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Mark Manson - The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F__k (2016, HarperOne) - libgen.li

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“Two hundred crappy words per day, that’s it.” The idea was that if he

forced himself to write two hundred crappy words, more often than not the

act of writing would inspire him; and before he knew it, he’d have thousands

of words down on the page.

If we follow the “do something” principle, failure feels unimportant.

When the standard of success becomes merely acting—when any result is

regarded as progress and important, when inspiration is seen as a reward

rather than a prerequisite—we propel ourselves ahead. We feel free to fail,

and that failure moves us forward.

The “do something” principle not only helps us overcome

procrastination, but it’s also the process by which we adopt new values. If

you’re in the midst of an existential shitstorm and everything feels

meaningless—if all the ways you used to measure yourself have come up

short and you have no idea what’s next, if you know that you’ve been hurting

yourself chasing false dreams, or if you know that there’s some better metric

you should be measuring yourself with but you don’t know how—the answer

is the same:

Do something.

That “something” can be the smallest viable action toward something

else. It can be anything.

Recognize that you’ve been an entitled prick in all of your relationships

and want to start developing more compassion for others? Do something.

Start simple. Make it a goal to listen to someone’s problem and give some of

your time to helping that person. Just do it once. Or promise yourself that you

will assume that you are the root of your problems next time you get upset.

Just try on the idea and see how it feels.

That’s often all that’s necessary to get the snowball rolling, the action

needed to inspire the motivation to keep going. You can become your own

source of inspiration. You can become your own source of motivation.

Action is always within reach. And with simply doing something as your

only metric for success—well, then even failure pushes you forward.

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