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em<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g me of my first Ob/Gyn, who talked about i ogs,<br />
wheels, and operations until I left scream<strong>in</strong>g silently, hysterical,<br />
womb-panicked by his imposition of cold structure.<br />
Some of the students show an acolyte's reverence, a sense<br />
of my sk<strong>in</strong> as envelope, and life beat<strong>in</strong>g warm beneath it.<br />
Others want a map, a compass; certitudes of def<strong>in</strong>ition and<br />
diagnosis. A few stay humble, and they are my favorites.<br />
Because it is humility I am learn<strong>in</strong>g myself, <strong>in</strong> this cl<strong>in</strong>ical<br />
act of prostitution. I ease <strong>in</strong>to rout<strong>in</strong>e, dropp<strong>in</strong>g my gown<br />
readily for each new student, but what replaces embarrassment<br />
is neither arrogance nor <strong>in</strong>difference.<br />
This is my body, narrow-shouldered, fair-sk<strong>in</strong>ned, with<br />
full, pale-nippled breasts and arms freckled darker beside<br />
them. Not one of these cl<strong>in</strong>icians can reduce this body to<br />
certa<strong>in</strong>ty; what lies beneath sight is closer to spirit than flesh.<br />
Like post-modern faith, it requires a gentle prob<strong>in</strong>g that<br />
takes noth<strong>in</strong>g for granted, overlaps its own circles, stops short<br />
of center.<br />
I can teach them what I'm told: the steps of the exam, the<br />
danger of <strong>in</strong>appropriate touch, the consummate need for<br />
courtesy and order. But how do I teach them that my body<br />
has a life of its own That together, my body and I harden,<br />
swell, fall, soften, give suck—and none of that can be deconstructed<br />
or controlled. Read the textbook, but never forget:<br />
<strong>The</strong> female body is as mysterious as the soul.<br />
And as shameless. •<br />
Jeannette Batz is an award-w<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g journalist who writes about<br />
fem<strong>in</strong>ist and social <strong>issue</strong>s for <strong>The</strong> Riverfront Times, a progressive<br />
weekly <strong>in</strong> St. Louis. She participated <strong>in</strong> the cl<strong>in</strong>ical program at<br />
Wash<strong>in</strong>gton University School of Medic<strong>in</strong>e last year, while f<strong>in</strong>ish<strong>in</strong>g<br />
her doctorate <strong>in</strong> American studies.<br />
Natural<br />
Childbirth:<br />
From Option<br />
to Orthodoxy<br />
BY NICOLE BOKAT<br />
"I did it!" a beam<strong>in</strong>g Elizabeth announced to our mother's<br />
group."Chloe was born naturally''<strong>The</strong> other women clustered<br />
around mother and baby, nodd<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> approval that<br />
Elizabeth had passed the childbirth test with fly<strong>in</strong>g colors.<br />
<strong>On</strong>ce aga<strong>in</strong>, a feel<strong>in</strong>g of alienation crept over me. Pregnant<br />
with my second child, I planned on request<strong>in</strong>g anesthetics<br />
the moment my labor pa<strong>in</strong> got too <strong>in</strong>tense.<br />
Unlike me, many women today strive to have natural<br />
childbirth. Even Maria Maples "had no anesthetics," Donald<br />
Trump bragged to <strong>The</strong> New York Times. <strong>The</strong> most popular<br />
way of achiev<strong>in</strong>g this goal is through Lamaze tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g; to<br />
distract the labor<strong>in</strong>g mother by focus<strong>in</strong>g her attention on<br />
complicated breath<strong>in</strong>g techniques. Accord<strong>in</strong>g to a 1992 article<br />
<strong>in</strong> Forbes magaz<strong>in</strong>e, half of the parents of the four million<br />
babies born <strong>in</strong> 1991 went through Lamaze tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g. This figure<br />
doubled from 25% <strong>in</strong> 1987. Why are we so caught up <strong>in</strong><br />
the trend<br />
If all th<strong>in</strong>gs come <strong>in</strong> cycles, then our culture is immersed<br />
<strong>in</strong> a grow<strong>in</strong>g moralism when it comes to motherhood and,<br />
as a by-product, childbirth. Hav<strong>in</strong>g proven that we can be<br />
<strong>in</strong>dependent, high function<strong>in</strong>g, high earn<strong>in</strong>g, and aerobically<br />
fit, women are also striv<strong>in</strong>g, once aga<strong>in</strong>, to excel at motherhood—beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<br />
with our marvelous feats of endurance <strong>in</strong><br />
the delivery room. How many other long, arduous procedures<br />
do people brag about surviv<strong>in</strong>g without the benefit of<br />
modern medic<strong>in</strong>e Has anyone ever heard of "natural openheart<br />
surgery" How about a "natural vasectomy"<br />
While avoid<strong>in</strong>g drugs to m<strong>in</strong>imize the risk to one's baby<br />
is the underly<strong>in</strong>g aim of natural childbirth, conquer<strong>in</strong>g the<br />
process has, <strong>in</strong>advertently, become a status symbol. Hav<strong>in</strong>g a<br />
child, "naturally," is considered a badge of honor among<br />
some mothers; perhaps this is similar to surviv<strong>in</strong>g a bullet<br />
among men who've been to war. <strong>The</strong> more militant portray<br />
triumphant veterans of childbirth battles <strong>in</strong> grandiose terms,<br />
conjur<strong>in</strong>g up images of Mother Teresa, Joan of Arc, or the<br />
Mighty Lioness of the Jungle. But, even for the more ma<strong>in</strong>stream,<br />
"natural childbirth" has become a catch phrase; one<br />
that appeals to the "good mother" <strong>in</strong> us. What has been lost<br />
is the message of the women's movement: Every woman<br />
should be free to make her own choices about pregnancy<br />
and motherhood without be<strong>in</strong>g judged.<br />
Yet, too many pregnancy books, peers, and care providers<br />
<strong>in</strong>sist that if we fail at natural childbirth, we are settl<strong>in</strong>g for<br />
an <strong>in</strong>ferior experience or, worse, expos<strong>in</strong>g our <strong>in</strong>fants to<br />
potential risks. Tracy Hotchner's Pregnancy and Childbirth is<br />
representative of a slew of guides for expectant mothers.<br />
<strong>The</strong> author advises women to try and avoid medication,<br />
warn<strong>in</strong>g that any drug might harm the baby.Yet, <strong>in</strong> the next<br />
breath she expla<strong>in</strong>s that maternal anxiety—a reaction to pa<strong>in</strong><br />
and fear—can adversely affect labor. Enjoy<strong>in</strong>g every m<strong>in</strong>ute<br />
of your labor is thus the only guilt-free choice.<br />
36 ON THE ISSUES WINTER 1995