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Brain Go BOOM!<br />

Author/Survivor: John Cooper<br />

Thank you to my mental health professionals. Dr. Armstrong who helped me cope with<br />

my P.T.S.D., Dr. Ralph Petrucci who has taught me it’s alright to have bad days or weeks and<br />

that “…it’s okay to go sideways from time to time. I just don’t want to see you going one step<br />

forward then three steps backwards, but it’s ok to go sideways.” Dr. Bach for teaching me that I<br />

don’t have to wake up every day and wonder if I’m going to have another brain aneurysm and<br />

possibly die. Thank you to Dr. Berardinelli who is teaching me that what others may be thinking<br />

about me may be my own misconceptions and that I do posses the ability to change this. Her<br />

reinforcing therapy sessions and giving me take home assignments are working out well. We are<br />

working on it. She has also helped me create my own scheduling system; a system that may not<br />

work for most people, but works for me. They believe in me.<br />

Thank you to all of my fellow brothers at The Ancient Order of Hibernians (AOH)<br />

Division 3 in Doylestown. Thanks to Jack O. and his big red truck with his grandson in the back<br />

seat (again, I am so sorry Jack). To Jerry, Denny, Jim, Donnie for not only taking the lead on<br />

driving me back and forth to ninety percent of my therapy sessions at Doylestown Hospital three<br />

times a week, they also reinforced their own belief and faith that, “You are one of those guys that<br />

will pull out of this hell hole and come out on top.” They believe in me.<br />

Thank you to my closest friends Billy and his wife, Jess, Frank and Dawn and Matt and his wife,<br />

Julie, for standing bedside Laura while I was in a coma and for supporting my family and, most<br />

times, putting our needs in front of your own. Thank you for the countless hours of<br />

conversations and for allowing me to cry on your shoulders. Thanks for the occasional punch in<br />

the gut to wake me up and keeping me on track. Also, thank you to Scott and Jen and Kevin and<br />

Lori. You never acted as if anything was out of the ordinary when I was wearing my big,<br />

oversized, white, Corky helmet. May times you took on the RED LIGHTS that were in my path.<br />

When people stared at me in disgust, there were many occasions when you would be more upset<br />

than I was and you had no problem addressing these people head on. Thank you for making me<br />

laugh and for motivating me to not let my brain aneurysm define who I was. Thank you for<br />

loving me. That’s what friends are for...keep smiling, keep shinning... They believe in me.<br />

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