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The Art Of Tammy Bailey AT FORTY FIVE Magazine Issue R 2021 12

A magazine for women 45+ who want to own aging with spirit and joy. For those of us rediscovering who we are & exploring what we want next. We want more; health, wealth, happiness, & fulfillment. Join women around the world navigating the best years yet.

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<strong>AT</strong> <strong>FORTY</strong> <strong>FIVE</strong> MAGAZINE /10<br />

parents sold, everything. We bought a<br />

Winnebago, and we drove down through the<br />

states, Mexico, and into what is now known as<br />

Belize.<br />

We went to an English-speaking school<br />

because it was at that time part of the British<br />

colonies. It was a very different life from that of<br />

being in Canada. At school, the boys went to<br />

woodworking and the girls learned how to sew.<br />

It was a wonderful adventure, but it certainly<br />

was a culture shock going down and then also<br />

coming home to Canada.<br />

I believe I have an appreciation of different<br />

cultures and I love to travel because of my<br />

parent's adventures and misadventures.<br />

One of my best memories was, there was this<br />

bumpy road that went past where we were<br />

staying. <strong>The</strong>re were sugar cane fields all around.<br />

<strong>The</strong> local kids taught us to go running to the<br />

sharp corner where there was one bad bump.<br />

<strong>The</strong> cane would fall off the open truck bed and<br />

then we would all run out to grab pieces. Fights<br />

ensued over who would get the best piece of<br />

cane to chew on. <strong>The</strong>re is nothing like fresh<br />

sugar cane."<br />

Finding Life Balance<br />

"I think I’ve got a good balance in my life. I really<br />

do enjoy my work in a very busy dental office,<br />

but my art is very different from my work. <strong>The</strong><br />

art is more of the right side of the brain and my<br />

work uses my left side.<br />

(the inner circle is least fulfilled, and the outer<br />

edge of the circle is optimum). Put a dot on<br />

each segment of that pie where you are in<br />

fulfillment and then connect those dots. It is a<br />

great visual graph.<br />

<strong>The</strong> low spots are where you need to nurture<br />

yourself. I also think it goes back to having<br />

healthy boundaries and learning to be able to<br />

say no and feel comfortable with that. For a<br />

long time, I would say yes to a lot of things that<br />

I didn’t necessarily have the time or the energy<br />

for, but I did it because I thought it was the<br />

right thing to do. I understand now, it is<br />

important to be able to say no and feel<br />

comfortable with it. I do what nurtures me<br />

because if I don’t take care of this person, and<br />

I’m not helpful to anybody else."<br />

Taking Running Up At Fifty<br />

"I decided at the age of 50 to run my first<br />

marathon. I had run on my own for several<br />

years, completed several half marathons.<br />

Wanting to run a full, I thought I should<br />

connect with people that know what they’re<br />

doing. I found a wonderful running club<br />

“Peninsula Runners’ and I started to train for<br />

my first marathon. <strong>The</strong>y had a wonderful<br />

It has been a journey to find balance quite<br />

honestly. I always go back to what we taught in<br />

our group. Draw a circle, divide it into key<br />

components of your life in equal segments, like<br />

a pie. For myself currently, I need to balance,<br />

family, love, exercise, art, leisure, travel,<br />

adventure, and health. <strong>The</strong>n rate each segment<br />

Where <strong>The</strong> Flowers Grow Watercolor and<br />

acrylic 11 x 7 inches $200 CAD

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