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mother, which is why it's paramount that women have the right to terminate their<br />

pregnancies - i.e., to halt the growth of a part of themselves so that it doesn't reach<br />

viability beyond the womb.<br />

I realize for some, hopefully many, I am preaching to a vociferously vocal choir on this.<br />

But some, clearly, need further education on the matter. And why does it always seem to<br />

be men who need the most education on this very fundamental feminist issue? Hmmmm,<br />

could it be that men have lost significant sway over telling women what to do?<br />

So yeah. Abortion is a more humane way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy than<br />

carrying it to term and adopting the baby out. It should be blindingly, blaringly obvious<br />

as to why, but just to ensure we are all on the same page of practical thinking:<br />

The termination of a pregnancy aborts potential for life, and stymies the production of<br />

what could later become a sentient being. Therefore, the fetus feels no existential pain in<br />

being disallowed to progress, as it were.<br />

But a baby, and a child, will indeed endure existential anguish when it lacks a loving<br />

parent to nurture its growth. There is no guarantee the baby will be adopted out - there are<br />

millions of children living in orphanages and foster homes - and whether it is adopted or<br />

not, the child lugs around a lifelong awareness of having been given up by its original<br />

parents.<br />

Does this sound coldly clinical toward abortion, and presumptuous toward children who<br />

do manage to become adopted?<br />

I suppose it does. But I am less concerned about the coldly clinical aspect of abortion<br />

than I am about a possible presumptuous attitude toward adopted children. For I am<br />

aware that there are people who do grow up in loving, adoptive families. Those were the<br />

lucky ones, in my view.<br />

I am also aware that there are those who grow up healthy and happy in orphanages, or<br />

various foster homes. I do believe those are few in number.<br />

My point is: Aborting an unwanted pregnancy thwarts ALL possibility of these tragic<br />

scenarios: a child being given up for adoption only to face the prospect of living out its<br />

days parentless; a child being adopted by an abusive couple; a child being bounced from<br />

foster home to foster home with no substantial stability to anchor him or her.<br />

Clearly the optimistic obverse can happen - a child is taken in by model parents - but that<br />

is not as likely as the other scenarios, statistically speaking.<br />

The other anguishing aspect of giving a child up for adoption, of course, is that the<br />

mother - and father, if he is emotionally involved in the child he helped conceive - is<br />

usually encumbered with a sense that her child is floating around somewhere, possibly

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