When Healing Becomes Educating, Vol. 2 - Waldorf Research Institute
When Healing Becomes Educating, Vol. 2 - Waldorf Research Institute
When Healing Becomes Educating, Vol. 2 - Waldorf Research Institute
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Why Me? – Elements in Considering<br />
the Meaning of Illness and of Handicap*<br />
Michaela GlÖckler<br />
In pediatric practice, one frequently hears the question: Why does my<br />
child have to suffer like this, why has this happened to my child? But people<br />
who develop a disease in adulthood—and it often comes like a bolt from<br />
the blue—ask themselves why it has to happen to them, and why at that<br />
particular moment. The same question is rarely asked by parents who have<br />
a parti cularly gifted child or by people who have special gifts themselves.<br />
Unusual ability tends to be taken as a matter of course or a “natural gift.”<br />
An answer to the question as to the origin and meaning of illness and<br />
special gifts begins to emerge if we look at life to see what we have been able<br />
to do thanks to such a gift or what has developed in our life or for people<br />
around us because of the illness. It is a particular aspect of human nature<br />
that we learn from pain, suffering and sickness, and this helps us to develop.<br />
The essential and fruitful question to ask in dealing with such destiny events<br />
is: How was or am I able to learn; what will be the effect on my further<br />
development?<br />
Even harmless infections such as the common cold may be seen to have<br />
meaning for they help to activate and exercise the immune system, and it<br />
will have grown stronger when the infection has been overcome. There is<br />
good reason, therefore, why children have numerous acute febrile infections<br />
in their early years, when the immune system is still developing and the<br />
body has to learn to resist pathogens. The meaning is also fairly obvious in<br />
the case of relatively harmless psychosomatic conditions in youth and early<br />
adult hood. Sleep disorders, loss of appetite, gastric pain and headaches<br />
are functional symptoms which serve to show that the individual has not<br />
yet learned to deal with problems and worries inwardly in such a way that<br />
they do not affect the functions of the ether body and consequently of the<br />
physical body. Insight into these relationships, combined with suitable<br />
*Original title: Warum ich? – Motive zur Sinnfrage von Krankheit und Behinderung.<br />
Der Merkurstab 1997; 50: 213-17. English by A.R. Meuss, FIL, MTA. Reprinted, with kind<br />
permission, from Begabung und Behinderung, published in Stuttgart in 1997.<br />
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