Lama Zopa Rinpoche
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service from your heart. It’s not as if you’re doing it for money or some other worldly<br />
reason.<br />
Many people who work for money, even in the care profession, come to dislike their job.<br />
They work as little as possible and at the end of the day get away as soon as they can, always<br />
longing for their day off. Many people in the West cannot appreciate how their suffering<br />
comes from the mind, from wrong concepts, from not having a good heart. That makes life<br />
so difficult. Working only for their own pleasure, they find no satisfaction.<br />
Here, you should offer as much service as you can from your heart; offer your body, speech<br />
and mind. That is the best Dharma, the best meditation. Then you will be happy. The more<br />
you appreciate how precious serving another being is, the more you enjoy it. It doesn’t have<br />
to be a guru you are serving. Your mind will be so happy to serve, whatever you can do.<br />
This applies to even the small things in your daily life: offering your seat to somebody on the<br />
bus, helping somebody carry a heavy load or, as my guru Kyabje Serkong Tsenshab<br />
<strong>Rinpoche</strong> often mentioned, rescuing a drowning insect. Try to do whatever you can to help,<br />
according to your capacity, whether it’s big or small.<br />
By using your body, speech and mind to serve others you are repaying your parents’<br />
kindness, not making what they have done meaningless. Your mother suffered so much for<br />
you for the nine months you were in her womb. Then, during your childhood, you were<br />
constantly demanding things: “I want this, I want that.” Your parents always did whatever<br />
they could to please you but still you would cry. For so many years they took care of you,<br />
giving you medicine, books, food, clothing, spending vast amounts of money on you. You<br />
must repay that kindness, giving them meaning for their great effort.<br />
Serving others means that your parents’ efforts have not been meaningless. Otherwise, they<br />
have made children simply for their own happiness. People get married, have children and<br />
then, after some time, there are many problems and finally, one day, it is finished.<br />
Knowing how to live your life with bodhicitta, even if you are living a family life with<br />
children, means you know how to serve others, how to really appreciate others. If you must<br />
scold your child, you do it with love so that he or she will learn to be a better person.<br />
Only by cherishing others will we attain enlightenment<br />
The third reason to help sentient beings is that they have all been our mother and father<br />
numberless times and have all been kind in the four ways numberless times from<br />
beginningless rebirths.<br />
If we are able to cherish one sentient being, even the enemy who gets angry at us, by<br />
cherishing that one sentient being we can achieve enlightenment. That person gives us<br />
enlightenment. Not only that, we become enlightened for sentient beings. And by the way, by<br />
cherishing that sentient being we also achieve the happiness of future lives and liberation<br />
from samsara.<br />
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