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Pregnancy During a Pandemic<br />

Pregnant with twins and now in her second trimester, mom-of-one (soon to be<br />

three!) Natasha Mills fills us in on what it’s like to be pregnant during a pandemic.<br />

Q. How are you doing? How has your pregnancy been so far?<br />

A. I’m doing as well as I can be expected with twins during a<br />

global pandemic! It’s crazy to think that a public health crisis of<br />

this magnitude only comes around once in a century, and here I<br />

am living that time with two growing babies in my belly.<br />

So far the pregnancy has been manageable, although the first<br />

trimester had me completely debilitated with morning sickness.<br />

Now in the second trimester, I’ve definitely begun eating for<br />

three, but am also starting to feel quite uncomfortable. You<br />

could say I’m secretly grateful for the ability to stay at home in<br />

loungewear as I grow!<br />

Q. Where are you planning to give birth? At home? At the<br />

hospital?<br />

A. I’m definitely planning for a hospital birth. The twins will<br />

be likely be a C-section as my son was—he turned out to be a<br />

very big boy. I have a comforting relationship with my experienced<br />

maternity doctors. I know I’ll be in the best hands there.<br />

Q. Who will attend the birth? Partner? Parents?<br />

A. With the new hospital rules in place, only one visitor will<br />

be allowed to accompany me and that will be my husband. It’s<br />

unfortunate to think our son and both sets of parents will likely<br />

be unable to meet the twins until I’m released from hospital 3-4<br />

days later, but I’m hopeful that restriction may change in time<br />

for their arrival later this summer.<br />

Q. How do you feel being pregnant right now, amidst everything<br />

that’s going on?<br />

A. Bittersweet. It’s almost ideal to be hiding in the home<br />

amidst my growing discomfort, and it takes a bit of the pressure<br />

away to be social in setting dates with friends and family.<br />

I’ve had the ability to really take in this pregnancy so far on<br />

a mental and physical level. Time is flying by, but it has also<br />

paradoxically slowed down all the same. On the flip side—as<br />

a true introverted extrovert—I miss my fiends and family immensely.<br />

I miss hugs and gatherings.<br />

Q. What’s been the biggest challenge of being pregnant<br />

during a pandemic?<br />

A. One of the greatest challenges so far is not being able to<br />

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