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Everyone Wants to Know …<br />
BN: Which stones can help us cope with<br />
stress in these anxiety-ridden—and very often<br />
tech-overloaded—times?<br />
CW: I’ve got my black tourmaline here on my desk<br />
by my computer, and shungite is the same—that’s<br />
another black stone that kind of absorbs your own<br />
stress as well as the electromagnetic stress from your<br />
devices. I think we can all get overwhelmed by that.<br />
I know how I feel when I scroll through social media.<br />
We all do it for work, but the panic actually upsets<br />
me a bit. The black tourmaline gives you a bit of<br />
clarity and perspective, and it’s going to take all that<br />
negativity and get it away from you and act as a sort<br />
of buffer to bounce all of that out.<br />
Some people seem to suck your energy away, so it’s<br />
like a filter for it, too. As I said in the book, it chucks<br />
out anything that you haven’t really invited in. So it<br />
can protect you in that way.<br />
BN: You write about using agate—which occur<br />
in a range of earthy colors—to revive plants<br />
and possibly revitalize your garden. How has<br />
that worked?<br />
CW: My garden is blooming! And I have to say I just<br />
love moss agate. If I ever have a difficult meeting or a<br />
difficult day, or I have to do something that I’m nervous<br />
about, I find I always get drawn to my big pair of moss<br />
agate disc earrings. They’re the ones I go to. I always<br />
wear them. And they do the trick. I feel better prepared<br />
and more confident. They’re my<br />
familiar friends to go with me.<br />
Again, I’m just trying to have a different response to<br />
a familiar mindset when you want to do something.<br />
It’s going to help put a new default set button on that<br />
mindset that takes you back to the addictive patterns.<br />
Maybe shove it on top of the fridge, and then every time<br />
you look at it, you think, hold on a minute. This is the<br />
intention: Get near the amethyst, step away from the<br />
peanut butter. And use it in that way. A lot of people<br />
put amethyst in their bedroom, too, under their pillows<br />
to soothe an overactive mind and leave space for more<br />
positive things to come into your head and maybe more<br />
creative things.<br />
BN: So various stones placed strategically<br />
throughout our homes—especially during<br />
lockdowns—can change our minds and<br />
thus change our lives?<br />
CW: Yes. They make you think of the wider world—<br />
which, when you’ve been locked inside, is so important—that<br />
the earth perseveres, that there is a sense of<br />
permanence. I think all our anxiety levels have shot up.<br />
If you just look at a stone and think, “we will persevere,<br />
we will survive,” you can use these stones as a comfort.<br />
If you’re feeling more relaxed, your cortisol levels drop,<br />
you feel calmer. And mindfulness has evidence-based<br />
benefits, and that can have a knock-on effect. You feel<br />
emotionally calm and you’re not making decisions based<br />
on panic and fear. You’ll make better decisions—and<br />
that’s a better way to live your life.<br />
Photos: adobestock.com<br />
BN: How can we use purple<br />
amethyst to calm or contain<br />
emotional eating?<br />
CW: I’m very good at helping people<br />
have a sense of boundary and<br />
containment. I spent time with this<br />
holistic health professional named<br />
Michael Skipwith. He works with a<br />
lot of severe trauma patients with<br />
post-traumatic stress disorder after<br />
combat in war. He said he really uses<br />
it as one of his tools to help people<br />
when their body and psyche have<br />
been fragmented. It’s literally having<br />
something to hold onto and sort of<br />
believe in. It helps with their sense<br />
of structure and in clearing trauma.<br />
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