Clockwise Cat Strikes Back
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mother, which is why it's paramount that women have the right to terminate their<br />
pregnancies - i.e., to halt the growth of a part of themselves so that it doesn't reach<br />
viability beyond the womb.<br />
I realize for some, hopefully many, I am preaching to a vociferously vocal choir on this.<br />
But some, clearly, need further education on the matter. And why does it always seem to<br />
be men who need the most education on this very fundamental feminist issue? Hmmmm,<br />
could it be that men have lost significant sway over telling women what to do?<br />
So yeah. Abortion is a more humane way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy than<br />
carrying it to term and adopting the baby out. It should be blindingly, blaringly obvious<br />
as to why, but just to ensure we are all on the same page of practical thinking:<br />
The termination of a pregnancy aborts potential for life, and stymies the production of<br />
what could later become a sentient being. Therefore, the fetus feels no existential pain in<br />
being disallowed to progress, as it were.<br />
But a baby, and a child, will indeed endure existential anguish when it lacks a loving<br />
parent to nurture its growth. There is no guarantee the baby will be adopted out - there are<br />
millions of children living in orphanages and foster homes - and whether it is adopted or<br />
not, the child lugs around a lifelong awareness of having been given up by its original<br />
parents.<br />
Does this sound coldly clinical toward abortion, and presumptuous toward children who<br />
do manage to become adopted?<br />
I suppose it does. But I am less concerned about the coldly clinical aspect of abortion<br />
than I am about a possible presumptuous attitude toward adopted children. For I am<br />
aware that there are people who do grow up in loving, adoptive families. Those were the<br />
lucky ones, in my view.<br />
I am also aware that there are those who grow up healthy and happy in orphanages, or<br />
various foster homes. I do believe those are few in number.<br />
My point is: Aborting an unwanted pregnancy thwarts ALL possibility of these tragic<br />
scenarios: a child being given up for adoption only to face the prospect of living out its<br />
days parentless; a child being adopted by an abusive couple; a child being bounced from<br />
foster home to foster home with no substantial stability to anchor him or her.<br />
Clearly the optimistic obverse can happen - a child is taken in by model parents - but that<br />
is not as likely as the other scenarios, statistically speaking.<br />
The other anguishing aspect of giving a child up for adoption, of course, is that the<br />
mother - and father, if he is emotionally involved in the child he helped conceive - is<br />
usually encumbered with a sense that her child is floating around somewhere, possibly