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Tuesday <strong>May</strong> 9 <strong>2017</strong><br />

Latest Christchurch news at www.<br />

Your Local Views<br />

Dealing with loss and grief<br />

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NOR’WEST NEWS<br />

Canterbury<br />

University<br />

student<br />

Heather<br />

McMillan talks<br />

about her<br />

experiences<br />

dealing with grief at a<br />

young age<br />

When I was 16 my Mum<br />

passed away from cancer – this<br />

is a sentence that I still get anxious<br />

saying or typing even four<br />

years later.<br />

It’s the point in a conversation<br />

that will cut all upbeat to the<br />

ground.<br />

I generally just tell people and<br />

then reassure them that not<br />

knowing what to say is normal.<br />

From the age of 16 I’ve had to<br />

teach myself how to cope with<br />

MEMORY<br />

LANE:<br />

Heather<br />

McMillan<br />

is raising<br />

money for<br />

CanTeen<br />

after losing<br />

her mother<br />

to cancer.<br />

She is<br />

pictured<br />

here as a<br />

child with<br />

her mother.<br />

dealing with grief.<br />

With the sadness of it, the<br />

spontaneity of it and the knowing<br />

it’s something I have to face<br />

every day.<br />

Dealing with grief at any age<br />

is horrible, but as a teenager and<br />

young person it has been especially<br />

hard.<br />

Thankfully, though, along the<br />

way I’ve gained the help from<br />

CanTeen through their offspring<br />

group and youth workers.<br />

MATT DOOCEY<br />

MP FOR WAIMAKARIRI<br />

I have been given so many opportunities<br />

to meet other youth<br />

who are affected by cancer.<br />

To most people CanTeen is<br />

seen as a resource to patients but<br />

it is so much more then that and<br />

I am so lucky to have them.<br />

They have been the introducer<br />

of so many other young people<br />

who are going through the<br />

same or similar situations with<br />

cancer.<br />

Having the release of having<br />

people who can relate to<br />

what you are going through as<br />

a young person is more then<br />

incredible.<br />

It can make the most overwhelming<br />

of days feel better<br />

by having people who actually<br />

understand what you are going<br />

through.<br />

CanTeen has become such<br />

a big part of my life that I am<br />

shaving my head to raise funds<br />

and give back to the Canterbury<br />

branch.<br />

My main purpose for this<br />

head shave is to raise awareness<br />

about what CanTeen do and to<br />

be able to open up about my own<br />

experiences dealing with grief.<br />

•If you want to donate to<br />

Heather’s shave on <strong>May</strong><br />

23 visit: https://givealittle.<br />

co.nz/fundraiser/aheadshavetoremember<br />

FLAME FILES<br />

Keep cooking under<br />

control in the kitchen<br />

• Mark Thomas, fire risk<br />

management officer<br />

I KNOW I’ve repeated the advice<br />

about looking when cooking<br />

dozens of times over the years<br />

and it looks very much like it’s<br />

never going to cease completely.<br />

But every now and then I<br />

despair a bit.<br />

Like on Wednesday when<br />

within three-and-a-half-hours<br />

fire trucks responded to three<br />

different cooking incidents.<br />

A house completely filled with<br />

smoke from a forgotten pie in<br />

the microwave in Sockburn was<br />

followed by a pot on the stove,<br />

again filling the house in Kotare<br />

St and a further incident in<br />

Bryndwr where smoke inhalation<br />

was the result for the elderly<br />

occupants.<br />

Any of these could have been<br />

much worse.<br />

A life or a house gone.<br />

But all of them were preventable.<br />

Stay in the kitchen.<br />

The smell of burning in your<br />

home can be frightening for<br />

anyone.<br />

More so if you’re blind.<br />

Proudly NZ owned and<br />

operated by cost caring women<br />

The occupant of a house in<br />

Addington thankfully did the<br />

exact right thing, again on<br />

Wednesday, by phoning 111<br />

and having the local crew there<br />

within minutes.<br />

Turned out to be a tea towel<br />

smouldering on an element.<br />

The potential here was a bit<br />

frightening.<br />

I’ve not mentioned arson here<br />

for a long time.<br />

It’s still occurring but the<br />

removal of most of the empty<br />

houses in the red zone has made<br />

it less visible or newsworthy.<br />

A drum of diesel spread along<br />

the road in the early hours last<br />

Sunday in Wigram was lit and<br />

left by whatever morons thought<br />

it was clever.<br />

They’re still out there. As stupid<br />

and dangerous as ever.<br />

WE SERVICE<br />

WHAT WE SELL<br />

CHAT WITH MATT<br />

This Thursday, 18 <strong>May</strong>, I hope<br />

to meet you at my Keeping<br />

Connected Evening Meeting at the<br />

Belfast Rugby Club from 7.30pm<br />

to 8.30pm. I am holding these<br />

meetings all over the electorate<br />

to be accessible outside business<br />

hours. Nothing beats connecting<br />

face to face and I’m enjoying these<br />

lively discussions.<br />

Papanui High School students<br />

impressed me with their<br />

innovative product ideas during<br />

their school’s recent BP Business<br />

Challenge. I enjoyed being part<br />

of the judging panel. Students<br />

are mentored by business leaders<br />

and then present their ideas. Well<br />

done to Papanui High for fostering<br />

our young business leaders of the<br />

future.<br />

Funded by Parliamentary Service and authorised by<br />

Matt Doocey MP, 130A Percival St, Rangiora.<br />

A $2 billion package to deliver pay<br />

increases to those working in aged<br />

and disability residential care, and<br />

home and community support<br />

services is good news for local<br />

families. I visit all our rest homes<br />

around the electorate and I know<br />

the value of what these workers<br />

do in helping the most vulnerable<br />

in our communities.<br />

Increased investment in policing<br />

will deliver 70 more police staff<br />

for Canterbury. We’ve seen our<br />

regional population grow and<br />

can expect further growth. I<br />

meet regularly with our local<br />

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women and this investment<br />

will also equip them with new<br />

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