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On January 2017, after 5 fruitful years of being<br />

a parent leader, she has turned over the position to<br />

a co-beneficiary for her time has come to venture<br />

on something bigger. On the same month, she<br />

was appointed as Barangay Treasurer in Barangay<br />

Asob, Gusaran, Kabayan, Benguet.<br />

Her time as a parent leader has indeed been a<br />

fruitful one since through this, her efforts had been<br />

acknowledged thus landing her a job. Although<br />

she has given up her title as a Parent Leader, she<br />

still is active as a community volunteer for the<br />

<strong>KALAHI</strong>-<strong>CIDSS</strong> project, as well in the Sustainable<br />

Livelihood Program. In fact, they even have an<br />

association called the NARASUGI which sells rice<br />

and feeds.<br />

These knowledge she had acquired through<br />

her time as parent leader were not put in vain<br />

since she has been able to share it not only to her<br />

fellow beneficiaries but also to other constituents<br />

who were not included in the program.<br />

“Addu met naadal ko gapu iti FDS, especially iti<br />

parenting. Adda realization mo nga “ayna, adu gayam iti<br />

nagkamaliam nga parent” isunga adda met pangalaam ti<br />

maiadvise mo kenya da nga haan nga pantawid benes.<br />

(I have learned a lot in our Family Development<br />

Sessions, especially in the discussions about<br />

parenting. There were realizations like “oh, I<br />

should have not done that to my kid or I could<br />

have handled that situation better”. With these<br />

(FDS learnings) we get to share to other non-<br />

Pantawid beneficiaries as well)”, she added.<br />

passed this on to all her children.<br />

“Uray tatta ma’am nga nagkasar kami ni lakay ko,<br />

hannak jay asawa nga agururay lang iti maiawid ni lakay,<br />

agbirok ak iti maicontribute ko tapno mas nalaka ti biag<br />

mi – ta kitaen yo met, adu annak mi, haan mi kaya nga<br />

maymaysa lang iti agtrabaho, kailangan nga agtulungan<br />

kami nga agasawa. (Even now that we’re married,<br />

I’m not the type to just wait around for my<br />

husband’s take home, I also look for ways to help<br />

earn money for our lives to be easier. See we have<br />

four children, and we cannot do it with just one of<br />

us working. We need to help each other)“, Dorta<br />

said.<br />

Given that Pantawid Pamilya is already into<br />

transition, Dorta is confident that she and her<br />

family are ready to graduate from the program.<br />

She is thankful for all the years they have been<br />

beneficiaries and is hopeful that their gradual<br />

transitioning from subsistence to self-sufficiency<br />

will be continuous in the hopes of breaking the<br />

intergenerational cycle of poverty that they are<br />

currently into.<br />

Indeed a woman can do whatever she put<br />

her mind into, from a housekeeper to a barangay<br />

treasurer. She just needs the right motivation. If<br />

we make change work for women, we can be<br />

rest assured that women will make the necessary<br />

change.<br />

<strong>KALAHI</strong>Serye 2016|| 63<br />

MORE THAN A MOTHER, SHE IS A<br />

WOMAN<br />

Aside from being a loving mother to her children,<br />

Dorta also embodies a strong, independent, and<br />

will-powered woman.<br />

At an early age, she was taught that being<br />

a woman is not a limitation to go further and<br />

achieve greatness. Although she married early,<br />

she still made sure she has that identity and has

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