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12 I NEWS I<br />

February <strong>20</strong>, <strong>20</strong><strong>19</strong><br />

MID RIVERS NEWSMAGAZINE<br />

@MIDRIVERSNEWS<br />

MIDRIVERSNEWSMAGAZINE.COM<br />

The story behind Barnes-Jewish Hospital’s 10,000th organ transplant<br />

By ELLEN LAMPE<br />

They call themselves the “Kidney Sisters.”<br />

Two pairs of women – best friends<br />

Marti and Randi and mother/daughter duo<br />

Pat and Kate – who once were strangers to<br />

each other but now are interconnected by<br />

an unbreakable bond.<br />

Marti Simon, of Ballwin, and Randi<br />

Halpern, of Chesterfield, have been best<br />

friends for years. The depth of that friendship<br />

was proven while the two were at a<br />

dinner party a couple of years ago.<br />

“We were saying bye and I took Marti’s<br />

hands in mine and they were so cold and<br />

I said, ‘Why are your fingers so cold?<br />

What’s going on?’” Randi recalled.<br />

It was then that Marti told Randi her<br />

health was declining and she needed a<br />

kidney. Randi said her response was instantaneous.<br />

“I said, ‘I’ll give you my kidney.’ I<br />

didn’t even think twice about it.”<br />

“I had polycistic kidneys. My mother had<br />

it <strong>20</strong> years ago. I tried to be a donor for her<br />

and found out I had the same thing,” Marti<br />

explained.<br />

Due to the condition of her kidneys, Marti<br />

had to go on dialysis. She gets emotional<br />

when she thinks back to that dinner party.<br />

“She saved my life,” she said of Randi.<br />

[Left to right] Donor Randi Halpern, Dr. Majella Doyle, donor Kate Tucker, recipient Marti Simon,<br />

Dr. Yiing Lin, and recipient Pat Conway<br />

[Photo courtesy of Barnes -Jewish Hospital]<br />

Randi did save Marti’s life, but not in the<br />

way the two had anticipated.<br />

In late <strong>20</strong>18, it was determined that<br />

Randi’s kidney would not be compatible in<br />

Marti’s body – news they both described as<br />

“devastating.”<br />

Enter Pat Conway, of Creve Coeur, and<br />

her daughter, Kate Tucker, of Lake Saint<br />

Louis. Their story closely parallels that of<br />

Marti and Randi.<br />

As a result of Pat’s diabetes, her kidneys<br />

were beginning to fail.<br />

“I went to my kidney doctor. She told me<br />

my numbers were not good and I was going<br />

to have to go on dialysis,” Pat explained.<br />

“Kate was on her honeymoon so when she<br />

came back I told her about it. The minute<br />

I said it, she said ‘I’m going to donate a<br />

kidney.’ It made me cry.”<br />

Though Pat was hesitant about putting<br />

her daughter through such a procedure, she<br />

said Kate was adamant. Then, in late <strong>20</strong>18,<br />

they received the news that Kate was not a<br />

match for her mother.<br />

“I was surprised, because in my head I<br />

was like, ‘I’m gonna do it. She’s gonna get<br />

my kidney,’” Kate said. “Then, you know,<br />

disappointment when I found out I wasn’t<br />

a match.”<br />

But the women weren’t out of luck. They<br />

had the option to essentially do a trade with<br />

the hospital’s paired exchange program.<br />

When a patient has a willing donor but<br />

their organs are not compatible, the two<br />

have the option of entering into the paired<br />

exchange database that can cross-match<br />

them to people in the same situation –<br />

bringing many happy endings to stories<br />

that started out with the words, “Sorry,<br />

you’re not a match.”<br />

Such is the story of how Pat ended up<br />

with Randi’s kidney and Marti ended<br />

up with Kate’s kidney – the story of the<br />

Kidney Sisters.<br />

‘This story keeps getting better’<br />

The four procedures took place within<br />

the first week of January and went off without<br />

a hitch. Majella Doyle, MD, performed<br />

the donors’ surgeries, and Yiing Lin, MD,<br />

performed the recipients’ surgeries.<br />

Five weeks post-procedure, the surgeons<br />

reported all four women were doing fantastic,<br />

and Marti and Pat noted feeling almost<br />

instantly better with their new kidneys. But<br />

the story doesn’t end there.<br />

It turns out that Pat and Randi were the<br />

hospital’s 9,999th organ transplant, making<br />

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