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Hearing Silly Whenever I want to hear what Silly has to say, all I have to do is talk to my self out loud – not so loud that other people might think I’m being, well, silly, but just loud enough for me to hear Silly talking out, as it were, loud. Actually, it’s more listening to the out loudness of it all than it is listening to Silly. In fact, should Silly so choose, I could even be talking nonsense and/or gibberish. 287
Your Inner Thespian So there you are, encapsulated, on a nine-hour flight, sitting in a middle seat between two women, neither of whom expresses any interest in exchanging pleasantries or profundities. In front of you, a screen promising a mind-numbing selection of proven paths to mind-numbness. And your headphones aren’t working. You wait patiently, as one of the fleeing flight attendants suggested, to see if, in fact, once takeoff has taken off, the sound will sound. Nothing. So you sit, trying to watch a movie you can’t hear. And suddenly, from the very wings of your psyche, you hear your inner-thespian, wording and re-wording what to say should someone happen to respond to the call-light. Yes, the plane is completely full. Yes, those who were there to respond to your every concern are fleeting by in a flurry of otherwise-engagement: meal carts, drink carts, carts of freedom from duty. And during that hour of vain rehearsal, your inner-thespian, for lack of alternative, entertains you. You realize, of course, that it is you, doing this to your self, this framing and reframing of the yet unsaid and unanswered, in the name of something like fun. You, doing this (a tad compulsively), to keep your self entertained, occupied, otherwise engaged. You are reminded of other encounters with your inner-thespian, waiting in line at Starbucks, repeating words like “latte grande, non-fat, extra hot” in preparation for your performance in that momentary, yet all-consuming Encounter with a Barrista; of other times spent preparing for your bit part with a waiter as you sit alone in a restaurant, or with a policeman as you sit in your car reviewing speed limits, or with a nurse as you sit in the waiting room with last year’s issue of Health Now lying unopened on your lap. You, entertained only by the imagined voice of your inner-thespian rehearsing words that will, in all likelihood, remain unspoken, forgotten. You funny person you, doing this to your self, rehearsing as if you had the leading role. “No small parts,” you say to your self. You oddly funny, genuinely lovable, inner-theatrical person. 288
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A Playful Path Bernard Louis DeKove
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Contents Prelude 13 A Playful Path
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Play 147 The Sense of Play 149 Life
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Your inner Tire Swing 268 Your Inne
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how cold and wet it would be, you t
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The final section (Fun) generalizes
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A playful path “A playful path is
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caught, even, and we pause just as
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No guardrails hath the path There's
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Life and death on your playful path
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that it, too, had been repurposed
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Playfulness Playfulness isn’t rea
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Wonder The entrance to your playful
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But the payoff, the payoff! Taking
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Play playfully Playfulness opens yo
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world yoga with laughter and games
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Playing together When it comes to p
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Playfulness and humor Our sense of
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Practicing Playfulness “The Path
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Applauding leaves Here’s a story
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Toilet Paper Tug of War In my earli
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Dayeinu, the game There are some pa
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Playing with rejection Even rejecti
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The Out-Blessing game Trying to out
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Being Blessed When my wonderful fri
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Human Spring Played in pairs. Stand
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Follow the Follower Turn on some ge
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Food Theatre 1) Prepare at least fi
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P.S. You can’t make your self mor
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A Theory of Games “Fun is better
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it was all about acting like you wa
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the pursued as well as the pursuer.
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The way of games The more I played
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Games as a way of understanding Luc
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The wisdom of games Ever since I di
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Hide and Seek The hider acts as if
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to find the belt became the master
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Braving the game It takes bravery t
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and laughter as a spiritual experie
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very much bigger, so very much more
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Cooperation and competition So, let
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Loving competition One of the games
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Games are for Fun As I might have h
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The Fun-Focused game When we talk a
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admiration, of shared fun. When chi
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The Slanty Line principle There’s
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The friendly game When I think of a
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The evolving game Some games evolve
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Or, if you have a multilingual grou
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a circle) and assumes the last numb
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Of games and players One thing you
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114 Cooperative games There are bas
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We’ve made it a rule that you’r
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Of course, there are still more var
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On the other hand, sometimes it’s
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All games are cooperative Each game
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On being IT Take tag, for example.
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Funny Games “...for the truth wil
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Hug Tag Somebody’s IT. Maybe even
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Roshambo Then there’s Roshambo, f
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Rock-Scissors-Paper Tag Which bring
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Something That Beats Something Else
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And when those fail, grab as many t
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When people bump into each other, t
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eally: a Fred, a Pizza, a Furblik).
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The fun also rises Fun is our most
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enefit from following such a path -
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Life is play We know that play is f
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Master players Many people have com
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Play and getting paid to play On ge
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Playing like a grownup You know peo
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Innocent intimacy I’m especially
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• the art and science of fun •
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The same is true of the human herd.
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Play and death Dying isn’t fun. B
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well, joy and comfort in each other
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ers’ and each other’s. Rules an
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Coliberation When we play or work o
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The shared Whee What am I doing whe
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hang-gliding, bungee-jumping, rock-
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Bill taught me this. Was this. A fl
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Finding Fun Fun is wherever you are
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knowing when to start a new game so
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The laws of fun Let’s divide ever
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Fun, happiness, joy, bliss When you
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Becoming Gifted On my way to work I
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The Kinds of fun “All for fun, an
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The kind of fun that makes you laug
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As fun as fun can be As fun as fun
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Funny fun Probably one of my favori
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Naughty fun When we’ve talked abo
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Nachas and Mechaiyeh xxx In my atte
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Fantastic Fun It’s fun to fantasi
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Beauty There’s something fun abou
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Cruel fun I’m not sure if it’s
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Good fun Good fun is a healing kind
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Minor fun Let's pretend that there
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Dizzy fun I started thinking about
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Fun with your self Some games we pl
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Fun with a bunch of others Then, th
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Ziggy Zah! Repeat: Kehaygeza Kehayg
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The Fun of Fun “Don’t let the h
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Whee! When you find your self in th
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The sense of fun People talk about
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Which makes you think of course abo
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The spirit of fun Fun is a spiritua
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it right, you’re having as much f
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Not having fun, or having not-fun W
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ones. In fact, bringing the minor t
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Page 261 and 262: My oral coronation There I was, lyi
Page 263 and 264: The Inner Inner City Amuse my self,
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Page 267 and 268: Your Inner Swingset Congratulations
Page 269 and 270: Your Inner Tire Swing Imagine your
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Page 277 and 278: Enter Silly and Serious At last, he
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