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Gorial Esshaki, Thomas Denha, Karim Sarafa,<br />

Mansouri Denha, Gorgies Savaya,<br />

and Hormuz Denha circa 1956<br />

Hanna Shina leads Khugga Dance at Southfield Manor<br />

Khugga Dance<br />

Southfield Manor Part III – The Story Continues<br />

BY DR. ADHID MIRI<br />

In this piece, the words and names<br />

come alive and speak to us about<br />

the golden days of Southfield<br />

Manor.<br />

Entertainment and weddings<br />

were some of the main purposes to<br />

frequent the club. Group gatherings<br />

are an extraordinary way to bond<br />

with friends over food, beverages,<br />

and card games in the nighttime.<br />

Playing cards at the club was a huge<br />

attraction and an enjoyable social<br />

activity for our members.<br />

The Games and the Gamers<br />

Card games have always been very<br />

popular among Chaldean people.<br />

Any social gathering or family get<br />

together seems incomplete without<br />

them. Since childhood, we were<br />

taught a lot of card games to play<br />

with siblings, cousins and friends; no<br />

doubt to keep us occupied for many<br />

fun-filled hours.<br />

For some card players, rearranging<br />

or shuffling a deck of cards and playing<br />

a couple of rounds of their most<br />

loved amusement is a tried-and-true<br />

method of loosening up toward the<br />

finish of a difficult day. These games<br />

were ideal for boosting memory and<br />

self-control plus improving intelligence<br />

and reasoning abilities. A<br />

route for individuals to take their<br />

brains off different things without<br />

much effort; for some members, an<br />

occasion to unwind and refocus.<br />

Let me paint a picture: as you<br />

entered the building, you were faced<br />

with the two parts of the banquet<br />

facility. The left side was especially<br />

interesting with its mix of ladies<br />

and their husbands engaged in the<br />

pastime games of Kon-Kan, Poker,<br />

Wishlaiany, Dominos, plus the onlookers<br />

watching from the sidelines.<br />

Familiar names and faces would<br />

fill the room and greet you with energy<br />

you as you entered. Najib, Shakir<br />

and Nouri Karmo, Thomas and Mike<br />

Denha, Jameel Yono, Salim Bahoura,<br />

Latif Yaldoo, Faieq Esshaki, Manuel<br />

and Jimmy Jonna, George Askar,<br />

Faraj Dally, Badie Bodiya, Sliwa Pattah,<br />

Gorgies Dakki, Yousif Kammano,<br />

Yousif Mckanni (Abo Tahseen),<br />

Roxi Yaldo, and Sabah and Gabriel<br />

Sinawi were regulars at the club.<br />

A few younger members would<br />

be hanging around too, looking for a<br />

card game. Zuhair Karmo (Rzayjja),<br />

Mukhlus Karmo, Jerry Yaldo, and<br />

Johnny Koza, to name a few. Zuhair<br />

Yaldo was a distinct character with<br />

his multi-color polyester shirts and<br />

matching color slacks, with a large<br />

set of keys hanging on his side leading<br />

you to think he was a prison warden<br />

or high school superintendent.<br />

The Grand Masters of Poker:<br />

I’m All In!<br />

Poker is one of the most universally<br />

known card games in existence. The<br />

game we know as poker is believed<br />

to have ancient roots that go back<br />

nearly 1,000 years, crossing several<br />

continents and cultures. It is a man’s<br />

game. The gentlemen listed below<br />

showcase Southfield Manor’s best<br />

poker talent and players with the<br />

highest level of skills and guts in this<br />

fun game. The idea of listing these<br />

great poker players is simply to bring<br />

to the forefront the lesser known side<br />

of these Grand Masters.<br />

The Hall and Activity Room<br />

Table one was, without a doubt, the<br />

premier champions’ table was dominated<br />

by master players like Bassim<br />

Kassab, Mike Bahoura, Jamal Koza,<br />

Faris Kassab, Nouri Choulagh, Dr.<br />

Hillal Elia, Karim Toma, Phillip<br />

Shamas, Shawkat Fatoohi, Salman<br />

Yaldo, Rufi Ayar, Dawood Boji,<br />

Yousif Qarana, Charli Askar, Zuhair<br />

Jonna, and Fiktor Choulagh, among<br />

others. Ibrahim Choulagh and Amer<br />

Khames were regulars from Windsor,<br />

Canada. Abo Salih (Amin Tobia<br />

Summa) was a standby player and<br />

chips organizer.<br />

This is where the ‘real’ poker<br />

game was happening, which attracted<br />

solid players. The poker chips<br />

were neatly prepared, counted and<br />

readied ahead of the arrival of the<br />

‘champs.’ There was no time to waste<br />

in this high-stakes game. The chips<br />

organizer, Abo Salih, arrived an hour<br />

before the play to insure the availability<br />

of two new decks of cards (the<br />

Axe type) plus poker chips of various<br />

denominations. Dollar chips were<br />

white, five dollars were red, ten were<br />

green, fifty were yellow and one hundred<br />

dollar chips were black. This<br />

group would never accept replacing<br />

the poker chips with jellybeans or<br />

M&M colored candies.<br />

The game was mostly fair; however,<br />

at times with either heavenly<br />

intervention or swift collection by a<br />

nimble hand during the shuffle, a few<br />

high value chips would miraculously<br />

disappear from the pot to the astonishment<br />

of the winner! A cover up<br />

debate would quickly ensue in order<br />

to dismiss any legal claim, as the players<br />

readied for the next round. By the<br />

end of the night some were poorer,<br />

others a lot happier. At times, the<br />

games would continue after closing<br />

to one of the players’ homes, playing<br />

through to the morning when they<br />

got kicked out by the host’s wife!<br />

There were a few other tables<br />

around the poker room. Table two’s<br />

team was Sammi Kassab, Oraha<br />

Shounia, Sabri Denha, Mike Denha,<br />

and Ramzi Giezy. Table three had Salim<br />

Yaldo, Basil Boji, Freddie Najor,<br />

Mike Khami, Khalid Kalasho, Yalda<br />

Atty, George Abbo, and Zuhair Yaldo.<br />

A pre-Grand Masters game was<br />

played during the first five years of<br />

the club at a table near the hall’s<br />

kitchen door. The game was Dealer’s<br />

Choice/ Cincinnati/ High & Low.<br />

The original players were Bassim<br />

Kassab, Zeek Zebari, Sliwa Battah,<br />

Edward Gorieal, Sabah Attisha,<br />

Karim Toma, Rufi Ayar, Sabah Isho<br />

(Abo NuNu), and Ibrahim Choulagh<br />

from Canada.<br />

Samir Ajemy, the manager, was<br />

very supportive of the player’s needs<br />

and stayed with the players as the<br />

game extended to the early hours<br />

of the morning. At times he would<br />

personally deliver carryout to player’s<br />

home to feed a relocated game and<br />

was then frequently invited to join<br />

the ongoing poker game. Samir,<br />

though, was an amateur and no equal<br />

to the poker masters. Almost always,<br />

he would lose all his pocket cash plus<br />

the delivery money he’d received!<br />

KonKan<br />

This is primarily a lady’s game. Konkan<br />

is the most popular Chaldean card<br />

game for all ages and across the globe.<br />

The Indians, Chinese and Spanish<br />

people play a similar variation of this<br />

popular game. History books are written<br />

about Konkan in order to explore<br />

the origin of this amazing game.<br />

Konkan was a very popular game<br />

among the club ladies who occupied<br />

the left side of the hall, where they<br />

enjoyed playing cards as a source of<br />

fun and excitement. Playing cards<br />

was always in fashion as an ideal way<br />

to reconnect with family and friends,<br />

especially with those not seen in a<br />

long time.<br />

Most people play card games for<br />

the entertainment value it provides,<br />

reaping the benefits of bolstering<br />

emotional and mental health. Card<br />

games like KonKan, Wishlaiany, and<br />

Poker keep the mind active, boosts<br />

concentration, and offers a social<br />

outlet - key factors for a happy and<br />

cheerful life.<br />

The Ladies Konkan tables were<br />

usually made of the same five players<br />

and most of them played together<br />

on Tuesdays, Thursdays & Saturdays.<br />

The regulars teams were: Virginia<br />

(Nadhir) Denha, Rabab Binno, Ann<br />

Jonna, Virginia Kassab, and Suham<br />

Mackani; Sherina (Nadhir) Kashat,<br />

Bernadette Sarafa, Hayat Sesi, Thuraiya<br />

Kassab, and Georgette Karmo;<br />

Thuraiya Kassab, Asia Shouniya,<br />

Joan Garmo, Linda Zebari, and Ilham<br />

Elia; Ikhlas Qa-Korkies, Ikhlas<br />

Najor, Azhar Koza, Feryal Dano,<br />

and Lulu Koza; Mary Dabbish, Enam<br />

28 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2021</strong>

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