrmaveba<br />
aRiniSneba. matulobs brazis, SiSisa <strong>da</strong> ususurobis ganc<strong>da</strong>. es<br />
grZnobebi dominireben gonebas (saqmian, faqtobriv Sres). bevr qveyanaSi<br />
arsebobs gamonaTqvami: `is, rac grZnobebs Seuracxyofs, veRar aRwevs<br />
gonebamde~.<br />
deeskalaciis mniSvnelovani wesis mixedviT, sanam mxaresTan saqmian<br />
Sreze SesaZlebeli iqneba ama Tu im sakiTxis ganxilva an saerTod<br />
aseT problemaze saubari, jer saWiroa ganitvirTos emociuri mdgomareoba.<br />
yovelTvis, rodesac mxarisaTvis konfliqti didi mniSvnelobisaa, SeiZleba<br />
gamovlindes Semdegi fsiqikuri reaqciebi:<br />
1. mizez-Sedegobrivi modeli, anu e.w. `eSmakis borbali~. sasamarTloSi<br />
orive mxare <strong>da</strong>rwmunebulia imaSi, rom meore mxarem warmoqmna<br />
konfliqtis mizezi, romelzec man mxolod reagireba moaxdina.<br />
magaliTad, qali <strong>da</strong> kaci xSirad kamaToben. kaci fiqrobs: `radgan<br />
qali gamudmebiT wuwunebs <strong>da</strong> nervebs miSlis (mizezi), amitomac<br />
gavdivar saxli<strong>da</strong>n (Sedegi/reaqcia)~. qali ki Tvlis, rom: `radganac<br />
kaci xSirad gadis saxli<strong>da</strong>n (mizezi), amitomac var ukmayofilo <strong>da</strong><br />
vwuwuneb (Sedegi/reaqcia)~;<br />
2. Tavis marTleba. am dros xdeba sakuTari eskalaciis gamarTleba<br />
mowinaaRmdege mxaris saqcieliT;<br />
3. personifikacia <strong>da</strong> reaqtiuli gaufasureba. aRniSnuli gulisxmobs<br />
procesze pirisa <strong>da</strong> misi argumentebis <strong>da</strong>mcireba-gaufasurebas. wina<strong>da</strong>deba<br />
mxolod imitom aris uaryofili, rom igi momdinareobs<br />
meore mxarisagan;<br />
4. gavrcoba <strong>da</strong> ganzogadebuli konfliqti. xSirad mxareebi procesze<br />
arsebuli eskalaciis gamo miiCneven, rom konfliqti arsebobs ara<br />
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