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While continuing the project, we constantly<br />

interact with Manong Floro because he personally<br />

visits the Kalahi-<strong>CIDSS</strong> Office in Poblacion, Kabugao<br />

to discuss his concerns and reports on the status<br />

of the project whenever he gets a chance.<br />

Our team easily got along well with him and<br />

his family during the many days and nights we<br />

had to stay in his barangay. We usually stay at his<br />

house during our monitoring and technical advice<br />

sessions with the community and that’s where we<br />

got to know him well.<br />

were not able to take the blow. He suffered bruising,<br />

his young skin went black and blue. Being in the<br />

barrio where the only available doctor is a “Hilot”<br />

who tried but had never corrected the broken or<br />

twisted bones even after a lot of sessions.<br />

Since then, he had to drag his left foot every<br />

time he walks. He has to grow up with the<br />

challenges of mobility and the discrimination he<br />

receives from all kinds of people. Despite all the<br />

rocky roads in his life, he kept a positive spirit and<br />

lived through life.<br />

<strong>KALAHI</strong>Serye 2016|| 51<br />

Manong Floro suffered an accident when he<br />

was five or six years old. His brother Tony narrated<br />

that they had rough childhood games because<br />

they were a fan of Bruce Lee.<br />

One day, after watching a Bruce Lee movie,<br />

they agreed to do kickboxing with a tree branch<br />

as a target. The rule was the higher the kick, the<br />

better. He aimed, concentrated just like what he<br />

saw in the movies and kicked with all his might.<br />

He was merely a young child acting out like a<br />

tough action star. His delicate muscles and bones<br />

Now, he is 54 years old and is happily married<br />

with Manang Maritess with their 3 kids.<br />

His wife married him despite the protest of her<br />

parents who told her that Manong Floro will not<br />

be able to build a happy family with her because<br />

of his deformity. Staying with them in their home<br />

convinced me more that having disability is not<br />

a hindrance to happiness. It’s just a matter of<br />

perspective.<br />

I witnessed how Manang Maritess always goes<br />

with Manong Floro and takes care of his physical

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