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Union-Endicott
Health 1
Human Sexual ity / Boundaries
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Boundaries are limits on how far physical intimacy goes in a relationship. Just
like the property
lines around your home or the white lines on the road,
. boundaries are important to keep things under control. Give an example or two of
other types of boundaries in our' lives.
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What are the foundational guidelines that help you establish your own personal
boundaries related to physicul intimacy?
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Why do you need boundaries?
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Who should be deciding where your' boundaries are? _
Should boundaries in physical Intimccv be thought of as walls or gates?
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In a relationship that may involve physical intimacy, these are some key ideas.
1) Knowwhat your boundcries are BEFOREthe relationship begins.
2) Clearly communicate these boundaries to your partner.
3) Stick to your boundories no matter what. Do not forgive 'trespassing'.
4) Also respect your partner's boundaries, but be aware that if you have
different values or standards related to boundaries, t'he relationship is
going to have difficulty.
You are not being kind-hear-ted O," generous when you put up with a partner that
pushes your boundaries or makes you feel guilty about your decisions.
It is your life. Take centroll