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crude form of equity fem<strong>in</strong>ism to expla<strong>in</strong> the trends<br />

observed and, <strong>in</strong> the process, contribute to the 'backlash'<br />

aga<strong>in</strong>st the women's movement."<br />

Trends notwithstand<strong>in</strong>g, many researchers feel that girls<br />

jo<strong>in</strong> gangs for protection, or to learn skills to help them<br />

escape abuse. About 12 percent of all adolescent girls, 15<br />

percent of college women, and 20 percent of all adult<br />

females have experienced sexual abuse and assault. For girlgang<br />

members, the <strong>in</strong>cidence appears to be even higher.<br />

"Almost a third of girls <strong>in</strong> gangs admitted to the <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>view</strong>ers<br />

that they had been sexually tampered with at<br />

home," Moore says of a study she worked on, add<strong>in</strong>g that<br />

this statistic doesn't even <strong>in</strong>clude abuse which girls might<br />

get from their male peers.<br />

"I would suggest that the majority of girls who are committ<strong>in</strong>g<br />

acts of <strong>in</strong>dividual violence have <strong>in</strong> some way been<br />

victimized or abused," says Wolfe. (Many male perpetrators<br />

of violence, such as child abusers, have also been victimized<br />

as children, studies show.)<br />

Gangs may be places of refuge for these girls. Chesney-<br />

L<strong>in</strong>d likens girl gangs to the "consciousness-rais<strong>in</strong>g groups"<br />

of the 1970s. Yet many girls jump from one bad situation to<br />

another, as the <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g violence out on the streets is not<br />

much safer than violence at home.<br />

Street-Wise Fem<strong>in</strong>ism<br />

Are girl-only gangs a fem<strong>in</strong>ist statement "To some extent<br />

there are ways <strong>in</strong> which these women are bond<strong>in</strong>g with<br />

each other," Leslie R. Wolfe, president of the Center for<br />

Women Policy Studies <strong>in</strong> Wash<strong>in</strong>gton, D.C., expla<strong>in</strong>s.<br />

"<strong>The</strong>y are build<strong>in</strong>g little sisterhoods."<br />

"<strong>The</strong>y're go<strong>in</strong>g through their women's movement too,<br />

f<strong>in</strong>ally." Diaz-Parton notes. "<strong>The</strong>y're start<strong>in</strong>g not to accept<br />

the male attitude toward them anymore."<br />

While Diaz-Parton has many regrets about her gang life,<br />

she most especially regrets that her girl gang jo<strong>in</strong>ed the boy<br />

gang. <strong>The</strong> girls found that the boys often <strong>in</strong>volved them <strong>in</strong><br />

petty squabbles with other gangs with whom the girls had<br />

previously had no problems. "A lot of my home girls today<br />

feel that jo<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g Los Compadres was what actually<br />

destroyed the gang <strong>in</strong> the end; that we could have kept<br />

go<strong>in</strong>g and took care of ourselves."<br />

As one young girl-gang member said to Diaz-Parton<br />

about the boys: "If they want to party, that's cool, but they<br />

don't run us."<br />

Still, only a few girl gangs have the guts to go it alone.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y feel more secure hav<strong>in</strong>g the guys there and are hav<strong>in</strong>g<br />

a hard time be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>dependent. "It's always scary to break<br />

out of a mold," says Diaz-Parton. "If the girls knew exactly<br />

how the home boys talked about them when they weren't<br />

there, they might have a different attitude."<br />

ON THE ISSUES WINTER 1995<br />

A Dearth of Programs for Girls<br />

Unfortunately, the growth of gang violence among <strong>in</strong>ner<br />

city girls has not yet resulted <strong>in</strong> adequate services. Diaz-<br />

Parton compla<strong>in</strong>s that services for kids are cont<strong>in</strong>ually cut<br />

and programs for girls are even harder to come by. She has<br />

become the girls' advocate at the project, where only three<br />

out of about 50 gang workers are female. Most of the programs<br />

and sports, from football to baseball, are for boys.<br />

In the 1950s, social workers often tried to get girl-gang<br />

members to attend "charm" cl<strong>in</strong>ics <strong>in</strong> etiquette and cosmetics,<br />

learn sew<strong>in</strong>g, or help with charities as a way to prevent<br />

del<strong>in</strong>quency. Programs haven't improved much. A national<br />

study done <strong>in</strong> 1991 on the state-of-the-art violence-prevention<br />

programs found that only three programs out of the<br />

51 respondents were for females. Of the three, one served<br />

potential perpetrators of violence; the other two served survivors<br />

of violence. Even when programs <strong>in</strong>clude females,<br />

their special needs are overlooked. Many gang members are<br />

pregnant or already mothers, yet basic necessities, such as<br />

day care, are overlooked <strong>in</strong> many youth programs.<br />

"Policy-makers are concerned about male adolescent<br />

violence because, frankly, they're afraid of be<strong>in</strong>g attacked,"<br />

Wolf expla<strong>in</strong>s. A tall young black male is seen as much<br />

more threaten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> white society than a 15-year-old Lat<strong>in</strong>a<br />

carry<strong>in</strong>g her 10-month-old child.<br />

Many programs also seem to be languish<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a huge<br />

cultural gap. "<strong>The</strong>y're real sorry," Julia says about the Youth<br />

at Risk program. She and Paula jo<strong>in</strong>ed as a way to get out<br />

of go<strong>in</strong>g to class, but after a while the program got bor<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y couldn't relate to the mentors at first (many of whom<br />

were white) because they lived far away and couldn't speak<br />

Spanish. "But we started to understand that they were there<br />

for us," says Julia. "All those days we were cry<strong>in</strong>g, cry<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

cry<strong>in</strong>g, about the problems that we had, the hurt... you<br />

want people to listen to you."<br />

<strong>The</strong> culture gap is why the Community Youth Gang Services<br />

Project hires gang members to counsel gang members<br />

and why Diaz-Parton is particularly suited to her job. <strong>On</strong>ce<br />

Diaz-Parton got <strong>in</strong>to a position of "power" at the Project,<br />

she started a girl's Softball league. A breakthrough occurred<br />

when, after the male gang members started dr<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g and<br />

goof<strong>in</strong>g off dur<strong>in</strong>g the games, the girls f<strong>in</strong>ally told them to<br />

quit it or leave. To their surprise, the boys behaved themselves.<br />

It gave the girls a great sense of self-esteem and personal<br />

empowerment.<br />

"<strong>The</strong>y don't know that there's power <strong>in</strong> numbers," Diaz-<br />

Parton expla<strong>in</strong>s. "<strong>The</strong>y don't know that there's a way to get<br />

what you want without violence; they don't know how to<br />

register to vote."<br />

Diaz-Parton feels that if kids could learn how to deal with<br />

th<strong>in</strong>gs pro-actively, they wouldn't resort to violence. "It's<br />

really hard to conv<strong>in</strong>ce kids not to react <strong>in</strong> a violent way<br />

when violence is the only th<strong>in</strong>g rewarded <strong>in</strong> this society."<br />

Perhaps the most important th<strong>in</strong>g to remember is that<br />

most kids <strong>in</strong> gangs are just that: kids.<br />

Despite many sensationalized media accounts, most gangs<br />

are just a group of kids who like to dr<strong>in</strong>k and party, not a<br />

sophisticated crime syndicate. Most gang members are just<br />

"followers" who need the purpose, structure, and authority<br />

of the gang—structure that seems to miss<strong>in</strong>g otherwise. For<br />

abused girls, <strong>in</strong> particular, the gang br<strong>in</strong>gs some normalcy<br />

to their lives, says Moore.<br />

"Other than the violence, I don't th<strong>in</strong>k there's a lot of<br />

difference, between a gang and a sorority or fraternity,"<br />

Diaz-Parton says. "I th<strong>in</strong>k it all depends on where you fall<br />

economically. Everybody has a need to be a part of someth<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

and the gangs are the most available and the most<br />

glamorous th<strong>in</strong>g happen<strong>in</strong>g right now." •<br />

Stephanie Brail is a free-lance writer who teaches Internet sem<strong>in</strong>ars<br />

with the Los Angeles Internet Group. Her email address is<br />

sbrail@nyx.es. du. edu.<br />

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