The Good Life - Nov-Dec 2013
The areas premier men’s magazine featuring inspirational men in our community. Covering a variety of topics including local heroes, fathers, sports and advice for men.
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Thanksgiving Tips for Dads:<br />
LESSONS FROM FOOTBALL<br />
By: CAREY CASEY | WWW.FATHERS.COM<br />
ihave a prediction: I bet you’re going to watch<br />
a football game or two on Thursday ...<br />
It’s a great tradition — at least one that<br />
I enjoy each Thanksgiving.<br />
And here’s one thing I really like about<br />
watching football with the family. Football, as<br />
with all sports, comes ripe with teachable moments.<br />
Think about the messages you are sending to<br />
your kids while watching a football game. When your<br />
team is too far behind to catch up, do you roll your<br />
eyes and say, “<strong>The</strong>y might as well go home?”<br />
Or do you cheer for them, shouting for them to<br />
play their hearts out anyway?<br />
And when a referee makes a bad call that favors<br />
your team, do you call for fairness anyway?<br />
So with that in mind, here are some tips for dads …<br />
6<br />
Action Points for Watching Football on Thanksgiving:<br />
1. Hold your team to high standards.<br />
If one of your favorite team’s players is<br />
misbehaving, don’t defend him. Defending people<br />
who behave inappropriately could teach your kids<br />
that it’s okay for them to disregard authority figures<br />
in their lives (even you) if it serves their own purposes.<br />
It also tells children that some adults don’t have to<br />
behave. This is the wrong message to send children.<br />
Yes, children should respect adults. But they should<br />
also be aware that adults shouldn’t get away with<br />
inappropriate behavior simply because they are<br />
adults.<br />
So when you see a player or coach misbehave, or<br />
when a referee makes an unfair call that benefits your