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TRADITIONS<br />

«Fatikha-Tuy»<br />

– ANCIENT ENGAGEMENT CUSTOM<br />

In the old days, parents chose the bride for their son themselves.<br />

Often, the newlyweds could properly get to know each other only<br />

on the day of the wedding. But before getting married, the bride<br />

and groom had to conduct the Fatikha-Tuy engagement ceremony,<br />

which has long been part of Uzbek culture.<br />

There are many interesting customs and rituals in Uzbek culture. Among them is Fatikha-Tuy<br />

– the day of the engagement. According to tradition, the groom’s family finds a bride for their<br />

son. First, everyone learns about the bride in detail: where she grew up, who her parents are,<br />

whether she is decent. If the reputation of the chosen bride is good, then the matchmakers from<br />

the groom’s side go to visit the bride’s parents to get acquainted. In modern Uzbekistan, the bride<br />

and groom can get to know each other before the matchmaking. But the Fatikha-tuy ceremony<br />

must necessarily happen, and strictly after the approval of the parents.<br />

When the day of Fatikha-tuy arrives, guests, namely the groom’s family, gather in the bride’s<br />

house, some relatives come too, and a representative of the mahalla or an elder – an honorary<br />

aksakal should join. The representatives of the groom explain the point of the visit, and if they<br />

get consent to the engagement, another important ceremony is performed – Non sindirish –<br />

Breaking the bread. After the newly made bride and groom break the flatbread in half, they can<br />

be considered engaged. After the ceremony, the families exchange gifts and agree on holding a<br />

wedding celebration. With this a new family will be born soon!

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