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6.3 USING DRUGS TO RATIONALISE RISK TAKING<br />
While the experiences of men described above largely<br />
relate to drugs having an unwanted influence over their<br />
sexual behaviour, a small number (less than a quarter)<br />
acknowledged that their relationship with drugs and<br />
sexual risk-taking behaviour was much more complex.<br />
They each expressed a willingness to engage in risktaking<br />
behaviour as a means of living out sexual fantasies<br />
relating to dangerous or transgressive behaviour. Such<br />
behaviour and rationalisation links with how and why<br />
some men used drugs to expand their sexual repertoire<br />
and found confidence in them to live out sexual fantasies<br />
(described in 5.5).<br />
“ Whilst on G, I allowed people to ejaculate inside<br />
me. So I was taking maybe more risks. But you know<br />
usually when I was negative, I never allowed that to<br />
happen because of the risks, my ability to control<br />
myself was inhibited, and I also, you know, allowed<br />
myself to get carried away in the moment and live out<br />
those fantasies that, you know, I had been fantasising<br />
about; dreaming about. ”<br />
[Aged 33, diagnosed HIV positive]<br />
Such experiences are different from those described<br />
in chapter 6.1, in which we described HIV positive men<br />
making decisions to engage in UAI with other HIV<br />
positive men in a considered manner (i.e. drugs did not<br />
have a significant role in their decision making). The men<br />
we describe in this section, however, only felt able to<br />
live out sexual risk fantasies when using drugs. All were<br />
conscious that they could blame their behaviour on drug<br />
taking, and that this would be a more socially acceptable<br />
explanation, but in fact acknowledged that drugs<br />
enabled them to do something they desired.<br />
“ You actually knew what was going to happen. You did<br />
it on purpose. You had been saying to yourself all this<br />
time that the reason you have sex when you get high is<br />
because you only feel horny when you get high. Maybe<br />
that’s not true. Maybe you only allow yourself to have<br />
sex when you’re high or drunk because being high and<br />
being drunk is an excuse to not care anymore. It’s not<br />
necessarily that the drugs make you not care, it’s that<br />
you’re using them as an excuse so you can go off into<br />
this separate little bubble and say that’s not really me.<br />
[Aged 32, last tested HIV negative]<br />
”<br />
One participant spoke of his emerging awareness of the<br />
role of pornography in his own sexual behaviour. He held<br />
a fascination with ‘bareback’ porn and acknowledged<br />
that this had developed from a fantasy into reality,<br />
facilitated by drugs which removed any prior inhibitions.<br />
While he perhaps was not conscious of the link between<br />
drugs, pornography and risky sex to begin with,<br />
reflection, both prior to, and during the interview had<br />
made this clear to him. Both this participant, and several<br />
others, emphasised that the transition from a fantasy of<br />
risky or socially transgressive behaviour into reality of<br />
sexual experience had been facilitated by the perceived<br />
prevalence of condomless sex within the networks of<br />
gay men who engage in <strong>chemsex</strong>. Some men felt that<br />
condomless sex had become so normalised among men<br />
who use drugs that it was difficult to insist on condoms<br />
being used, and also easier to rationalise not using them.<br />
“ The fact that the majority of people who are in this<br />
scene are doing it bareback so if you want to be<br />
involved in that scene then that is the way you feel you<br />
have to go. ”<br />
[Aged 40, diagnosed HIV positive]<br />
‘They each expressed a<br />
willingness to engage in risktaking<br />
behaviour as a means<br />
of living out sexual fantasies<br />
relating to dangerous or<br />
transgressive behaviour.’<br />
Gaining an objective sense of how normalised<br />
condomless sex was within the networks of men who<br />
engage in <strong>chemsex</strong> was very difficult as participants<br />
differed in their views. As discussed in the previous<br />
section, a significant proportion generally sought to<br />
have protected sex with sero-discordant partners but<br />
felt that drugs influenced their behaviour and made<br />
sexual gratification more salient. The following section<br />
describes the perception and experiences of men who<br />
were adamant that personal rules relating to protected<br />
sex were always observed, even when drugs were used.<br />
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